The Classics Club Challenge: Washington Square, by Henry James

The best word to describe Catherine Sloper would be “stolid.”  The only daughter of a wealthy doctor, Catherine is an heiress and should be a sought-after socialite – but she isn’t.  Tall, plain, and painfully shy, not especially witty or brilliant, Catherine’s one great quality (aside from her expectation of a great deal of money) is her constancy and steadfastness.  Unfortunately, since steadfastness is, by definition, not especially flashy, Catherine’s value is largely unappreciated by the people closest to her.

Catherine lives with her father, Doctor Sloper, and his widowed sister, Lavinia Penniman.  The doctor is a caustic and sarcastic man – he can be very funny, but he can also be very cruel (and enjoy it).  Aunt Penniman is flighty and impulsive, and when a young fortune-hunter sets his sights on Catherine (and her inheritance), Aunt Penniman casts the two as the stars in her own private romantic drama, with herself as the puppetmaster.

Mrs. Penniman delighted of all things in a drama, and she flattered herself that a drama would now be enacted.  Combining as she did the zeal of the prompter with the impatience of the spectator, she had long since done her utmost to pull up the curtain.  She, too, expected to figure in the performance – to be the confidante, the Chorus, to speak the epilogue.  It may even be said that there were times when she lost sight altogether of the modest heroine of the play in the contemplation of certain great scenes which would naturally occur between the hero and herself.

The “hero” of Aunt Penniman’s imaginings is Morris Townsend, whom Catherine meets at an engagement party.  Morris is handsome, charming and witty – but has nothing else, really, to recommend him.  He is lazy and indolent, and it’s obvious to everyone with clear eyes that he’s only interested in Catherine’s money.  The only people who don’t see right through Morris are the infatuated heiress herself, and her silly aunt.

Catherine’s father is not deceived, but he’s not especially active in separating the two lovers either – and therein lies the central conflict of the novel.  Doctor Sloper does not want a lazy grifter for a son-in-law – quite understandably.  He’s not particular about Morris having money or not; after all, Doctor Sloper was once poor before he married a wealthy heiress himself.  But where Doctor Sloper had ambition and intellectual interests, Morris’s sole ambition seems to be to marry a rich woman and then spend her money.  But Doctor Sloper’s character flaw, which will get in the way of his protecting his daughter’s interests, lies in his general lack of respect for women.

The doctor eyed [Morris’s sister, Mrs. Montgomery] a moment.  ‘You women are all the same!  But the type to which your brother belongs was made to be the ruin of you, and you were made to be its handmaids and victims.  The sign of the type in question is the determination – sometimes terrible in its quiet intensity – to accept nothing of life but its pleasures, and to secure these pleasures chiefly by aid of your complaisant sex.  Young men of this class never do anything for themselves that they can get other people to do for them, and it is the infatuation, the devotion, the superstition of others that keeps them going.  These others, in ninety-nine cases out of a hundred, are women.  What our young friends chiefly insist upon is that someone else shall suffer for them; and women do that sort of thing, as you must know, wonderfully well.’

Unfortunately, since he doesn’t respect his daughter, Doctor Sloper waits too long to deal with the Morris situation, and by the time he actually takes an interest – even then more of a curious interest, because he’s intrigued by the question of whether Catherine will “stick” – it’s too late to break them up – at least, without permanently damaging Catherine’s relationship with her father.  Catherine is implacably devoted to Morris, and he’s determined to wait out the doctor, with Aunt Penniman’s incorrigible encouragement.  Perhaps if Doctor Sloper respected women more (he strikes me as a less-charming Mr Bennet, if Mr Bennet sort of placidly disliked Lizzy) he might have made the situation better, not worse.

In the end (spoiler alert!) no one ends up satisfied – which struck me as about the right result.  Both Doctor Sloper and Morris were dreadful people in their own ways (if they lived in 2019, they’d both be horrible mansplainers), Aunt Penniman was the worst sort of adult who never actually grew up, and even Catherine took steadfastness too far and turned it to stubbornness.  Catherine was by far the most sympathetic character of the book, but by the end, I wanted to slap her, too.

It may seem as if I disliked Washington Square – but I didn’t.  I actually liked it quite a lot.  The characters were intensely real, the scene-setting was wonderful, and the writing was delightful and witty.  Doctor Sloper, when he wasn’t being awful, and Catherine, when she wasn’t being maddening, could really be quite funny.  I loved watching Catherine’s courage and humor develop, and while I’d have liked to see a happier ending for her, James gives the story the ending that is fitting.  I’ll definitely be seeking out more Henry James novels.

Have you read any Henry James?

It’s Monday (Ugh). What Are You Reading?

It’s Monday.  Monday is here.  The weekend was, and it is no more, and now it’s Monday.  So.  Here we go.  I’m feeling excessively blah these days – probably as a result of the busiest month I’ve had at work in I-can’t-remember-how-long.  I knew it was going to be miserable, but I didn’t know just how miserable it would be.  Last week, I billed – billed – sixty hours, and that’s with taking Monday off.  I missed bedtime on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, and I was getting up at 4:00 a.m. to work and working until 10:00 or 11:00 p.m. with almost no breaks.  And that includes the weekend.  On Saturday, I got up at zero-dark-hundred (4:00 again) and started working, and I’d billed more than three hours before anyone woke up.  Kept the work going more or less steadily all day, minus the kiddos’ swim lessons, a much-needed nap, and a trip to Carter’s to pick up school pants for a certain young man who tears through knees on almost a weekly basis.  On Sunday, I probably should have worked again, but I was exhausted and staring down the barrel of a weeklong business trip to Dallas (and it’s going to be a stressful, high-stakes, high-tension one) so I just bummed around the house with the kids.  It rained all day, so we knocked around doing rainy day activities, including playing catch in the bedroom (don’t tell Steve).  Ended the weekend not in the usual way – on a plane, Dallas-bound.  Wish me luck, guys.

Reading.  As you can probably guess from the 60-hour billing week, it was a sloooooooow reading week.  I only had a few minutes each night to read before crashing, and I was usually too tired to do more than just mindlessly scroll through Instagram, so very little reading happened.  I made incremental progress in Wives and Daughters and feel like I’ve barely started.  The only thing I was actually able to finish this week was the latest issue of Slightly Foxed – an escape into a saner, more literary world and very much needed.  On Sunday night, setting Wives and Daughters aside in favor of a library book with a deadline, I started The Secrets We Kept on the plane to Dallas.  Too soon to tell, but Reese’s book club tends to be pretty reliable.

Listening.  Pretty much the only thing that gave me joy this week was listening to The Great Courses “History of Medieval England” lecture series on Audible.  I looked forward to zoning out with my coffee and the wreck of the White Ship on the Metro, and I don’t care who knows it.  The only downside?  My co-workers now think I’m a total dork, just because I said “This witness is going to collapse like an Anglo-Saxon shield wall at the Battle of Hastings.”  What?

Watching.  Not much.  Jurassic Park (a classic) on the couch with Nugget.  That’s about it.  Mostly, I watched my favorite month slip away into a haze of billable hours and heated exchanges with opposing counsel.

Making.  Nothing at all, unless you count lots and lots and lots of work product.  And the to-do list never gets shorter, either.

Blogging.  Another Classics Club review for you on Wednesday, and the final PNW travel recap on Friday.  I’m always sad to wrap up recaps of a great trip, but it’s time.  And time to start thinking about the inevitable question: where to next?  There’s something in the works, but I don’t know yet.

Loving.  My tomato plant, after struggling along and doing basically nothing all summer, has suddenly exploded with little ruby-red tomatoes.  How?  It is challenging everything I thought I knew about tomatoes.  For instance, it’s been chilly and rainy this week, and yet – there they are, those little heat-loving gems.  Nugget and I grab one every time we walk out the back door, and it’s been such a treat to see them winking at me from among the inexplicably green and vibrant leaves.  (I had two tomato plants.  The other one is a dried-up husk.  Mystery.)

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

PNW Adventure 2019: Seattle Center Saturday

When Steve and I arrived back in Seattle for the final leg of our trip after a week in the Islands, we were exhausted and pretty grimy.  After checking into our hotel and taking the longest showers ever, we felt like new people, and a night in a cushy hotel bed felt almost too luxurious.  (I didn’t actually sleep very well!  I guess it doesn’t take long to get used to a sleeping bag on the ground, and then a floofy {<–technical term} bed is almost too much.)  Anyway!  We woke up on Saturday morning relatively fresh and ready to reintegrate ourselves into society after a week of remote island camping.

And what’s better for re-integration into civilization than a crowded city attraction?  I wasn’t really in the mood for museums, but I had it in my head to visit the Chihuly Garden and Glasshouse, so that’s what we did.  Turned out, it was located at Seattle Center – home to the famous Space Needle and so many other Seattle attractions – so we headed down there for what we jokingly called our “civilization immersion therapy.”

I was vaguely aware of Dale Chihuly, and he’s such an iconic artist in the PNW, that taking in his work over the course of a morning seemed like just the thing to do.  But I didn’t know what to expect at all – I really wasn’t familiar with his art, although I had the idea I might have seen some of it in Boston once? – and I was blown away by the fanciful glass creations and stunning large-scale installations.

Like the Venetian ceiling – I mean, WOW.  Just… WOW.

I don’t know how much of this splendor really registered with Steve – he is colorblind.  But he was a good sport and let me take all the time I wanted, and I know he appreciated the artistry of the shapes and the fine detail work, even if he couldn’t take in all of the spectacular color.

This wooden canoe, heaped with blown glass balls of all sizes and colors, was my favorite piece in the museum.

A close second was the glasshouse, with its stunning orange and yellow flower installation and views of the Space Needle.

We took our time wandering amid a crowd of what felt like forty million people and gazed in total awe at all of Chihuly’s incredible creations.

I couldn’t stop snapping pictures.  I couldn’t help myself!

After we’d seen everything there was to see inside the art museum and glasshouse, we ventured outside into the gardens.  I remarked to Steve that my mom’s best friend, Denise, would love this place – she has a great love for modern art and has an incredible eye for shape and color.  I was sending her pictures in real time as I clicked and snapped my way through the museum and garden.

Modern art isn’t my thing, at least not quite as much, but one contemporary trend I love is the juxtaposition between bright colors and natural elements.  The Chihuly Garden had that in spades.

After we’d gotten our fill of modern art, we wandered out into the rest of the Seattle Center.  Obviously, we spent plenty of time goggling at the Space Needle.

As we approached International Fountain, grunge music was blasting from an industrial-sized speaker somewhere on the square.  As Steve remarked, it was the most Seattle thing ever.

So were the street murals.  An orca and a cup of coffee.  Y’all, it literally does not get more Seattle than that.  Especially if you are taking it all in to the sounds of Nirvana.

Seattle, I am sort of in love.

Next week: one final vacation recap, in which I attempt to cram all the iconic sights of Seattle into one monster post.

The Classics Club Challenge: Everything that Rises Must Converge, by Flannery O’Connor

The older I get, the better I know what I want to read, and the less patience I have with books that just don’t give me what I’m looking for.  My reading time is limited – curtailed by work, parenting, other responsibilities, not to mention that there are other things I want to do in the little bit of spare time I have.  So I’m choosy about the books I spend time with.  When I read a classic, it’s because they’re generally dependable for me – I know I’m going to enjoy the book and find that the reading experience was worth my time.  But there are exceptions to every rule.

It pains me to say this, because I’ve been meaning to read Flannery O’Connor for years, but – I did not like Everything that Rises Must Converge.  I went into it knowing nothing about what I’d be getting, except that O’Connor wrote a lot about race and religion – but just based on that, I figured I’d find plenty in the book to engage.  After a few of the stories, though, I realized that there was a recurring theme beyond race, morality, or faith – and it was [spoiler alert] horrible people dying horrible deaths.

The first story, the titular “Everything that Rises Must Converge,” was not so bad.  A reprehensible woman and her self-righteous (but also reprehensible in his own way) son ride the bus.  The woman, a casual racist, has an encounter with an African-American fellow transit rider, in which she exposes how ignorant and tone-deaf she is.  The African-American woman hits the reprehensible woman with her purse, and the reprehensible woman promptly has a stroke and dies.  And I found myself not even a little bit sorry.

That was just a foretaste.  The deaths got gorier and the characters more reprehensible as the stories marched grimly on – and I stopped paying close attention, mostly rushing through to get to the end.  (I’d have abandoned this book after the third story, “A View of the Woods,” had it not been on my Classics Club list.)  Sometimes O’Connor strayed from her main theme and delved into bad things happening to kids, which was even worse than horrible people dying horrible deaths.  In general, what I can say is: this book was very, very, very, very much not for me.

Since I was committed to reading it, I made a superhuman effort to appreciate O’Connor’s spare, elegant prose, the construction of her stories, and the witty descriptions she often assigned to her characters.  For instance, on the main character in “Greenleaf,” O’Connor muses:

She thought the word, Jesus, should be kept inside the church building like other words inside the bedroom.  She was a good Christian woman with a large respect for religion, though she did not, of course, believe any of it was true.

That just cuts right to it, doesn’t it?  Or the county official who marries two characters in “Parker’s Back,” and could be any disgruntled municipal worker anywhere:

The Ordinary was an old woman with red hair who had held office for forty years and looked as dusty as her books.  She married them from behind the iron-grill of a stand-up desk and when she finished, she said with a flourish, “Three dollars and fifty cents and till death do you part!” and yanked some forms out of a machine.

I did appreciate the writing and the characterization, when the characters weren’t being despicable or being murdered or murdering someone else.  And every so often I saw flashes of grace – a character who suddenly realizes that all of her meticulously defined social classes will be equal before God, for instance.  But those moments were not enough to make this a good reading experience for me.  I’m sure it’s me, and that I’m missing some vital message here – but my job and parenting life are demanding enough as it is, and when I read I want to be uplifted.  I’ll willingly struggle along for a bit, but at the end of the day I want to close a book feeling joyful – or if not joyful, exactly (looking at you, Edith Wharton) at least as though, when the final accounting comes, I’ll be glad to have given that time to that book.  I didn’t feel that for Everything that Rises Must Converge.  Again – it’s probably me.  But this book just wasn’t for me.  I can’t see myself picking up any of O’Connor’s other work or recommending it to friends.

What do you think of Southern gothic fiction?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (October 14, 2019)

Good morning, happy new week, and happy three-day weekend if you’re having one!  My firm doesn’t give Columbus/Indigenous Peoples Day off, but I am taking it off anyway, because the kids’ school is closed and because I billed almost 60 hours last week and need the extra day.  (Not that I’m expecting a day of being outnumbered by kiddos to be any kind of relaxing.)  The weekend was wonderful.  Steve and the kids gave me a fabulous birthday celebration and I smiled the whole time.  On Saturday morning I took the kids to their swim lessons while Steve stayed home and got a little work done, then we ate a quick lunch at home and walked down to the waterfront to check out the Portside Festival.  (Went via the library, where Peanut got her very first library card!)  We had a lot of fun – hugged some friends, watched a canoe paddle being made by hand, Nugget made a little boat to sail in the bathtub, and Peanut made up a dance routine that she forced Steve to perform over and over in any non-crowded space they were able to find – but I could also see it being a fun adults-only event.  There was live music, beer and chili, and some beautiful handmade wooden boats I’d have loved to look at more closely if I wasn’t trying to soothe a tantrum because Nugget missed out on watching the “anything that floats” race.  We meandered home slowly, stopping by Old Town Books for books (naturally) and Hank’s Oyster Bar for dinner.

Sunday was my actual birthday and we were out the door early and headed for the mountains – Shenandoah River State Park, this time.  I was waffling between the state park and the bigger Shenandoah National Park (which y’all know I love) but the state park won out because we’d not been there yet.  We checked out Culler’s Overlook, explored the network of trails, then headed home – via a stop in Front Royal for lunch – to hit up Nugget’s fall class get-together.  Spent a little more than an hour standing around in the home of one of Nugget’s classmates, chatting with various moms and dads and trying not to stare too obviously at the host family’s gorgeous new kitchen.  Had to leave a little early to get home and intercept my cousin Jaime, who drove all the way from New York to pick up my crib for her expected (in April) new addition.  Now that Nugget is in a big boy bed, we’ve been needing to clear the crib out, but I really wanted to give it to a family member – I was ready to get it out of my basement, but not out of my family.  Jaime’s announcement was timed perfectly, and she happily drove off with the crib, mattress, a video monitor, and a bunch of baby bed linens.  Ended the weekend with delicious eggplant parm at Mia’s Italian Kitchen, FaceTime with my parents, and then a good hour with my book before I crashed.  It was a good day.  The kind of good you can feel in your bones.

Reading.  In addition to a good birthday weekend, it was a good reading week – four classics, all of which I enjoyed immensely.  I finished The Eagle of the Ninth on Tuesday, and loved every moment; I think it might be in my top ten for the year.  Wanting to get a library book off the stack – and tick off another Classics Club entry, I read Washington Square over the next few days.  My first Henry James, and I really enjoyed it.  Over the weekend, I decided to read something bulky that I wouldn’t want to tote to the Metro and back, so I spent two days happily engrossed in The Country Diary of an Edwardian Lady.  (I also didn’t want my beautiful copy getting damaged in my work bag – the joke was on me there, because when I put it into my tote bag to take in the car on the way to the mountains on Sunday, Nugget’s lunch box nicked the cover anyway.  Oh, well.  Books were made to be read, so now the Edwardian Lady can claim a battle scar.)  I finished up Country Diary on Sunday night and because I can’t go to bed “between” books – I always have to be actively reading something – I started Wives and Daughters.  Another bulky one (I have a Folio Society hardcover edition) that I can’t really tote on the Metro, but we’ll cross that bridge tomorrow.

Watching.  The Nats, going up 2-0 in their series against the Arizona Cardinals before heading home to Washington for the next game.  Some exciting runs and catches in the game – and now!  Just two wins away from the World Series!  Not counting out the Cards, certainly, but as my former boss commented on Facebook, rather to be up 2-0 than down 0-2.  Steve, Nugget and I were alternating between fist-pumping and covering our eyes during the ninth inning.  Even Peanut was mildly interested.

Listening. Still working my way through The History of Medieval Britain and alternating with Decemberists.  Feels fitting somehow.

Making.  My blue seed stitch scarf, which Nugget has claimed for himself (we’ll see) – I’m going to have to start on the kids’ Christmas gifts that they want, sooner than later.  Also making: progress in the basement, thanks to my cousin taking my crib off my hands.

Blogging.  A book review coming for you on Wednesday, and those Seattle pictures I promised – for real this time – on Friday.  It’s going to be another busy week at work, but I’ve just got to get that post done.  I’ve just got to.

Loving.  Steve, for making my birthday weekend so wonderful.  Everything from the mountain hike to the yummy Italian food to the kids leaping out from under a blanket with my new rollaboard (I’ve been wanting one for years) was just what I wanted.  He said he had a great weekend too, which made me so happy.  I’m glad that the things I wanted to do were fun for more than just me!

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Another Trip Around The Sun

My birthday is next week.  It’s not a milestone or anything, but I never do particularly well with the idea of another year.  I’m extremely aware of the passage of time – to a point that it’s weird, Steve would tell you.  Since I turned 22, I haven’t seen the point of getting older – no new privileges to look forward to, just big questions like, have I accomplished everything I thought I would by this age?  Ugh.

This year, I’m adjusting my attitude.  For months now, it’s felt like there were reminders everywhere of the fact that none of us are guaranteed another day, let alone another year.  I’ve watched a dear friend grieve the death of her husband – he was in his early forties – in a workplace accident.  Another friend is back in chemo, and a neighbor died in childbirth.  I saw other friends reel from shock at Rachel Held Evans’ passing at only 37; I didn’t follow Rachel’s work, but I know she spoke to many hearts, and… 37.

So this year, I’m approaching my birthday with a grateful heart instead of with dread.  Rather than thinking, ugh, another year older, I’m thinking, yay! I get another year!

Another year to read books, chase two crazy kids around the playground, travel, mess around with my cameras, do yoga, bake with my favorite sous-chef, garden, soak up sunshine, make memories, sip wine, spend time with my favorite people, hike and paddle, watch elementary school concerts, pet the neighbor dogs, ride bikes, splash in the ocean, bug my family members by talking incessantly about killer whales, and give Steve and the kiddos ALL the hugs.  And so much more.  Another year isn’t something to moan about, it’s something to celebrate.

Here’s to another year.

The Fall List 2019

I’m on record as saying that I love summer and fall almost equally, but fall just barely edges out summer in my affections.  What’s not to like?  Turning leaves, crisp air, wood smoke, the return of hockey season, Oktoberfest beers, fall baking, apple-picking mornings with friends… it’s all wonderful.  And as always, I have a long list of things I’d like to get around to doing, and ideas to record in the Great Ledger of Family Adventures.  It’s never easy to whittle it down to ten.  But when it’s all said and done, here’s what I’m hoping to do this fall:

  • Make it up to New York at least once (preferably twice), and visit my grandmother.
  • Related: get back into the habit of writing letters to my grandmother.
  • Get in a birthday hike somewhere cool – maybe Shenandoah, maybe one of the farther-afield state parks.
  • Finally watch Hocus Pocus.  Can you believe I’ve never seen it?
  • Go apple-picking with friends (a tradition!) and make a big batch of applesauce (and maybe a pie).
  • Finally start working on a big family memory-keeping project I’ve been plotting for ages.
  • Take the kids pumpkin-picking at Wegmeyer Farms and to the blockbuster neighborhood trick-or-treating extravaganza.
  • Re-read Poems Bewitched and Haunted.
  • Run a fall 5K.
  • Ride the Potomac Water Taxi.  How have I still never done this?

Here’s to a fall season of fun, joy, and memory-making!

What do you have on the agenda for fall?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (October 7, 2019)

So begins a new week, and I’m going into four straight weeks of extreme overload at work – wish me luck, friends, because I’m going to need it.  I tried to rest up for the week as best I could this weekend, because I’ve got a hectic one ahead and they’re going to get worse before they get better.  So it was the usual bumping around town.  On Saturday morning we lazed around in jammies until it was time to hit the pool for week two of the kiddos’ swim lessons.  Nugget wasn’t especially enthusiastic, but we struck a deal – I would tell the instructor to keep him in two feet or less, and he would participate – and he ended up having a super time.  Peanut, of course, loved every minute.  The rest of Saturday was kind of a blur.  I know I went to the library, and to Target to pick out sheets and a quilt for Nugget’s new big boy bed (the poor guy had been sleeping on a pair of scratchy purple Queen Elsa sheets) but I don’t remember much else – other than that Steve and I watched our Sabres kick some @$$ after the kids went to bed, and it was like old times.  Sunday brought another lazy morning, then Nugget and I headed out to Herndon for his best buddy’s birthday party – on a farm!  There were tractor rides, goats to pet, and a huge cake from Costco.  What more could you want?  And that’s it – I ended the weekend curled up with a book, per usual, and I’m hoping that a simple weekend, filled with family time and hugs from friends, will carry me through the next phase of this absurdly busy month.

Reading.  It was a good reading week – slow to start, but all so enjoyable.  I spent most of the week over Toil and Trouble: 15 Tales of Women and Witchcraft.  As with any short story collection, some were winners for me and others less so, but Jessica Spotswood and Tess Sharpe continue to knock these girl-focused short story collections out of the park.  I set Toil and Trouble aside briefly when I realized that I was about to bump up against a library deadline for Pumpkinheads – which I read over the course of one day’s commuting.  It’s already back at the library, and I wish I’d spent more time over it instead of blazing through to see if Deja would get her snacks and Josiah would talk to the Fudge Shoppe girl.  I was back at Toil and Trouble the same evening, and finished it up.  Also wrapped up The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe during our family read-aloud time last week (and we’ve moved on to Prince Caspian after the boys outvoted Peanut; I abstained).  Since library deadlines aren’t too pressing at the moment, I was able to turn to my own shelves and grab a relatively new acquisition that I’ve been excited about – The Eagle of the Ninth, the first book in Rosemary Sutcliff’s classic Roman Britain series.  About halfway through after the weekend, and loving it.

Watching.  The best thing I watched this week was the Sabres dominating the New Jersey Devils on home ice on Saturday night.  I knit, Steve and I high-fived every goal, and it felt like 2006.  (I even lamented the fact that my nickname for Brian Campbell’s spin-o-rama move – “The Can Opener” – never caught on.  I used to complain about this on a nightly basis.)  Other than hockey – a little of this and a little of that.  Mostly, I watched what the kids were watching, which – this week – was The Empire Strikes Back and several episodes of Carmen Sandiego.

Listening.  Nerd alert: I started listening to The Great Courses lectures on the history of Medieval England from the Romans through the War of the Roses.  Other than that – a little of this and a little of that.  Some Indigo Girls, some Decemberists, some podcasts.

Making.  It’s been awhile since I took my knitting needles out, but I finally finished up a hat that had been lingering for about two years and started a new seed stitch scarf.  Both kids requested hand knits for Christmas this year, so I might be busy.

Blogging.  I flaked on you last Friday, didn’t I?  Sorry about that.  Blame October – this month is already crazy and getting busier all the time.  It’s going to get worse before it gets better, as I said above, but I can promise I won’t flake on you this week.  On Wednesday I’ll have my fall list – always a fun post to write, because this is my favorite season, just edging out summer – and on Friday some musings on birthdays.  Seattle next week (hopefully, provided I don’t get so overwhelmed I stop functioning as a human, which is possible).

Loving.  It’s the mooooooooost wonderful tiiiiiiiiiiiiime of the yeeeeeeeeeeeear!  ASIAN PEAR SEASON!  Nobody understands me, but Asian pears are my very favorite fruit, and I wait all year long for them to hit the markets for just a few short weeks.  I know you all think I’m wrong, but actually you are the ones who are wrong, because Asian pears are the pinnacle of produce deliciousness.  Fight me.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Reading Round-Up: September 2019

Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby. I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book. Here are my reads for September, 2019

Still Life (Chief Inspector Gamache #1), by Louise Penny – My Aunt Maria has been encouraging me to read Louise Penny’s “Three Pines” mysteries for ages now, and I finally picked up the first one.  Wow – I loved it, and can’t believe I let myself wait so long!  (I had thought Louise Penny would be too scary.  Turns out I had her mixed up with Tana French.)  Penny sets her scenes so beautifully, and I loved her writing, the characters, the pacey plot – even if I did guess the identity of the killer.  I can’t wait to read the next one, but since it’s set around Christmas I’m saving it for December.

Garden Poems, ed. John Hollander – I’ve been picking my way through this little anthology of poems about gardens and flowers for months now.  As always with the Pocket Poets series, there are some really beautiful selections.  It was a light and calming read.

Leia, Princess of Alderaan, by Claudia Gray – I have really enjoyed delving back into the Star Wars universe with the new movies and some of the new books.  After reading Bloodline, I was excited to pick up Leia: Princess of Alderaan, by the same author.  Both were wonderful, although I think I liked Bloodline a bit better.  (I did enjoy the Narnia reference in Princess of Alderaan.)  Now we need a Holdo novel!

Anne of the Island (Anne of Green Gables #3), by L. M. Montgomery – A perennial read for back-to-school season, I pulled out my favorite volume in the eight book Anne series and spent a day happily wrapped up in Anne’s studies at Redmond College and life at Patty’s Place.  There’s not much to say about Anne that hasn’t already been said, but – I just love everything about this book.  I laughed, cried, and hugged the book at the end – gently, because I was reading my treasured first edition.

How to Be a Woman, by Caitlin Moran – Probably wouldn’t have picked this one up if my book club hadn’t been reading it (yes, we’re trying to start up again).  Caitlin Moran is not nearly as well-known here in the Colonies as she is on the other side of the Pond, but I found her funny and relatable.  (Although her childhood was horrifying.)

A Poetry Handbook, by Mary Oliver – I’ve been on a total poetry kick lately, in case you haven’t noticed, and I really wanted to read some more about the technical aspects of the craft, to better appreciate what I’ve been reading.  I’m not sure how much I really retained, but Oliver’s down-to-earth style broke down and explained the different styles and methods of poetry writing in a really approachable way.

English Country Houses, by Vita Sackville-West – Grabbed off my shelf on a whim, and I enjoyed this book-length essay about the traditional English “country house.”  Sackville-West wrote English Country Houses as a piece of World War II propaganda, and soldiers carried it with them as a reminder of the traditions and charms of the country they were defending.  It’s well to read this with that in mind, because Sackville-West tends to get a bit sniffy about other countries and a bit defensive of Great Britain’s fundamental superiority over every other country – which could be annoying, if you happened to forget that this was wartime propaganda “to keep the spirits up.”

Katherine of Aragon: The True Queen (Six Tudor Queens #1), by Alison Weir – I think I saw the “Six Tudor Queens” series on Instagram and, to be honest, a six-book series of six-hundred page novels about the lives of Henry VIII’s wives is very much my jam.  I really enjoyed the first one, focusing on Katherine of Aragon – although man, was it sad.  My only complaint was that the book was too long.  Weir is a historian by training and a writer of historical biographies, and it shows – both the good (so well-researched) and the less good (probably don’t need details of every tapestry hanging in Katherine’s room in every palace where she ever lived).  I thought the book could have benefitted from an editor’s red pen and would have been perfect if it was about 400 pages.  But I still had a good time over it, and I’ll certainly keep reading.  (Inquiring minds want to know how Weir is going to squeeze 500+ pages out of Anne of Cleves.)

Everything that Rises Must Converge, by Flannery O’Connor – Read for my Classics Club list, and I’ll be reviewing it in full here shortly, so I’ll keep this short and just say: I HATED EVERY WORD.  Perhaps I’m just not smart enough to “get” O’Connor, but I didn’t see the point to this parade of horribles at all.  It was just a long slog of horrible people dying in horrible ways, with the occasional bad stuff happening to kids, just to keep you on your toes.  A miserable reading experience.

Slightly Foxed No. 7: Waist High in Kale, ed. Gail Pirkis – Slightly Foxed always delivers!  I am working my way through back issues slowly, so as to savor them, and issue number 7 was a particular winner.  The essays on George Eliot and Angela Thirkell were my favorites, obviously.  (I am nothing if not predictable!)

Washington Black, by Esi Edugyan – This was another one that I saw all over social, and was a little worried about picking up – on account of all the hype.  It was good, but not great.  I really liked the concept – a young slave boy is plucked from his brutal and heartbreaking life and thrust into a life of travel, adventure, art and science.  Parts of the book were really wonderful, but the story wasn’t as smooth or as pacey as I’d expected it to be, with such a fabulous concept.  A good, solid read, but won’t be in my top ten.

 Home Fires, by Julie Summers – Spotted on a blog (I forget which) and well worth the time and effort it took to read – Home Fires (published as Jambusters in the U.K.) told the story of the massive contribution made by local Women’s Institutes during World War II.  It was a book that demanded a surprising amount of attention and close reading, but worth it.

Whew!  Nine TWELVE (edited thanks to the lovely Zandria, and hey – I never claimed to be a mathematician) books in September – a good total, given how busy and overwhelmed I’ve been at work.  Some of the added reading time is attributable to having the Metro back – hurray!  It was a bit of a roller-coaster as far as enjoyment went.  One book I absolutely loathed, a few solid but not amazing reads, and Anne Shirley and Chief Inspector Armand Gamache on the other end of the spectrum.  I have some fun Halloween-ish books in the queue for October, so just hoping I get to them – it’s going to be a particularly crazy month at work, which I am sort of dreading.  I’ll need lots of books to keep me sane.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (September 30, 2019)

Hello, new week.  I need another day – anyone else?  I feel like that’s a recurring theme.  I was a ball of stress all last week, for reasons that are not important enough to get into here – just your run of the mill “overwhelmed at work” stuff.  Since I worked all last weekend (traveling for my firm’s all-attorney retreat) I didn’t get to do any of the things that I usually do to set myself up for a good week ahead – things like cleaning the fridge, prepping food for the week, dividing up the kids’ lunch snacks, packing my gym bag… Anyway, that’s all to say that when the weekend did come, I was totally drained.

On Saturday we were out the door early for our new activity – swim lessons.  I’ve been wanting to sign the kids up for swim classes for years now, and it’s really gotten to the point that they need to be able to swim, for safety’s sake.  They get lessons at summer camp, but we don’t keep it up during the school year – until now.  I signed them up for an eight week class at one of the local rec centers.  They were both nervous to start; Peanut shook the jitters off quickly and ended up having a great time, but Nugget just sat by the side of the pool and cried the entire time.  (And if you’re wondering: don’t the instructors have strategies to deal with a scared kid? – I was wondering the same thing.)  Hoping for a better lesson next week.  He actually loves the water and can dunk, kick, swim underwater – just for whatever reason, he was terrified this time.  On Saturday afternoon, Steve had to work, so I took the kids out to a nature center birthday party for one of Peanut’s friends.  Sunday was Peanut’s day.  We put her birthday party off until September, so that school friends could join us, since whenever we try to celebrate around her actual birthday – in August – someone is invariably on vacation.  Peanut requested Pump It Up, so that’s what we did.  There was bouncing, sliding, ball pit shenanigans, and dancing to “Old Town Road.”  (It’s in your head now!)  She had so much fun, and got so sugar-high, that she acted like a wild animal at home and got sent to bed early.  Ah, good times.

Reading.  Slow, but good, reading week.  I finished both Washington Black and Slightly Foxed No. 7 on Monday, then spent the rest of the workweek over Home Fires: The Story of the Women’s Institute in World War II.  (Published in the U.K. as Jambusters, if you have trouble finding one or the other at your library – or on Goodreads.)  It was slow going, but very interesting.  I finished Home Fires up on Sunday morning (and am now looking forward to watching the adaptation on Masterpiece) and switched gears completely – to Toil & Trouble: 15 Tales of Women and Witchcraft.  I love the girl-forward short story anthologies that Jessica Spotswood and Tess Sharpe edit (this is the third one I’ve read) and I am ALWAYS here for witchcraft, so this was a clear winner for me from page one.  I’m trying to resist the temptation to tear through it in a day.

Listening.  Podcasts, per usual.  At the moment, I am on a parenting podcast jag and have been listening to back-to-back episodes of The Mom Hour.  Thinking a lot about Meagan and Sarah’s advice in the “Finding Time and Making Time” episode – especially Meagan’s sage comment that “If you’re not happy with your job, or with how your home looks, or with your health, you don’t have filler time.”  That is tough love, and to be honest I’m not sure I’m totally ready for it.  Because I have places where I’d like to make progress on the career, home and health fronts – all three – but I also need that time to decompress with a book; it’s essential self-care for me.  But after that episode I am considering more carefully how I am using my time.  There was a lot to think about in there.

Watching.  So much watching, guys!  Lots of Harry Potter, as the kids have fallen way down a rabbit hole and I am loving it.  I may have fallen, too.  Rumors that I was browsing “adult Luna Lovegood costumes” for Halloween are not exaggerated.  But most exciting of all, Steve and I had a date night on Thursday and went to see Downton Abbey.  LOVED.  IT.  Loved every moment!  I didn’t know much about the story line, other than the basic “King and Queen are coming to Downton!” overarching plot.  But I had read something – no spoilers – to the effect of that this movie wrapped up each character’s story arc with just the ending you would want for them – and I think that was true, although each of the characters was left with more journey to complete and their stories will live on.  It’s rare that a movie actually makes me cry with joy, but Downton Abbey did.

Moving.  Not as much as I would like, unfortunately.  I got in one run, an 86 degree scorcher on Wednesday.  Was hoping to squeeze in another quick run on Friday after court, but ended up having too much to do, and found myself glued to my laptop all afternoon.  Blah.  Hoping to get in some good sessions on the elliptical and with the weights at the gym this week.  I really need to loosen up and de-stress.

Blogging.  September reading round-up on Wednesday (so many good books last month!) and Seattle snaps on Friday.  I’m not sure if I’ll be sharing our entire weekend in Seattle in one big omnibus blog post or breaking it into two posts, so we’ll all be surprised together!

Loving.  My neighborhood!  I know I say this all the time, but – I have found such a loving, uplifting, positive little community here.  A couple of weeks ago, we had a scare with our house – smoke in the basement.  Because it originated near the natural gas line, the fire department took it very seriously and dispatched five fire trucks and an ambulance to our house.  (We were all outside and fine.)  At the end of the day, the house was fine – but when I posted a snap on Instagram of my four-year-old looking incredibly satisfied to see a fire truck AT! HIS! HOUSE!, my community jumped into action.  I got multiple messages from local friends asking if we needed anything, asking how they could help.  We didn’t need anything at all, but if it had been worse?  I know the community would have rallied around us, because that is what they’re like.  On the other end of the spectrum – last week, my friend Adrienne posted an “ask” on our neighborhood Facebook group, for 12- and 18-month boy clothes, which I have in spades.  I told her to come on over, and she stopped by on Friday afternoon and left with a bulging bag.  I was working from home and having an especially stressful day, and it was balm to the spirit to sit on the floor in Nugget’s room for half an hour, going through baby clothes and chatting with a friend.  For so long in Buffalo, I missed that sense of belonging to a place and to people, and now that I have it, it feels better than I could have imagined.  What started as a decluttering project – leading me to join a Buy Nothing group in my neighborhood – has turned into walking and coffee dates, a book club, friends to commute with on the Metro, and a bustling little gifting economy where people jump to fulfill one another’s needs.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?