Happy 2020! Here’s a Poem for Adventures to Come

Ithaka, by Constantine P. Cavafy

As you set out for Ithaka
hope the voyage is a long one,
full of adventure, full of discovery.
Laistrygonians and Cyclops,
angry Poseidon – don’t be afraid of them:
you’l never find things like that on your way
as long as you keep your thoughts raised high,
as long as a rare excitement
stirs your spirit and your body.
Laistrygonians and Cyclops,
wild Poseidon – you won’t encounter them
unless you bring them along inside your soul,
unless your soul sets them up in front of you.

Hope the voyage is a long one.
May there be many a summer morning when,
with what pleasure, what joy,
you come into harbors seen for the first time;
may you stop at Phoenician trading stations
to buy fine things,
mother of pearl and coral, amber and ebony,
sensual perfume of every kind –
as many sensual perfumes as you can;
and may you visit many Egyptian cities
to gather stores of knowledge from their scholars.

Keep Ithaka always in your mind.
Arriving there is what you are destined for.
But do not hurry the journey at all.
Better if it lasts for years,
so you are old by the time you reach the island,
wealthy with all you have gained on the way,
not expecting Ithaka to make you rich.

Ithaka gave you the marvelous journey.
Without her you would not have set out.
She has nothing left to give you now.

And if you find her poor, Ithaka won’t have fooled you.
Wise as you will have become, so full of experience,
you will have understood by then what these Ithakas
mean.

Happy New Year!  May it bring you many adventures.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (December 30, 2019)

Happy (almost) New Year to you, my friends!  We’ve made it through Christmas and Hanukkah and Yule and most of 2019 – I hope you’re getting a chance to relax and recuperate these last two days of the year.  I’m not – it’s the last final push to make it to the highest bonus threshold at work and I’m powering through two more days of billing.  No rest for the weary… I’m really looking forward to 2020.  It will still be busy, but at least there’s some breathing room ahead (maybe – I always say that, but it never seems to shake out).  Anyway – if you were celebrating last week, I hope it was magical!  The kids really enjoyed their Christmas.  The art cart above was the highlight of the morning – I spent hours planning it, constructing the cart (from IKEA), buying all the supplies and assembling everything, and I was crossing my fingers that Peanut would love it.  (After all that work and planning and shopping and love, if she’d turned up her nose at it I would have been devastated.)  Fortunately, she did love it, and has been enjoying pushing it around the house and giving everyone tours of each of the trays.  Any guesses which supply I’m going to have to replenish first?  My money’s on the jar of washi tape.  But both kids really loved their gifts, and so did Steve and I, when we got around to exchanging (which didn’t happen until after the two short insane people went to bed on Christmas night).  I got a pile of books, of course, and not one, not two, but three Emile Henry bread-baking pans (the bread cloche, baguette baker, and long covered baker) – so expect to see lots more adventures in bread-baking in 2020.

Reading.  An excellent last-full-week-of-the-year in books!  On Monday I cruised through Noel Streatfeild’s Christmas Stories over the course of my morning and afternoon commutes, then turned my attention to A Christmas Party – my first Georgette Heyer, if you can believe it.  I took a brief break from the Heyer to read A Country Doctor’s Commonplace Book on Christmas Day, which I’ve decided should be a tradition.  Finished up A Christmas Party on Saturday and – once again – guessed the killer.  I’m on a roll with these mystery novels!  After Christmas I was finally spent on the holiday reading, and picked up I Was A Stranger from my Slightly Foxed shelf.  It’s been on my TBR for ages and I can’t believe it took me so long to get to it – I’ve loved every moment and can’t put it down.  At press time I am about thirty pages from the end, and finding it very hard to discipline myself to do my work instead of hiding away with my book.  I’ll finish tonight and then – not sure what I’ll turn to next.  I’ve got a pile of new Christmas books (book haul post coming soon, but I’m not sure when) so maybe one of them.

Watching.  It’s been a Harry Potter bonanza around here lately.  The kids are really into the movies, and recently watched both Prisoner of Azkaban and Goblet of Fire for the first time.  Prisoner is my favorite, but I wasn’t sure how the kids would react to the Dementors.  They were definitely scared of them and needed reassurance that they’re not real, but they seem to have powered through and Peanut is professing that Prisoner is her favorite, too.

Listening.  Not much, really.  I’ve been working remotely and not driving much, so my podcast minutes are down substantially.  I did listen a bit to some of the Slightly Awesome holiday episodes while driving to and from Target to run Christmas-related errands, but mostly I’ve just been enjoying quiet whenever I can snatch it.

Making.  A magical Christmas morning for my munchkins, which took a lot of work over the course of the week – lots of wrapping, tag-writing, organizing, and assembling.  And, when I had a spare minute, some goodies in the kitchen.  We had a Whole Foods catered dinner for Christmas Day, but I whipped up two batches of Molly Wizenberg’s herbed fingerling potatoes over the course of the week, and batches of husarenkrapferl (traditional Austrian thumbprint cookies) and vanillekiepferl (vanilla crescents, also a traditional Austrian Christmas cookie).  Oh, and (ducks) a batch of gluhwein, which I finished myself.

Blogging.  I have a poem for you on Wednesday, to start 2020 off on the right note.  And my December reading recap on Friday.  Check in with me then!

Loving.  Christmas with littles is often mayhem, which is fun in many ways, but this year I’ve been seeking out and soaking up moments of quiet, and making a point to notice them.  They’ve been very needed after a hectic year and some recent drama.  On Christmas Eve we went to the family service at our church, which is not known for being especially peaceful (but it is very cute) – but every so often a hush would descend amidst the din of dozens of children chattering, and it was kind of magical.  This is also the time of the year for taking stock, looking backward and forward, and setting goals and intentions – all some of my favorite things.  I have a lot of plans for 2020 – big and small.  These are the things on my mind during the rare quiet and contemplative moment.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

 

The Books of the Decade

So the sun is setting on this decade and rising on a new one, with all the mixed feelings that brings – optimism, hope, maybe some trepidation, and the expected amounts of nostalgia for the past ten years.  A lot happened in my life in the 2010-2019 decade.  I had two babies, traveled to Europe twice, moved five times, changed jobs three times – and read consistently throughout it all.  And read a lot of really good books – books that engaged me, that made me laugh and cry (sometimes on the same page), books with characters that became friends, books I’d read a dozen times or more and books I read for the first time.  And while this seems like an impossible undertaking, I’m going to do my best to give you the best of the best here: one for each year.

2010: A Year in Provence, by Peter Mayle.  This was a light year of reading for me.  With two years under my belt at my first law firm, I was starting to do more complicated work and was focused on climbing the career ladder.  But I did read a bit, and the highlight has to have been reading Peter Mayle’s A Year in Provence as Steve and I actually traveled through Provence.

2011: As Always, Julia: The Letters of Julia Child and Avis de Voto, by Julia Child and Avis de Voto. I read a lot of good books in 2011, but the one that stands out as my book of the year has to be As Always, Julia: The Letters of Julia Child and Avis de Voto, because it was reading that book at around the same time that led Katie and me to begin a snail mail correspondence that lasted for several years (and continues as an online-and-in-person-when-we-can friendship to this day).

2012: Wolf Hall, by Hilary Mantel. My reading numbers took a big jump in 2012, which is surprising because that was the year I became a mother.  In many ways, it was a hard year – between pregnancy complications and an early delivery, I really needed a lot of comfort reading, but when I look back on my book choices, I read mostly contemporary literary fiction (which I like, but which isn’t all that comforting).  One book that stayed with me was Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel (I also read Bring Up the Bodies in 2012, and rated both five stars on Goodreads).  Wolf Hall was a wonderful reading experience, but brings back additional associations for me, because that was the book I was in the midst of reading when we finally got the coveted NICU discharge.  I remember returning from the mothers’ lounge, Wolf Hall in one hand and a container of pumped milk in the other, to see Steve smilingly announce that the doctor had just signed Peanut’s discharge papers.

2013: Where’d You Go, Bernadette, by Maria Semple. This was a year of upheaval – our first full year of parenthood, and we pulled up stakes and moved from northern Virginia to Buffalo, New York.  The move was a huge adjustment for the whole family, and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t really struggle with it.  (You could probably have guessed that if you didn’t already know, because we moved back to Virginia just three years later.)  I took refuge in my beloved classics, re-reading old favorites like the entire Anne of Green Gables series and Jane Eyre and delving into Middlemarch for the first time (which I have since re-read).  But the book that has stayed with me was one that was everywhere in 2013 – Where’d You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple.  I’ve read it multiple times since that first reading and it both makes me laugh and wrings out my heart.

2014: Crocodile on the Sandbank, by Elizabeth Peters. I had a lot going on in 2014 (seems to be the theme of the decade – more each year).  I started a new job, got pregnant with Nugget, and we moved to what we thought was our forever house.  With all of these changes, it’s no wonder I struggled through a reading slump for much of the fall.  But one very good thing came out of my 2014 reading: I met Amelia Peabody for the first time, in Elizabeth Peters’ The Crocodile on the Sandbank.  In addition to being a wonderful character, Amelia gave me another connection with my bookworm grandmama – I fell in love with Peters’ books independently, only to learn afterwards, from my mother, that Grandmama was a devoted Amelia Peabody fan.

2015: Dead Wake, by Erik Larson. It was hard to pick a book of the year for 2015; there were several candidates vying for the top spot.  All the Light We Cannot See, which was lyrical and gorgeous?  Station Eleven, which kept me company in several doctor’s office waiting rooms as my second pregnancy wound to a close?  Lumberjanes, Vol. I, which taught me that I could enjoy comics?  All solid candidates, but there was one book that held my attention and actually kept me riveted even through the fog of days with a newborn and a toddler: Erik Larson’s Dead Wake.

2016: To the Bright Edge of the World, by Eowyn Ivey. More upheaval!  After three years of trying to carve out a life and a place for ourselves in Buffalo, Steve and I decided it was time to go home, so we pulled up stakes again – moving first into temporary housing in January, and then back to Alexandria in July.  The move was a relief, but spending almost a full year without my books (they went into storage while we sorted out the final move, and then it took me awhile to get through my unpacking) was a total bummer.  I read some fabulous books, including my first Trollope (The Warden) and my first Persephone (Greenbanks) but nothing kept me riveted quite like Eowyn Ivey’s sophomore novel, To the Bright Edge of the World.

2017: Barchester Towers, by Anthony Trollope. Finally, after what felt like years of a nomadic existence, we stayed in one place all year long.  Work was hard and stressful in many ways, and I turned to books – as always – to keep me sane.  I read some great ones this year, but the best by far – not even a question – was Barchester Towers, by Anthony Trollope.  It was funny and entertaining, and the pages flew by; not something you expect from a Victorian doorstopper.  The best part, though, was reading it at the same time as my friend Susan, and discussing it.  There’s nothing like a like-minded friend to give even more spice to your reading life.

2018: Period Piece, by Gwen Raverat. I had a wonderful 2018 in books – revising old friends like Bernadette Fox, Catherine Morland and Anne Shirley, and exploring genre novels outside my comfort zone.  This is another one where it’s just hard to pick a “winner” – there were so many winners, which means the real winner is me.  North and South helped me through the loss of a beloved family member.  And 84, Charing Cross Road was a serious contender for my top spot, because books about books always hold a special place in my heart.  But ultimately I think the best reading experience of the year was also one of the first – a January book – Period Piece, by Gwen Raverat.

2019: Wives and Daughters, by Elizabeth Gaskell.  Bringing us to the year just ended!  I’ve churned through 124 books so far in 2019, which was high even for me – and there are still five days left in the year, so plenty of time for more.  Read through a lot of life ups and downs again, and turned to books for comfort whenever things just seemed to be getting really complicated – which did happen.  I read more classics than usual in the past year, which is how you can tell that I’ve been overwhelmed; that’s my comfort reading.  And it’s between two classics that I’ve had to struggle to name a book of the year.  I loved everything about the experience of reading The Eagle of the Ninth, by Rosemary Sutcliff, and I see myself revisiting her Roman Britain again and again.  But ultimately I think my book of the year has been Wives and Daughters, which cemented Elizabeth Gaskell as my favorite Victorian writer.

It was HARD to name just one top book to represent each year of the past decade!  But that’s a good problem to have.  I loved looking back on a decade’s worth of reading.  There were a few duds in there, but there were many, many more wonderful books.  Reading is a comfort to me in the hard times, and a joy always.

What were your books of the decade?

Merry

Popping in to wish those of you who are celebrating today a very Merry Christmas, and those of you who are not celebrating but have the day off a very happy bonus day, and everyone a good midweek.

We are surfacing from the detritus of a morning of gift-opening; we did church yesterday, so we’ve got nowhere to be today and it feels very luxurious.  The kids are done, but the parents still have a pile to get through, thanks to neglecting our own gifts in favor of making sure the shorties were happy and not arguing.  Santa’s offerings of workbooks and mittens were received with grudging gratitude, but the kiddos loved their presents from Mom and Dad.  (winks)

Now Steve is napping, and when he gets up we will finish our opening, and then at some point I’ll peel myself off the couch and go see what time the Field Roast needs to go into the oven.

A very happy one to you and yours!  Back on Friday with a booklist, naturally.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (December 23, 2019)

First of all, Solstice blessings and Happy Hanukkah – lights are beginning to shine and it’s very needed.  And it’s almost Christmas!  Are you ready?  I pretty much am – just have a few more gifts to wrap and label.  The house is a wreck, which doesn’t exactly put me in the holiday spirit – even after I worked my tail off all day on Sunday to try to get things into shape.  It’s never enough.  Actually, Christmas spirit is in short supply around here.  This past week was… not awesome.  We’re currently in the midst of a very frustrating – and really sad – issue with our kids’ school.  I’m not going to get into details, but we have some decisions to make over the next couple of weeks.  Everyone is a little on edge.

I devoted most of the weekend to Christmas preparations.  Feeling not particularly sparkly, and rather like Elizabeth von Arnim, I rolled up my sleeves and got the rest of the shopping done on Saturday (nothing like leaving it ’til the last minute, right?) then stood in line at the post office for almost ninety minutes, waiting my turn to send packages off to Rebecca in Florida and my brother in Colorado.  When I got home, the best treat was waiting for me – Zan!  And she brought wine and cheese!  Steve and Paul were watching the Bills game, and Zan and I filled the evening with chat, cooking – I whipped up some broccoli-cheddar soup and had a homemade focaccia waiting for us – and playing with the kids.  It was a soul-filling kind of night.

Sunday brought more chores – runs to Target (for stocking stuffers) and the grocery store, then fridge-clearing, more soup-making (green soup this time) and lots and lots and lots of gift-wrapping.  Steve took the kids to the playground for a long stretch of the afternoon, which I used to power through my wrapping and to build Peanut’s big Christmas present this year.  (Y’all, I am so excited about it and can’t wait to show you.  It was a labor of love, and I hope it makes her morning.)  I finished just in time to join the fam and revive a Christmas tradition that Steve and I used to enjoy back in our DINK days (that’s Dual Income No Kids for you uninitiated): a walk around Old Town Alexandria to admire the Christmas decorations, followed by – what else? – WINE.  Well, this year I had wine – Chianti, to be specific.  Steve had a spiced chai stout that tasted like Christmas in a glass, and the kids had lemonade, and we paired our beverages with bruschetta and pizza from our favorite neighborhood pizza joint.  Nothing better.  And I begin to feel a tiny twinge of Christmas spirit.

Reading.  Despite feeling a little grinchy this season, my reading is as festive as it gets.  It was a busy week with a couple of late nights at work, and that always spells less reading time – but what time I had, I spent on my Christmas pile.  Most of the week was dedicated to The Santa Klaus Murder, which I really enjoyed.  And I guessed the killer – again!  I’m on a roll lately.  Over the end of the week, and most of the weekend, I read Home for the Holidays in snatches, just whenever I could, and finally finished it up on Sunday evening.  I just love those book club girls.  Then finally, still trying to perk up, I picked up the absolutely gorgeous Noel Streatfeild’s Christmas Stories.  I’ve never actually read any Noel Streatfeild, despite Kathleen Kelly’s enthusiastic recommendation of the “Shoe books.”  Glad to be finally correcting that omission.

Watching.  The best watching this week was live – Steve and I saw Amadeus at the Folger Theatre on Thursday night.  I’ve always wanted to see a show in the Folger Shakespeare Library’s traditional Elizabethan theatre, and the production of Amadeus was absolutely wonderful.  Equal parts hilarious and heartbreaking, and it was gorgeously acted.  I loved every second, and promptly downloaded an album of Daniel Barenboim, my favorite pianist, playing Mozart’s piano sonatas.

Listening.  Lots of podcasts, per usual – I’m really enjoying the holiday episodes of all my favorites.  And they kept me good company while I was running errands and wrapping gifts this weekend.  For the highlight, you’ll have to scroll down – it’s “loving” material this week.

Making.  Plenty of cooking!  The aforementioned broccoli-cheddar soup and homemade rosemary focaccia were the main things, and as I also noted, I whipped up a batch of green soup – everybody likes nutrients.  I also made a pile of wrapped presents (Steve is making out like a bandit this year) and Peanut’s big gift, which was something I had to both build and assemble.  Are you curious yet?

Blogging.  I actually don’t know what I’m going to blog this week.  I usually have my posts pre-scheduled, but this is going to be a fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants kind of week.  I’m actually planning to take it mostly off from the blog, but I will pop in on Wednesday and Friday with a picture or two, maybe a poem, who knows.

Loving.  For your listening pleasure this week, I have two things.  First, if you have been living under a rock and have not yet seen the Von Trapp great-grandchildren singing Edelweiss, what are you waiting for?  This video is seven years old, so clearly I am one of those people living under a rock, but it seems to be having a moment – several of my friends shared it on Facebook this week.  It will renew your faith in humanity.  And second, my favorite podcast episode of the week was the second I’ve listened to from the Historic Royal Palaces Podcast, which I’ve only recently encountered – and it was a good one: Dr. Annie Gray hilariously recapping six hundred years of British Christmas dinner traditions.  There is literally no more entertaining companion for gift-wrapping than Dr. Gray – I’m throwing down the gauntlet.  Whether she was tossing off recipes, discussing bawdy Medieval carols or Queen Victoria (“all those disgusting children… she hated the children”) Dr. Gray’s history of Christmas dinner was madcap and just good fun.  I was laughing out loud the entire hour as I slapped scotch tape on the kids’ Christmas packages.

Asking.  What are you reading this Christmas week?

Themed Reads: Three Christmas Laugh-Fests

The sparkly season is upon us, and with it, the season of reading All The Christmas Books.  I have a stack of holiday-themed murder mysteries to take me through to New Year’s, which should show you about where I am this year.  But I’m planning to introduce some levity with a few funny books, too.  Blood on the mistletoe is all well and good, but some Christmas slapstick never hurts.

Christmas Pudding, by Nancy Mitford is the holiday in true Mitford style – a little snark, a little booze, and a lot of old-fashioned English wit.  Lady Maria Bobbin is hosting Christmas at her country estate, and a hodgepodge of “Bright Young Things” has gathered to celebrate the season.  There’s a featherbrained heiress, a shabby-chic couple sponging off wealthy friends, and an unfortunate sap who’s just published a tragic novel that no one understands (it’s been hailed by critics as the funniest farce of the year).  There’s politics, explosions (kind of), sticky sweets, horses, and a Christmas Day chapter that’s one of the funniest holiday send-ups I’ve read.  It includes a fake “attack” on an insufferable M.P. that leads to hilarious slapstick action, punctuated by a maiden aunt getting political, which you know is a recipe for disaster.

 The Country Doctor’s Commonplace Book, by Philip Rhys Evans will delight fans of the longstanding commonplace book tradition.  Evans’ collection of snips and press clippings is so much fun.  I loved seeing a spoof email about the re-colonialization of the United States that first went around after the 2000 election (in light of your inability to govern yourselves, The Queen is resuming sovereignty over the United States, except for New Jersey, which she does not fancy) and which never fails to make me snort-laugh.  My favorites were the hilarious parish notices, such as: “Ladies, don’t forget the rummage sale.  It’s a chance to get rid of all those things not worth keeping.  Don’t forget your husbands.”  SNORT.  Not to mention “Low self-esteem support group will meet Thursday at 7 p.m., please use the back door.”

The Twelve Days of Christmas, by John Julius Norwich contains laughs in inverse proportion to its length.  Just 32 pages long, and most of those pages taken up with Quentin Blake’s delightful illustrations, Norwich’s reimagining of the popular Christmas song (which I confess to loving – it’s one of my favorites) is hilarious.  Edward and Emily are a young couple, in the first flush of love, when Edward gets the inspired idea to send Emily a whimsical series of Christmas gifts.  Emily is utterly enchanted by the partridge in the pear tree, and the two turtle doves.  She’s a bit befuddled by the three French hens (Emily and Mummy don’t have a chicken coop, but she expects they’ll find one somewhere) and she has to confess that the four calling birds make telephoning very difficult.  While she loves the five golden rings (who wouldn’t?!) the six geese a-laying simply ruin the croquet lawn (I hate when that happens) and by the time the nine ladies dancing arrive, Emily is decidedly Not Amused: “all I can say is that judging from the way they dance, they’re certainly not ladies.”  Emily’s patience, wearing thin by day four, is ultimately exhausted, and the final letter (spoiler alert!) is an official missive to the hapless Edward, from Emily’s lawyer.  If you need a quick break and to laugh for ten solid minutes, Norwich is your man.

Sometimes it feels like for all the joy there is surrounding this season of the year, laughs are in short supply.  There’s just so much rushing around – so much to do, with closing out the year at work (for those of us on a calendar year schedule, which includes both Steve and me), travel, and making sure that everyone else has a magical time.  If you’re like me, you need a laugh now and again.  Mitford, Evans, and Norwich are here for you.

The 2019 Christmas TBR

As we inch closer and closer to Christmas, I am diving into my festive reading with glee.  I love to read for the season all year ’round, but seasonal bookish goodness always feels especially appropriate at Christmas.  Here’s what’s on my TBR pile for 2019 holiday reading…

The Santa Klaus Murder, by Mavis Doriel Hay – I bought this BL Crime Classics re-issue a couple of years ago.  This is the season I will finally get to it!

Noel Streatfield’s Christmas Stories, by Noel Streatfield – A post-Christmas 2018 pickup; I’ve been saving this.  The cover is so shiny and pretty – I couldn’t resist it.

A Fatal Grace, by Louise Penny – My aunt, who insisted that I give Three Pines a try, was aghast that I was able to wait two months between reading the first and second books, but A Fatal Grace takes place around the winter holidays; it didn’t seem right to read it in early October.  I am expecting the characters to drink lots of mulled wine.

A Christmas Book, by Elizabeth Goudge – I love Goudge’s descriptive writing, and I think this collection of Christmas chapters and stories from her other books will be just the thing to get me into the spirit!

Home for the Holidays, by Heather Vogel Frederick – I paused my re-read of the Mother-Daughter Book Club series after book four, so as to save this one for December.

A Country Doctor’s Commonplace Book, by Philip Rhys Evans – Found under my Christmas tree last year and devoured in one big gulp, I think I am going to make a re-read of this delightful little volume an annual tradition.

The Twelve Days of Christmas, by John Julius Norwich – This slim book isn’t going to take me long, but it might be my most anticipated read of the month.  I’d really like it to be snowing when I finally open the covers, but as long as there are twinkle lights I’ll be good to go.

Christmas Crackers, by John Julius Norwich – Can’t wait to see how Norwich’s famous annual commonplace book tradition got started!  I’ll bet there are some real gems in here.

Christmas Crime Stories, a Folio Anthology – To be honest, I wouldn’t have sought this out, but I stumbled upon it on Ardis Books this summer and the price was too good to pass up, so I snatched it up.  I may or may not get to this – there are so many books on top of this one (quite literally) but gosh, it’s pretty.

I’ve already made my way through a couple of these, and am looking forward to a relaxing week between Christmas and New Year’s to read the rest!  Ideally with a big cup of tea and a small plate of of husarenkrapferl, because then I will really be living my best life.  Happy (holiday) reading!

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (December 16, 2019)

A couple of people this weekend asked me what we were up to on Saturday and Sunday.  I replied, “It would be quicker to tell you what we didn’t do this weekend.”  Y’all, we were busy.  On Saturday morning we were up and out the door early for 8:00 a.m. haircut appointments for both kiddos.  Once they each had a fresh new ‘do, we headed home via the garden center, to pick out our tree.  As I lamented (just a little) on Instagram, this year has been all about doing the best we can.  We never made it to the pumpkin patch – blame a crazy work October for me and icky colds for the whole family.  So Nugget and I picked out pumpkins alone at a roadside stand – and then never actually carved them.  (Our big family pumpkin is still sitting uncarved on my kitchen table.  I am determined to have roasted pumpkin seeds even if we didn’t have a jack-o-lantern.)  And the Christmas tree farm was a no-go.  While we were in Albany this year, Steve received an email from the farm we visited last year, noting that they would be open the weekend after Thanksgiving, and that weekend only – due to a blight, they had almost no trees.  We made some half-hearted efforts to find another tree farm, but with some unrelated family stress, we just didn’t have the energy.  Garden center it was.

Anyway – still trying to make it magical.  As soon as we got the tree home, Peanut and I got dressed up in our holiday finest and headed to Montgomery College to see The Nutcracker.  (Well – I was in my holiday finest.  Peanut was in an April Cornell dress that looks like a nightgown, because: Nutcracker.)  Peanut was captivated and loved every second, and left the theatre clutching her very own (pink and purple sparkly) Nutcracker.  Headed home for an evening of trimming the Christmas tree and watching Home Alone (adapting my family’s tradition of watching National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation on tree-trimming night).

Sunday brought more running around.  The kids and I whipped up a batch of raspberry-almond thumbprint cookies while Dad was out actually running, then we all walked out for brunch with my friend Vanessa and her husband David.  After brunch, I nipped down to Wegmans, then hurried home for FaceTime with Grandma and a good long scooter ride for Nugget on the neighborhood bike path.  We ended the weekend collapsed on the couch – literally.  Steve turned on a disneynature documentary about the ocean for the kids.  Nugget spent the first hour shouting LOOK, WHALES, MOMMY, YOUR FAVORITE and then passed out in my arms.

Reading.  It was a busy reading week, but it seems that reading was one of the few things I actually didn’t do over the weekend – or at least, not much.  On Monday I finished up A Fatal Grace, the second installment in Louise Penny’s Chief Inspector Gamache series.  I’d been saving it for December because the action takes place around Christmas; this was completely mysterious to my Aunt Maria, who recommended that I try the Three Pines books and couldn’t believe I was actually able to wait two months between reading the first and reading the second.  I liked it, and the solution was clever (although I guessed the identity of the killer) but I didn’t care for the casual cruelty with which Penny discussed her characters’ body types.  After wrapping up my visit to Three Pines, I took a break from Christmas reading to attend to a library deadline – Olive Kitteridge, which has been on my to-read list for ages.  Then back to the Christmas books – I read A Christmas Book, by Elizabeth Goudge, over the course of Thursday and Friday, then moved on to The Santa Klaus Murder, with a brief break to read The Twelve Days of Christmas by the light of the tree, as planned.  (It was hiliarious.)  Going forward, I have more bookish holiday fun planned for myself this week – when I have time.  Between work deadlines and Christmas crunch time, it’s going to be tight.

Watching.  A little of this, and a little of that.  A couple of episodes of The Great British Bake-Off over the course of the week.  And then most of disneynature: oceans on Sunday evening, including a good twenty minutes or so while Nugget snoozed in my arms.  #winning

Listening.  Podcasts, podcasts, podcasts.  Lots of holiday episodes – including Part II of The Book Riot Podcast‘s holiday recommendations show, more The Mom Hour holiday tips, and a Sorta Awesome episode about favorite holiday traditions.  (That one, I had to quickly turn off mid-episode, because Peanut was listening in as we drove to The Nutcracker, and the hosts began discussing Christmas magic, if you take my meaning.  To their credit, they gave a lengthy disclaimer before launching into Santa talk, which gave me plenty of time to toggle over to something else.)  Perhaps the best listening of the week was a new discovery – did you know that the Historic Royal Palaces social media account has a podcast?  It’s hosted by Lucy Worsley, because of course, and it is everything I didn’t know I was missing.  I listened to a lecture about Christmas traditions from the Victorians to the interwar period and it was GREAT.

Making.  Not enough progress on Christmas, or on work, but various and sundry other projects.  A few rows of my navy seed stitch scarf.  The aforementioned raspberry-almond thumbprint cookies.  Several bags of hand-me-down toys for a single mom in my neighborhood, for her littles on Christmas morning.  Brunch reservations.  A decorated Christmas tree.  Then a re-decorated Christmas tree after I moved around all the ornaments the kids hung up.  Then a re-re-re-decorated tree after I rearranged Nugget’s rearranging of my rearrangement.  Confused yet?  Lots of memories.

Blogging.  Bookish week coming atcha – my Christmas TBR on Wednesday (spoiler, some books have already been read ::dustsoffshoulders::) and Themed Reads for December on Friday – three books to make you laugh this holiday season.

Loving.  The holiday cards are starting to trickle in, and opening them up just makes my day.  I love seeing the smiling faces of people I love, and measuring my friends’ kiddos against their previous year’s cards.  (Yes, I save the picture cards every year.)  I sent mine off last week, so hopefully they will be dropping into mailboxes to bring their own smiles any day now.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

A Winter’s Nap

A few weeks ago, we made one of our habitual morning visits to the National Zoo.  The Great Cats are always a hit, and this time, we enjoyed the most adorable lion nap.  It turns out that all cats like to sleep in improbable positions.

Starting out with a nice, peaceful nap in a shaft of sunlight.  Bliss.

What is that tickle?  I have an itch.

Yawwwwwwwn.

This is very normal and very comfortable!

Feet up, snoozles.  Wake me up when it’s food time.

 

Elizabeth von Arnim on Christmas Preparations

A few weeks ago, working from home, I wandered over to my bookshelf and absentmindedly picked up Elizabeth and Her German Garden.  (This is why I don’t work from home very frequently.)  The book immediately fell open to this passage:

I am very busy preparing for Christmas, but have often locked myself up in a room alone, shutting out my unfinished duties, to study the flower catalogues and make my lists of seeds and shrubs and trees for the spring.  It is a fascinating occupation, and acquires an additional charm when you know you ought to be doing something else, that Christmas is at the door, that children and servants and farm hands depend on you for their pleasure, and that, if you don’t see to the decoration of trees and house and the buying of the presents, nobody else will.  The hours fly by shut up with those catalogues and with Duty snarling on the other side of the door.  I don’t like Duty – everything in the least disagreeable is always sure to be one’s duty.  Why cannot it be my duty to make lists and plans for the dear garden?  “And so it is,” I insisted to the Man of Wrath, when he protested against what he called wasting my time upstairs.  “No,” he replied sagely; “your garden is not your Duty, because it is your Pleasure.”

Oh, Elizabeth – how well I recognize the lament that “if you don’t do it, nobody else will.”  The more things change, the more they stay the same.  (Subtract the servants and farm hands, at least for me.)  I actually love the sparkly season and making it magical for my little pod (although I will confess that addressing holiday cards is not my favorite task) but it does seem like this time of year gets busier and busier, and the call to hide away and attend to pure enjoyment is undeniably alluring.  Between buying and wrapping gifts (and keeping track of it all), mailing cards, unpacking ornaments, and planning all the seasonal fun I like to arrange for my family – not to mention the rush to wrap up matters and finish projects at work before the end of the year – the whirl seems endless, and it’s exhausting.  Maybe I should take a leaf out of Elizabeth’s book and hide away with a seed catalog.