THE ORACLE OF STAMBOUL

The Oracle of Stamboul, by Michael David Lukas

One night in 1877, the city of Constanta, Romania, fell to Russian forces. As the city was falling, Eleonora Cohen was born, brought into life by two Tartar midwives who appeared mysteriously and believed that her birth was the fulfillment of a thousand-year-old prophecy. Prophecy or not, Ellie proves to be an unusual child – a genius or a savant. She teaches herself to read at a young age, alarming her aunt Ruxandra, who married Ellie’s father when her mother died in childbirth. When her father Yakob, a carpet merchant, is called on business to the city of Stamboul, capital of the Ottoman Empire, eight-year-old Ellie stows away in his luggage. In Stamboul she stays at the house of her father’s friend, Moncef Bey, and discovers that Stamboul is lush and teeming with color and life. An American minister, maybe a spy, offers to tutor her and soon rumors of her brilliance reach Sultan Abdulhamid II, who summons her to his palace for an audience. Ellie’s first meeting with the Sultan draws her into a world of political maneuvering and intrigue. Before long, the entire city is whispering. Who is the precocious child whose advice the Sultan is taking on matters of war and strategy? Is she a prophetess or a spy? What will be her role in history?

The Oracle of Stamboul was a wonderful read. The writing was clear but evocative. I felt as though I had fallen into the cacophany of a Turkish bazaar or Ramadan fast-breaking celebration, as though I could hear the strings of the ouds being plucked by maidens in the Sultan’s palace courtyards and taste the flatbread, honey and olives Ellie ate in Moncef Bey’s yellow house. In style, The Oracle of Stamboul reminded me a little bit of Salman Rushdie’s The Enchantress of Florence, only sweeter and more innocent. Even the political intrigues in the book were muted, perhaps because the protagonist was a child. I could read The Oracle of Stamboul again and again just to return to Stamboul in the last days of the Ottoman Empire, to taste the baklava and listen to the music and gossip, and to thumb through the pages of the books in the Bey’s library… and most of all, to revisit Eleonora, who exudes innocence and charm from the first page to the last. Highly recommended.

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On Being There

I’m a reader, and a traveler – of both the “armchair” and reality persuasions.  The turning of pages transports me to other places and times and introduces me to new people who, sometimes, become almost as real as the people I meet in my day-to-day life.  Reading has also enhanced my travel experiences tremendously; for instance, I told you about books I’ve loved that are set in the regions I visited on my recent road trip around southern England.

But it was on that road trip that I made an important discovery: it works both ways.  Reading enhances travel, of course, but travel can also enhance reading.

Obvious?  Probably.  It wasn’t the first time I’ve tried to match my book choices to my travel – I carried A Year In Provence and The Phantom of the Opera to France with me last year.  But for some reason, it was in Bath that I really understood that walking in characters’ literal footsteps can enrich a reading experience as much as it enriches a travel experience.

It was the first morning of the trip.  Hubby and I were still in a bit of a jet-lagged haze, but we trooped on out of our B&B, determined to experience the best that Bath has to offer.  We started with the wonderful – and FREE! – walking tour that Bath residents put on several times each day.  As we hiked all over Bath, our guide regaled us with stories from the city’s history.  We walked in the footsteps of Romans, early Christians, queens who have visited for the curative waters and celebrities who have made their homes in Bath’s exclusive Georgian buildings.

It was on a serene gravel walk behind one row of those exclusive buildings that I got the first hit of a reader’s revelation.  Our guide mentioned that Jane Austen had set two books in Bath – Northanger Abbey and Persuasion.  I’ve read Northanger Abbey many times but had never picked up Persuasion until I started it on the plane ride to London – choosing it precisely because it was set in Bath.  Our guide explained that the two main characters’ “heart to heart” (you know, that quintessential Jane Austen conversation where the characters confess their love for one another) happened on the very gravel walk on which we were standing.

As it happened, I didn’t get to that scene in the book until several days after we had already left Bath.  But when I did, when “dear Aunt Jane” sent her characters down the gravel walk and let them pour out their hearts to one another, I felt a special thrill from having JUST been there.  And even more than that, I could picture the spot exactly in my mind.  I set the characters down in the place where I had stood and imagined them into a setting I knew from having just seen it with my own eyes.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the imaginative part of reading.  I like conjuring up the characters and their settings in my mind.  And with a good descriptive writer like Jane Austen, you don’t really need a personal experience to bring her books to life.  But it certainly did help.

Have a Healthy Holiday

No recipe today, kids.  Sorry about that.  I was planning to post a delicious cabbage frittata that I made this week, but… well… hubby and I were hungry.  So hungry that I completely forgot to photograph it before we attacked.  I’ll just have to make it again and post… maybe next week.  Because it was defnitely good enough to eat twice in two weeks.

This is that time of year when things are just that crazy and busy, that photo-forgetting happens.  Oh, I’m no stranger to the holiday anxiety.  And even though I am really, really looking forward to Christmas at my in-laws’ place, I’m currently experiencing varying levels of panic when I think about all of the things I have to do before I get to relax with the fam.  Things like decorating the Christmas tree (we still haven’t)… painting my living room (I might be insane)… touching up the paint in my downstairs half-bath… deep-cleaning the kitchen… writing Christmas cards… shopping for Christmas gifts (I haven’t bought a single one yet)… and assembling and mailing off packages to the family and friends that I won’t be seeing in person.  It’s enough to make a girl go haywire.  No wonder I forgot to photograph that frittata.

I’d love to say to you, “The holiday season doesn’t have to cause panic attacks!  You can have a fun and relaxing holiday, and here’s how!”  But I’d be lying if I said I had those kinds of answers.  As much as I love Christmas, I have yet to experience one where I wasn’t in a heightened state of anxiety for the month leading up to it.  The best I can hope for is to get out of the month still smiling and relatively sane, with my energy levels intact and my goals for the past year not completely derailed.  Okay, that’s a fairly modest endeavor, but it still feels like a tall order this time of year.  Here’s how I (try to) stay healthy at the holidays:

Prioritize exercise.  I’m someone who gets cranky if I go too long without a good sweat session, but taking long breaks also makes it harder for me to get back on the wagon.  I learned that the hard way during my summer funk this year, when I knew that a good run would make me feel better but couldn’t seem to motivate myself to get out there.  This time of year, it’s way too easy to let your workouts fall by the wayside in favor of tasks that seem more pressing at the time.  But don’t!  Get up early if you have to, or schedule a sweat session into your calendar like an appointment, and stick to it.  It IS an appointment – and an important one at that.  It’s an appointment with yourself.  Sure, this time of year is all about giving selflessly, but you also need to take time for you.  You’ll have more energy for giving if you keep to your exercise routine, and if you’re anything like me, you’ll be much happier and more in the “holiday spirit” if you do.  I’m generally a morning exerciser – I like to get it done before the day butts in and tries to distract me – and I stick to that schedule as much as possible.  This month I’ve been working my way through a boot camp challenge and running on the weekends and if I have extra time in the evenings.  I always feel energized and ready to tackle my to-do list if I’ve gotten some Me Time in, in the form of a workout.

Indulge, but only when it’s worth it.  December is SO tempting when it comes to treats.  If you try to eat healthy most of the year, as I do, it can seem as though the entire month is rigged with land mines.  The cocktail parties, the cookie swaps, the treats that people feel compelled to leave in the office kitchen… and then there are the big holiday meals themselves.  It’s no wonder people start January on a major “clean up the diet and hit the gym” kick.  I’ve personally swung back and forth on the pendulum.  One holiday season I might be totally insane about calorie counting, and refuse to eat anything with a single fat gram in it.  And then another year I might say “It is what it is, can’t avoid it, so I’ll just have anything I want and then pay for it in January.”  Neither attitude is healthy.  So for the past few years I’ve committed to keeping up with my healthy eating for the most part, but indulging when it’s worth it.  The key is to recognize when it’s worth it.  “Worth it” means something different to everyone – it’s a personal decision.  For me?  Well, for example, store-bought red and green food coloring-dyed cookies that someone left out in the office kitchen?  Not worth it.  My mother-in-law’s delicious homemade dessert on Christmas Eve?  Worth it.  So I focus on eating “close to the Earth” for most of the month – lots of vegetables and lean proteins – and indulge only when I get the chance to have a really delicious treat that was made with love.  (This works with time, too.  An hour spent cleaning a closet that absolutely no one will see over the holidays?  Not worth it.  An hour on the phone with my best friend, who lives halfway around the world?  SO TOTALLY WORTH IT.)

Don’t go nuts at parties.  This is similar to the above.  We all have multiple parties to attend this time of year, but they don’t have to ruin our eating for the month!  I like to have a small meal before a party so I’m not tempted to make “dinner” out of fattening appetizers.  Then I just have a few bites of the party treats and I’m happy because I’ve gotten to taste the goodies but not gone crazy.  And when it comes to drinking, I sip red wine because I can make a glass last for awhile.  I’m not really a big drinker (regardless of the impression that the multitudes of wine posts on here may convey) and I like that I can enjoy a glass or two of red wine over the course of an entire party.  Oh, and the next day I don’t wake up unable to remember seeing friends that I only see once a year or so or worried that I might have regaled my entire office with an off-key rendition of “O Canada!”  Think of it this way: if you need to be drunk to enjoy a party, then you clearly aren’t having much fun.  So bail and go to a movie.  If you really want to be at the party, you’ll have a good time without needing to suck down seven margaritas.

Plan active ways to get in your family time.  As fun as it is to snuggle on the couch with your special someone or park your tush in front of the TV for hours on end with the fam, there is another way!  You can get in family time and movement at the same time.  For instance, last Thanksgiving I ran a Turkey Trot with my sister-in-law, and two years ago hubby and the sisters-in-law and I all took a wintry hike together over the Christmas visit.  This year, I’m already brainstorming… a snowy run through the park?  A yoga class with my sister-in-law?  No matter what, I’m sure we’ll find new, fun ways to be active together as a family.  (And if you really want to get away from your family?  Go for a run solo or hit the gym on your own.)

Sleep!  This last tip is huge.  I have always been someone who needs a lot of sleep – it’s probably the single most important thing to my well-being.  If my bedtime is delayed or if I have an interrupted night, I’m sluggish and cranky all the next day.  So I won’t be burning the midnight oil addressing envelopes or ordering gifts on Amazon.  If you’re like me, and you need your sleep, DO NOT worry about being selfish or boring.  If you have to tell the fam, “I’m tired, see you guys in the morning,” then tell them – they’ll understand.  If you’re worried about getting it all done, then jettison something else.  Maybe you only need to make one dessert for the neighborhood cookie swap, not three.  Or maybe you could keep one eye on the hockey game while you write out cards.  The absolute last thing I sacrifice is shut-eye.

So there you have it – my favorite tips for staying sane, healthy and fit over the holiday season.  Now it’s your turn to share, because I’m always looking for tips and tricks!

BAKER TOWERS

Bakerton, Pennsylvania is a mining town.  It’s a town of company houses and union jobs, of church and family. Bakerton is a town that depends on its coal mines and, in the years during and after World War II, those mines are doing raging business.  Baker Towers is the story of those years, told from the perspective of the Novak family: widowed Rose Novak and her five children, Georgie, Dorothy, Joyce, Sandy and Lucy.  Georgie and Dorothy escape their small-town childhoods, Georgie for the Navy and then Philadelphia and Dorothy for a wartime clerical job in Washington, D.C.  Joyce joins the service as well but returns to care for her ailing mother and watch over her younger brother and sister, a sacrifice which goes un-thanked.  When Dorothy has a breakdown, Joyce takes responsibility for her elder sister as well, settling permanently in Bakerton to watch life pass her by.  Meanwhile, Georgie has “made good” in Philadelphia but remains haunted by what could have been his life, had he stayed home and married his small-town sweetheart, and Lucy struggles with her sense of self and perspective after being spoiled by her mother all her childhood.  Each of the Novak children wrestles, in his or her own way, with the legacy of growing up in the shadow of Baker Towers, the two massive piles of mine refuse that serve as the town’s most commanding landmark.

I read Faith, Jennifer Haigh’s most recent book, this summer and was captivated by her wonderful writing and her ability to take the reader into the innermost thoughts and emotions of her characters.  So I sought out some of her earlier work and Baker Towers immediately jumped out at me as a book I knew I’d love.  I love reading about the time period around World War II, when the book starts, and I’ve always been fascinated by industrial America.  (After all, I majored in Industrial and Labor Relations.)  And wow, I was not disappointed.  From the very first page, I couldn’t put Baker Towers down.  I was pulled immediately into the loves and struggles of the Novak family and found myself relating to Georgie and Joyce in particular.  But beyond just Georgie and Joyce, thanks to Jennifer Haigh, I feel as if I know all of the Novaks.

The fact that I majored in Industrial and Labor Relations probably did add something to my considerable enjoyment of the book.  I could read between the lines and understand what the Bakerton families would have suffered during the miners’ strike, and the economic implications of the mines’ business (or lack thereof) in the 1970s and 1980s.  But you don’t need to have a labor background to enjoy Baker Towers.  All you need is to enjoy a good family saga, great characters and wonderful writing.  If you do, I promise you will enjoy this book – because it has all that and more.  Highly recommended.

Meet Blue

Friends, meet Blue.  Blue is my pal…  Blue gets it.  She knows I like to feel the wind on my face and she’s always happy to oblige.  She’s up for anything – a quick jaunt around the neighborhood because I saw a street I want to check out, or a 25-mile trek along the Potomac.

Blue and I are tight.  We’ve been friends since August, 2010.  She’s everything I look for in a bike.  Nice and light, sleek, fast, comfortable seat.  Not to mention cute.  Blue never embarrasses me on the bike path.  No, she just zips along, the perfect workout partner and sunny day friend.  And she never chastises me for not signing us up for a triathlon because I’m afraid of the Potomac.  She’s just cool.  All she asks for is blue skies and smooth asphalt.

Sometimes that’s all you need.

Reading Round-Up: November 2011

Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby.  I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book.  Here are my reads for November, 2011…

The Lantern, by Deborah Lawrenson – This Daphne du Maurier-inspired tale of two “hauntings” in a Provencal farmhouse was a light, quick, and reasonably fun read.  I would have preferred it if the narrators didn’t switch off constantly – made it hard to follow either narrative – and I didn’t enjoy being repeatedly banged over the head with references to du Maurier (I’m smart enough to pick up on them without being told, thanks).  But I really liked the lush descriptions of the Provencal landscape and the depiction of the farming life in the 1940s.

As Always, Julia: The Letters of Julia Child and Avis DeVoto – I’d been wanting to read this one for a long time and it did not disappoint.  I loved getting this sneak peak into a truly remarkable friendship.  Would recommend this to anyone!

The Age of Innocence, by Edith Wharton – What took me so long to read this book?  I’d been meaning to for years without quite getting around to it and was I ever missing out!  It was wonderful from the first page to the last.

The Girl in the Garden, by Kamala Nair – Another really enjoyable read.  The story was exciting, though sad, and the writing was vivid and evocative.  Really liked it.

The Magician King, by Lev Grossman – This was the second book in the Magicians trilogy, and while I liked the first book (The Magicians) just fine, I loved this one.  Quentin Coldwater grows up and learns what it really means to be a hero.  Great read.

The Wordy Shipmates, by Sarah Vowell – Picked this out for Thanksgiving and I wasn’t disappointed!  Who knew that reading the history of the Puritan settlement in Boston in 1630 could be so much fun?

The Sweet Life in Paris, by David Lebovitz – I love Paris, and so does David Lebovitz.  His memoir of adjusting to life as an expat in the most delicious city on Earth was absorbing, witty and hilarious.  And it made me want to buy a plane ticket back to Paris.  Yum.

Baker Towers, by Jennifer Haigh – I loved Faith, which I read over the summer, and my second Jennifer Haigh book lived right up to the promise of its sibling.  I really enjoyed this story of a family struggling and growing together in a Pennsylvania mining community in the years following World War II.  My labor relations background certainly helped deepen my understanding of some of the references to the union activity in town, but it wasn’t necessary to enjoy the book.  Anyone with a taste for family sagas and great writing would love this!  Jennifer Haigh, you are just. plain. awesome.

The Heroine’s Bookshelf, by Erin Blakemore – I really enjoyed this quick, fun tour of a group of strong, spunky literary heroines and the equally strong female authors behind them.  The book was a good mix of heroines from children’s lit (Anne Shirley, Laura Ingalls, Mary Lennox) and more adult books (Lizzy Bennet, Jane Eyre).  I’d read most of the books that were featured, so the heroines were familiar to me, but I learned a great deal about the authors even of the books I have read many times and loved.  Great, empowering read.

Great November in books!  I started out a little bit slow, but hit my stride mid-month and had a wonderful weekend of reading over Thanksgiving.  And now I have a new stack of library books to carry me into December.  I’m especially looking forward to curling up on my inlaws’ couch with a book and a cup of tea later in the month.  There’s nothing like the promise of a weekend full of reading time amongst people I love… I’m smiling just thinking about it.  Happy December, friends!

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Veggie-Full Soup

Well, it’s December.  Month of card-writing, gift-wrapping, cookie-baking and party-attending.  Not to mention all those loose ends you’re probably trying to tie up at work before the end of the year.  Are you completely overwhelmed yet?  Ready to throw in the towel?  Or still trucking along with some holiday spirit?

If you’re feeling a little bit under the gun, you’re not alone.  I know the feeling.  I know it well.  I’ve had some dark moments where I’m pretty sure that my to-do list is longer than my driveway.  And I’ve learned from experience – there’s only one way to get through the month with sanity intact, and that’s to make a priority of taking care of myself.  Just because it’s the holiday season doesn’t mean that I stop mattering.  I still deserve yummy, healthy, nutrient-rich meals and time to exercise.  I still deserve to practice basic self-care, and dangit, I WILL practice basic self-care.  The cards will get written, the gifts bought, and the house cleaned and decorated.  But at the end of the month, I’ll still be smiling.  Because that’s what I deserve.  And so do you!

Here’s a good place to start: a light and delicious soup packed full of nutritious fresh vegetables.  You can follow my recipe or adapt it to whatever happens to be knocking around your crisper drawer.  The more veg, the merrier!  So go to town on those beans and veggies… and I promise you’ll feel nourished, loved, and ready to take on those holiday-shopper crowds.  Veggie power!

Veggie-Full Soup

2 tablespoons olive oil
1/2 white onion, diced
~1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
3 carrots, peeled and diced
3 celery ribs, washed and diced
2 medium red potatoes, scrubbed and diced
1 cup diced haricots verts
1 1/2 cup frozen yellow corn
1 can chickpeas or cannellini beans, drained
1 tablespoon dried thyme
1 14-ounce can diced tomatoes in juice
4 cups vegetable or chicken broth

  • Heat olive oil until shimmering in a large saucepan or stock pot.  Add onions and salt, and saute until translucent.
  • Add carrots and celery and saute with onions until slightly softened.
  • Add remaining vegetables, chickpeas and dried thyme, and saute until thyme is fragrant.
  • Add tomatoes and broth and stir to combine (and deglaze pot, if necessary).  Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to medium-low.  Simmer 25-30 minutes until flavors are melded.  Taste and adjust seasonings as necessary.

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THE AGE OF INNOCENCE

 Newland Archer is Old New York.  A favorite Fifth Avenue son of the Gilded Age, he moves effortlessly and seamlessly through its rigid social hierarchies.  And with his impending engagement to May Welland, widely regarded as the most beautiful, elegant and unattainable of the New York belles, Newland’s place in society is secure.  The union of Newland’s family with May’s will bring together New York’s two most powerful ruling clans.  But May’s family, the Mingotts, in addition to being powerful, has its unconventional elements.  May’s cousin, Ellen Olenska, nee Mingott, has just returned to New York, fleeing a disastrous marriage to a Polish Count.  New York is scandalized by Ellen’s vaguely foreign ways and her seeming incomprehension of the delicate social balance she has upset simply by imposing her presence and asserting her right to be free from a “scoundrel” husband.  Responding to calls of the family matriarch, May’s grandmother Catherine Mingott, Newland rallies around Ellen as a good soon-to-be Mingott son-in-law should.  He gently smooths over her social stumblings, even using family connections to persuade the revered van der Luydens to rescue Ellen’s reputation when the rest of New York conspires to snub her.  But as Newland finds himself drawn more and more into the role of Ellen’s champion, he simultaneously becomes deeply infatuated with this woman who understands art, literature, and the value of good conversation in a way that his chosen wife never can and never will.  Newland chafes and struggles painfully with the bonds of New York’s expectations for him – wanting nothing more than to desert May and run away with Ellen.  But is he, in the end, capable of choosing love over convention? And does he even really, in his heart of hearts, want to choose?

The Age of Innocence has been on my to-be-read list for years.  It’s a book that I knew was going to be good, and I knew I’d like it once I got started, but it just never cycled to the top.  I was in London when I was hit by an inexplicable urge to pick it up the moment I got home – and I did – and I’m so glad.  When I finally sat down with it, I loved every single page.

First of all, the characters were just perfect.  Newland – with his inner conflict between choosing an “artistic” life and toeing the line.  May, quietly assured, blissfully uncomprehending, almost cold in her conventional perfection – but with the ability to shock Newland by suddenly demonstrating great strength, understanding, and wisdom.  Ellen, so lost and sad, artlessly setting New York tongues on fire with her most innocent gestures, drawn helplessly to Newland but unwilling to allow him to ruin himself for her.  And then the secondary characters – imperious, unconventional “Granny” Catherine Mingott.  Newland’s dull mother and sister.  The criminally cruel and common Julius Beaufort, hypocritical Lawrence Lefferts, comically domestic Wellands and the shy and withdrawn van der Luydens.  Every single one, flawlessly drawn.

Then there was the plot.  You would think a will-he-or-won’t-he infidelity novel set in Gilded Age Manhattan would move slowly. It doesn’t.  It skips along briskly, as you watch Ellen blunder through social gaffe after social gaffe and you see Newland transform from a cousinly champion to a heartbroken would-be lover.  It might be a function of the writing, which is magnificent.  It never bogs down or becomes wordy, but neither is it clipped and terse.  Wharton’s word choices simply set a perfect tone for the underlying events of the novel. I loved the descriptions of the New York scenes through which Newland, May and Ellen move – I felt like I was with them in drawing rooms, carriages, on stately lawns and snowy streets.  And the dialogue was so smooth and natural that I felt as though I could hear the characters saying the words out loud.  It’s no wonder this novel won the Pulitzer Prize – it’s as darn near flawless a book as I ever read.

I’m going to stop the gushing here.  Just go read it.  Please.

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Thanksgiving Recap

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas!  But first things first – hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend!  Whether you were visiting family, hosting, or just enjoying a relaxing weekend at home, I hope it was great.  Hubby and I just returned from my parents’ place in upstate New York and it was quite the whirlwind weekend.  I ran in the local Turkey Trot, met my high school BFF’s baby for the first time (TOO cute) and squeezed in time with two aunts, three grandparents, one brother and three friends.  Yowsa – busy weekend.  Here are some highlights…


Table at my mom’s house all set for Thanksgiving dinner.  Gobble, gobble.


My brother whipped up homemade New England clam chowder with clams he harvested himself from the Great Salt Pond on Block Island. 


Look at my handsome husband waiting patiently for Thanksgiving noms!


Black Friday fun – meeting up with my favorite aunt in Saratoga Springs for lunch.  Joc, your mom says hi!  Lunch with my aunt and tea with hubby’s aunt was better than shopping any day.


And the fun continued on Friday evening when hubby and I met up with our friend Seth for dinner out and a jaunt through the holiday lights in Albany’s Washington Park.  This is a holiday tradition that Seth and I started ten years ago – WOW – when we were juniors at Cornell, and hubby joined us for the first time in 2005 (our first holiday season as a married couple).  Dinner and lights in the park with Seth is something hubby and I look forward to all year long and it’s always a blast.  We talk and laugh like old friends should, and it never seems as though we live 300 miles apart.  Luv ya, Seth!

Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend!

The Gratitude Project

How was everyone’s Thanksgiving?  Did you stuff yourselves silly with Tofurkey and mashed potatoes?  And pie?  Can’t forget about the pie!  Did you see a cornucopia and dive for cover because you’re still scared of them after reading The Hunger Games?  Did you put shoe buckles on anything and pass it off as Pilgrim?

And in between the Tofurkey-eating and shoe-buckling… did you spend some time reflecting on what you’re thankful for?  Sometimes I forget to do that, I’ll be honest with you.  It’s terribly easy to take things for granted.  And while I try not to take the big stuff for granted – like my marriage and my home – it can be easy to forget about the slightly smaller, but still important, things.  For instance, sometimes it’s too easy to get caught up in the fact that there is a Whole Foods employee blocking my access to the organic bell peppers and get frustrated… when what I really should be thinking is about how lucky I am to have access to a nice grocery store and enough greenbacks to buy organic bell peppers if I want them.  Or I’ll think, “Wow, it’s such a beautiful day.  Can’t believe I have to sit in an office all day.”  When I really should think, “Wow, it’s such a beautiful day.  Can’t believe I get to look at that beautiful blue sky and take my lunchtime walk down Embassy Row – how lucky am I?”

Yeah, I have it pretty good.  You probably do, too.  Are there things about my life that I’d like to change?  Sure.  Is everything perfect?  H-E-double-hockey-sticks NO.  But that doesn’t mean I can’t be grateful for all the good stuff I do have going on, and count my blessings every day.  I always try to do that.  Sometimes I’m pretty good at it.  Sometimes I’m not.

Well, I’ve decided to take this counting blessings thing to a new level.  And I figured the day after Thanksgiving was as good a day as any to start.  What am I going to do?  I’m going to jump on the gratitude journal bandwagon.  I have friends who keep gratitude journals, and I’ve always thought it seemed like such a heartwarming, life-affirming practice.  And you know what?  I could really stand to spend more time appreciating and less time complaining.  Hey, I’m not saying I’ll ever stop sweating the small stuff completely.  I probably never will.  But I can find three things a day that I can be grateful for.

Yep, them’s the rules.  Three things, per day, that’s it.  They can be big things – like, “I’m grateful to be married to such a funny, smart, and sweet guy.”  Fact.  Or small things – like, “I’m grateful that my iPod spontaneously started working again.”  Or even really obvious things – like, “I’m grateful for Mariage Freres tea.”  As long as I can think of three things to be grateful for each day, I’ll be in pretty good shape.

Let the gratitude begin.