Nugget: Five Months

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I had to go back and double check this one, because how can it be five months already?  Shouldn’t I be writing a four month update?  Nope – already did that.  This little guy is getting so big, so fast, and I just want time to slow down a little bit.

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What a month Nugget had!  We were on the go in a big way – first a trip to Albany for several days leading up to, and culminating in, my cousin’s wedding, and Nugget’s first experience with a babysitter.  (A very dear family friend watched both kids while Steve and I were at the wedding, and while I knew they were in wonderful, loving, capable hands, I was kind of afraid they’d eat her alive.  They didn’t – thank goodness.)  Then back to Buffalo for a few days, and on to DC and the Outer Banks for a beach vacation – Nugget’s first out of state travel!

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He was a champ – eating and napping on the fly, enduring multiple rounds of sunscreen application, being passed around from family member to family member, bouncing on my lap through innumerable restaurant meals – and he kept up his happy, cheerful personality the whole time.  I was so proud of him for being such a good traveler!

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Actually, on the topic of sunscreen – it turns out Nugget really enjoys having it put on.  Especially on his face.  He loves the feeling of having his cheeks rubbed and squished.  My kid is so weird.

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Lap naps are fun anywhere, but they’re especially relaxing on a beach chair.  And the ocean – the actual ocean! – is the best white noise maker out there.

Nugget at 5 Months:

Weight: 13 lbs, 14.5 oz (although he feels heavier, so I’m wondering if I messed up somehow)

Height: 25 inches cooperative

Clothing Size: Still in six months, although his little onesies are starting to look suspiciously short again.  What gives, Nugget?  Didn’t I just buy these?

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Sleep: Nothing new to report.  Still no schedule; still no crib naps.  I’m not so worried about the lap napping – daycare will browbeat that out of him in short order, so might as well give him all the snuggles now.  But we desperately need some sort of a bedtime routine.  Nugget has no interest in going into his crib before 11:00 p.m.  He’s generally not fussy (at least, not for me) but he wants to hang out and will have no part of an earlier bedtime.  It’s been tough on all concerned.  I’ve been picking up a lot of extra slack at bedtime as Steve has been traveling or busy at work, and Peanut is dealing with a major sleep regression of her own.  It has me so drained that I’ve been physically ill a few days, and I’ve simply got to bank a little more sleep before I go back to work next month.  We brought the issue up with the pediatrician, who wasn’t concerned – he said that some kids just need less sleep than others, and since Nugget is growing really well he might just be one of those kids.  To which we replied, that’s great for him, but in the meantime Mom and Dad are delirious!  I just keep reminding myself that there will come a day when he wants me to drop him off a block away from the movie theater, and try to enjoy the extra snuggles now.

Likes: Having sunscreen applied (seriously, what a weirdo!).  Related: having his face smooshed around and his arms and legs rubbed.

Dislikes: His car seat.  Sigh.  This was a big issue when we drove to North Carolina and back.  The trip from DC to Buffalo was particularly brutal.  Nugget cried almost the entire time.  I felt awful for him, and for the rest of us too.

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Favorite Toys: Still really enjoying the play gym!  It’s great to have something to lay him on that engages him and holds his interest for a little while.  I love to sit next to him and rattle the toys for him, and watch him crack up.

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Milestones: So many this month!  Lots of laughing, especially at Peanut – she’s the funniest.  And, exciting stuff, he’s found his FEET!  They’re not quite as exciting as hands, which are still seriously the COOLEST EVER, MOM, but they’re pretty great.  He’s gotten his toes in his mouth a few times, and I often find him holding his foot and giggling.  Seriously so cute.  As for non-developmental milestones, we had a lot this month.  First trip across the state; first time being left with a babysitter; first trip to DC (and first time visiting a museum); meeting tons of friends; meeting his uncle and aunt for the first time; first boat/ferry ride; first BEACH VACATION!  I’m exhausted just typing all of that out!

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Quirks: I’ve started calling him Rico Suave Baby.  Seriously, this guy is smoooooooth.  You know that guy who does the yawn-stretch-arm-around-the-shoulders routine in the movie theater?  (We’ve all dated that guy, right?)  Well, that dude could take lessons from Nugget.  The kid has moves.  I can’t even count the number of times I’ve been sitting with him in my lap and suddenly found my thumb in his mouth, with no memory of it getting there.  He’s gotten good at just guiding the knuckle right into his little jaws and getting to work before you even know what has happened.  I’m telling you: smooth.

Now we’re back in Buffalo getting ready to enjoy one final month at home together before my maternity leave ends – sniff – and I’m back in the office.  I’m already dreading the transition.  He’ll probably handle it better than I will!  In the meantime, I have lots of fun Mommy-and-Nugget adventures planned for this month – and I can’t believe that the next update I’ll write will be SIX months!

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Happy five months, little man!  Stop growing so fast.  Seriously.

OBX Trip 2015: DC Day 1

At last, at last, at last I have some travel to recap!  We hadn’t been on a “real” vacation (read: of a week or more) since 2011.  There have been weekend getaways here and there, but never enough time to really get away and unplug.  So this was long overdue, and I swore all vacation long that I will never let this much time go by, ever again, without getting away.  It’s just too important for our family’s well-being!  Prepare for a loooooooong post.

Anyway, we had a very special trip planned for this summer.  My parents recently celebrated their fortieth wedding anniversary, and they wanted a trip in which we would all come together on the Outer Banks – Hatteras Island, specifically – in North Carolina.  Hatteras was our favorite vacation destination when my brother and I were kids, and we went almost every year, for a week, starting when my brother was only two years old.  Now I have the two-year-old, and my brother is grown and married, and it felt like such a great opportunity to come full circle.  But before we get there, we have to get there!  Steve and I talked about it and decided that the drive from Buffalo to North Carolina was simply too far to do in one shot with two tinies, and we had to break it up.  And what better place to break up the drive than DC, our old home base?  We headed down a few days before we were expected in OBX and took the opportunity to see friends and visit some of our old favorite haunts.  This was the first time we had been back since we moved away two years ago, and this visit also felt long overdue.

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We rolled into DC just around dinner time on Thursday evening, and lucky for us we had plans to eat at one of our very favorite DC spots – our friend Stephen’s house!  Stephen lived in Switzerland for years and he makes killer fondue.  Stephen was one of Steve’s co-workers in DC, and he often hosted the gang at his house for fondue nights.  When Steve told him that we would be in town, he immediately suggested fondue and we, of COURSE, agreed.

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This crew, more than any others, were the closest thing we had to family in DC.  I know Steve loves this group so much, and I love them too.  Although I didn’t work with them, they always made me feel so welcome at happy hours, dinners, and get-togethers – and that was the case with all of the other spouses and significant others, too.  Between the core group of coworkers and all the husbands, wives and sig-os, we are a pretty big, loud, and I think FUN, group.  People have come and gone over the years – we’ve lost one to Las Vegas, one to Seattle, and of course our family has moved too.  And there are a few who are still in the DC area but have moved on to other jobs.  But when we all get together, it’s as if no time has passed.  I miss them so much.

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Between this group and some of my other friends, there have been six babies born in DC since we left – all girls!  (I joked that, had we stayed, Nugget probably would have been a girl too.)  So “meeting the new baby girls” became the unofficial theme of the weekend, and I couldn’t have been more excited to both snuggle those other new babies and introduce my own little guy to some of my favorite people.

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(I did snap plenty of pictures of the other little cuties, but I’m sure you will understand – I’m not sharing pictures of any kids but my own.)

On the way back from dinner we drove by some of DC’s most beautiful spots all lit up.  (Please pardon the grainy snapped-from-a-moving-car pics.)

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On Friday morning we woke up excited to revisit some of our favorite spots.  After a quick breakfast at our hotel (we chose not to subject any of our friends – many of whom graciously offered to host us – to our noisy children this time) we headed out to Steve’s favorite place in DC – the Smithsonian Air and Space Museum!

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We’ve taken Peanut here in the past, but she was just a little baby.  Steve was excited to share it with her now that she can enjoy and experience more.

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Nugget enjoyed checking out the people and the sights, too.

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Peanut is apparently really into planes lately.  Steve kept trying to steer her toward the space exploration parts of the museum, but she insisted on returning to the planes over and over.  Like mother, like daughter!  (Newer friends: I love airplanes – although I’m actually a nervous flier – and used to work in the airline industry.)

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The Spirit of St. Louis! And an early American Airlines bird.

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Peanut had a ball.  She basically went insane in the museum.  At one point I tried to sit her down in a group of children to listen to a story and she popped up and started running in circles and shouting “Gaga! Gaga! Gaga!”  She pretty much lost the ability to speak English, ha.

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After Air & Space we meandered out onto the Mall.

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The Washington Monument is looking great!  Last time I saw it, it was covered in scaffolding – repairs from the 2011 earthquake (that was a frightening day – I was up on the eighth floor of an office building, getting ready to defend a deposition, when the entire building started to rock; we thought it was a terrorist attack).  But…

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Now my beloved Capitol Dome was covered in scaffolds!  Sigh.  Someday I’ll get back here and see all of my favorite spots at their best.

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Our next stop was my favorite museum – the National Gallery of Art!

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I stopped by to visit Ginevra de Benci – the only da Vinci in the USA – and then headed straight for the French Impressionists.  Monet is my absolute favorite.

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(^Been there!)

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Some garden inspiration?  Maybe in my next house.

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This is my favorite Monet painting.  I had a poster version in my bedroom as a teenager.

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Of course, we also visited the Degas paintings for Peanut.  She loved the ballerinas.

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After a busy morning, we’d earned a fabulous lunch.  And there is no more fabulous lunch spot than…

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Teaism!  We walked over to the Penn Quarter location.  I used to eat lunch at this location all. the. time. when I worked for the federal government.

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Steve ordered a bento box and I had the most ridiculous tea-cured salmon sandwich ever.  This thing was gigantic.  Don’t ask me how, but I managed to eat the entire thing while holding a squirming baby.  I also got a side of tomato-mint salad, which I will be recreating at home, and a Salty Oat cookie.  I was too full for the cookie, so it went to waste – sadly.  Steve sipped on a ginger limeade and I had Zhenzhou Pearls.  It was all delicious.

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We spent the afternoon walking around Georgetown, trying to walk off the gigantic lunch and make room for a special dinner.  We did treat ourselves to some macarons, though.

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(Lavender vanilla.  Oh, yes.)

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From Georgetown we headed to Dupont Circle – my other old work neighborhood – and puttered around while we waited for our dinner date.  First we stopped by my old office and introduced Nugget to my former co-workers; it was so wonderful to see them all again.  I miss them too much.  Then…

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When in Dupont, you must visit Kramerbooks!  This was my favorite DC bookstore, and I used to eat at Afterwords, the attached cafe, quite often.  (Didn’t happen on this trip, sadly.  Something for next time.)

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While Nugget and I wandered around checking out the offerings, Peanut and Steve parked it and read selections from the children’s section.

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Finally it was time to head to dinner – at Pizzeria Paradiso!

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This was our favorite DC pizza, and I haven’t found its equal anywhere.  We usually frequented the Old Town Alexandria location, but the friend we were meeting requested that we meet in the city instead and so we gladly headed for the original Dupont location.

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I attempted to get a picture of Peanut in front of this DC map, but she was not in the mood to cooperate.  (And yes, this is all the same day, although Peanut is wearing a different outfit.)

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Oh, well.  Olives!

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We studied the menu intently…

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And ultimately decided on a Margherita pizza.  (Hubby ordered a beer – I don’t know what – and I had my favorite sparkling lemonade, which I could totally drink every day.)

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Even better than the pizza (which was amazing, don’t get me wrong) was the company – my best friend from law school, Carly, and her husband and new baby (girl, obviously)!  I know Nugget loved snuggling up in Carly’s arms.

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It was a perfect way to end a perfect day.  I just wish we lived closer and could see these people and sights all the time.  But we made the most of our limited time there.  Coming up soon – day two of our DC fun!

Kuplink, Kuplank, Kuplunk: Blueberry Picking Adventures

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Going to pick-your-own farms is one of my favorite family activities.  We always make a point of going apple-picking in the fall and visiting a pumpkin patch just before Halloween, but this year I also wanted to do some berry picking.  I used to pick strawberries and blueberries with my grandparents, and I think it’s such a fun family summer activity.  This year, Peanut was big enough that I felt she would actually enjoy it, and a new summer tradition is born.

We went to Awald Farms in North Collins, NY.  I did some research before choosing a place and was impressed with Awald’s website and with their selection of U-pick options.  We’d missed strawberry season, sadly, but Awald currently has available blueberries and multiple varieties of raspberries.  They also have a farm store and a nursery.  I didn’t get any pictures of the nursery, but it was huge and the plants looked beautiful – I think I may be coming here to stock my garden next spring.  But that’s beside the point.  Basically, I was really, really impressed with Awald’s operation and we will definitely be back.

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My fellow pickers: Peanut, Nana, and Nugget.  (Well, Nugget didn’t pick – he was actually kind of a liability, albeit an adorable one.)  No Daddy, sadly – he was out of town attending to some family business.  But we had such a great time that I think we’ll try to go again before the end of the season, so that he can get in on the fun too.

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We brought Peanut’s little sand pail and they weighed it so that she could have the fun of using her own bucket – so nice and accommodating!  Peanut was all business.

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She didn’t quite understand that the green berries weren’t ripe yet, and we spent a lot of time trying to dissuade her from chowing down on unripe fruit.  But she had a ball picking and she actually did quite well with putting most of the berries in her bucket and not in her mouth.

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Of course, a good number of berries found their way into her tummy before the morning was over.  Prior to entering the fields, I asked one of the employees what the policy is on eating directly from the bush.  I explained that while I would do my best to control my child, she is a toddler, and I expected that she would be trying to eat berries from the bushes, and I asked if they had a way for me to pay for what she ate from the bush.  The friendly employees assured me that it was okay if Peanut ate some blueberries, that everyone did it, and that they didn’t expect me to prevent a two-year-old from eating in the field.  Big sigh of relief.

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Nugget didn’t love blueberry picking.  He insisted on being walked up and down the rows until he fell asleep (eventually).  Nana took one for the team and did most of the Nugget-wrangling so I could enjoy picking with Peanut.  Wasn’t that nice of her?

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After we had filled our buckets, we sat down in the grass and enjoyed a few more bites of blueberries before it was time to head home for lunch and nap.

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Some of us were more exhausted than others…

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But a good time was had by all.

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What a fun way to spend a morning!  I kept on shouting things like “This is so much fun!” and “Oh, I LOVE this!”  I knew I was a broken record, but I just couldn’t help myself – it was such a wonderful morning.  I think blueberry picking is going to become one of our must-do summer activities (and hopefully strawberry picking, too, and raspberry picking when the kids are a bit older – they’re still too small to negotiate the brambles).  I mean, seriously, is there a better way to spend a sun-drenched summer morning than surrounded by sweet, beautiful berries?

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No, there isn’t.

Do you enjoy berry picking, too?  Did you make it out for strawberry season, or did you miss it like we did?

Taste of Buffalo 2015

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Taste of Buffalo!  It’s one of the premier events of the summer around here (we went last year and had a blast) when local restaurants, food trucks and wineries congregate in downtown Buffalo and we get to sample all kinds of delicious treats.  Last year, we went in with a plan and did three loops – one to check out the scene, one for savory sampling, and one for sweet.  This year, with a two-year-old and a baby, we knew that was not going to be possible.  So our goal was to make one loop through, tasting savory on our way up Delaware and sweet on our way back down, and be home in time for afternoon nap.  It was a challenge, but we were up to it.

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Our first stop, OF COURSE, was Lloyd’s Taco Truck.  I love Lloyd’s!  The tacos are magnificent, and it’s up there with my favorite DC food trucks as far as quality of food goes.  (I’m not sure there’s a food truck in the world that could replace the DC lobster truck in my heart, but Lloyd’s comes close.)

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Hubby and I split a chicken taco, and I got my own half order of krazy korn.  Dudes.  This corn.  Is.  Amazing.  Charred corn on the cob seasoned with chile sauce and liberally sprinkled with cheese, doused with crema, and finished with cilantro.  Does it get better?  I made it clear that the krazy korn was MINE and if anyone else wanted some they would have to GET THEIR OWN.

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Look who else was enjoying the Lloyd’s bounty!  Nana was in town for the weekend to visit with the tinies and provide extra hands while hubby was away (he left town for a few days to attend to some family business; he’s back now).  She tried a beef taco and said it was delicious.

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From Lloyd’s we wandered around the circle, tasting as we went.  We tried the Buffalo mac ‘n cheese from 716 Food and Sport (a newcomer to the scene, and we have to check out the restaurant!) – verdict: good but spicy.  And we stopped by Ebenezer Ale House for Bavarian pretzels.  Peanut was all over that.

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I did my homework before the Taste, and I knew I wanted to hit Osteria 166 as well.  This is one of my favorite downtown restaurants, and I especially love their salads.  (I don’t know what they put in them that’s so good, but they’re seriously addictive.  And if you think I’m exaggerating because salads can’t possibly be addictive, well, you haven’t had these.)

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They also were serving meatballs and risotto sticks, but obviously I went for the arugula salad.  It was incredible.  So fresh and flavorful.  I fed hubby bites of arugula and he enjoyed it too, although I don’t think he loved it quite as much as I did.  I was practically weeping, it was so delicious.

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And my other must-stop: Merge.  Another favorite downtown restaurant, Merge specializes mainly in really, really good vegetarian food.  (There’s a little bit of poultry and seafood on their menu, but it’s mostly vegetarian or vegan.  We love it.)  I was actually still pretty hungry by the time we got to Merge, because Nana and hubby were tasting a lot of beef and pork dishes, which I don’t eat.  So I took advantage of the opportunity to fill my tummy a bit and ordered two dishes:

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Seitan barbeque wings, which were good, and…

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Bean curd tostada, which was phenomenal.  I could have eaten three more.  On the way back we stopped for Charlap’s ice cream and Paula’s donuts – no pictures, but both were delish.  All in all, a successful Taste this year.  Some good vegetarian food, an Osteria 166 salad, and Lloyd’s – how can you go wrong?

Does your city have a local tasting event?  Is it a must-attend on your summer calendar, too?

Nugget: Four Months

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Dudes, it is seriously blowing my mind that Nugget has been here for A THIRD OF A YEAR.  And if you consider the fact that we found out last July that we were expecting him, he’s been in our lives in one form or another for almost an entire year now.  (That math is confusing me, but anyway.)  I already can’t imagine life without him.

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Nugget gets more and more fun each day.  His little personality is really coming out and it’s such a cool thing to watch him grow into himself.  The other day, hubby remarked on how Nugget prefers to be held in a different way from Peanut when she was his age.  I said, “No surprise there, he’s a different person.”  And while that’s obvious, it’s also really neat.  He’s a person!  A teeny, tiny, but very real, PERSON!

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New nickname this month: Three Sneezio.  He doesn’t do it every time, but maybe 60% of the time he sneezes, he sneezes in threes.  It’s hilarious.  I think he gets it from me, because I almost always sneeze in twos.  So he’s more talented, of course.

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We’ve had a lot of fun this month and been out and about as usual.  We’ve been walking in East Aurora most sunny days, and we took Nugget for his first visit to Canalside on the fourth of July.  He’s also taken his first dip in the pool, and of course done plenty of this…

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Lots of lap napping while I read.  I love turning the pages while he snuggles in my arms.  Seriously, is there a better way to read?  Because I can’t think of one.  I’m constantly taking breaks to snap pictures of him, though.  I love, love, watching him sleep.  But it always seems like my pictures don’t look like him.  The one above, I was actually satisfied with.

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Nugget is a happy, fun little guy.  He’s sweet and cuddly and a blast to hang out with.  I never get tired of seeing his eyes light up when I pick him up in the mornings – I might be exhausted (oh, and I am exhausted) but I wouldn’t trade a moment spent with this guy.  He’s my joy.

Nugget at 4 Months

Weight: 13 lbs, 11 oz 

Height: 24.5 inches

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Clothing Size: Officially in 6 months now.  That seems gigantic to me, but I have to remind myself that it’s a range.  6 months really means 3-6 months, so he’s growing into these clothes at about the right time.  Peanut always grew into a new size at the very tail end of the range.  Nugget isn’t a huge guy, but he’s bigger than Peanut was, so it shouldn’t surprise me that he keeps growing into new clothes.  On the plus side, I get to buy him the cutest little t-shirts and shorts.  Baby cargo shorts.  ‘Nuff said.

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Sleep:  Kill me now.  Seriously.  Okay, I think he’s probably a pretty normal baby, but man alive it sure seems like he’s the world’s worst sleeper.  We’ve unswaddled him – had to, it was time, although he still has a little bit of startle reflex left – and he’s hit the dreaded four month sleep regression, which means the entire household is currently stumbling around in a haze.  (Well, except for Peanut, who is blissfully ignorant of this – one blessing.)  Naps are almost non-existent and have to happen in my arms if they’re going to happen at all.  Every once in awhile we get a swing nap, but the crib is out of the question.  I love having him nap in my arms, though, and I’m sure he will adapt when he gets to daycare, so it’s not the naps that are the real issue.  (Although sometimes he battles even the lap naps, which can be hard.)  But it’s night that really give us fits.  I start trying to put him down at 7:00, and it’s a major tug-of-war until he finally succumbs, usually, around 10:00.  There is walking, bouncing, shushing, dream-feeding – I pull out my entire bag of tricks every single night.  If we’re lucky he’ll finally hit the crib around 10:00 and stay there until his middle-of-the-night feeding (still anywhere from 1:30 or so to 4:30 or so).  If we’re not lucky, he’ll wake up and drag Daddy out of bed for more family bonding until midnight.  Nugget is sleeping about as much as I am at night, which is to say, not nearly enough.  I know it’s temporary, but I am WIPED OUT.

Likes: Tummy rubs and kisses, the Decemberists (yeah!), swimming in the pool (as long as the water isn’t too cold), his hands, his sister!

Dislikes: When Mommy leaves the room.  He’s just beginning to realize that he and I are different people, and he definitely doesn’t like when I put him down and leave the room – which I have to do, sometimes.  We’re basically attached at the hip most hours of the day, but if I need to go to the restroom or refill my water, I just have to set him down for a moment and he definitely lets me know that he doesn’t appreciate that.

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Favorite Toys: Exciting stuff!  Nugget has finally realized that his play gym is not, in fact, an instrument of torture – and actually, it’s fun!  He’s been enjoying batting at the dangling toys and cooing at the animals on the mat.  Cutest thing ever.  And fortunately, it’s sturdy, because… ahem… Peanut likes it too.

Milestones: Another major holiday celebrated this month – Nugget’s first fourth of July!  I hope he loves that holiday as much as I do.  He’s also continued to have fun with his hands, which he found last month, and he’s gotten really good at rolling over.

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Quirks: Back when Peanut was a baby, another mom and I were talking about their little predilections to favor one particular consonant when they really get a good wail going.  This other baby liked the letter L, so her cries sounded like “Laaaaaaaaaa!  Laaaaaaaaaa!” and prompted her mom to nickname her “Lala.”  Peanut favored N – “Nyahhhhhhh!  Nyahhhhhhh!”  I was interested to see what consonants Nugget would use when crying.  He seems to like M and W, both of which are hilarious when he really gets going.  Many of his cries are actually “Wahhhhhhhhhh!” – it’s as if he is following some crying baby script.  But even funnier are the cries that sound like “Mooooooooooooommmmmmmm!”  Of course I go racing to soothe him, but I’m also cracking up a little bit at his “Wah” and “Mom” cries.  It’s sad, but so funny.

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Oh, I do love this little guy.

Fourth of July Weekend 2015

It’s a birthday party!  The fourth of July is one of my favorite holidays.  In fact, it probably competes with Christmas for the top spot.  When I was growing up, we spent every fourth of July at my parents’ lake house, and we did the day right.  Fireworks (some years we watched from our boat, other years from the beach), sparklers, barbeque, bonfire.  Y’all know I love summer, and the fourth of July is the quintessential summer day.  Last year we sort of missed out on celebrating, as we were attending a wedding that day (in the middle of a hurricane) and while I was so happy for the friends getting married, a piece of my heart was at the lake, of course.  (It was raining there, too, so I guess we didn’t miss much.)  Anyway, since we missed out on Independence Day fun last year, I was determined to make up for it this year.  Warning: photo bomb ahead.  We just had so much fun, I couldn’t stop snapping pictures.

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We kicked off our weekend in traditional fourth of July style, at a Japanese restaurant.  Okay, that’s not traditional.  But it sure was delicious.

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Peanut was mischievous.

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And Nugget was cuddly.  He’s getting good at guiding what he wants to his mouth.  Usually, what he wants is my hand.  Anyway, while Nugget enjoyed a knuckle sandwich, we enjoyed a tasty Japanese dinner at Sato.  Hubby put together an amazing looking sushi spread, but I went for the ramen.  Sato is a relatively new addition to the Buffalo dining scene and they’re already justifiably famous around here, because of the ramen.  I ordered the veggie ramen with fried tofu, and it was AMAZING.  (I’ve had it before, but without the tofu.  Adding it this time was inspired.  The tofu was the best part and I’ll definitely get it again.)  Peanut ate buttered ramen noodles, a side of avocado, and a piece of California roll.

I don’t have any pictures from Friday – we spent the day lounging around the house.  Peanut and hubby swam in the pool, Nugget and I snoozed in the rocker, and I read.  It was a nice, cozy, relaxing day – just what we needed.  On to Saturday.

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Nugget had a tough night on Friday, so hubby nicely let me sleep in on Saturday.  I came down to this adorable scene – Nugget napping in his swing, and Peanut lounging in an impossible position and watching Super Why.  I dunno, this doesn’t look like a comfortable way to watch TV, but I guess it is.  I fed Nugget, got my own breakfast, fed Nugget again, and then we were off to Canalside.

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Fourth of July doesn’t feel quite right to me unless it’s spent by the water.  I’ve passed one or two fourths without finding my way to the waterfront and it always seems like something is missing.  Knowing that I like to celebrate Independence Day around the water, hubby suggested that we explore Canalside.  It’s been awhile since we were last there, and they’ve since put the finishing touches on the canals, and the big recreation area is pretty much done.  (They’re still working on a big, nice new hotel, but that doesn’t really impact our enjoyment of the area right now.)  So we headed downtown.

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Our first stop was the big sand pit.  This is a large area filled with sand and sand toys, and it’s always bumping.  In fact, as we approached the sand pit we saw two of my Stroller Strides friends, who were there soaking up the sun and fun with their husbands and little ones.  What fun to randomly bump into them!  Peanut got to play with her buddies for a bit, hubby got to meet the other dads (he’s met some of the Stroller Strides dads, but not these two) and I chatted with my friends and introduced them to Nugget.  (Stroller Strides ended last fall, when I was pregnant, so Nugget has never gotten the fun of attending a class – poor guy).  They snuggled him and we planned a workout, then they were off to search out live music while we stayed and enjoyed the sand for a little bit longer.  I called it a day when I saw a cup of sand inching its way toward Peanut’s mouth, and we wandered off to look at the boats.

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There were tons of people out kayaking and water biking around the area, and I was itching to get in a kayak myself.  We’ve been talking about kayaking as a fun date night activity, but we need to coordinate babysitters.  Maybe later this summer?
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BFLO Harbor Kayak rents stand up paddleboards, too!  Another thing I really want to try.

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We had a great time looking at the boats and the water, and then hubby suggested wandering down to see the completed canals.

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But first I wanted to get some pictures of the kids in the Adirondack chairs that dot the Canalside area.

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Peanut was delighted to be getting to hold Nugget.  Nugget, while he adores his sister, wasn’t convinced that this was the best idea.  You sure about this, Mom and Dad?

Canalside is the terminus of the Erie Canal, but it’s become more about recreation than business.  A local group has been renovating it for years now, and last fall they put the finishing touches on a new canal area, just in time to open the canals for ice skating.  With Peanut being so little, and me being so pregnant, we didn’t skate there – but I know we will be there next winter!  It was such a cool area.

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The new canals were adorable – shallow and winding.  I can see how they’d be fun for skating in the winter, but in the summer it was all about the BOATS.

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Remote control mini sailboats!  Too fun.

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We walked the perimeter of the new canal area, and then it was time to head home. We were all a little loopy from the sun…

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And we crashed hard when we got home.

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Afternoon naps over, we threw together a very casual dinner, then did the normal bath and bedtime routine (or not-bedtime, if you’re Nugget).  And then it was time for another favorite fourth of July tradition…

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ALIENS!!!!!  Yes, I do watch Independence Day every fourth of July (and sometimes in between, too – it’s a classic).  I have a thing for nineties disaster movies, what can I say?  So much fun.  Love Will Smith – “I could’ve been at a BARBEQUE!”  And Bill Pullman – yum.  How does he keep his hair so perfect, even after flying in a raging air battle against evil alien invaders?  That’s talent.  Hubby thinks that my need to watch Independence Day every year is completely ridiculous, but he indulges me anyway.  Nice guy, knows what’s good for him.

On Sunday I woke up to this happy face…

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…and then we headed out for a short family hike to Knox Farm.

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We could sort of tell that Peanut wasn’t going to make it through our favorite extended loop, so we just did a short loop around the near stand of trees.  It was enough for a good stretch and…

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Nugget crashed hard. He didn’t even wake up when I took him out of the Ergo – it took buckling him back into his car seat for that.  And then he promptly fell back asleep and snoozed through our quick family errand (Lowe’s, for a new market umbrella – our old one didn’t survive the move – and a pot for me to move my basil into).  We headed home and spent the rest of the afternoon alternating between lap napping and cooking.

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Later on Sunday afternoon, my inlaws came by for a swim in our pool, and dinner on the patio.  No pics of the swim, because I was having too much fun dunking, treading water, dipping Nugget’s little toes in the pool, and checking out the shark (floating pool thermometer) with Peanut.  But dinner was definitely photo-worthy.

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Raw corn salad, roasted cauliflower salad, pulled chicken on Costanzo’s rolls (a WNY institution), and watermelon.  And for dessert…

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A s’mores tart.  Does it get more all-American than that?  I doubt it.

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Best enjoyed poolside, with the summer sun just starting to set.

Happy (belated) birthday, America!  Hope all of my friends had a fun and safe party weekend.

 

Garden Update

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Wow!  I can’t believe it’s been a month since Peanut and I planted our garden.  As expected, some things are growing well and other things… aren’t.  This year is all about learning what works and what doesn’t, and hopefully after the season ends I’ll have some good knowledge to build on next year.  So, with that, here’s how things currently stand:

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The lettuces (one pot of red leaf and one of mixed leaf) are doing well.  I worry that they’re a little crowded in the pots, but they must be happy enough because they’re consistently producing plenty of nice, tender leaves.  I’ve plucked quite a few salads from these pots and the lettuces grow right back.  At this rate it’s looking as though I won’t have to buy salad greens all summer, and I couldn’t be more delighted about that.

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The herbs are a mixed pot… errrrrr, bag.  I knew when I planted the mint I knew there was a chance it would try to take over the entire pot, and that does appear to be what it’s attempting to do.    It’s probably claimed a third of the pot for itself and the rest of the herbs are trying to hold onto a little of their own.  The parsley is doing okay, but not great; the dill and rosemary appear to be fighting back and hanging on; but the poor basil has, I think, bolted.  I probably should have planted the mint in its own pot – next year, I will – and now I’m trying to figure out how to rescue the basil.  I’m not sure if moving it to its own pot will do the trick at this point, or if it’s a losing battle.  The good news is, mint is my favorite herb.

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The strawberries are growing decently well.  Every couple of weeks, we seem to be getting a little handful.  (These were eaten, so we don’t have anything right now, but I’m sure we will soon.)  We’re not going to get enough at any one time for me to make a dessert out of them – we’d need a few more plants for that, I think – but it’s fun to have them growing out there and to pluck a few now and then.

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The tomatoes are not doing very well.  The stalks have grown much taller, but that’s the only progress I’ve seen.  There are several stalks with yellowing leaves and we’re just starting to see a couple of buds – and no little green fruits.  I’m sad that these seem to be struggling, and again I think I may have planted them too close together.  Pruning the stalks, and possibly thinning them out, is high on my list for the next few days.  Hoping that will have some effect.

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As for my gardening buddy, she’s still really enjoying the activity.  I’m careful to space out the tasks on which I include her – I don’t make her help with more complicated stuff, and I don’t drag her out to water with me every day – because I don’t want her to get burnt out on gardening.  She probably joins me in watering every three or so days, and the rest of the time I do it myself.  And I always bring her out to pick with me when I’m grabbing some lettuce or herbs – she loves helping me fill up the colander.  As expected, she enjoys picking (and eating) the strawberries most of all – it’s a challenge to get her to wait until I’ve washed the berries before she takes a big bite.  So cute!

All things considered, this garden is doing about as well as I expected it to.  I have never been a green thumb, and I’m hoping that a little experience will change that.  But the fact that I’ve gotten several salads out of this garden, that I have enough mint to last a lifetime, and that Peanut and I have an activity we’re enjoying, is enough for me to call the experiment a success so far.  Further updates to come as the season progresses!

Do you have a garden this year?  How’s it doing?

The Summer List

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(Picture taken last summer atop Porter Mountain in the Adirondacks.  Just looking at it takes me back there!)

SUMMER!  If asked to choose a favorite season, I’m hard-pressed to decide between summer and fall.  (That’s true for most people, I’d wager.)  While I love many, many things about fall, a really good summer takes on an almost magical quality that can’t be replicated in any other season.  You know what I mean – that deep happiness that comes with long days of sunshine, dips in a cool lake or pool, evenings spent sitting out on the deck watching the fireflies light up the yard like tiny fairy lanterns, epic road trips, songs around a campfire… all the summer essentials.  I live for summer.  I wait for it all year.  And whenever it arrives I resolve to make the most of it.  Some years I do, and some years I don’t.  But I always, always try to come out of summer with a treasure trove of warm, happy memories that I can call upon to sustain me throughout the long, dark winter months ahead.  Summer is my happy place.

Here’s how I hope to make this summer the best yet:

  • Keep enjoying my maternity leave and bonding time with Nugget.  I’m lucky that my employer offers a generous maternity leave policy and that I can afford to take advantage of it.  Nugget is our last baby, so I am really cherishing this time with him.
  • Take a family vacation to the beach!  It has been almost FOUR YEARS since our last vacation.  We’re way overdue.  And this trip is extra-special: we’re joining my parents and my brother and sister-in-law in the Outer Banks, North Carolina, to celebrate my parents’ fortieth wedding anniversary.  The reason for the trip, in and of itself, is special, and so is the destination – we’re going back to the same beach, even the same rental house, that we visited almost every year when my brother and I were growing up.  We have so many memories of this particular beach, and I know my brother is as excited to show this special place to his wife as I am to see my kids (well, realistically, Peanut) playing in the same sands I played in as a kid.
  • Hike to the Eternal Flame.  Closer to home, this is the “quintessential Buffalo hike” and we haven’t done it yet, which seems nuts considering how much we love hiking.  Since part of the hike goes through a stream bed, I think we may leave the kids with the grandparents and make this an adults-only outing.  Maybe for our anniversary?  Speaking of which…
  • Celebrate TEN YEARS of marriage!  I can’t believe hubby and I have been married for almost a decade.  We were practically babies when we tied the knot!  He’s my partner and my best friend and I couldn’t have chosen anyone better as my teammate for life.  We’re trying to come up with some extra-special way to celebrate this milestone.  Can’t wait.
  • Continue our monthly hiking project and take our summer stroll through Reinstein Woods Nature Preserve.  We are having so much fun with both of these resolutions, and I’m so glad that we made a family priority to get out and explore our natural environment.
  • Invest in the East Aurora Cooperative Market.  I’ve had the brochure for member-investors in the planned East Aurora Coop on my desk for who knows how long.  It’s time to take the plunge and help the market get off the ground.
  • Do some small home projects.  Our house has potential but it’s very dated.  I’ve been doing little things here and there – replacing outlet and switch plates, painting the fireplace, installing new handles on the family room built-ins, etc. – and I want to keep up that momentum.  Should be easy; the more I do, the more I see that needs to get done.
  • Re-read Jane of Lantern Hill.  One of my favorite L.M. Montgomery books, and it’s been ages since I last read it.  Jane’s escape from Toronto and summers of fun and freedom with “Dad” on P.E.I. make for the perfect July and August reading.  Oh, and while we’re on the topic of reading…
  • Participate in #BlumeAlong in June and July, and finally join in the Austen in August fun!  I’ve signed on for both reading events – #BlumeAlong, hosted by Kerry of Entomology of a Bookworm, in which we’ll read Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret and Summer Sisters, and Roofbeam Reader’s annual Austen in August.  I’m planning to read Jane’s juvenilia Love and Freindship (how much do you love that Jane misspelled “friendship”?) and either or both of Jane Austen’s England and Jane Austen: A Life in Small Things, as well as re-reading one of the main novels, probably Pride and Prejudice.  So much good reading community to look forward to!
  • Start our playroom re-do.  After almost a year in this house, I finally have a vision for the playroom, and I’m really excited about bringing it to fruition.  I don’t know if this is our forever house, but we’re here now and I’m psyched to give the kids a really special place in which to play, learn and do art projects.

That looks like a good start on summer!  Hope I get to all of these plans.  I think it’ll be a pretty darn good summer either way… especially that long-overdue vacation.  What are you planning for the summer?

The Spring List: Final Update

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Wow!  I can’t believe spring is over.  In a way, it feels like spring never happened – with the way the temperatures jumped up, it was as if we skipped over the season entirely and went straight from winter to summer.  Not that I’m complaining.  Spring is actually my least favorite season.  Give me languid heat any day, especially over spring rains and sneezes.  Anyway, even though it felt more like summer than spring, I put in some time working on my spring list and I’m pretty happy with how much I got done – especially after I’d barely accomplished anything by my mid-season check in.  Here’s how the season ended up shaking out:

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  • Enjoy my maternity leave and get in lots of snuggles and bonding with Nugget.  This one is the easiest and the best, and I’m doing it every day.  Nugget is a sweet, cuddly little guy and I am loving every moment he spends in my arms.

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  • Take a spring hike at Reinstein Woods Nature Preserve.  Done!  We enjoyed seeing Reinstein Woods without a blanket of snow on the ground and had a great time exploring the trails with our favorite hiking buddies, Zan and Paul.

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  • Plant a patio garden (herbs, tomatoes, beans and peas) with Peanut.  Done!  Peanut and I planted herbs, lettuces, tomatoes and strawberries in pots on our patio and we’ve been watering them together each day.  As I expected she would, Peanut has been delighted with this activity, and it’s giving me a great opportunity to talk to her about nature and about our food.  I’m so glad we are doing this!
  • Take a tour of the Roycroft campus in East Aurora.

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  • Continue our family project of hiking in a different place each month.  I’m glad to say we’ve kept up with this goal.  In April, we hiked at Times Beach Nature Preserve; in May, we visited Darien Lakes State Park; and in June we explored Sprague Brook Park.
  • Take Nugget to the “Book Babies” program at our local library.
  • Start training for the Mohawk-Hudson River Marathon (as soon as I’m cleared to exercise again)!  Training is officially underway – my plan started on June 8th.  I have a long way to go before I’ll be ready for this race, and I’m more than a little nervous about the work ahead of me.  Expect to see plenty more marathon chatter over the next few months.

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  • Organize my yarn stash and put together a usable craft closet.  Done!  I spent about an hour sorting and organizing and now I have a space that makes sense to me and is so much more inspiring than the jumble of tangled yarn and loose gift bags that were there before.  In the bin (front left) is my fabric and sewing supplies; the cube bookcase holds my yarn (arranged in rainbow order because that’s how I roll) and on the floor on the right is my wrapping paper storage.  On top of the cube bin I have two milk crates – one holds ribbons and embroidery floss, and the other holds writing paper and cards.  Hanging on the bar are my project and notions bags, and the shelf, from left to right, holds overflow yarn storage, knitting needles (which I’m gradually transitioning from plastic to rosewood – much nicer to knit with) and bags of tissue paper and gift bags.  I got rid of anything I don’t use or won’t finish, and now I’m motivated to actually use all of this stuff.
  • Invite one of Peanut’s school friends over for a playdate.  Done!  One of Peanut’s little pals came over for a morning of playing followed by lunch.  Peanut and her friend had a blast tearing the playroom apart and I enjoyed chatting with Peanut’s friend’s lovely mom.
  • Paint the living room fireplace.  Done!  The ugly green painted faux marble had been grating on my nerves ever since we moved into the house, and after six months it was long past time to do something about it.  I primed and painted it, light layer by light layer, over a few days and I like it so much better now.  (I still want to replace the hideous gold fireplace door with something in a matte black, but just getting rid of the green detailing has made a huge difference.)

Not a bad spring!  Being home on maternity leave has been wonderful – not only do I get to enjoy days on end filled with snuggling my little man, but I’ve been so much more motivated to get things done around the house – hence the home improvement projects and organized craft closet – than I was when I was working long hours and weekends and juggling a lawyer’s schedule with housework and a willful toddler.  I’ll be back to reality eventually, but in the meantime I’m loving every second I get to be at home bonding with my little guy and just recharging my batteries after a long winter and an even longer pregnancy.  Believe me, I know how good I have it!  Coming up on Friday – my summer list, and plans to make this next season the best ever.

Did you make a spring list?  How’d you do?

Nugget: Three Months

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How YOU doin’?

Another Nugget update already?!  Didn’t I just write his two month update?  I guess not, because it’s been a month, and the time is just flying by.  Nugget is the sweetest, snuggliest little guy I’ve ever met, and getting sweeter and snugglier by the day.  (Well, maybe not snugglier – I’m not sure it’s possible, actually, to get any snugglier than he has been since birth.)

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We’ve had a fun month together.  Nugget is getting more and more interactive.  He’s started to coo and he loves to have long conversations that generally go as follows:

Nugget: Ooooooo.

Mommy: Really?

Nugget: Eh.

Mommy: You don’t say!

Nugget: Ahhh!

Mommy: And then what happened?

Nugget: Ooo-eeee.

Mommy: Wow!

And so on, and so forth.

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We’ve been on the go again this month, getting out of the house almost every day.  As I mentioned in a previous post, our neighborhood isn’t particularly walkable, so we’ve been driving to East Aurora and strolling down the main street or through the neighborhoods most days.  (And I’m fantasizing about downsizing into one of the village houses there… someday, maybe.)  Nugget is decent about the car seat, just as long as the car is in motion and going at least 35 miles per hour.  We call him Speed Bus Baby.  (Nineties movie reference!)  We’ve also continued to hike most weekends, taking advantage of the gorgeous early summer we’ve been enjoying.  Our last hike, to Sprague Brook Park, was particularly fun for Nugget.  He stayed awake the entire time – a feat for him, since he likes to fall asleep in the Ergo – and gazed around at the trees for over an hour.  Nature boy in the making!

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I’ve started calling him “Mr. Personality” because he is charm personified and the biggest flirt ever – especially with me.  As if I wasn’t already madly in love with him.

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Nugget at 3 Months:

Weight: 12 pounds, 2 ounces.

Height: 22.5 or so inches cooperative.

Clothing Size: In pants he’s still wearing 0-3 months, but his 3-6 month onesies seem to be fitting him better so I’m rotating him through the few he owns.  I need to get on top of buying his 3-6 month wardrobe – he officially needs it now!  It’s going to include baby bathing suits and rash guards, since we’re headed to the beach this summer, and I’m not sure I’ll be able to handle that cuteness.

Sleep: Not much has changed since last month’s update.  He’s still on a fairly regular schedule of falling asleep in our arms between 8:00 and 9:00 on the couch, then transitioning to the crib when we head to bed and sleeping until around 2:30.  (Sometimes it’s 1:30, sometimes 3:30, but always in that general vicinity.)  Most nights I’m up with him for about an hour and a half, and then he’ll sleep until around 6:15 or 6:30.  (Of course last night he decided to show me who’s really still in charge and tossed in an extra wakeup… message received, Nugget.  It’s your world, I’m just living in it.)  I’m making it work, but it is starting to wear me down.  He’s nowhere near ready to be night-weaned, though, so we’ve got awhile to go with this schedule.  At least a couple more months.

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Likes: Peanut.  Actually, this is more of a LOVE.  Oh, my goodness, does he ever worship her.  Whenever they’re in the same room, his big eyes follow her every movement.  I think he’d be happy to sit and gaze at her for hours.  The feeling is mutual… Peanut continues to be just wild about her little brother, too.  I’m not sure how she’ll feel when he’s mobile and into her stuff, but I’m soaking up the sibling harmony while it lasts.

Dislikes: When Mommy sniffles.  Seriously.  The kid sleeps peacefully through Game of Thrones or his whirling dervish of a sister, but if I sniff my nose he jumps as if he’s been shot.  Since it’s allergy season, this is a big problem.

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Favorite Toys: He’s still not into many toys, but he’s starting to get a bit more engaged.  He continues to be a big fan of Peanut’s stuffed panda, and he loves his blue Jellycat dog – in fact, it was the first toy he smiled at!

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Milestones: So much new stuff this month!  In addition to the coos, which are constant and adorable, he’s been working hard on his grip.  He loves to hold onto the neckline of my shirt (and often attempts to pull me down with him if I am laying him in his crib or his swing) and he was even able to grasp an O-ball recently.  I expect that next month we’ll see a lot of development in this area.  He’s also beginning to find his hands; I’ve observed him examining them a few times, although mainly he’s just interested in jamming them into his mouth.

Quirks: Here’s something weird: Nugget is afraid of garages.  Seriously.  You’d think that three months would be too young to have developed a fear like that, but evidently it’s not.  Whenever we walk through our garage from the car to the mudroom door, or Heaven forbid if I take him downtown and park in the parking garage, his eyes get huge and he immediately starts to whimper and doesn’t stop until we’re safely out of the garage.  What kind of kid is afraid of garages?  Basements, yes.  In fact, I’m a little bit afraid of basements.  But garages?!

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Happy, happy, happy three months, little buddy!  We love you!