Like a Hurricane Hit It

That’s what my house looks like.  And for good reason.  That dratted Irene went and flooded my basement!  I have a word for her, but I can’t repeat it in polite company.  As damage was concerned, we actually got fairly lucky – although the basement floor was thoroughly doused, the water level didn’t reach the insulation, we were able to have it extracted fairly quickly, and insurance is covering it.  Hurray for AllState!  But Sunday morning was one of the more unpleasant experiences of my life… wading around with hubby in ankle-deep water in a near-pitch black basement, on no caffeine, frantically trying to rescue our wine from the ravages of water and “also leaves and gook and stuff.”  (Name that TV show.)

So in the interests of keeping it real around here, this is what my house looks like at the moment…

Wine bottles on the floor, saved from Irene’s wrath and a flooded basement.

More basement detritus, hauled upstairs after an extremely damp impromptu cleaning session in ankle-deep water.  (This is just the stuff that wasn’t touched by water.  The rest of it is heaped curbside, waiting for trash pickup.)

Why is the dining table in the foyer and the chairs in the living room?  Okay, this one I can’t blame on Irene (although the candles being out of place, that is her fault – we were without power for 22 hours).  We’re in the process of preparing to paint the dining room.  Having lived in these before pictures for several days, I cannot wait to show you the afters.

Same with the china.  We took it all out of the buffet to prepare for moving the buffet away from the wall so we could paint.  This is the most time I’ve spent with my china since the wedding.  Yes, I am super fancy.

The dining room itself is in a state of barely-controlled chaos.  We have ladders (two of them), blue tape, and a buffet in the middle of the room as part of the painting process.  The dining room table leaves were rescued from our basement lake (they’re fine – no damage – thank goodness).  Really, really cannot wait to get everything back in its proper place.  Despite the name of this blog, I am actually rather a neat freak and this mess is eating my brain.  But it’s all for good reason… the painting part, that is, anyway.  The other stuff… well, between earthquakes and hurricanes, it’s been quite the week.  I’m ready for life to go back to being boring again.

Mug Shots

Is there anything in the world better than a steaming hot beverage?  Whether you’re a coffee addict, or you prefer tea as I do, or whether your poison is hot cocoa or cider… there is something indescribably satisfying about wrapping your hands around a mug full of your favorite warm drink, breathing in its aroma, and taking that first near-scalding sip.  I’ll drink tea out of any vessel, of course, but I prefer to sip from one of my own favorite mugs.  I don’t have a particularly large collection, but I like to think of it as well-curated.  Each of my mugs makes me smile, and thereby fulfills its purpose.  Want to see the lineup?  Here it is…

 This is my favorite mug.  I’m a sucker for irony, puns, and double meanings, so this cup from Urban Outfitters makes me grin every time I sip from it – which I do nearly every day.  It is my go-to tea mug for obvious reasons, and I refuse to allow it through the dishwasher for fear the cheeky design will fade.  I’m sipping Earl Grey from it now as I write this post.

 I brought this pretty little number back from England in 2008 – obviously.  I love the soft green and the cute little teacup design, and the fact that it brings me right back to London every time I drink from it.

 This is a handmade ceramic mug – one of a set of two – that was a gift from my mother-in-law Lynn a few years ago.  She is well acquainted with my love of all things handmade and robin’s egg blue.  I cherish it, and its twin, and bring them out when I’m pouring two mugs – one for me and one for a friend – or when I am in particular need of smiles.  I think of it as a cold weather mug; even though I sip tea all year round I use this mug the most in the fall and winter.  Something about it is particularly warming for me – its homemade, organic shape, perhaps, or maybe the love with which it was given.

 True dat.  I got this mug at Wegmans on a trip back to my alma mater for my fifth reunion.  It’s my favorite mug for coffee (yes, I do have coffee occasionally) although I will use it for tea from time to time as well.  It puts me in mind of gorges – duh – Libe Slope, McGraw Tower, Ives Hall, the A.D. White Library, Collegetown and all of my favorite Cornelliana.  Go Big Red!

 Love this mint green ForLife mug with its convenient steeper basket.  I got this – and its periwinkle blue brother – when I first got into drinking loose tea and needed a convenient way to steep tea at my desk at my first job out of law school.  I’ve since graduated to a Travette pot, but my ForLife mugs come in handy for chamomile tea (which clings annoyingly to the steeper basket in my Travette) and for times when I want to brew just one cup.  Okay, that’s not often, but they are useful.

 I got this mug at Walt Disney World when I was a kid and it’s been a favorite ever since.  I’ve loved Winnie-the-Pooh as long as I can remember.  My little Pooh mug is perfect for small cups of cocoa (which is a beverage I can’t do in quantity – too sweet) or the Celestial Seasonings teas that remind me of my childhood (a.k.a. the days before caffeine).

 This last mug isn’t mine, strictly speaking – it’s hubby’s.  He and I are both fanatical Buffalo Sabres fans.  This is hubby’s second – or maybe third – Sabres mug.  Every time the logo fades from being run through the dishwasher too many times, we replace it.  Life without a Sabres mug in the kitchen is just plain unthinkable.  Hubby has graduated to drinking coffee out of an enormous Block Island Times mug he got from my brother for Christmas (I have one too but it’s not pictured in the lineup because I use it as office decor, not for drinking)… but we will always, always have a Sabres mug in our collection.

So there you have it – my personal mug collection.  I’ve had other mugs that have cycled out of the regular lineup, either because their logos faded or because they are black or dark blue in color (being a tea drinker, I like a light-colored interior so I can see that my tea is fully steeped).  It’s a small group, but I love them all.  I’m hoping to bring them home a new friend from London this fall… I have my eye on this, this, this, or maybe this.  (Yes, I have been pre-shopping on the Harrods website.  Wouldn’t you?)  Now, if you’ll pardon me, I need to go put the kettle on…

Me Time

When I was growing up, the summer camp I attended had a policy that all campers had to observe daily “Me Time” for an hour or so.  We were supposed to use that time to write home, write in journals, read, braid friendship bracelets – basically, to do whatever we wanted to do, so long as it was quiet.  I think “Me Time” was more for the counselors than the girls.  I know that my group of friends always hated it.  I would usually read, but the fact was “Me Time” – ironically – had the effect of cutting into what my friends and I really wanted to be doing, which was sailing.  Why should we waste even a moment of good breeze sitting in our tents?  But no matter how much we grumbled, our counselors enforced “Me Time” – like I said, probably because they themselves needed some quiet after a morning of supervising a bunch of teenagers pushing each other off boats and shrieking in triumph.

Now that I’m an adult (according to the government, anyway), I cherish my personal time.  I even still call it “Me Time.”  (Old camp habits die hard.)  It’s much scarcer these days, which makes it that much more precious.  Between making lunches, getting ready for the day, commuting 50 minutes to work, working a 10+ hour day, commuting 50 minutes home, making dinner, and cleaning up, there are many weekdays that go by where I don’t get nearly as much “Me Time” as I’d like.  I try to snatch a few minutes here and there for myself – 15 minutes of meditation to start the day, for instance, or a few Sun Salutations when I get home – even on the busiest days.  On weekends, when I have more time, I like to luxuriate in whole stretches of afternoon to myself.  I love the feeling of having nowhere to report to, no demands on my time, and being able to just putter around and not worry about anything except for what is going to make me happiest in the moment.  Hubby and I are into the stage of marriage where we don’t have to be glued to each other’s sides all the time – we still cherish our together time, but we can each pursue our separate interests without feeling guilty.  So I can leave him to his own devices (which usually take the form of a video game) and do something just for me.

Lately, my “Me Time” has consisted of…

Reading… I’ve always been hip to the joys of sinking into a good book.  I can curl up with a book and a pot of tea and be deliriously happy for an afternoon, or longer.  At least until the tea runs out.

French study… Hubby got me Rosetta Stone for our anniversary, since I’ve been wanting to learn French for ages (and especially since our epic trip to France).  I loooooooooove it.  I try to put in a little time with Rosetta Stone at least 4-5 times per week and to practice by speaking in between computer sessions.  (Of course, I’m the only aspiring Francophone in the house, so that means a lot of time spent talking to myself.  Fortunately, hubby is used to my strange habits and doesn’t bat an eye when I meander about saying things like “Le ciel est bleu.”)  I’ve always loved languages and I’m madly in love with French – I just wish I started studying it in college instead of continuing with German and then dropping it after one semester!  Most people probably wouldn’t find language study particularly relaxing, but it’s perfect for me.

Yoga… I’ve been logging mat time a bit more recently, as part of a quest to get my groove back and kick aside some frustrating personal stuff.  I love the feeling of being all stretched out and limbered up after a good practice.  I enjoy class but lately I’ve been making yoga part of my “Me Time” and just doing whatever poses come into my head.  It’s a new approach for me and I’m having a great deal of fun.

Music… I’ve played the piano since I was 5, the violin since I was 9, and the cello for the past several years.  Very few things relax me like sitting down with an instrument.  Lately it’s been the cello more than anything, but I’m hoping that soon I’ll have the time to coordinate the logistics for moving my piano from my parents’ place in New York to my home in Virginia.  I miss my piano!  In the meantime, I’ve been spending quality time with my cello and Herr Mozart.

Running… This is a classic, but something I haven’t done in awhile.  After my half marathon, I took some time to recover and lost my running groove a bit.  I need to get back into it, though.  There’s nothing like a good run to boost my energy and clear my head at the same time. 

How do you spend your Me Time?

Wanderlust

I waited a long time to take this picture... The Eiffel Tower, Paris, France

It’s probably safe to say that if you know me outside of the cyber world, or even if you’ve been reading this blog for awhile, you know that I love to travel.  One of the great joys of my life is seeing new places and experiencing new things.  I’ve been lucky in that I’ve traveled to some fantastic places, even at a young age.  My parents took my brother and me on awesome vacations and made it possible for me to participate in an exchange program in Germany when I was 16, which was the beginning of my love for international travel.

Old Man of Storr, Isle of Skye, Scotland

Why do I travel?  It’s more than just being able to take a cool picture and tell my friends and family, “Dudes, you would not believe how big the Eiffel Tower is!”  I think it’s vital to our humanity.  I think it’s something we all need to do.  I think we need to see for ourselves that there are other perspectives, other ways of living and being… and they are totally valid.  We have to step out of our comfort zones.  We have to connect to those who are different from us.  We have to search, and appreciate.  I can’t imagine not doing those things.

Loch Ness, Scotland

Hubby and I have been married more than five years, and we’ve traveled as much as we can with two busy lawyer schedules.  Together we’ve gone to the Bahamas – twice – to Canada, Mexico, England, Scotland, California, Texas, and France.  My family constantly asks me: where next?  At the moment, we’re planning a return visit to England, to catch some of the must-sees in the south that we missed when we traveled through the north of the country in 2008.  And after that, who knows?  I’m lucky that hubby shares my need to get out there and see things.

Ancient Walls, Le Crestet, Provence, France

I’ll tell you a story.  My grandpapa passed in 2008.  The spring before he died, hubby and I visited my grandparents on Long Island.  Grandpapa wanted to drive past the famous forsythias.  We cruised down the road, appreciating the riot of yellow flowers and he told us that he had driven past the forsythias every spring for many years.  He and my grandmother had traveled the world together.  Once, they met Harry Truman.  From the driver’s seat, Grandpapa reflected, “Gee, I’ve had a lot of fun.”  Someday I want to look back on my life and say the same thing: “I’ve had a lot of fun.”

Hubs and Messy in front of Notre-Dame, Paris, France

I’d be lying if I said that travel was always easy and seamless.  I’ve dealt with my share of delayed and canceled flights, bad weather and creepy hotels.  But I’m never sorry I went.  Case in point: on our epic trip to the UK, hubby and I planned a hike in the northern Lake District, outside of Keswick.  We waited for that hike for a long time.  On the day we planned it, good old Blighty hit us with rain, mud and mist.  We went out anyway.  We flew halfway around the world for that hike, and a little mud wasn’t going to stop us.  It was one of the coldest, wettest, best days of my life.

Buttermere, outside Keswick, Lake District, England

It’s a scary world out there.  On the radio, we’ve heard about earthquakes, meltdowns (nuclear and financial), revolutions.  That’s why we have to travel.  We have to reach out.  We have to learn how we’re different, and how we’re not different.  Please, go someplace that scares you.  I’m not talking about going somewhere dangerous.  I’m talking about putting yourself out there, for example, in a village where no one speaks your language.  Stumble across language barriers with your phrasebook clutched in your hand.  Shake it off if you get a dessert you weren’t expecting because you accidentally said “fromage blanc.”  (It’s insanely good, I know from experience.  Holla back, Burgundy!)  See how people reach out to you if you forget your ego at home and reach back.  See how they welcome you.

Thrilled to be here, sipping pastis in a sidewalk cafe, Vaison-La-Romaine, Provence, France

Wobbling

Wednesday was a really frustrating day.  Between being in a funk for months and having to deal with a particularly snippy individual, I can’t say I’ve been feeling open or friendly toward just about anyone (except hubby, of course).  I keep on waiting to wake up one morning and my lousy mood will have evaporated, but it hasn’t happened yet.  On Wednesday I was just sick of being irritated and frustrated, sick of one specific person who is driving me crazy, and sick of an irritating situation that is out of my control.  So I did something I haven’t done in months.

I stepped on my yoga mat.

Just a short practice.  I started in Mountain, did some forward folds, some down dogs, some cat-cow… basically, I just went with it and did whatever pose was calling to me.  Midway through my practice, I felt like getting into my favorite pose: Tree.  Now Tree is a pose at which I usually excel.  I’ve been known to do Tree Pose in high heels.  I know, I know I shouldn’t… and obviously yoga isn’t a competition… but sometimes I just can’t resist showing off my outstanding balance, even if it’s just to myself.  But I also love Tree Pose for the presence of mind it gives me.  You see, you can’t really do Tree Pose unless you are 100% present and focused.  I often struggle with being present and focused; my mind is always spinning with to-do lists and possibilities and things I should do and say or should have done or said… basically, I’m a constant whirlwind of mental activity.  But there are times when I don’t struggle with presence: when I read, when I get really absorbed in work, and when I’m in Tree.

So I lifted up one foot and raised my arms to the ceiling – my favorite yoga teacher, Jodi, called that “growing the Tree” – and I wobbled.  I stepped out of the pose multiple times on each leg.  My standing leg shook.  No matter how intently I zeroed in on a focal point, I kept on wobbling.  I repeated to myself, “I am balanced.”  And I kept right on wobbling.  And then came the negative thoughts.  “I can’t believe I can’t do this.  I can’t get my heels to the ground in Downward Facing Dog and I can’t do arm balances or body binds, but Tree is MINE… where did my balance go?  This is because I’ve neglected my practice.  This is because I haven’t been running.  This is because I haven’t been eating clean.  This is because of stress.”

Then I stepped out of the pose, folded forward, hung in Uttanasana for a moment and stepped back into Downward Facing Dog, and I let it go.  It’s okay that I wobbled in Tree Pose today.  It’s not a competition or a performance, and every time I get on my mat, yoga has something to teach me if I am receptive to it.  The fact is, I haven’t been balanced.  I’ve been mentally scattered, stressed out, angry and resentful for months.  I’ve allowed a couple of people to change the way I see myself.  Along the way, I’ve lost my sense of harmony and balance.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.  I can get a sense of balance back.  I can remember to breathe deeply (not sigh) and smile (not scowl).  I can set boundaries and refuse to let myself be pushed around.  And as for the situation that is out of my control, well, it’s out of my control.  Walking around angry isn’t going to change that.  But maybe finding my balance again will.  At the end of my practice I thanked myself for stepping on the yoga mat again.  And I told myself that it’s okay if I’m wobbly right now.  That just seems to be where I am, and it’s not better or worse than where I was in the past or will be in the future.  It’s just me being wobbly right now.  Sometime soon I’ll be able to “grow my Tree” without falling out of the pose, and I’ll find that sense of peace and serenity again.

Organizing the Junk Drawer

Ah, the dreaded junk drawer.  We all have one.  (At least, I think we all do.  If you’ve managed to de-junkify your life… please teach me.)  Mine was getting out of hand – even more so than junk drawers usually are – so I decided to do something about it.

Here’s the scary before:

Eek!  I can’t believe I actually put that picture on the internet.  Anywho, this is clearly a desperate situation, so I did what I always do in desperate situations.  I went to Target.  Here’s my white knight, the savior of the junk drawer:

That would be a set of interlocking trays from the Room Essentials brand.  So, who’s ready to clean out a junk drawer? 

Step one: empty everything out and sort it into piles by category.  Including a throw-away pile.  This is not the time to get precious about your nametag and lanyard from your most recent legal conference, trust me.

Step two: assign categories to each of the little compartments, then fill them up.  (This is the fun part.)

Step three: Put everything back in your newly organized junk drawer.  Get mad when you realize your organizer doesn’t totally fit.  Admire your work and start looking for other stuff to organize.

All in a day’s work.

Are readers born or made?

Can you teach someone to love reading?  According to an article in The Chronicle of Higher Education, the answer is no.  In “We Can’t Teach Students To Love Reading,” Professor Alan Jacobs hypothesizes that the group of people who truly enjoy “deep attention” reading – that is, getting lost in a book for hours on end – are and will forever remain a small fringe of the population.

 Professor Jacobs’ article is fascinating, even if I don’t completely agree with it.  He traces the history of deep attention reading, from St. Augustine to the present day.  It probably doesn’t come as much of a surprise that the teaching of literature in schools and universities is a modern phenomenon.  Until just a few hundred years ago, very few people could read at all, and books were prohibitively expensive until the printing press changed history.  In fact, education itself was a luxury.  When the printing press made books far more available and inexpensive in the 1600s, many scholars worried about information overload – that people had so many sources of information now available to them that they were simply overwhelmed and could not choose between sources.  Sound familiar?  (Asks the blogger…) 

 Still, the numbers of people pursuing higher education, where they were expected to not only practice deep attention reading, but enjoy it, are a phenomenon of the latter half of the 20th century.  In 2005, sociologists theorized that “while there was a period in which extraordinarily many Americans practiced long-form reading, whether they liked it or not, that period was indeed extraordinary and not sustainable in the long run.”  So basically, what that means is that we should be seeing, or should expect to see soon, a normalization of reading, where fewer and fewer people practice deep attention reading for pleasure.  And ultimately, “extreme readers” (Jacobs’ words, not mine) will return to the fringe of society, only coming out of the woodwork to insist that War and Peace is NOT boring.  (Again, Jacobs’ words, not mine, but I assure you that War and Peace is most certainly not boring.  I guess you can pinpoint the fringe group to which I belong, yes?)

 Since I first saw this article on Twitter, thanks to Rebecca Joines Schinsky of The Book Lady’s Blog, I’ve been ruminating on it.  Can readers be made?  Or do they have to be born?  Is there some sort of gene that predicts whether a particular individual will be a reader?  (By which I mean, will read for pleasure and enjoyment with the attention span to focus for extended periods of time… not someone who simply has the ability to read.)  I don’t have personal experience of being molded, myself, into a reader.  I belong to the “born reader” subset.  From a very young age, I have been one to read anything I could get my hands on.  If it has words, I will read it (although I have my preferences, like anyone).  But I’ve been known to read the back of cereal boxes… or even shampoo bottles… just to have something to read.  In middle school I read my entire 7th grade history textbook (including captions) in one sitting.  In high school, I frequently told my parents “I don’t have any homework tonight – just reading.”  Reading, even reading a science textbook, could not be considered homework.  Reading was not work.

 But I have seen a reader made – my brother.  My brother was a very smart kid, and is currently a very smart guy, but he didn’t love reading with the level of obsession I did.  This drove my mother crazy.  As a teacher, she wanted him to love to read.  And we had plenty of books lying around – both mine (and no, I didn’t read all girly books – Encyclopedia Brown, anyone?) and those she brought home from school.  But my brother was lukewarm at best.  He would flip through them, because he was easygoing.  But he wasn’t crazy for books the way I was… until my mother slipped a Star Wars book in front of him.  Not one of the originals, mind you, but one of the “young adult” chapter books about Han and Leia’s kids.  My brother devoured it and requested more.  Soon he had entire shelves dedicated to Star Wars spinoff fiction.  That turned to other kids’ adventure fiction… which led to Harry Potter and eventually J.R.R. Tolkien, and a reading monster was born.  These days, he is largely a non-fiction reader.  The little kid who read Star Wars spinoffs in one sitting now reads books like Freakanomics, biographies, and books about current events.  He asks for and receives just as many books as I do on Christmas morning.  (In fact, he will probably unwrap more paper books than I will on Christmas Day in 2011, now that I have a Nook.)  And he loves to give books as gifts.  My brother is a perfect example of a “made” reader – someone who just needed the right book to open up a whole world of words.

 But there’s one important detail that shouldn’t be overlooked.  My brother was “made” a reader at a very young age.  He was still in elementary school when my mother figured out how to unlock his love for reading.  What about people who grow up ambivalent toward books, reading only when forced to by a stern teacher?  Can they be lured into our cozy little fringe group of extreme readers as adults?  Does it just take the right book, or are they destined to be stuck in the non-reader camp?  I don’t know.

 I do think that the right book can awaken people to the joys of reading.  The multitudes of Potterheads and Twihards prove that.  There are just too many of them to all have come from the ranks of extreme readers.  (And yes, I am a proud Potterhead.  But not a Twihard.  Sparkly vampires just don’t do it for me.)  And I think that the right book will open the door to further reading… to a certain extent, at least.  So many grown-up Potter fans, bereft after the series ended, turned to Twilight or The Hunger Games to ease their pain.  But where from there?  Does anyone draw a line from Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows to Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell to Charles Dickens?  You could, but most people don’t.  In looking for a successor to a book they loved, people often look for more of the same, rather than allowing themselves to grow and expand.  Hey, I’m not arguing against searching out books with a similar feel or geared toward a similar audience as those you loved.  I read The Hunger Games.  (Team Peeta!)  But I do think it can be too easy to stagnate.

 So, to sum up this long-winded narrative, yes, I do think readers can be made as well as born.  Especially if you catch them young, when they are more likely to be open-minded about genre after finishing that perfect gateway book.  Adults are trickier.  There’s plenty of people out there who have the capacity to practice and enjoy deep attention reading when there’s a dragon tattoo involved, or who would gleefully tape up their glasses and draw a lightening bolt on their foreheads to attend a Harry Potter midnight release party.  (Again, not proud of this, but I once dressed up as a member of the Gryffindor quidditch team to attend a release party.)  But when the book is done, they melt back into their busy lives, rushing from work to errands to the gym to home and collapsing in front of a screen – television or computer, it doesn’t really matter – when it’s all done.  Those people could be “extreme readers.”  They have the ability to love reading, if the right book comes along.  But they need to be won over again and again.  They might not step out of the genre that first attracted them to read other types of writing, but they will be ready to snap up the next sensation.  Every so often, one of them might branch out and discover that there is so much out there to read.  An adult who has not looked beyond the bestseller list since graduating from college might find that gateway book that leads to the Brontes, or Tolstoy, or Jane Austen, or Salman Rushdie, or David McCullough, or any author.  They might start developing preferences beyond dragon tattoos.  They might become an extreme reader.  And then there will be more of us, and eventually we will take over the world.

Take Me Back To Dear Old Blighty

If you’re wondering where hubby and I are going on vacation this year, that ^ was a hint.  Here’s another:

That’s right, we’re going to England!  Yeah, we’re pretty psyched.

Hubby and I did an epic road trip through northern England and Scotland back in 2008.  In two weeks, we hit up York, Keswick (the Lake District), Oban, the Isle of Skye, Inverness and the Scottish Highlands, Edinburgh, and London.  It was a whirlwind and we had the time of our lives.  This time, we’ll be doing southern England, so we can catch the sights we missed on our first trip.  We’ll be starting our trip in Bath, then heading to Cornwall for a few days, back up to the Cotswolds (during which time we will take a day trip to Wales), and finally wrapping up with five glorious days in London.  London is the only repeat on this trip and when we were there in 2008, it was only for two days, so we felt extremely rushed.  We’d like our London experience to be like our Paris experience – we’d like to have enough time to see everything we want to see but still leave time for wandering, loafing, and sipping tea.

I think it’s safe to say we’re basically out of our minds with excitement to be going back.  Cheerio!

How ’bout a house tour?

Since I’m going to be sharing some home-improvement and decorating posts from here on out (and since so many people have swung by from Young House Love since the Pinterest challenge post), I thought it’d be nice to give you a little tour before we begin.  It’s rather a blank slate, as you can see – we have furniture, but not much else.  We’ve only just gotten to the point where we feel ready to commit to things like paint and curtains.  What can I say?  We’re slow.  But we’d rather keep the process of making this house our own very gradual and let the house evolve naturally.  I have some ideas for where we will be going with many of these spaces in the next few months and I’ll share those ideas below. 

Here is the family room, where we spend the bulk of our time.  Hubby and I have lived in this house for over a year now, but in some ways we’re still very much in the one-bedroom condo mindset; you will usually find us in the same room.  We love the sturdy, comfortable, and crowd-friendly furniture that we chose.  Priorities for this room include paint on the walls, some oil-rubbed bronze curtain rods and filmy white floor length curtains to soften up the dark, manly furniture (which is from Ethan Allen – the sectional – and Crate&Barrel – the accent tables and unpictured media console).  I’m also bringing in lighter and softer accents, starting with the greenish-tinted clear glass lamp from IKEA and (soon, I hope) some lighter blue/green and white toss pillows for the sectional.  This heavy, dark furniture doesn’t overwhelm the cavernous family room, but all the accents I bring in will be light, bright and airy to keep the room from looking like a cave.

I love, love, love my dining room – with two exceptions.  The white-carpeted floor is, to be frank, a hazard (we’re a red wine household) and the old-lady chandelier is on my hit list.  The carpet will be around for awhile, since we’re working our way up to getting the floors replaced (that’s a big-budget project and we prefer to space those out), but the chandelier will be making its merry way to the Habitat ReStore very soon, if I have anything to say about it.  But other than slapping some paint on the walls and actually putting dishes in the buffet (not pictured), I’m thrilled with the dining room.  The table, chairs and buffet are from Ethan Allen (Tango collection) and I’m borderline obsessed with them.  Sometimes I just go in there to visit them and tell them how beautiful they are.  And if you want to talk obsessions, that little line of glassybaby votives is just a fraction of my collection.

The living room is furnished with my condo furniture.  I love the big arched windows and how light, bright and airy everything is.  I don’t have too much to say about the living room, since I’ve had that furniture since 2007.  The couch, chair and coffee table are all from Ethan Allen and the cabinet is from Crate&Barrel.  Oh and there are some more glassybaby votives.  Obsessed, I tell you.

You’ve seen the kitchen already.  Nothing has changed since I last showed you around there – not even the cabinet pulls.  I’m sure there is a trip to IKEA in my near future and I’ll be picking up some stainless steel pulls at the next opportunity.  At some point I would like to paint the cabinets white, possibly replace the cabinet doors, and switch out the white appliances for my beloved stainless steel (another moment of silence for my condo appliances, please).  But the kitchen makeover is on hold until the first appliance dies.  And no, I’m not misusing them to encourage them to die.  I’m actually trying to keep them working as long as possible.  I never plan to move, ever, so what’s the rush?

 

Here’s the guest bedroom, which is pretty much as it will remain, other than getting some paint on the walls and some curtains on the windows.  You can see paint sample cards stuck to the wall, but I’ve actually chosen a color – a nice warm cappuccino color that I think will complement the furniture beautifully.  The guest bedroom also has an en suite bath.

This room, I’m calling the “bookroom.”  This is one of the two front bedrooms (the other is empty except for a yoga mat and some free weights) that will someday be kids’ rooms, I hope.  In the meantime, I can come up here, shut out the sounds of zombie-killing or armchair-coaching coming from the family room, flop down on those floor pillows and enjoy a book.  We are considering putting a pull-out couch in here, both for reading and for sleeping extra guests, but haven’t found anything yet.  Unpictured: not much, just a stack of piano and cello music, a music stand and two violins.

Finally, here’s the master bedroom!  This room is cavernous and we haven’t even begun to fill it.  My current top furnishing priority is that little nook by the double window, which I am imagining as a seating area and quiet reading space.  I have furniture pretty much chosen for the spot and I’ll update you when I’ve ordered something to go in there.  As for the furniture, the headboard is from Charles P. Rogers, the nightstands and an unpictured armoire (which we call the Portal to Narnia) are Ethan Allen (Tango collection again).  The master bedroom is my current “big” project.  The space just oozes potential and I can’t wait to fill it up!

So there you have it!  I haven’t bothered to show you the bathrooms because they’re builder-boring and really nobody needs to see my hot pink toothbrush.  We also have a gigantic unfinished basement that is on the “someday” list of projects.  I’m psyched to start drawing all over my blank slate and create a space that really feels like “home” for hubby and me.  Of course I’ll take you along for the ride!

The Pinterest Challenge

Last week one of my favorite blogs, Young House Love, issued a challenge: pin something that inspires you on Pinterest, and then DIY it.  Being a crafty sort of Pinterest-obsessed girl and also a girl who can’t turn down a good challenge, I was game.  I knew exactly what I wanted to pin and DIY.  I’d seen an Etsy store with pillows and canvases on which the creator had sewn monograms made of buttons.  I loved the crafty-chic vibe and thought it would be fun to create some unique wall art for my house.  Here’s the finished product…

Pretty cool, yeah?  This only took a few hours to do and was not difficult at all.  So, anyone up for creating their own button-monogram art?  Here’s what you need…

-1 sheet embroidery canvas (16″ x 16″ ought to do it)
-pencil
-1 embroidery hoop
-1 package medium mixed-size buttons in color of your choice
-1 package mini buttons in color of your choice
-embroidery floss to match button color
-needle
-8″ x 8″ artist’s canvas (available at Michael’s)
-flat-topped tacks
-hammer

Here’s what you do…

First, draw the letter you are monogramming in freehand onto the embroidery fabric in pencil.  Be neat.  This will be your general guideline.  Fit the embroidery fabric into the hoop and thread your needle.  Working your way around the letter, sew on the buttons in a straight, staggered, or double row (as appropriate for your letter – I was doing a lowercase “h” so I did a staggered row and a double row in different spots on the letter, because I wanted it to be thick in some areas and thin in others).

Continue working your way around the letter button by button.  There is no need to tie off the embroidery floss after each button; just work continuously.  Using buttons of varying sizes, fill in and layer until you have achieved the effect you want.  (Sorry for being vague, but apparently button monograms are very personal and individual.  Who knew?)

Once you have finished sewing the monogram, stretch the embroidery fabric over the artist’s canvas and secure at the four corners with tacks (you may need to hammer them in).  Working your way around the canvas, stretch the embroidery fabric as tight as humanly possible and place tacks about a half inch apart, hammering them in, on all four sides.  Trim excess fabric.  Turn over and admire your work.  Voila!

This challenge was so much fun – and such a great excuse to spend time on Pinterest, which I am completely obsessed with.  I haven’t done a craft in a long time and I never really had the confidence to actually DIY something for my house.  Now that I’ve successfully made one project, I’m looking for the next opportunity to create some more unique and personal art for my house.  Hurray for DIY challenges!

Update: Want to see the four challengers and their projects?  Here they are – so inspiring!

Sherry @ Young House Love: Clothespin light fixture
Katie @ Bower Power: Crosshatch mirror
Emily @ Style by Emily Henderson: Embellished closet door
Lana @ Making a House a Home: Chalkboard fridge