2013 Goals Round-Up

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Happy 2014, everyone!  I love to start the new year with a fresh batch of goals and look ahead to the achievements I want to accomplish – but before I do, it’s time to look back over my previous year’s goals.  Here they are, along with my “grades” and thoughts:

BLOG

1. Keep up a M, W, F posting schedule consistently all year – no blog breaks.
2. Stay informed about current events in the literary world, and post about them.
3. Shoot a new header that reflects the spirit of the blog.

Grade: A-.  Once again, I let an entire year go by without shooting a new header.  One of these days, one of these days.  But the other two goals, I am really pleased about.  I posted many times about current events in the book world (see my six-month goal roundup for just a few examples), and I only missed a couple of days of posting, mainly because I was swamped and didn’t realize that I’d forgotten to schedule posts to go up.  I was consistent in my posting and I’m proud of the things I’ve written this year.

HOME

1. Get the rest of the house painted (even if I have to hire professionals to do it).
2. Hang curtains!
3. Plant an herb garden, and don’t kill it this time.

Grade: Incomplete.  I had good intentions to really personalize our living space this year, but we ended up making the surprising decision to move to Buffalo, which brought those efforts to a halt.  Hopefully, by this time next year, we’ll be homeowners again, and I’ll have some house-related goals then.

FITNESS

1. Get back into road racing.
2. Get into a regular yoga practice.
3. Join Stroller Strides and attend regularly.

Grade: A-.  I rediscovered my love for running this year, after looking for it for awhile.  I ran three road races: the Healthy Strides Community 5K in April, the Buffalo-Niagara YMCA Turkey Trot in November, and the Freezer 5K in December, and made major strides (see what I did there?) with each race.  I have some big running goals for 2014, so stay tuned.  I didn’t make time for a regular yoga practice, which is something I always wish I could commit to, but I did attend Stroller Strides regularly this fall and loved every minute.  The other moms were so friendly and welcoming, and the workouts were TOUGH!  We’re on hiatus right now, until the instructor returns from maternity leave, but I can’t wait to get back to class next year.

READING

1. Really, really read more books I already own.  I mean it this time.
2. Read at least one classic every month.
3. Explore more non-fiction.

Grade: A.  I definitely read many more books off my own shelves this year (helped, in part, by moving and being sans library card for a little while).  I read at least one classic every month (usually more than one) and I dove into some great non-fiction.  All in all, a great reading year.

LIFE/FAMILY

1. Seek out ways to be a better wife and mother, and practice them.
2. Practice gratitude even when life gets challenging.
3. Love my little Peanut wildly.

I’m not going to assign a grade for this one, because being a good wife and mother is something I strive for daily and not something that I think is “grade-able.”  I did work hard at this one this year, though.  (Except for goal #3 – to love Peanut wildly – I did that every day, of course, but loving her never feels like work.)  Moving our family 300 miles away, and leaving behind a successful career, beautiful home, and dozens of friends, was a hard thing to do, but it was something I did because my family needed it.  During this adjustment period (which is still going on) I have found things for which to be grateful: sunny runs through the park in the middle of the day; the opportunity to see my in-laws regularly and to visit my parents for a few days in the middle of the week; time to read and relax; a better job for hubby; and most of all, bonus time to bond and snuggle and watch Peanut grow into the precious little person she is becoming every day.  What a gift!

Next up: my goals for 2014!

Christmas 2013

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I can’t believe it’s already January and I haven’t gotten around to recapping our Christmas celebrations for y’all yet.  Bad blogger!  Mostly, it’s because I wasn’t really focused on taking lots of pictures and planning out a blog post in my head.  I was just trying to enjoy the holiday (with as little stress as possible) and soak in time with friends and family.  But here are a few snaps, all from phones or iPods, to show you just a little of what we did over Christmas week.

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We spent the holiday at my parents’ house in northeastern New York, and I was so excited to be there.  Last year we had planned to go, but decided at the last minute that Peanut was too tiny to take on such a long journey.  So we passed Peanut’s first Christmas at home in northern Virginia and it turned out to be the right decision, since several of my family members were sick that week.  This year was a different story and we were itching to show Peanut off to the extended family.

We always do our big family gathering on Christmas Eve and it used to be a traditional, sit-down dinner.  Last year my parents hosted and they don’t have a big enough dining room to seat the entire family, so they did a buffet of hors d’ouvres and everyone loved it.  I asked if they would repeat hosting this year, because it would free us up to enjoy the party without worrying about Peanut’s bedtime.  She goes to bed at 7:00, which is just when things really get going, so if one of my aunts had hosted we’d have had to either leave right as the party was starting, or put Peanut down in a pack ‘n play in a spare bedroom and then wake her up at 11:00 p.m. to drive back to my parents’ place – neither option a good one.  My parents immediately saw that hosting again would be the best course and agreed right away.  (And I hear that was a popular option with the rest of the family, too – one aunt told me she was relieved not to have hosting duties, and one cousin told me the food was great at my parents’ house.)  So Peanut got to enjoy the party and then go to bed upstairs in her snug little room, and we were able to head back down and catch up with the relatives.  It was a great night, with plenty of time to see loved ones that we hardly ever visit.

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After the relatives left, Santa came and dropped off a ridiculous pile of presents for Peanut.  I wish I’d gotten a picture of the stack before we opened it, but we were all kind of in shock.  Peanut made out like a bandit, getting a huge pile of “bookas,” a lion walker to help her toddling efforts, and more noisy toys than she knows what to do with.  (I bought her a xylophone.  What was I thinking?)  On Christmas night our family friends came over for some wine, snacks and baby snuggles – perfect.

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We were there almost all week and packed in plenty of time seeing other friends, as well.  We stopped by a neighborhood party on our way to meet our friend Seth for our annual (or every year I’m around, anyway) tradition of seeing the Christmas lights in Albany’s Washington Park and then having dinner.  Seth is one of my closest friends from college (you may remember him from two Thanksgivings ago, when we squeezed the lights in early since hubby and I were going to Buffalo for Christmas) and we’ve been doing lights-and-dinner every year since 2002.  We only missed last year.  Hard to believe that Seth and I started this tradition over ten years ago now!  (Hubby joined us starting in 2005.)  This year, we drove through the park, waved to all of our favorite light displays, then had dinner at a new Belgian restaurant.  Seth and I enjoyed mussels, hubby had a duck confit salad, and we each had a Belgian beer.  (Yes, I drank BEER!  It was a Christmas miracle!)

Then, on Friday morning, my best friend from high school came by with her young daughter.  We exchanged Christmas gifts and let the girls play with each other.  BFF’s little one is 14 months older than Peanut, and Peanut is absolutely mesmerized by her.  We’re hoping to see more of their family now that we live closer.

Unfortunately, as soon as BFF and her girlie left, we had to hit the road as well.  We’d planned on staying until Saturday, but Peanut came down with her first cold – too much Christmas excitement? – and we decided to head home a day early.  We were glad we did, because we popped by the pediatrician and discovered that Peanut has an ear infection, too.  Poor kid!  And since misery loves company, she made sure to share her bugs with hubby and me.  We don’t have ear infections, but we do have icky colds and I had a fever for a day, which is very unusual for me.  We’re all on the mend now, thanks to antibiotics (for Peanut), extra sleep (for hubby) and ginger-turmeric tea (for me).  And heading home early did bring one benefit – a nice long visit with Emma, who was only in town for a short period of time.  (And Grace, who is in town all month.)  Peanut loved catching up with her aunties:

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So, that was our Christmas.  Some family, some friends, good food, and a cold to end the old year.  And now, welcome 2014!

2013: A Year in Books

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Last year I drafted up a post with bookish stats and my top ten favorite books completed (not necessarily published) in the previous year.  I had so much fun looking back over my year of reading that I knew I had to repeat the exercise this year… only this time, I had even MORE pie chart fun!  Here’s 2013 by the numbers, followed by my top ten favorite books read this year.

In 2013, I read 118 books, for a total of 38,566 pages.  Of those books, 98 were fiction and 20 were non-fiction.

Here’s a detailed breakdown of the different fiction genres I read:

2013 Fiction Books

(It’s worth noting that I assigned these categories myself.  There were probably some books that I assigned as “literary fiction” that someone else might call “general fiction,” or books I put into “classics” – like the Anne of Green Gables series – that another reader might consider “children’s.”  But this pie chart is based on my own impressions of what I read, so there you have it.)

Then, there’s the 20 non-fiction books:

2013 Non-Fiction Books

(The “other” category included two knitting books, one book of poems, one advice book, and one travel book.)

Well, that was fun!  In fact, it was so much fun that I thought this year I’d make a few more pie charts, you know, for giggles.  First, I thought it would be neat to see where most of the books I read were set, geographically speaking:

2013 Settings

A couple of things, I thought, were interesting about this chart.  For one, I thought England would wipe the floor with the rest of the categories, and it did win out with 38 of my books having English settings.  But the good old US of A was right behind, with 36!  I also read five books set in fictional realms, which is unusual for me.  (Note that the setting I chose was the main setting of the book.  So, for instance, Royal Blood and Naughty in Nice both got assigned to “Europe – Other,” because although the stories begin in England, Georgie spends most of her time on the Continent in both novels.  And A Tale of Two Cities was also assigned to “Europe – Other,” because the main action took place in Paris, although plenty happened in London, too.  If a book involved multiple settings, I just chose the setting where either the majority of the action took place, or where the most important events took place, as I saw fit.)

I also thought it would be fun to take note of how many books by male authors and how many by female authors I read:

2013 Male Female Authors

Well, I’m definitely not that dude who only likes male authors!  Next year, I need to work on giving the guys a bit more attention, clearly.  (Note: this pie chart counts the number of books read, not the number of authors.  So authors by whom I read more than one book last year, got counted more than once.  For example, I read five books by Rick Riordan, so Rick Riordan counted five times for the guys.  I read eight books by L.M. Montgomery, so L.M. Montgomery counted eight times for the ladies.  Make sense?)

Since we also know that I have no willpower when it comes to the library, I thought it would be interesting to see where the books I read this year came from:

2013 Sources

So, the vast majority were from the library – no surprise there!  (Twenty of the library books were from the Buffalo library; the rest hailed from Fairfax County.)  Maybe next year I’ll do a little more reading off my own shelves… but probably not.  I’m always going to be an enthusiastic library patron.

Whew!  Okay, I think that’s probably enough pie charts for now.  So onward to the last part of my 2013 reading retrospective: my top ten favorites, in no particular order.

Middlemarch 

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Attachments 

Anne of Green Gables 

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The Boys In The Boat 

Main Street 

Eighty Days 

Lord of the Rings 

What a year 2013 was!  I read some really amazing books, by some fantastic authors.  Can’t wait to see what 2014 will bring!

2013 Book Superlatives

For the past two years, I’ve had a blast doling out high school yearbook-style awards to some of the books I read over the course of the previous year.  (Fun fact: I actually won a Senior Superlative in high school… “Shortest.”  Womp, womp.)  Here are my Book Superlatives for 2013:

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Brainiest: Middlemarch, by George Eliot

One of the last books I read this year was also one of the most challenging.  Not only is this novel an absolute tome, but it touches on all kinds of political, religious and economic issues of 1830s England.  You’ll absolutely need to wear your thinking cap for this one.  Middlemarch is definitely the Class of 2013 Valedictorian.

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Best Looking: Beautiful Ruins, by Jess Walter

I wanted to read this book in large part because it received so many raves around the book blogosphere.  But it didn’t hurt that the whole package – cover design, story, writing – was absolutely stunning.  Full review here.

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Best Friends: Anne of Green Gables, by L. M. Montgomery

Anne and Diana are one of the classic BFF duos in the entire literary canon.  From their early friendship, where Anne convinces Diana that it would not be a sin to “swear” to be friends forever, to their brief separation thanks to Diana’s mother freaking out when Anne accidentally gets Diana drunk on currant wine, to their lives as young women, wives and mothers, these two are the definition of kindred spirits.

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Class Clown: Poet’s Pub, by Eric Linklater

Linklater’s little-known classic starts out ponderously, but the hijinks kick in midway through and then it’s hilarious.  Three words: charabanc. car. chase.

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Biggest Jock: The Boys in the Boat, by Daniel James Brown

I don’t read a lot of sports books, so this was an easy one to pick, but it would have been on my list of 2013 reading highlights no matter what.  This non-fiction account of the University of Washington crew team that went to the Berlin Olympics in 1936 and won gold (that’s not a spoiler, people, HISTORY!) was an absolutely fantastic read.  There were one or two pages that got a bit over-technical and a little dry on the subject of rowing theory or boat-building, but mostly, it was just a great story of some remarkable young men and the sport they loved.

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Teacher’s Pet: Villette, by Charlotte Bronte

I read Villette with Beth and Amal back in the spring and loved the story of Lucy Snowe, a young woman of reduced means who takes a post teaching in a girls’ school in the Continental city of Villette.  Lucy is a teacher, but she also does a fair amount of learning – some from experience, and some from a cantankerous master in the school who turns out to have more depth of emotion than originally thought.  Fabulous book, and you can find my readalong posts here: Vol. I; Vol. II; Vol. III; Reading Companions.

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Biggest Nerd: The Time Traveler’s Guide to Medieval England and The Time Traveler’s Guide to Elizabethan England, by Ian Mortimer

Or am I the biggest nerd for totally geeking out over these?  Mortimer’s histories (the first focusing on medieval England – roughly, the 1300s – and the second on Elizabethan England) are written like travel guides, covering things like where to stay and eat, what to do, and how to handle money, just like a travel guide to a modern country.  Both were fun and fascinating, although I enjoyed the Elizabethan England guide just a tiny bit more.

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Most Creative: Cloud Atlas, by David Mitchell

This was something new that Mitchell accomplished here.  Six different stories, set in six different time periods – from the 1800s to the dystopian future – each told through a different vehicle (a journal; an epistolary format; straight narrative; and a statement of a condemned prisoner are some examples) and each connected to the other stories in a mysterious way.  It didn’t grab me immediately, but once it did, holy WOW.

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Most Opinionated: The MaddAddam Trilogy (Oryx & Crake, The Year of the Flood, and MaddAddam), by Margaret Atwood

This was the year I decided I love Margaret Atwood, and it was the MaddAddam trilogy that did it for me.  (I’d previously read The Handmaid’s Tale and appreciated it but concluded that I didn’t care for it.  Now I want to read it again and see if my opinion has changed.)  Oryx and Crake was my least favorite of the trilogy, because the child abuse scenes really upset me and I didn’t think they were necessary to the story.  But The Year of the Flood and MaddAddam were marvelous.  So why did I award them “Most Opinionated” in this game?  Well, on top of being a good, well-written, exciting story, the MaddAddam Trilogy is Atwood’s warning to all of us about what will happen if we neglect the environment and continue to pursue the insane path of progress at the expense of our humanity.  There was SO much material for thought here.

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Most Likely To End Up In Hollywood: Lexicon, by Max Barry

There are car chases, secret organizations at war with one another, and massive explosions… how could Hollywood fail to make this one into a movie?  But if (when?) they do, it will be a doubly cool movie because all the action is set off by a WORD.  Yep, behind the made-for-Hollywood action is a thrilling story about the power of language.

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Biggest Rebel: The Goldfinch, by Donna Tartt

Theo Decker has good reason for being a disturbed kid – his dad ran off and his mom was killed in a terrorist attack.  So it’s no wonder that Theo grows up troubled, or that he falls in with another troubled kid, Boris.  Theo is good at heart, though, and he wants to do the right thing.  It’s just that, in his efforts to do the right thing, he often goes awry.  He’s that kid who puts up a tough front but is really looking for some understanding.

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Biggest Loner: Where’d You Go, Bernadette, by Maria Semple

Bernadette Fox is a brilliant architect, but she’s been a recluse for years, ever since one of her projects met an unfortunate end.  Now she’s hiding out in Seattle, a mom to precocious Bee, troublesome wife, and reviled member of the parent community at Bee’s school.  That is, until Bernadette disappears.  Bee assembles letters, emails and documents that she is sure will help her to track down her missing mom.  But does Bernadette even want to be found?  This was another of my 2013 reading highlights.  I loved every moment of Bee’s search, and I recommend it to everyone.

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Cutest Couple: Attachments, by Rainbow Rowell

Lincoln is an “internet security officer” at an Omaha newspaper, which he thought would be way more exciting than it turned out to be.  Instead of leading the charge against internet vice, he’s stuck monitoring red-flagged emails that show up in his folder every time someone forwards an inappropriate joke.  The only thing that keeps Lincoln going is the chance of seeing an email pop up between copy editor Jennifer and entertainment reporter Beth, who know their email is being monitored but can’t seem to stop discussing every detail of their private lives.  It doesn’t take Lincoln long to realize that he’s falling for Beth… right around the time that Beth notices a cute IT guy in the break room.  It only took me a day to read this because I was rooting so hard for Lincoln and Beth that I couldn’t put it down.

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Most Likely To Succeed: Eighty Days: Nellie Bly and Elizabeth Bisland’s History-Making Race Around the World, by Matthew Goodman

This one’s a no-brainer – everyone knows Nellie Bly!  Bly made headlines by being up for anything – from exposing the ruthless “Lobby King” of Albany to posing as insane and writing an expose of a notorious mental institution.  But she really went all out with her challenge to beat Jules Verne’s fictional eighty day record for traveling around the world – a challenge which attracted plenty of interest and a little healthy competition, in the person of Elizabeth Bisland.  Bly and Bisland’s race was such fun to follow, but it’s Bly who gets “most likely to succeed” honors in this yearbook.

That was fun!  What were your reading highlights of 2013?  Oh – and stay tuned, because I have some pie charts coming up next.  Yay!  Pie charts!

Reading Round-Up: December 2013

Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby.  I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book.  Here are my reads for December, 2013…

Excellent Women, by Barbara Pym – Mildred Lathbury is one of the “excellent women” of her parish.  A clergyman’s daughter in her early 30s, Mildred is unmarried but not idle.  She finds plenty to do, whether its meddling in the marriage of her new neighbors, Rocky and Helena Napier, or chatting about the minister’s new love interest with the other excellent women of the church.  This book was a relaxing, enjoyable read for this Anglophile.  I read Excellent Women as part of the Classics Challenge, and my full review can be found here.

Naughty in Nice (Her Royal Spyness Mysteries #5), by Rhys Bowen – This was my favorite of Lady Georgie’s adventures so far!  Binky and Fig have decided to leave England to winter on the French Riviera.  Georgie would love to get out of the soupy fog too, but Fig cries poverty.  A timely appeal to the Queen sees Georgie sent to Nice on assignment: to retrieve a snuffbox which the queen suspects a self-made baronet of stealing from her, and to spy on Wallis Simpson again.  Georgie traipses off to the South of France and soon finds herself modeling for Chanel, with disastrous results (of course).  And when the thieving baronet is found murdered in his own backyard, Georgie is the prime suspect.  She might have gotten out of the soupy fog, but she’s landed directly in the soup!  I had SO much fun following Georgie through this adventure… and darned if a nice armchair holiday in Nice wasn’t exactly what I needed to get me through some chilly, snowy days.

Village Christmas, by Miss Read – I wanted to revisit Fairacre this holiday season, because there’s really no place better to get some holiday spirit.  Village Christmas is a slim little book (just over 50 pages) but it’s packed with Christmas spirit.  The book focuses on the elderly Waters sisters, their new neighbors, the Emery family, and a new baby who teaches Fairacre to love their neighbors – just like another baby did 1,950 years earlier.  I love this novella – it’s one of my favorite holiday reads.  I read it last year, and I’m sure I will be reading it year after year.

The Twelve Clues of Christmas (Her Royal Spyness Mysteries #6), by Rhys Bowen – I just had to read this one before Christmas, and it was SO much fun.  Georgie escapes a dreary Christmas with Fig and Family up at Castle Rannoch by finding herself a job as hostess of a house party down in Devon.  But no sooner has Georgie arrived on the scene than a local mischief-maker is found dead, apparently accidentally, in a tree.  As the days roll by, the death toll mounts and only Georgie seems to think there is something suspicious about the parade of supposed accidents.  This was my favorite Georgie escapade so far.

Giada’s Feel Good Food: My Healthy Recipes and Secrets, by Giada de Laurentiis –  I usually don’t include cookbooks on these roundups, but this one deserves to be on the list because I actually sat down and read it cover to cover.  Giada is my favorite Food Network personality and I own all of her books.  This most recent was under the tree for me on Christmas morning and I want to make just about everything in it – especially the orange-scented almond muffins, which I can’t stop dreaming about.  Giada also shares her secrets for living a healthy, balanced life.  I’m trying not to acquire too many cookbooks while we’re living in our little rental, but I’m so glad I have this one in my collection now.

Middlemarch, by George Eliot – Loved.  Loved loved loved loved loved.  I could go on and on about how fabulous Middlemarch was, but I’ll just link you to my #Middlemarch13 posts instead: Vol. I and II; Vol. III and IV; Vol. V and VI; and Vol. VII and VIII and Finale.  Read it as soon as possible.

Heirs and Graces (Her Royal Spyness Mysteries #7), by Rhys Bowen – And with that, I’m all caught up on Georgie’s adventures.  Having absolutely nowhere to go, Georgie appeals to the Queen and gets herself an assignment: train up the recently discovered heir to the Duke of Eynsford, who has been found on the Australian outback, on the rules of high society.  It seems like an easy job until the current Duke is found dead with the heir’s hunting knife in his back.  What’s the thirty-fifth in line to the throne to do with this crowd?  Cute and fun, as usual.

No Holly for Miss Quinn, by Miss Read – Another one that I read for the first time last Christmas and had to pick up again this year.  I love the story of introverted Miss Quinn’s rediscovery of the joys of family and mess and noise at the holidays.

Well, December for me can be summed up in one word: Middlemarch.  Okay, it looks like I did read other things – including three mysteries featuring Lady Georgiana, who I have come to love.  I had plenty of fun reading this month, and I am looking forward to January, which I’ve decided to dedicate to comfort reading.  Stay tuned!

Happy 2014! (And a Look Back at 2013)

 

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Happy New Year!  Hope all my friends are enjoying a day off with their families.  I’m off to do just that, but I wanted to look in here and wish you all health and happiness in 2014.

And while I’m here, I also wanted to do one of my favorite things: reflect on the year just ending before I look ahead to the clean slate before me.  So here’s a little retrospective of 2013 highlights here on Covered In Flour:

In January, I set goals for the year, shared what’s in my essential healthy kitchen (fridge, freezer, pantry and utensil drawers), and chatted about Scholastic’s 2012 Kids and Family Reading Report.

In February, Peanut turned six months old, and D.C. was awarded the honor of being the most literate city in the U.S. for the third year in a row!

In March, I pondered genre-bending and rode out the winter.

In April, we celebrated Peanut’s first Easter and made a family visit to the cherry blossoms.

In May, I celebrated my first Mother’s Day and started Beth’s Villette readalong.

In June, the #Villettealong wrapped up, we celebrated Audiobook Week, and I worked my way through a ridiculous stack of library books.

In July, my books begged the internet to rescue them from Peanut’s tiny but very sharp teeth, and I finished reading the Fairacre series.

In August, two HUGE things happened: Peanut turned one, and we moved to Buffalo!

In September, I finished my second readalong (Kerry’s Septemb-Eyre) and shared my answers to a Bookish A-Z Survey.

In October, I had a birthday and we celebrated with a trip to Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario!

In November, I turkey trotted with Emma and Grace, and then we had a fabulous family Thanksgiving weekend.

In December, I shared ornaments that remind me of my beloved Virginia, and we took a stroll through Chestnut Ridge Park with Zan and Paul.

Hope you enjoyed that little look back at some of my 2013 highlights!  Before we move on to 2014, I have to ask: what were your highlights from the past year?

#Middlemarch13 – Vol. VII and VIII, and Finale

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Whew!  Here we go – the final two volumes, and the epilogue (“Finale” as George Eliot calls it) of MiddlemarchWarning: spoilers abound, and I’m going to tell you the ending.   If you’re planning to read Middlemarch yourself and don’t want it ruined, skip this post and come back on Wednesday!

Volume VII – Two Temptations

I almost thought this volume was misnamed, because it seemed to me that there were many more than just two temptations.  People were being tempted left and right!  Fred Vincy was tempted to go back to the gambling parlor, just to see what was going on with his old crowd.  Farebrother, upon learning that Fred might be up to his old tricks (he wasn’t) was tempted to let Fred backslide and then claim Mary Garth for himself.  But the main two temptations of the volume involved Lydgate and Bulstrode.

First, Lydgate.  The good doctor’s marriage is continuing to deteriorate, as he tries to convince Rosamond to adopt some austerity measures to stop their financial bleeding.  Rosamond is convinced that Lydgate is in the wrong – anyone who opposes Rosamond is necessarily in the wrong – and takes it upon herself to hinder his attempts to get their money situation under control, in any way she can.  Lydgate realizes two things simultaneously: his wife is determined to get in his way at every opportunity, and he is personally incapable of consciously doing anything that will make her unhappy.  Since she has made it clear that it would make her unhappy if Lydgate moved them to a more affordable house or sold off some of their luxurious furniture to pay down their creditors, Lydgate tries to get the money he needs in other ways.  He starts gambling, wins a bit, then begins to lose.  Fortunately, before things can really go downhill, Fred Vincy saves the day by dragging Lydgate out of the gambling den.  (And then gets roundly chewed out by Farebrother for being there in the first place… but it’s a good thing he was, since he managed to save Lydgate from himself.)  Lydgate, out of desperation, appeals to Bulstrode for a loan.  Bulstrode coolly and unsympathetically suggests that Lydgate declare bankruptcy.  Thanks for nothing, Old Nick.

Speaking of Bulstrode, he’s the other victim of temptation in this volume.  He’s been trying to keep his reputation secure from Raffles’ tale-telling, and not entirely successfully, as Caleb Garth comes to him and resigns his post as Stone Court’s manager.  Looks like Raffles got to Garth… but fortunately for Bulstrode, Garth is an ethical man who has no intention of spreading Raffles’ story around Middlemarch, even if he himself doesn’t feel comfortable working for Bulstrode any longer.  Soon after this encounter, Bulstrode learns that Raffles has been taken ill (alcohol poisoning, big shock there) and is lying insensible at Stone Court.  Bulstrode summons Lydgate to attend his tormentor and sits up with the good-for-nothing himself, resolved to carry out Lydgate’s instructions for saving Raffles’ life even while he contemplates how useful it would be if Raffles would die. Worried that Raffles will do some ranting and raving in front of Lydgate, Bulstrode reconsiders his position on Lydgate’s loan request and quickly writes a check for one thousand pounds.  Lydgate gratefully accepts without thinking too much about the possible reasons behind Bulstrode’s sudden change of heart.  Lydgate leaves and Bulstrode retires to bed, leaving Raffles in the care of the housekeeper, who questions Lydgate’s orders not to administer any alcohol to the patient.  Without telling the housekeeper to do one thing or the other, Bulstrode lets her know where the brandy is located in the wine cellar.  She goes ahead and gives Raffles brandy, and he dies.

Bulstrode and Lydgate enjoy a brief period of happiness – Bulstrode is thrilled that Raffles has gone to the grave and, presumably, taken his tale with him, and Lydgate pays off his debts with much relief.  But soon both men can’t fail to notice that folks are avoiding them.  Together, they attend a town meeting to discuss efforts to improve sanitation and prevent cholera… but the meeting quickly turns into a condemnation of Bulstrode, for his actions (looks like Raffles spread the word after all), and Lydgate, for presumably accepting a bribe from Bulstrode and either concealing or perhaps colluding in the efforts to speed along Raffles’ demise.  All of Middlemarch gangs up on Bulstrode and Lydgate, and everyone believes them guilty as sin… except for one person.  Dorothea Casaubon.  And if there is one person you’d like in your corner, it’s Dorothea.

Volume VIII – Sunset and Sunrise

Dorothea ends Volume VII determined to clear Lydgate’s name.  She likes him personally, she knows he’s a friend of the Farebrothers, and she believes wholeheartedly in his work with the fever hospital.  But she’s hindered in her detecting efforts by the well-meaning cabal of Mr. Brooke, Sir James, and the Cadwalladers, who advise her against getting involved.  Dorothea listens for a little while, but finds that she has the perfect opportunity to find out what happens when Lydgate visits her to explain that he is planning to leave Middlemarch and will not be continuing his work with the hospital.  Dorothea admits that she has heard the gossip about Lydgate and Bulstrode and asks him to tell her, in his own words, what happened.  Lydgate, overwhelmed by the first expression of support he’s heard since the scandal breaks, confesses everything about his marital difficulties, his financial woes, and the circumstances of his treatment of Raffles and acceptance of Bulstrode’s loan.

True to form, Dorothea has a plan.  She first advances Lydgate one thousand pounds, enabling him to return Bulstrode’s money and get out from under the taint of supposed bribery.  She then spreads the word to her uncle, Mr. Farebrother, and the other men of her acquaintance that Lydgate has told her his side of the story and that she believes him.  Next, Dorothea undertakes a visit to Rosamond, to assure her that her husband still has friends who support him in Middlemarch.  Unfortunately, Dorothea stumbles onto a scene she immediately wishes unseen: the sight of Rosamond throwing herself at Will Ladislaw.  Dorothea stumbles out, blinded by misery, and doesn’t witness the next part: where Will scathingly rejects Rosamond and manages to throw the first verbal darts ever to lodge in that absurdly thick skin of hers.

Dorothea passes a miserable night, but resolves to return to Rosamond’s home the next day and finish her business of assuring her of local support for Lydgate.  When she is announced, Rosamond is terrified, wondering what this woman she has wronged has come back to say or do to her.  Dorothea is grace itself and the two women cling to each other in their sorrow.  Meanwhile, Rosamond confesses that she was the one to put the moves on Will, and that Will’s heart is entirely Dorothea’s.  Dorothea is intensely relieved and she urges Rosamond to look back to her own husband for love and affection.  Will, upon learning that Rosamond has explained things to Dorothea, rushes to his love’s side and they are immediately engaged.  Dorothea convinces Will that she doesn’t mind giving up her wealth – Casaubon’s money is nothing but a weight on her.  (And, anyway, it’s not like they’ll be destitute; Dorothea does have her own personal fortune still.)  She promises that she’ll learn to economize… and one expects she will be a darn sight better at it than La Rosamond.  Of course, Dorothea’s family and “friends” (the Chettams and Cadwalladers) are shocked and dismayed at the engagement, but Uncle Brooke feels himself powerless to stop it.  And so Dorothea has her intellectual companion at last.

Finale

The quick finale gives us a brief glimpse of the main characters’ future.  Fred Vincy and Mary Garth live a long, happy, noisy, child-blessed life together.  Rosamond is happier than she deserves to be, with Lydgate leaving Middlemarch after all and becoming a wealthy, successful doctor in London and at a resort on the Continent, but Lydgate feels deeply his failure to accomplish what he set out to do with his hospital, and dies young.  (Don’t worry about La Rosamond.  She remarries, more money this time.)

As for Dorothea and Will, they live a simple, happy life together.  They have a son, who provides the means of reconciling Dorothea to her family.  (Celia can’t resist a baby.)  Will enters politics and Dorothea’s life is quiet, but she gets to be the helpmate she always wanted to be.

Thoughts on Middlemarch

My one regret about reading Middlemarch is that it took me so long to finally open this book.  It’s been sitting on my shelf for years, and on my “to-read” list for even longer than that.  I was intimidated by the length of the book (silly, since I blazed through some Tolstoy chunksters with no issue), by the setting in a time period that isn’t especially familiar to me, and by the multiple complex story lines.

When I finally started it, I found something out: Middlemarch is an easy read.  Oh, it’s beautifully written and meticulously plotted and absolutely deserves its place in the canon.  But here’s the thing.  The characters are real.  Dorothea, Casaubon, Lydgate, the Chettams, the Vincys, the Garths and Farebrothers, the Bulstrodes, and all the supporting characters who make up the texture of Middlemarch – they’re all real.  And Middlemarch itself is a layered, complicated, oh-so-real place.  And that makes this book very easy to read.  It only takes a few sentences to hook you and pull you in, and you find yourself sinking deeper and deeper into Eliot’s rich world.  And that’s how you find yourself turning page after page until you realize you’ve read 150 pages straight and haven’t actually seen or heard anything in “the real world” for hours.  This is that kind of book.

I already know I’m going to re-read Middlemarch.  Not right away, because I want to let it sink in a bit more, since I’ll never again have the pleasure of reading it for the first time.  But I’m going to re-read it.  And then I’m going to re-read it again.  And again.  And again and again for the rest of my life.  This is now one of my favorite books.

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I’m submitting this post as my review of Middlemarch for The Classics Club.  Thanks for coming along on this journey, and Beth, thanks again for hosting this readalong!

A Day In The Life: December 2013

I’ve seen these day-in-the-life posts on other blogs and I’ve been meaning to write one of my own for awhile.  I wanted to do one while I was on maternity leave, but I was too sleep-addled to get it together.  I can only think of one person who would really want a play-by-play of how I spend my day (hi, Mom!) but I’m going to do one anyway, for me.  This bonus time I’m enjoying with Peanut is fleeting, and I’m always conscious of the fact that sooner or later I’ll be heading back to the office.  I know that this is something I’ll want to look back on when that day comes, just to remember the little moments that might not stick in my memory, but that are worth holding onto.  So here we go: a day in the life home with a fifteen-month-old, captured in December of 2013.  Buckle up; this is a long one.

6:30 a.m.  I wake up to little hands on my face.  This might sound like the sweetest, most peaceful way you could ever wake up, and sometimes it is, but just as often it’s damp, violent, or both.  Today, though, it’s just sweet and peaceful.  Hubby has been up for awhile and Peanut has already had her morning bottle while I got some extra sleep.  Early mornings are their special daddy-daughter time together.  We all snuggle for a few minutes, then get up to start the day.

6:35-6:55 a.m.  Peanut reads books in her crib while Daddy and I go through our morning routines.  I make the bed and get ready for the day, while Daddy finishes getting prepared for work.

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6:55 a.m.  Peanut and I are downstairs.  We greet Mirror Baby and make our morning rounds of the kitchen to make sure that no one has stolen the garbage can or the basement stairs overnight.  Peanut is very relieved to see that both beloved items are in their proper places.  We say good morning to the Christmas tree and follow Daddy around while he makes his lunch.

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7:05 a.m.  We open today’s door on our Advent calendar, hug and kiss Daddy goodbye, and he’s off to work.  Peanut and I settle in to play in her play yard for a little while.  Peanut snuggles sweetly in my lap while I read Christmas stories out loud.  Then we shift to the “using Mommy as a climbing apparatus” part of the morning.  Ah.  My favorite time of day.

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8:00 a.m.  Okay, I need caffeine.  Peanut stays in the play yard banging toys on the floor while I head to the kitchen to make my tea.

8:02-8:15 a.m.  Peanut is voicing her displeasure at me going into the kitchen (what nerve I have!) so I grab her from the play yard and we make more rounds of the downstairs while my water boils.  We check out the Christmas tree for a little while, and Peanut spends several minutes flipping through The Happiest Toddler on the Block, while I try to explain that the author photograph on the back is actually not a picture of Dada.  (Dr. Harvey Karp doesn’t look anything like hubby, but right now Peanut calls all men “Dada.”)  Finally, my tea is ready.  I manage to distract Peanut with her sand pail while I grab it from the kitchen.

8:15-8:34 a.m.  I drink my tea while Peanut complains that I’m not sharing it with her or allowing her to climb on me while I sip a molten hot beverage.

8:34-9:20 a.m.  Back in the play yard with Peanut.  We read stories, sing songs, play with Peanut’s V-Tech ball (which she is just beginning to play with more enthusiastically, though she usually just cautiously touches with one finger from a safe spot in my lap – I don’t know why, but she’s absolutely terrified of the thing) and put cups on our heads.

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9:20 a.m.  Peanut is restless, so we make a few loops of the downstairs and spend some time communing with the Christmas tree.

9:30 a.m.  Peanut sits in her high chair and plays with a bucket while I get breakfast ready: yogurt, raspberries, and a bottle.

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9:35 a.m.  Breakfast is served.  Peanut has two spoons: one to eat with, and one “sacrificial offering” to play with while I feed her.  If she doesn’t have a spoon to play with, she sticks her hands in her yogurt and then rubs them all over her head, or she swats the eating spoon out of my hands while I try to feed her.  I have no interest in cleaning yogurt off the walls, so I give her her own spoon.

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9:36 a.m.  Peanut’s “sacrificial offering” spoon is on the floor.  I go to the kitchen and get her another one.

9:40 a.m.  Peanut’s second “sacrificial offering” spoon is on the floor.  I don’t feel like getting her a third spoon to play with, so I tear up a raspberry for her to eat between bites of yogurt.  As long as her hands are busy, she’s cool.  Most of the time, Peanut is pretty good about feeding herself her finger foods, but today she mostly wants me to put the raspberries in her mouth.  That’s fine by me, and we spend the rest of breakfast pretty peacefully.

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After breakfast, I clean Peanut up with a wash cloth, which she appropriates for a game of peekaboo.

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9:55 a.m.  Upstairs for bottle and nap routine.  Peanut pounds her bottle and then does some pretty cute soothing with one of her Haba toys.

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10:05 a.m.  Peanut points to her bookshelf and says, “Booka!”  Normally I would only read her one book before her morning nap (she’s usually pretty zonked, so she goes right down without a full story hour) but she asked so nicely and so cutely, so we go to the bookshelf and I let her choose one more story.  Little stinker grabs two books off the shelf: Clifford Goes to Washington and Curious George Visits the Library.  I tell her to choose one, and she points to George, so George it is.  We read her extra story and then we read her naptime book, Wherever You Are, My Love Will Find You, which she got last month from a family friend and which we have made part of our pre-nap wind-down routine.  As soon as Peanut sees this second book, the thumb is in her mouth and the foot is in her other hand: she’s ready to cuddle.  We read the book, snuggle for a bit, and then I put Peanut down for her morning nap.

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10:20 a.m.  I make a second cup of tea while getting a start on cleaning up the kitchen.  I swear, I leave it spotless at night (most of the time), so clearly we have a gnome problem.

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10:47 a.m.  Time for Mommy’s breakfast, finally!  I have two eggs and some fruit while reading Naughty in Nice, the fifth “Her Royal Spyness” mystery.  Light and funny.

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11:10 a.m.  Done with breakfast, back to work in the kitchen.  I finish loading the breakfast dishes into the dishwasher, then start cleaning out the fridge and prepping some food for the next few days: homemade vegetable soup, roasted cinnamon apples (just for hubby and me; Peanut is allergic to cinnamon, poor kid), sliced peppers for snacking, and some plain roasted apples to have on hand for Peanut’s meals.

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12:20 p.m.  Soup is simmering on the stove, fridge is clean, dishwasher is chugging through another load of dishes, apples are roasting, and veggies have been prepped for munching.  Peanut has been asleep for almost two hours now (judging by the time I stopped hearing her chatting over the baby monitor) so I’m expecting her up any minute.  In the meantime, I try to make a dent in the mountain of clutter on the dining room table, which has become the repository for anything we feel like dropping at any particular moment, kind of the way the kitchen desk station was at our house in Virginia.  I try to stay on top of it, but clearly it takes on a life of its own.  Today it’s piled with mail, to-be-wrapped Christmas presents, the remnants of a Target run, and various baby gear items.  I try to blaze through and put away as much of it as possible before Peanut starts peeping upstairs.

12:35 p.m.  I still don’t hear Peanut, so I head upstairs to see what’s going on and wake her up if necessary.  (I know, the conventional wisdom is “never wake a sleeping baby,” but Peanut needs to get up.  She’s an easygoing kid who never objects to being woken up, but what she doesn’t appreciate is getting off schedule.  I need her up now so that she will be ready for her afternoon nap in a few hours.  If she misses the afternoon nap because she’s not tired enough, she’ll be overtired by early evening and it will be chaos at bedtime.)  I peek in the nursery and see this:

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That’s an awake baby, but she seems to have just woken up, because she’s pretty drowsy.  Before long, though, she’s perked up.  Peanut plays with her books and toys while I sort her clean laundry.

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Oh, look, I’ve got myself a helper!

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After I finish putting away the laundry, I join Peanut on the floor and we play for about an hour.  We make faces at each other and I read the stories Peanut “requests” by handing the books to me.  We read Blueberries for Sal, Bedtime (a texture book), Listen Up, Pup, Bible stories and a few more.

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1:50 p.m.  Lunchtime for baby!  We head downstairs and I put together a plate of hard boiled egg and some of Peanut’s roasted apple, which has cooled.  The apple is a hit, but the egg is a miss.  Peanut eats about half of the egg; the rest she puts in her mouth and spits out.  I mull over writing another installment of my Babyfood Diaries, which I haven’t done in awhile.  After egg and apple eating (or throwing, as the case may be) is over, Peanut has a sippy cup full of milk and cracks herself up with giant trucker burps.

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2:20 p.m.  We head upstairs to wind down for the afternoon nap.  Peanut plays in her crib while I run a bath for her.

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She gets a quick scrub-down, then I bundle her up in a cozy long-sleeved onesie for her afternoon nap.  She plays for a few more minutes while I drain her tub and do a lightening-fast bathroom cleaning job.

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2:45 p.m.  Time to wind down for the afternoon nap.  I bundle Peanut into her sleepsack and we snuggle and read some more book ’ems: Caps for Sale, Make Way for Ducklings and our naptime book.  I had planned to read a few more stories, but by the midway point of Make Way for Ducklings, Peanut is rubbing her eyes, sucking her thumb and generally acting tired.  (Victory!)  So I cut the reading short, give her a few snuggles and she’s ready for the crib.

3:00 p.m.  I decide that if I’m going to get in a workout, it’s now or never.  I had wanted to run, but baby, it’s cold outside.  With wind chill, the temperature is a frigid 5 degrees.  That’s cold even for me, and it’s way too cold for Peanut, so I’m not venturing outside.  Instead I pull out a new Jillian DVD I’ve been saving for just such a chilly afternoon.  The DVD has three 20-minute workouts: each one blasts you with cardio, but Workout 1 also tones the upper body, Workout 2 cuts up the lower body, and Workout 3 focuses on abs.  I do Workouts 1 and 2, which is an intense 40 minutes, and I have a blast.  Jillian makes “Karate Kid” and “Ghostbusters” references and gets kind of aggressive with suggestions that you break your opponent’s ribs.  Gotta love Jill.

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4:00 p.m.  Done with the workout!  Midway through the workout, I heard Peanut encouraging me over the baby monitor, but she dropped off to sleep fairly quickly and she’s snoozing now.  By the time I’m done, there is snow driving down outside my window, but I’m dripping sweat.  I enter my time into my online fitness tracker.

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4:19 p.m.  Realize I forgot to eat lunch.  I’ve had some kind of stomach issue the past few days, and while I feel back to 100% today, I’m still not very hungry.  (And because I know my mother-in-law will hear “stomach issue” and think “!!!!!” I should say: no, Peanut is not getting a little brother or sister.  I was just sick.  Hubby and Peanut are fine, so I think it’s something I ate and not a bug.)  I had planned to have a bowl of the soup I made earlier, but it’s too late now and dinner isn’t very far off, so I settle for an orange, sliced soccer practice style, of course.  I eat it while I clean the kitchen (again – how does stuff keep piling up in there?).

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4:45 p.m.  I hear snuffling on the baby monitor, which is good, because it’s about time for Peanut to get up for the evening.  I go upstairs and set her up with some toys and books in the crib while I quickly clean up from my workout.  (I know, I know, but I’d rather work up an additional sweat with some cleaning and wait until Peanut is awake before I start running water right next to her room.)

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5:05 p.m.  Peanut and I head downstairs and see that Daddy has texted that he’ll be working a little late.  Peanut plays in her play yard while I leave a voicemail for my new basic literacy student (I’ve just completed my tutor training and been matched with a student!) to set up our first session.  Then I hop in the play yard with Peanut and we listen to the Raffi channel on Pandora, sing along, and play with her toys for awhile.  The snow is really coming down now, so we hope Daddy drives safe and gets home soon.

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5:48 p.m.  The song “Do You Love Me” comes on Pandora, so obviously Peanut and I have to dance.  I show her my sick moves.  She’s especially impressed with the mashed potato.  Which makes us think about dinner, so we head to the dining room and I get Peanut’s dinner ready.

6:00 p.m.  Dinner time!  Usually we eat together as a family and Peanut has a less-seasoned version of whatever we’re eating, but Daddy is working late tonight, so I pull together something quick.  Peanut gets cheese (her favorite) and kiwi.  Now, I would prefer not to give Peanut cheese in the same day that she gets yogurt (that’s a lot of dairy, especially considering she drinks whole milk all day long) but she’s really hungry and I don’t have any other protein prepared for her, unless I feel like having another egg fight, which I don’t.  Cheese it is, and Peanut couldn’t be more thrilled.

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6:21 p.m.  Peanut and I head upstairs with her evening bottle.  She drinks the bottle and immediately points to her bookshelf and says “Booka!”  I let her choose books to read and she picks Madeline, Listen Up Pup, Olivia, Maisy Goes to the Museum, Listen Up Pup, Roaring Rockets, and Listen Up Pup.  (She’s really all over this puppy book, handing it to me and saying “Pup!  Pup!”)

6:44 p.m.  Daddy texts that he’s headed out, but might be awhile since there’s traffic and a blizzard raging outside.  I start Peanut’s bedtime routine.  We brush her teeth, change into a short-sleeved shirt and a cozy sleepsack, and settle in for our bedtime book: Sweet Dreams, Maisy.  After Maisy, we read a prayer from Peanut’s Really Woolly Bedtime Prayers book, which is adorable.  Then I tuck Peanut in and head downstairs to start dinner so that we can eat as soon as hubby gets home.

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7:05  Hubby’s home!  Finally!  Long day for him.  I’m so proud of him for working so hard to support our family while I have this bonus time at home with Peanut.  Most of his days aren’t usually this long, but he has a big project going and he’s absolutely killing it.  Hubby goes upstairs to change out of his work clothes and give Peanut a quick snuggle – she’s still awake – while I work on dinner.  We’re having Asian shrimp sauté, which is just shrimp and Asian slaw mix (one of my favorite shortcut ingredients – tons of fresh veggies ready to eat, and all you have to do is open a bag!) sautéed in a little coconut oil and tamari, served over quinoa.  The quinoa was left over from two nights ago, and the rest of the sauté is super quick, so I have dinner on the table in ten minutes flat.

7:15 p.m.  Dinner is served.  Hubby and I eat and talk about our days.  He tells me what he can about his project, without divulging any client confidences, and I give him an update on how Peanut ate and napped today.

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7:43 p.m.  Done with dinner.  We clear the table and I quickly clean up the kitchen.  Fortunately, I’ve stayed on top of it all day, so I don’t have much to do.  (Sometimes I feel like I’m beating back dirty dishes with a stick.)  I load up the dishwasher for another run, hand wash the paring knife that I used for Peanut’s kiwi and the non-stick sauté pan from dinner, wipe down the counters and I’m done.  I make myself a cup of Yogi bedtime tea, and the kitchen is closed for the night.

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8:02 p.m.  Ahhhhh – finally!  I hit the couch and I don’t plan to move until I go upstairs for bed.  Hubby has a Sabres game on, and I keep an eye on the boys while sipping my tea and reading Naughty in Nice.  Georgie has landed herself in a sticky situation this time.  Can’t wait to see how she gets out of it.

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9:30ish p.m.  Upstairs for the before-bed routine.  Hubby turns the game off and heads up too.

9:42 p.m.  Lights out.  I’m zonked.  These are long days, but at the same time, they’re so much fun and they seem to fly by.  Time to get some sleep so I can wake up to do it all again tomorrow.

Merry Christmas!

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“It came without ribbons!  It came without tags!
It came without packages, boxes or bags!”
And he puzzled three hours, till his puzzler was sore.
Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before!
“Maybe Christmas,” he thought, “
doesn’t come from a store.
“Maybe Christmas… perhaps… means a little bit more!”

~Dr. Seuss

Merry Christmas, friends!  I’m off to enjoy some family time.  I hope you all have a sparkling, joyful day.  Cheers!

#Middlemarch13 – Vol. V and VI

Middlemarch

Volume V – The Dead Hand

The fifth book, “The Dead Hand,” focuses mainly on Dorothea and Casaubon’s marriage, which is continuing to deteriorate.  When the volume opens, Dorothea has decided to seek out Lydgate and find out exactly what he has told Casaubon about the nature of his illness.  Dorothea presents herself at Lydgate’s house, where she does not find the doctor, but she does find his wife entertaining Will Ladislaw.  Confused and dismayed, wondering how many other women (aside from herself and Rosamond Lydgate) have entertained Ladislaw alone, Dorothea flees to the fever hospital, where she finds Lydgate.  Lydgate confirms that he has given Casaubon the full information about his condition, and then solicits a donation to the hospital from Dorothea.

Knowing that Casaubon is aware of his condition, Dorothea devotes her attention to keeping the old windbag as calm and serene as possible.  Casaubon, for his part, has decided that he must involve Dorothea more fully in his work if he is to have a chance of completing his Key to All Mythologies before he goes to see for himself which mythologies are true.  He keeps Dorothea busy, even waking her up in the middle of the night to read and make notes for him.  One night, Casaubon is oddly energized.  He asks Dorothea to promise him that after he departs this life, she will not do anything which he finds “repugnant.”  Basically, he wants to tie her down even as a widow.  Dorothea balks at giving this promise in the middle of the night and assures Casaubon that she will answer him the next day.  She believes that he intends to extract a promise from her that she will carry on his work after he is gone.  Dorothea has started to doubt the genius of the Key to All Mythologies, and she has no interest in being yoked to the project for the rest of her life – even if she would have happily helped a living Casaubon with it as long as necessary.  (My personal feeling is that Casaubon was thinking of Will Ladislaw when he asked for this promise – but such a thought doesn’t enter Dorothea’s somewhat naïve mind.)

The next morning, Dorothea still doesn’t feel ready to give her answer.  Casaubon informs her that he is going for a walk and she can come to find him when she’s ready.  Pitying the old grump, Dorothea decides that she will promise Casaubon whatever he wants.  She hurries out to the yew tree walk, where she finds her husband, but (spoiler alert!) it’s too late for her to promise him anything.

Going through Casaubon’s will, Sir James and Uncle Brooke discover that he recently added a codicil stating that all of the property he was leaving to Dorothea would be forfeit upon her marriage to Will Ladislaw… but not anyone else.  Sir James and Mr. Brooke are shocked and disgusted by the codicil, which they consider ungentlemanly.  They worry that Dorothea’s reputation will be compromised by the imputation, which all Middlemarch will take, that there is something inappropriate between her and Will Ladislaw.  Dorothea, when she learns of the codicil, is shocked as well, and dismayed that Casaubon hid this jealousy from her.  As for marrying Will… well, that hadn’t occurred to Dorothea.  (I’ll bet it will now.)  Will, for his part, feels he can’t marry Dorothea unless he makes something of himself.  So… nothing to worry about?  (Famous last words.)

There are a few side trips in this volume, mainly discussing Mr. Brooke’s continuing political aspirations, which serve as a platform for George Eliot to discuss the economic issues of the day (whilst adding a little bit of humor) and Lydgate’s problems with the medical establishment in Middlemarch.  Lydgate’s well-meaning but thoughtless comments about doctors who run up big bills for “cures,” read as harsh criticism by the newcomer, and the local doctors don’t appreciate it – pitting Lydgate and Bulstrode against the rest of the community, and potentially jeopardizing the fever hospital unless they can drum up some more donations and some more visiting physicians.  Oh, and speaking of Bulstrode, he’s purchased Stone Court from Mr. Rigg Featherstone, and seems to be sitting pretty… until Rigg Featherstone’s stepfather, one Mr. Raffles, appears and seems to have something on Mr. Bulstrode.  What kind of damaging information he possesses, I can only begin to speculate… but I’ll bet we find out soon, because Raffles doesn’t seem the type to let go.

Volume VI – The Widow and the Wife

Volume VI sees Dorothea returning to Lowick to take up her role as single mistress of the estate.  She spends the beginning of her widowhood with her sister, Celia, until she can’t stand to spend any more time ogling Celia’s baby.  Meanwhile, Sir James, Mrs. Cadwallader, and the local gentry scheme to marry Dorothea off to a suitable aristocrat.  Their plotting comes from a good place – Casaubon’s unwarranted suspicion, memorialized in his obnoxious codicil, could compromise Dorothea’s reputation and the sooner she gets married again – and to someone appropriate – the better.  Dorothea, for her part, assures Celia that she has no intention of marrying anyone ever again.

Meanwhile, Fred Vincy is in search of a future, too.  Fred’s hopes of marrying Mary Garth appear to hinge on his finding an appropriate career.  Mary has told him, in no uncertain terms, that she will never marry him if he becomes a clergyman – the career his father has sent him to university for – because, let’s face it, we all know that Fred would be an absolutely abominable clergyman.  Fred asks Mr. Farebrother, a Garth family friend and the new Vicar of Lowick, to find out if Mary has any feeling for him whatsoever, regardless of his career – unwittingly putting the poor Vicar in a very uncomfortable position, because he had cherished hopes of making Mary “Mrs. Farebrother” one day.  Mary, also not realizing Farebrother’s feelings for her, admits that she does have feelings for Fred.  That’s all Fred needs to get himself up and on the job market… and he ends up convincing Mary’s father, Mr. Garth, to hire him and teach him the land management business.  Fred’s family is dismayed, thinking he’s chosen a position that will bring him down in the world, but Fred doesn’t care.  As long as he has the hope of winning Mary, he could dig ditches.  (Am I the only one who is kind of starting to root for Fred and Mary?)

Meanwhile, Rosamond Vincy, who married “up” to become Mrs. Lydgate, is going through a bumpy patch.  While entertaining one of Lydgate’s aristocratic relatives, she goes out riding (against Lydgate’s wishes) and ends up losing her pregnancy as a result.  Lydgate waits until Rosamond has recovered before giving her more bad news: they’re deeply in debt and will have to sell off some of their household furnishings.  Rosamond has a not-very-becoming temper tantrum over this.  When I started this book, I was all set to sympathize with Rosamond, but she is seriously bugging me.  I just have no patience with risky pregnancy behavior.  Rosamond, you are dead to me.

Another Middlemarcher who’s having some serious trouble in this volume?  Mr. Bulstrode.  We finally find out the secret that Raffles has been using to blackmail the banker (spoilers ahead!): back in the day, when he was very young, Bulstrode married a wealthy widow and managed to contrive inheriting all of her property, by hiding the fact from her that her runaway daughter was still alive.  (What a jerk!)  He justified this by casting Sarah, the daughter, as an unrighteous enemy of God, and convinced himself that it would be serving God to keep Sarah’s rightful inheritance from her.  Lovely!  /sarcasm.  Turns out, Sarah had a son, and Raffles knows about him, too.  Bulstrode decides that the only way to protect his righteous tush is to bring Sarah’s son in on it, give him some money (although he has “no legal claim” as Bulstrode repeats over and over) and hope he’s satisfied.  But there’s a little wrinkle: Sarah’s son wants nothing to do with the money.  His inheritance came from the proceeds of a business that was, maybe, on the wrong side of the law, and was certainly unsavory, and this young man doesn’t feel that he could preserve his honor or his reputation as a gentleman if he takes this dirty money.  The name of this principled guy?  Will Ladislaw.

Poor Will.  It’s one thing after another for him.  He’s already miserable enough when La Rosamond lets slip the gossip about Casaubon’s codicil – news to Will.  Given these new developments, he decides that he can’t delay leaving Middlemarch anymore, but he feels he has to see Dorothea one more time, to assure her that he’s never done anything blameworthy.  Will and Dorothea are thrown together when she unexpectedly turns up at Uncle Brooke’s house while Will is searching for something in the library, and they both leave the interview pretty discontented.  Will says more than he is really willing to say about his true feelings for Dorothea, and Dorothea (true to form) misinterprets his statements.  She thinks that maybe Will is saying he cares for her… but he could just as easily be talking about Rosamond Lydgate.  Both feel the gulf widening between them (ah, young love and its inability to just say what it really means!) and the volume ends with Dorothea returning to Lowick and Will quitting Middlemarch – forever, he believes.

Thoughts Thus Far

Ugh, Casaubon.  What a creep!  It’s bad enough that he made Dorothea miserable while he was alive – he has to control her from beyond the grave, too?  Jerrrrrrrrk.  As I tweeted, the lawyer in me immediately started brainstorming ways that Dorothea could get around the codicil.  (“Gift” Will all the property, and then marry him?)  Too bad I don’t know anything about the justice system in 1830s England.  And too bad those two can’t seem to just say what they mean to each other.

And double ugh, Rosamond!  I want to pity her – after all, she’s never known anything but indulgence, so why should she be expected to immediately grasp the necessity of budgeting?  But I just can’t get on board with this spoiled brat.  Rosamond’s selfishness has too many consequences – plunging Lydgate into debt, causing her to lose a pregnancy because she capriciously went riding with Mr. Rich Relation – for me to feel for her.  Even though Lydgate is partially to blame for his financial problems, he has my hearty sympathies for being stuck with this harpy.

Are you following along with #Middlemarch13?  What did you think of Volumes V and VI?  Lots of action here!  Stay tuned for the conclusion of the readalong, coming next Monday.