The Summer List: Final (Super Belated) Update

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I’m writing this post with a cup of hot tea by my side and the new Salman Rushdie novel waiting for when I finish drafting.  ‘Tis the season of darkening skies, falling leaves, howling winds, hot beverages and long books, blankets and baking.  Summer feels like it both just ended and like it has been gone for a long time.  And while this feels completely ridiculous – it’s almost November! – I’m going to force a final update of my summer list, and next week I’m going to share a fall list (with several items I’ve already done, but whatever).  Anyway, before any more time passes and makes this post even more self-indulgent, here is the final result of my summer to-do list, in all its absurdly late glory:

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  • Keep enjoying my maternity leave and bonding time with Nugget.  Done, and this was the best and most important thing I did this summer.  Having the time at home to bond with my little fella was so special, and I will cherish the memories we made forever.

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  • Take a family vacation to the beach!  Done!  We had such a great time in DC and the Outer Banks this summer.  What fun to share a week of sun and sand and surf with the whole family – especially my brother and sister-in-law.  I wish we saw them a lot more than we do.

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  • Hike to the Eternal Flame.  Done!  Checked this quintessential Buffalo hike off our WNY to-do list.  It was gorgeous and one of the coolest things I’ve experienced in the area.  What made it even better was getting to hike with our friends Zan and Paul, who are some of our favorite people in Buffalo.

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  • Celebrate TEN YEARS of marriage!  Done!  I can’t believe that our wedding was an entire decade ago.  We’ve had so many adventures since then, and we have so many more to come.  I’m lucky that I get to experience life alongside my best friend.  Here’s to many, many more decades of fun and laughter to come.

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  • Continue our monthly hiking project and take our summer stroll through Reinstein Woods Nature Preserve.  Still on track with this goal, and loving it!  In June we hiked in Sprague Brook Park, which is now my favorite local family hike.  In July we were able to do my very favorite hike in the entire world – Great Falls National Park in northern Virginia!  We used to hike there at least once a month, back when we lived in the DC area, and I still miss it so much.  August was another great hike – our Eternal Flame visit!  And we made it to Reinstein Woods as well, on Labor Day weekend.  I love getting out and experiencing nature with my family.  I hope Peanut and Nugget grow to love the outdoors as much as their parents do!
  • Invest in the East Aurora Cooperative Market.  For a few reasons, we decided not to do this.
  • Do some small home projects.  I didn’t do much around the house over the summer – oh, well.  I was too busy cuddling my little man and having fun with my family.  Now that the weather has gotten cool and rainy, we’ve found new inspiration to get things done, and we’ve been churning through house projects over the past few weeks.  But I can’t call this a summer accomplishment.
  • Re-read Jane of Lantern Hill.  Didn’t get to my planned visit with Jane.  Another time.

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  • Participate in #BlumeAlong in June and July, and finally join in the Austen in August fun!  Did both of these!  I loved reading along with #BlumeAlong, and I let my nerd flag fly for Austen in August.  What a blast both events were!  Thanks to Kerry and Adam, respectively, for hosting.
  • Start our playroom re-do.  Another one that I can’t call a summer achievement, but we have actually gotten started on this project since the weather turned to fall.  Can’t wait to cover the ugly brown paint with nice clean white.

So!  Not too shabby.  Considering that I spent most of the summer in a fog of sleep deprivation, I’m going to pat myself on the back a little bit and tell myself, Self: good job.  The main thing I wanted was a fun family summer, and I got exactly that.  Some good reading in there too.  And lots of fresh air.  I’ll call that a success.  And with that we’ll end this completely self-indulgent post and look ahead: next week, a (better late than never, and at least before Halloween) fall list!

OBX Trip 2015: Ocracoke Evening

Another one of our can’t-miss Outer Banks traditions is a trip on the ferry over to Ocracoke Island, which neighbors Hatteras.  Again – and I know I’m a broken record on this topic – I have so many fun memories from our jaunts over to Ocracoke.  Like the year our family friends’ son talked like Goat Boy the entire trip. You had to be there.

Anyway, it’s not an OBX vacation without an evening on Ocracoke!  Off we went.

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The rest of the family pulled out of the driveway while we were still tossing sunscreen in our diaper bag, and as a result they got on a ferry that left fifteen minutes earlier.  It was bad luck.  I was really sad that they missed Peanut’s first ferry ride (and Nugget’s first boat ride of any kind!).  But at least we got a money spot on the boat.

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Peanut thought the ferry was pretty awesome.

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Nugget was unimpressed.  Look at those cheeks!  (And that pout!  He’s going to be trouble in fifteen years.)

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We looped around and around the ferry, staying in the shade as much as possible – but we did spend some time gazing out at the wake off the stern, and at the water and shoreline.

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I love the ferry.  It was so much fun to ride with my little ones.

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Ferry family!

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Eventually, after my arms got tired of lugging Nugget around, I wised up and put him in the Ergo.  (I have the Ergo down to a science now, and I love it.  Peanut never took to it, but Nugget really likes being worn.  Especially now that he’s grown out of the infant insert – it’s so much more comfortable for both of us.)

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After about an hour of ferry fun, we pulled up to the dock on Ocracoke, and then it was off to rendezvous with the rest of the family at Howard’s Pub.

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We always eat at Howard’s Pub when we’re on Ocracoke.  It’s a fun place, and the food is casual but yummy.  (I didn’t do too well with ordering this time, though.  I got the fried shrimp basket and it turned out to be mostly fries – hardly any shrimp.  I should have stuck with my usual veggie burger.)

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After dinner we had about an hour to wander around the island before we really had to get the ferry back so the kids could get to bed.  I was clamoring for a visit to the Ocracoke Light – my favorite of all the OBX lighthouses (of which there are quite a few) but the rest of the fam wanted to walk around the village, so that’s what we did.  The pic above was as close as I got to the lighthouse.  Next time!

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We watched a bigger ferry coming into another dock…

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Checked out the boats in the marina…

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And then wandered into the village.

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Peanut befriended a large metal rooster.  Actually, she asked if she could ride on him.  We said NO.

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We named him Alan.  He looks like an Alan, don’t you think?  This wasn’t just a local art installation – it was outside a gallery, part of a metal menagerie that was on display for sale.  I was legit worried that Alan the Rooster was going to have to come home with us.  Fortunately we escaped without buying him (or any other metal animals).

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We rode the ferry back to Hatteras just as the sun was setting.

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Gorgeous!

Next time we visit, I’d like to spend more time on Ocracoke.  Our flying trips over there never seem like enough.  I want Peanut to see the wild ponies of Ocracoke (well, once wild – now most of them are in enclosures on the island, but they’re still a sight to see), and I want to get back to the Ocracoke Light.  And I’d love to mix up the dining; Howard’s Pub is fun, but there was a cute little flatbread pizza place in Ocracoke Village that looked like it would be a lot of fun to try.  It’s always good to leave something for next time, right?

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Happy couple on our way back from Ocracoke.  Always a fun evening!

Next week, we do make it to a lighthouse!

Nugget: Seven Months

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Oh.  My.  Goodness.  Nugget is seven months old, which means he’s officially closer to one year than to brand new, and that blows my mind, man.  (He’s not that close to one year, yet, but you know.)  I feel like I’m just starting to come out of that newborn fog, just a little bit, and still getting used to being an actual family of FOUR now.  Nugget makes every day such an adventure.  He’s the sweetest, cuddliest little pal, and I’m constantly in awe of how much joy and fun he brings to our lives.

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What to say about this month?  It’s been full of running around and doing all that fall stuff.  Having two kids in daycare makes the days feel extra full.  Peanut and Nugget’s daycare has a real “school” feeling – classrooms, teachers, back-to-school night – and I love it, but I am also getting a taste of what it will be like when they’re really in school.  So many forms to fill out, snacks to plan!  It’s a different experience having one in the baby rooms, too.  Peanut was always home, either with me or with a family member, until she was two, so when she started school it was in a really structured classroom setting.  With Nugget, I have extra juggling to do – remembering to pick his bottles up for washing at the end of the day, constantly checking the classroom freezer to make sure he’s not running out of pureed pears (because I like to make life extra difficult on myself, so I’m providing his fruits and veggie purees in addition to pumped milk) and running up to feed him during my lunch hours (which is special for both of us).

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I’m really cherishing those lunchtime visits.  They make it easier to send him off in the morning, because I know I’ll be seeing him in just a couple of hours.  We usually try to snap a selfie to send to Dad, as well.  Going up to the school to feed Nugget is such a privilege.  It’s sometimes hard to cram everything I need to do into my day, but it’s so worth it.  I’m going to really miss those stolen lunchtime hours when they’re over – but I don’t need to think about that just yet.

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Oh, I love that snuggly bug.

Nugget had a fun month with some exciting visitors, too!  He got to meet his Aunt Rebecca for the first time (we’ll be seeing her again, for his christening, in just a few short weeks!).  She had so much fun cuddling her little nephew guy, but she did say she felt a little weird about giving him kisses since he’s such a miniature Steve – haha!

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And we also got to meet baby Hudson!  Hudson is our friends Zan and Paul’s little nephew and he came to town for a visit with his mama Elissa and daddy.  It was so much fun to meet them after hearing so much about their family from Zan!  We all got together for a trip to the farmers’ market followed by lunch, and it was such a lovely day.  Nugget had fun bouncing on some different laps, giving Ms. Elissa a taste of some snuggles with an older baby, and topping up Ms. Zan’s cuddle stash.  He just loves her!

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Of course, at the end of the day, he always comes back to Mom’s arms.

Nugget at 7 Months:

Weight: 15 pounds, 7 ounces.

Height: 27 inches cooperative.  (I measured him myself this month, so take this with a grain of salt.)

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Clothing Size: Moving on up to nine months!  I’m still squeezing him into six month onesies and sleepers, but the nine months’ wardrobe is washed and ready and I’m about to switch it over, because some of those six month clothes are looking suspiciously short.  It’s hard to let go, though – I love his six month outfits so much.

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Sleep: Last month I said I hoped I’d have progress to report, and I do – not as much as I’d wanted, but some, and that’s good enough.  We finally started sleep training right around the time Nugget turned six months old, and it’s going.  Some nights it goes well, other nights it just… goes.  We do the same routine each night: final feeding, cozy bath, rubdown with lotion, story (Time for Bed, by Mem Fox), lullaby (“Peace Like a River”), prayer (“Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep”) and lights out.  The sleep “experts” promise that most kids will get with the program and stop crying after about three nights… HAHA!  It’s been a month and Nugget is still voicing his displeasure loudly and vehemently.  (That’s my boy.  He’s nothing if not tenacious.)  The pediatrician advised that we put Nugget down awake and check on him periodically when he cries, but not pat or touch him – just tell him that we love him and it’s bedtime.  Well, we’re not exactly capable of not giving him kisses, so we do that, and some pats too, but otherwise we are careful not to take him out of the crib.  Lately, he’s been protest-crying for about fifteen to twenty minutes and then he’s good to go for awhile.  Still waking up to eat once a night or so (last night was twice, and I was feeling it the next day, but most of the time he’s good on one feeding) but this has opened up stretches of time for us in the evenings, which is really nice, and Steve and I are getting to bed earlier and with less bickering.  I’m not quite caught up on rest just yet, but I’m getting there.  As hard as it is, I know that sleep training Nugget was the right thing to do.  We’re all happier – including Nugget – when Nugget is well-rested.

Likes: Cuddles with Mom, laughing at his sister, jumping in the jumperoo at school (the other day I dropped him off and they put him in the jumperoo and I seriously thought he was going to break it, he was going so wild), checking out the trees on our family hikes, looking at the other babies at daycare.

Dislikes: There’s one particular kid in his classroom that Nugget just! can’t! stand! when she cries.  There have been multiple times that I’ve picked Nugget up to find his little face screwed up with dismay and the teacher murmuring, “Yes, M is loud, I know you don’t like it when M is loud.”  I’m told that he’s getting a little better about not getting too upset when the other babies cry (I guess it was really tough the first couple of weeks, poor guy) but something about this one other baby’s crying really gets him going.  I feel terrible for everyone in this situation.

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Favorite Toys: We have a couple this month!  Nugget has developed a deep and loving attachment to this perforated goldfish-shaped cup that came with his bathtub.  (We recently got him a new one – he’d been using Peanut’s old tub and it was just becoming clear that the thing had reached the end of its life – and it came with this little cup.)  He’s totally obsessed and will hold the goldfish cup all day if he’s allowed to.  He’s also getting into books, which I love!  Although it’s harder to read to him when he’s grabbing for any book I have in my hands.  Peanut went through this stage, too, and at about the same age (I think) so let’s hope it’s a sign that Nugget will love reading as much as his big sister does.

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Milestones: So many this month!  After a few months of what seemed like not that many developmental milestones, Nugget made HUGE strides from six to seven months.  He can now sit unassisted for longer and longer periods of time (he still needs a spotter, but he’s getting really steady).  He’s also getting better and better at his fine motor skills; just the other day he leaned over and picked up a block from the floor!  This is exciting stuff, people!  He’s gotten really good at holding toys for long stretches of time without dropping them, and he’s even starting to pass them back and forth between hands.  And – the best! – he’s starting to babble.  Steve and I were both trying to steer him toward our particular consonant (Steve was encouraging “dada” and I was gunning for “mama”) and Steve won the consonant war – Nugget loves to say “Dada!  Da!  Da!  Da da da!”  But I can’t even be mad because it’s soooooooo cute.  (And, for the record, he doesn’t know what he’s saying.  He’s just latched onto the sound.  But it doesn’t stop us from pretending that he’s really saying “Dada” because he means it.)

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Quirks: I guess it was only a matter of time, but Nugget is SUCH a little brother, already trying to annoy his sister!  Peanut has gotten her hair pulled more times than I can count this month.  (I’ve explained to her that he can’t help himself – he waves his little arms around and if hair gets caught in his grip, he just has to grab and pull it; I’ve gotten my hair pulled quite a lot too.)  But I have to say, it kind of makes me laugh to watch Nugget with Peanut.  It’s obvious he worships the ground she walks on, but… all the same… he just can’t stop himself from pulling her hair.  Little brothers, man!

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Happy seven months, darlingest buddy!  We all love you!

OBX Trip 2015: Beach Blanket Babies

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When my family used to vacation on Hatteras Island when I was a kid, we had a pretty iron-clad routine: sound in the morning (the dads would windsurf, the moms would sit in the sun and read, and the kids would splash in the shallow water), then lunch, then ocean beach in the afternoon.  We mostly stuck to that routine on this trip, too, although it was a little harder to get into a good groove because we couldn’t split for the beach right after lunch – instead, we had to wait until Peanut finished her nap.  Most afternoons, that meant getting to the ocean (a 5-minute drive away) after 4:00 – not leaving much time for beach play before we had to go back to the house and get showered and changed for dinner.  Still, we made the most of the time we did have at the ocean beach.  I love watching the waves crashing up against the sands!

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On our very first day at the beach, Nugget had his toes dipped in the surf.

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He wasn’t quite sure what to think.  He wasn’t opposed to it, exactly, but he wasn’t overjoyed either.

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Peanut, by contrast, had definite opinions about the ocean.  Specifically, she was violently anti-swimming.  She spent most of our beach time sitting on the towel and digging in the warm sand.

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If one of us did carry her to the water’s edge, she clung to us like a barnacle and whimpered until we took her back to the towel.  I know some members of our party were pretty bummed that she didn’t want to play in the water, but I personally did not want to push the issue.  The beach is supposed to be fun, after all.  So we let her have fun in the way she wanted to.

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Fortunately, Peanut was willing to partake in a very important Hatteras tradition: burying Uncle Dan in the sand.

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It’s not an official vacation until Uncle Dan is neck-deep in sand with a ladies hat on his head.

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Aunt Danielle was totally into it.

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What a goof.

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Peanut did get braver as the week wore on.  By Wednesday she consented to let Steve carry her into the surf as long as he did not attempt to put her down or get her wet at all.

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Nugget did not have similar scruples.

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Well, maybe.  No, I swear, he had fun.  Uncle Dan and Aunt Danielle are good swimming buddies.

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Finally, by Saturday afternoon, Peanut was ready to cautiously dip her toes in the water.  And guess what?

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It turns out… the ocean is AWESOME, MOMMY!

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She spent a good half hour scampering in and out of the waves, shouting “One, two, three… WATER!” and running toward the crashing surf until someone scooped her up.  Seriously – the last half hour of our beach time, on the last day of our vacation, she became a total fish.  I wish we were staying for a second week; I felt badly that she missed out on swimming fun all week.  Maybe I should have pushed her more, but she was so frightened of the ocean earlier in the week, and I just wanted her to have a good time.  At least I know that next time, she’ll be into it!

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Next week, a fun excursion to a neighboring island!

Reinstein Woods Nature Preserve: Summer 2015

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Summer might be over, but I still have lots to tell you about our adventures, because we really lived it up this year!  Of course, we couldn’t let the season escape us without a visit to Reinstein Woods for our seasonal hike.  (See our previous hikes: winter and spring.)  Last year, when we did our seasonal hikes at Tifft Nature Preserve, we actually squeezed our summer hike into mid-September, but since it wasn’t the equinox just yet I called it good.  This year we did a little better, getting out for our summer visit to Reinstein on Labor Day.

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And what a day for it!  The sun was shining, the sky was a deep blue, and the woods were a riot of gorgeous white flowers.

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Our first stop was the lily pond, which proved to be aptly named.  I think there were more lily pads than pond.

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Steve and Peanut immediately spotted a family of turtles sunning themselves on a log.  So cute!

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Lily pad closeup:

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Next we continued on into the nature preserve and made for our regular loop around one of the larger ponds.  This one was also a riot of lily pads.

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Gorgeous!  Reinstein Woods is a small nature preserve, but it feels much bigger than it is and it manages to pack a lot of beauty into a relatively small parcel of land.

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I made the wrong shoe choice.  It was summer, it was warm, and I thought it would be fun to wear my FiveFingers… which it would have been had the trail not been entirely made of large pieces of gravel.  For some reason I completely forgot that most of the trails were rocky.  I mainly stuck to the grass.

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We attempted a family portrait – total fail.  Neither kid is looking at the camera, and we could be anywhere.  Well, we will keep trying.

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Two out of four.  Not bad.

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On our way out of the nature preserve, as has become our little tradition when walking at Reinstein, we let Peanut loose in the nature play area for awhile.  She had a ball running around, picking sticks up off the ground and waving them around (some things never change!) and holding court in the little shelter.

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Oh, and riding on turtles.  As one does.

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Nugget, as usual, cuddled up against me and watched his sister run and play.  Next year he’ll be wobbling after her as fast as his little legs can take him, but for now he’s still my snuggle bug.

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Eventually he let us know he was over the whole experience and was ready to head home and have his lunch.  And thus began the delicate negotiation (cajoling, threats) to get Peanut out of the play area.  She does love it there…

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That’s my little Dirt Barbie!  Heh.  Such fun to visit Reinstein again for a third season.  We have one more season to go, and then we’ll have to decide on a spot for seasonal hikes in 2016 – unbelievable!

Who else has been hitting the trails recently?

OBX Trip 2015: Soundside

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Vacation recaps continue!  After we finished our wonderful weekend of visiting friends in DC, we headed on down south for the second part of our trip: reuniting with my parents, brother, and sister-in-law on Hatteras Island, NC.  Hatteras was the site of so much summer fun when I was growing up.  My parents and their friends would rent a big house together for a week each summer, starting when I was seven and my brother was two.  We’d spend the whole week in a haze of sun, sand, and salt water – and it was always perfect.  My parents’ friends have a son my age and we had a blast running around on the beach, watching movies that were too old for us when the adults would go out, and – later, when we were older – driving out onto the beach with my brother and, occasionally, other friends.  Some of my best memories from childhood summers happened on Hatteras, so I was naturally excited to share the island with my own kids.

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I’m not going to post a day-by-day recap, because our days on the beach are mostly all the same, so it would get repetitive.  Instead, I’m going to share snippets of our vacation – starting with the Sound.

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For this trip, my parents rented the same house we’d always gotten during those childhood summers.  On Hatteras, if you’re renting a house, you have two options – stay oceanside, or stay soundside.  The ocean is, of course, the Atlantic.  The sound is Pamlico Sound, a huge brackish body of water that runs along most of the Outer Banks.  We always stayed soundside so the dads could windsurf right off the house beach.  Now, as a mom, I appreciate that there might have been another reason the moms liked the idea of staying soundside – the lack of surf and tide, and the bathwater-warm temperature, and the fact that the sound is basically no deeper than knee-deep for miles, all made it a much friendlier place to stay with wee ones.

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Peanut, who loves-loves-LOVES our pool, was initially hesitant about the Sound.  (It probably didn’t help that within five minutes of her first sight of the Sound, Uncle Dan had come running up with a hermit crab in his hand.  Peanut is apprehensive about the hermit crab in her classroom, and that one’s behind glass – it was no surprise that she was completely weirded out by Uncle Dan bringing her a wild one.  And I probably didn’t help matters when I held out my hands for Uncle Dan to drop the crab into.  Mom, what are you DOING?!)

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But Peanut quickly warmed up to the experience of swimming in the Sound.  Knowing that she often needs time to get on board with a new experience, I gave her that time.  First, I held her in my arms, well above the water.  Then I told her that I was going to set her down on the sand.  She was nervous, but I stood her on the damp sand about a foot or so from the water’s edge.  Within moments she was cautiously advancing toward the water, and it was no time at all before our little fish was splashing, playing, and chasing minnows.

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She also declared that Aunt Danielle was her “seahorse.”  Aunt Danielle was happy to oblige with plenty of “seahorse rides.”  Such a good sport!

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Most days, we stuck with the routine we’d always had growing up – Sound in the morning, ocean beach in the afternoon.  My dad, Dan and Danielle all windsurfed.  The rest of us took turns splashing with Peanut and dipping Nugget’s little feet in the water.  I even got to try the stand-up paddleboard!  (I’d been dying to give the sport a try.  Verdict: it’s a great workout and such a blast!  Now I want to rent SUPs and paddle down Elevator Alley here in Buffalo.)

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And of course we did lots of lounging.  Nugget took several soundside lap naps, falling asleep to the peaceful breeze in the sea oats and to his sister’s laughter as she splashed with her aunt and uncle.

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On our last afternoon, I brought Nugget down to the sound beach for a little one-on-one swimming fun.  Steve and Peanut were napping in the house, and the rest of the family had already gone to the ocean beach.  I crouched down in the shallows and sat Nugget on the sandy bottom of the sound, letting him feel the warm water on his legs.  Then, when he’d had enough swimming, I wrapped him in a towel and walked up and down the beach, bouncing him to sleep.  It was a nice hour to share with just my little guy.

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I’m sure the families who choose to stay oceanside have a wonderful time, too – but I’m certainly glad we stay soundside.  It’s quiet and peaceful – perfect for little kids and for adults craving a bit of rejuvenation.

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Coming up next time – a look at the ocean beach!

Nugget: Six Months

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I cannot, I cannot, I cannot believe that this happy little man is six months old!  I feel like I blinked and here we are.  Seriously, I thought the time flew by with Peanut, but I had no idea – with our hectic schedules, and a toddler taking up her fair share of attention, the days are just zipping past me.  I’ve done my best to cherish every moment of the past six months and Nugget and I have made some wonderful memories – but it still is going way too fast.

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Six months brought more fun splashing in the pool – Nugget still isn’t sure he’s a fan, but he is starting to feel more at home in the water.  Next year, I’ll bet, he loves it.  And we got out and explored our surroundings plenty, again, this month.  There were almost daily walks in East Aurora, hikes at Knox Farm and Reinstein Woods, trips into the city to visit Peanut at preschool and meet Dad for dinner, and a super-fun truck petting event, also in East Aurora.  (That was more for Peanut, but Nugget enjoyed checking out the fire trucks too.)  We also celebrated big sister’s third birthday!

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I’ve been having the best time watching Nugget’s little personality develop.  The kid is such a clown.  Seriously, he’ll do anything for a laugh.

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Don’t be fooled by this happy face, though.  He hates being in his crib.  We’re realizing that we dug ourselves into a very deep hole with his sleep, and next month is going to be all about digging out.  More on that below.

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The hardest thing about this month was the end of my maternity leave.  I loved being home with Nugget, but all good things must come to a close, I guess.  We’re happy with his daycare and I needed to get back into a working routine anyway, but it hasn’t been easy to go from spending all day with him attached to my hip, to squeezing in quality time in short bursts before bedtime.  One nice thing is that I can visit him during the day, and I’ve been doing that most days.  (Like in the picture above, which was snapped in the mothers’ lounge at the daycare.)  The school is just a short drive from my office, so I’ve been nipping up there to feed Nugget during my lunch breaks.  It definitely makes it easier to go to work in the mornings, knowing that I’m going to see him in just a couple of hours – unlike when I went back to work after having Peanut, and was too far away for lunchtime visits.  (Peanut and Nugget are at the same school, but she’s down in the cafeteria eating her lunch when I feed Nugget, so I don’t see her – I know enough about her to understand that interrupting her routine at that particular time would throw her off for the rest of the day, and I don’t go there.  So my lunchtime visits are just for Nugget.)

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Nugget at 6 Months:

Weight: 15 lbs, 0 oz

Height: 26 inches

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Clothing Size: He’s in six months and will be as long as this summer weather holds out, but I’m starting to look at the adorable fall clothes that the stores are rolling out about now, and I’ll definitely be buying those in nine months.

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Sleep: Ahhhh, sleep.  What is that, again?  So we’re finally starting to face facts and realize that we have dug ourselves into a pretty deep hole.  (And by “we,” I mean “me” – I’m fully aware of the fact that I’ve been the roadblock here.)  Nugget has complete run of the household.  He refuses to sleep in his crib, like, ever.  Dad stays up holding him until 1:00 a.m. or so, and then I feed him and take over.  He’s a little better about sleeping in the crib for me, only because he’s so fatigued at that point.  But we’ve had quite a few nights in which I am walking the hall between my bed and the nursery ten or more times between 2:00 a.m. and morning.  I know the reason for this: we let him get used to being held while he sleeps.  And you know what?  I know that it’s bad, I know that it’s wreaking havoc on the whole family, but I’d do it again.  Nugget is my last baby and he was going to get ALL the cuddles from me, that’s just how it was going to be.  But… it’s time to get ourselves on track.  The whole family – Nugget included – is sleepwalking through life right now.  As I type this post, Nugget is upstairs protesting at being in his crib (at 7:15 p.m.!) but we all need to come to terms with the fact that the crib is where he needs to be.  He’ll sleep better and we’ll all feel better once we’re a bit more rested.  I hope to have good news to report by next month.  I hope.  I really hope.

Likes: Watching big sister play; his activity giraffe toy; TV (sigh); his favorite chair at daycare (yes, Grandpa Nugget has a favorite chair); checking out the other babies at daycare.

Dislikes: His crib.  Let’s just leave it there.

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Favorite Toys: Rings!  This is something we’ve really discovered since he started daycare.  Most of the times I’ve come to pick him up – whether for a lunchtime feed or at the end of the day – he’s holding a ring of some sort.  Sometimes it’s keys; other times it’s a ring-shaped rattle.  Recently I remarked on one cute ring he had (a clear ring rattle with a plushy Very Hungry Caterpillar on it) and his teacher replied, “Oh, that’s his favorite! He loves that thing!”  Noted!  Since then I’ve been making sure that he gets plenty of time playing with his ring toys at home.  It’s a bit of a challenge guarding them from a certain fashion-forward big sister who thinks they are bracelets, but I’m up to the task and he’s loving his ring play, as you can see.

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Milestones: Aside from the bittersweet return-to-work and starting-daycare milestones, we did hit a fun one this month – first solid food!  We’d actually had the go-ahead from the pediatrician to start earlier, but I wanted to wait a bit.  This month we finally took the plunge and began with rice cereal.  (I’ve been mixing it with formula for added nutrition.)  He loves it!  Peanut was a tough sell on solid foods – I had to trick her into opening her mouth to get the spoon in.  Not so with the little dude – he’s already figured out opening his mouth, and each meal he gets better at swallowing.  He’s been eating about a 3/4 portion of rice cereal for me and is gobbling it up.  In a few days we’re moving on to pears – yeah!

Quirks: I don’t know if this counts, but he’s totally given up on being Rico Suave Baby.  No more trying to distract you and furtively guiding your thumb into his mouth; now he just grabs it and stuffs it in!  I guess he realized he didn’t need his Mr. Cool act, after all.

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Happy, happy, happy birthday, little boy!  Thanks for choosing us – we’re so glad you’re in our family.

OBX Trip 2015: DC Day 2

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Whoa!  Remember those travel recaps I promised?  They’re still in the works, I swear.  But between updates on the kids, posts I wanted to write in commemoration of our anniversary, Austen in August, and just my normal blogging, there weren’t enough days in the schedule to get them all in!  I guess I could have scheduled posts to go up more than three days per week, but I like that schedule.  So I just have to be okay with being a bit behind – on travel posts as well as the rest of our summer adventures – and catch up slowly.  In a way, I think it’s better, because we can keep talking about summer fun into the early fall!

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Anyway, to continue on with the travel posts, here we have a much belated recap of our second day in DC on our way down to the Outer Banks. You already heard all about how we spent that morning: getting in our July hike (just under the wire; it was July 29th!) at Great Falls National Park.  Great Falls is my favorite place in the entire world, and we knew we had to make a stop there, even a short one, while we were in town.  I’ve already shown you these pictures, but indulge me and look at a few of them them one more time?

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What a fun, fun morning.  I just wish we’d had the entire day to spend there… but we had to hustle back to the city, because we were expected for lunch in Adams Morgan with my friend Maureen.  No pics from lunch, but we ate at Lebanese Taverna and I had a delicious plate of vegetarian nibbles – yum.  It was wonderful to see Maureen, and to introduce her to Peanut (she’d never met her!) and Nugget.

After lunch, we had a couple of hours to kill before our dinner plans – meeting yet another baby girl! – and we headed to our old stomping grounds, Old Town Alexandria.

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We spent our last three years in the DC area living in Mount Vernon, which is just a few miles south of Old Town on the GW Parkway.  (And seriously, the most beautiful commute ever – I miss seeing the Potomac sparkling next to me as I drove to work each morning.)  Old Town was “our place” – the neighborhood where most of our weekend fun could be found.  Our church was in Old Town; our favorite restaurants were in Old Town.  We were there every Saturday and Sunday, almost without fail.  (The staff at Pizzeria Paradiso knew us, for goodness sake!)

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So with a little bit of time on our hands, there was really only one place we wanted to be.  We wandered up and down the brick sidewalks, drinking in the King Street atmosphere that we’d been missing for two years.  I’ve never found any place I’ve loved as much as Old Town.

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I sort of felt like this “Welcome Home Weekend” sign was put there just for me.  It was so good to be home.  No matter where else we live, or how long we’re away, Alexandria will always be home.

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We wandered down to the Torpedo Factory, which was one of our favorite haunts when we lived in the area.  For those not familiar with Alexandria, the Torpedo Factory once was an actual torpedo factory – during World War II – but is now an art center housing a big group of artists’ studios.  Torpedo Factory artists work in every medium, from painting, printmaking and photography to pottery, textiles and jewelry design.  We wandered around checking out the works on display, and I picked up a new coffee mug from my favorite pottery artist, David Norton.  (I had one of his mugs already – bought just before I moved as a way to remember Old Town with my tea each morning – and it’s still my favorite.  Now it has a buddy!)

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We whiled away the afternoon gazing at the Potomac and strolling through Founders Park until it was time to hop in the car and head up to Maryland for dinner with friends.  My friend Michelle had graciously invited us for dinner at her house and we were so excited to see her and her husband (their wedding was seriously the most beautiful I’ve ever been to) and meet their sweet baby girl.  Michelle outdid herself with a delicious pasta dinner and then the most insane homemade (cherry lambic!) popsicles I’ve ever tasted.  She sent me the recipe, so I’m now obviously in the market for popsicle molds.  It was the perfect way to end our weekend in DC – sitting around the table with friends, eating popsicles made with beer, catching up on all the news from my old job (Michelle and I met when we were both working for the same government agency right out of law school) and laughing about our kids’ goofy exploits.

We headed out around 7:00 – too soon to say goodbye to such wonderful friends, but it was their daughter’s bedtime and we had to get our own kids settled down because we had a big day of driving – on to North Carolina! – the next day.  Next recap, I’ll share some pictures from the beach!

 

This Is Three

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I blinked, and somehow my baby girl is three years old.  Three years old!  How did that happen?  It seems like just yesterday that I was calling my family to tell them that we had a bun in the oven, and now she’s this big girl with a huge smile and even bigger personality.

Three.

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Three is impossibly sweet.  Three loves to give tight, squeezy hugs and soft, adorable kisses.  Three especially likes to kiss her baby brother on the top of his head.  Three is seriously going to melt Mom’s heart.

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Three loves bunnies, SEA LIONS!, books and puzzles, Curious George and Super Why, chocolate milk and raisins, Frozen, the pool, gardening with Mom, snuggling with Dad, and being a big sister.  When asked what she had for lunch today, Three always says “Tacos.”  Tacos.  Every day.

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Three sings the best songs, especially “We Can Make a Wainbow.”

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Three has big emotions and isn’t afraid to let them out.  Three can be stubborn and maddening at times (often, as a matter of fact).  Three can also be kind of timid.  Three is very worried that an airplane is going to bite her.  (What?)  Three is also scared of thunderstorms, the neighbor’s truck, the vacuum (who isn’t?), and most bugs.

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Three is incredibly smart.  Three has most of her favorite books memorized and can recite entire episodes of her favorite TV shows.  Three loves to re-enact “The World of Peter Rabbit and Friends,” and will coach Mom on delivering Mrs. Rabbit’s lines with the proper tone and inflection.  Three is not going to be satisfied with memorizing books for long – learning to read is right around the corner.

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Three is a breath of fresh air, a wiggly bundle of joy, and the adventure of a lifetime.

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Happy birthday to my BIG girl!

By The Numbers

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August 13, 2005

Yesterday marked ten years that Steve and I have been married.  Ten years!  It feels like a lifetime, and also like it was just yesterday.  There’s been so much good stuff in that time.  Kids, travel, adventures.  We’ve also weathered our share of storms – from small disagreements (whose turn was it to do the dishes, again?) to big things like job losses and health scares.  And through it all we’ve been the best of friends.  We’re a great team and I can’t wait to find out what the next ten years – and beyond! – have in store for us.

Just for fun, the last ten years… by the numbers.

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3,650 days.

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2 kids.

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2 states.

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3 homes owned… and 2 apartments rented.

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50 days in the NICU.

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8 countries visited! (The U.S.A., Canada, Mexico, England, Scotland, Wales, France, the Bahamas.)

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2 best friends.  Yesterday, today, and tomorrow.