A Morning Paddle From Key Bridge

After getting the disappointing news on Saturday morning that our summer vacation would have to be cancelled, Steve and I were very much in need of some fun and a nature release.  Fortunately, we had reservations to rent kayaks in D.C. on Sunday morning.  So after breakfast, we threw on our watershoes, grabbed our paddles and our favorite kayaking hats, and headed for Key Bridge Boathouse, on the waterfront in Georgetown.

We’ve never paddled from Key Bridge before – it’s on a slightly busier, choppier section of the Potomac and we have always been looking for something quieter and gentler for the little duffers.  With Peanut and Nugget on their extended disco grandparent vacation, it seemed like a good time to check a less kid-friendly boathouse off our list (and also, Fletcher’s Cove, our favorite, had no boats available, so there was that too).  We arrived early for our 9:30 time slot and checked in, then waited patiently for our turn to head down to the dock and shove off.

Finally in the water!

About those kayaking hats?  Clearly I wore my Channel Islands Adventure Co. trucker hat, which I bought after our epic sea cave kayaking adventure.

Steve, meanwhile, was gleefully sporting what I call his “expedition hat.”  He bought it for our trip to the San Juans last year and insisted on wearing it every day.  Whatever makes you happy, big guy.

Anyway!  Hats firmly secured, we headed upriver toward Fletcher’s.  It was a bluebird day and the views from the water were gorgeous.  (Adding the Potomac Boat Club to my list of places to paddle from someday.  Check out that beautiful waterfront!)  We cruised upriver, waving to other kayakers and SUP’ers, and looking up at Georgetown University on its hill above the water.  It was a beautiful view, but… GW FOR LYFE, GO COLONIALS.

I didn’t take many pictures as we worked our way upriver, because we were fighting the tide, the current and the wind – it was a workout.  We finally made it to the border with Fletcher’s portion of the river and stopped to float around a little, check out the birds (we saw great blue herons and cormorants) and take in the views before heading back downriver to return our kayaks.

Love those downriver views!  Seeing the Washington Monument from the water never gets old.

 

Such a fun morning on the water.  It definitely reinforced for Steve and me that our next big outdoor gear purchase is going to be new kayaks.  Renting them is great, but not always convenient – we’ve often contended with closed boathouses in past seasons, and now due to COVID-19 we have to reserve in advance and the time slots are selling out the second they become available.  Plus, we got used to paddling sleek touring kayaks in the PNW last year, and the heavy sit-on-top recreational kayaks are just not cutting it for us these days.  Our fifteenth anniversary is coming up this summer (!!!) and we’ve been discussing buying new kayaks as our gift to each other in celebration of that milestone.  I think we’re both stoked to have a little more freedom on the water.  Now I need to find a dealer that actually has some in stock – harder than it sounds, these days.  I’m delighted that everyone and their dog has suddenly discovered paddlesports, but could y’all maybe leave me a Current Designs Solstice?  Would be great, thanks.

Well, rentals on the Potomac will work until then.  And in the meantime, we’re heading to New York pretty soon to pick up the duffers, so maybe I’ll have some Adirondack paddling pictures to share with you before too long.

Have you been getting out on the water this summer?

Themed Reads: Still At Home

Well, here it is July and things don’t seem to have gotten much better, at least not ’round these parts.  We all tried cautiously poking our noses out of our front doors, only to go scurrying back inside.  Multiple states have issued travel advisories – including Massachusetts, which has effectively scuttled my summer vacation plans – and Steve and I are just waiting for the next all-in stay-at-home order to drop.  As we watch our summer plans evaporate – always mindful of the fact that there are so many people out there who have it worse – even armchair travel is starting to feel frustrating.  Since it looks like we’re going to be staying home for awhile yet, here are three books about staying home, to remind you that… I don’t know… it could be worse, even if we’re all bored as we sit around watching Disney+ and working on the butt divots in our couches.

Jane Austen at Home, by Lucy Worsley, literally explores Jane Austen’s work through the lens of her homes.  The reader is treated to a progression through Austen’s life, starting with the Steventon parsonage and moving with the Austen family, first to and around Bath, to various seaside spots, to Chawton, and finally to Winchester.  Worsley has plenty to say about decor, about social customs, and about the many colorful characters who wended their way into and out of Austen’s life.  And it’s worth noting: as tempting as a trip to Chawton sounds these days, it seems it wasn’t the most comfortable place to live back in Jane’s day.  I, for one, am glad to be watching Netflix in the air conditioning and not sweltering in the damp or shuddering with the walls every time a stagecoach drives past my house (which, realistically, happens exactly never).

If Chawton sounds damp and noisy, the Claremont is dreary.  Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont introduces the reader to the titular lady as she is on her way to a new home at London’s Claremont Hotel.  The Claremont doubles as a respectable lodging for aging ladies and gentlemen, although, as Mrs. Palfrey remarks to a new friend, “We’re not allowed to die here.”  The reader follows Mrs. Palfrey as she cautiously dips her toe into the social life of the Claremont’s parlor and gets caught up in a web of deception.  Hate when that happens!  So here’s another plus to being stuck in our own houses: at least we’re not stressed about maintaining the lie of a fictional grandson while we drink our mediocre wine.

Okay, so we’re not sweating in a swamp like Jane or yawning away life like Mrs. Palfrey, and we can probably also check off “hiding in one room literally on the other side of a wall from a nest of Nazi soldiers” as another situation that is worse than what we’ve got.  I Was A Stranger, General Sir John Hackett’s memoir of his time hiding in the home of a Dutch family while recovering from his wounds after the Battle of Arnhem, might be the perfect book to read during this time.  Gen. Hackett literally couldn’t leave the house except to go for super-short walks under cover of darkness, and sometimes not even that.  And when surprise inspections happened, he had to either hide in a cubby or stay in bed pretending to be a sick relation.  At least the rest of us get to visit the backyard, right?

So, there we have it.  This was originally supposed to be a post about books showcasing the joys of being at home.  I’m sure those exist, but actually – at the moment, this is the best I can do.  There but for the grace of Artemis go I, and that sort of thing.  You can relate, right?

What are your favorite books about being stuck at home?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (July 27, 2020)

Morning, friends.  Happy Julember one millionth, or whatever it is.  How were your weekends?  Mine was a bit of a roller coaster.  Started out well – on Friday evening Steve and I drove down to Alexandria for dinner with our old neighbors, Zoya and Robert.  We sat for hours on their back patio, talking and laughing under their twinkle lights, eating Robert’s homemade sourdough bread, a fresh green salad, and pizza from Lena’s – our old fave.  It was just what I needed after a long week – but the good feelings dissipated on Saturday morning, when I got an email from our VRBO host for our planned vacation, telling me I should probably cancel.  We were planning a trip to Cape Cod, and I was so looking forward to a week of breathing in sea air, feeling sand between my toes, and whale-watching to celebrate our fifteenth anniversary.  But with the Massachusetts travel advisory, all of that was up in the air.  I spent a lot of the day feeling sad and angry.  I know, rationally, that it’s not the end of the world – there will be other trips, and at least we’re all healthy and employed.  Many people have it worse; I know this.  But I couldn’t help feeling horribly disappointed, cheated out of two summer vacations (we were supposed to go to Lake Tahoe to celebrate my parents’ forty-fifth anniversary; that trip was cancelled months ago and the Cape Cod trip was the consolation – now even that is gone), and furious at the lack of leadership and abdication of responsibility.  If the federal response had been anything but criminally negligent and incompetent – if thousands of people put community interests before their own selfish desires – we could have this virus at least closer to under control by now.  140,000 American families would still have their loved ones.  And we’d all have something resembling our lives, if not back, at least closer to being back.  I know it’s just a silly vacation, but I’m angry.  I’ve been quarantining strictly for months, homeschooling my children while holding down a full-time (and very demanding) job, working late into the night to make it all balance, going without hugs from friends – and those of us who follow the rules will continue to pay the price and subsidize bad behavior and incompetence.  It feels very unfair.

Anyway.  Thank you for letting me get that out.  Steve and I both needed an outlet on Sunday morning, and luckily we had reservations to rent kayaks at a new-to-us boathouse on the Potomac.  (Used to be, you could just roll up to the dock and be out on the water; those days are gone.  We reserved our boats a week ago.)  We both breathed a big sigh of relief as soon as our paddles hit the water, and it felt good to cruise upriver toward Fletcher’s Cove.  We spotted great blue herons and cormorants and waved to other kayakers, then rode the tide and the current back downstream toward Key Bridge.  We spent the rest of the day finishing up our garage clean-out project while kicking around ideas for summer vacation, version 3.0.  Camping at Smith Mountain Lake?  Renting a cabin in the Blue Ridge?  Staycation at home with the kiddos?  Time will tell.  I’m sure we’ll figure it out.  And now – another week of following the rules, working hard, and seething.

Reading.  If the weekend was a roller-coaster, the reading was at least good.  Mid-week, I finished up Tory Heaven, which was page-turning, a little unsettling, and felt very prescient.  Spent the latter part of the week, and through Sunday afternoon, with Wigs on the Green, which was an interesting read.  (Nancy Mitford takes on fascism… and pokes fun at British fascists, because making fun of things is just what Nancy does.  It felt quite subversive.)  Finished it up on Sunday afternoon, and ended the weekend with Mary Barton.  I’ve only just started that one, but so far I’ve loved everything I’ve read by Elizabeth Gaskell, so expectations are high.

Watching.  It’s been a good week for watching.  A few episodes of The Baby-Sitters Club, which continues to knock my socks off.  And Steve and I have been on something of a Marvel kick.  I got to choose the movie on Saturday, and picked Captain Marvel, which we both loved.  Then on Sunday, Steve chose Black Panther, which was incredible.  Getting out to the movies is a production (<–see what I did there?) these days, so we hadn’t seen either before this weekend, and loved both so much.  I get to choose the next installment in what we’ve decided is our Marvel binge, and I’ve already told Steve that we’re watching Guardians of the Galaxy, Vol. II.  Y’all know how much I adore Chris Pratt.

Listening.  Not too much, because I haven’t been driving much.  But I’m continuing to work my way through my back episodes of The 46 of 46 Podcast.  At the moment I’m about twenty minutes into a marathon Summit Sessions episode about becoming a 46’r from 350 miles away – obviously a subject that interests me.  Also caught up on the Northville-Placid Trail episodes and listened to another Summit Sessions on backpacking gear.  I’m not keen on backpacking by foot, but Steve and I have our eye on another kayak trek at some point, and some of the same principles will apply.  So that was an interesting listen, too.

Making.  Meh, not much.  It was a particularly hectic week, so I didn’t do much cooking.  I did put together a nice composed salad Nicoise for dinner one night, so that was fun.  And yummy.

Blogging.  I’ll have a Themed Reads post for you on Wednesday – can’t give you any hints on the topic, yet, because I haven’t decided.  And on Friday, some more pictures from Sunday morning on the water, and the return of Steve’s kayak expedition hat.

Loving.  It’s hard to think of something this week, honestly.  I’m so angry about my vacation being cancelled, that I’m having a tough time thinking positive.  I’m looking for small victories to celebrate, though.  I’m loving the full dumpster out at the end of my driveway, because it signifies that Steve and I have finally pulled off the epic decluttering and purging of all the crap we’ve been lugging from house to house.  I feel so much lighter.  Still have more stuff than I’d like, but it’s a victory for sure.  Another victory: my organized bookshelves.  I have another pile of books that still need a home, but I’m more inspired to read now.  I even told Steve – this is going to come as a huge shock, so sit down – I think I may hold off on getting a library card for a little while.  I’d like to make my way through more of my own books, and they are looking so lovely and organized right now, they’re really enticing.  So that’s a nice thing, too.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Garden Chronicles 2020: A Tomato Murder Mystery

Another month in the garden – or not in the garden, as the case may be.  As you can see, not much has gotten done around here.  I haven’t even found time to move the three extra planters over to the side of the patio (or better yet, into the shed) – they’re still there for everyone to trip over!  (The kids have used them to plant weeds, which are thriving.  At least something is thriving…)

As you all know, I am not especially ambitious when it comes to this year’s garden.  I just want to get to know the space, settle in and make plans for future years.  We’ll be here for at least two more gardening seasons, so plenty of time to cultivate a big vegetable patch – or not.  I probably won’t branch out beyond my usual container garden until we buy our forever home, hopefully in a couple of years.  But I was hoping to have at least a little bit more progress to report to you today.  Alas, not – it’s been a busy month, between getting the kids ready for their grandparent vacation, trying to catch up on work and unpacking, and juggling house projects including a big garage clean-out.  The garden just fell to the bottom of the list, and there it stayed.

Benign neglect has paid off for me in the past, so I was hoping that if I didn’t poke at the garden too much, at least a few things would grow.  And that does seem to be the case.  First of all, a delightful discovery – there are blackberry bushes growing alongside the garage!  I’ve always wanted to plant a fruit bramble, so I am beyond chuffed that I’ve inherited (temporarily, anyway) a couple of berry bushes without having to do anything.  (Don’t worry, these are definitely blackberries.  Of all berries, blackberries have no poisonous lookalikes – while they have some cousins, like the loganberry and the marionberry, anything that looks like a blackberry is per se edible.  These are nice and tart.)  I wandered past the blackberry bush today and noticed that quite a few are ripe; I might pick a handful to bring over to my dear Zoya this weekend.

Speaking of Zoya, this was my housewarming present from her – a galvanized steel pot with a selection of shade-loving plants in it.  I’ve barely touched it, but it’s doing well and doesn’t seem at all bothered by the torrential rainstorm we had on Wednesday.  Success!

Also thriving through my benign neglect strategy: this pot of mixed herbs (rosemary, thyme and chives – the rosemary especially is doing just fine; it’s so hardy).  Of course, benign neglect hasn’t worked for everything.  You’ll note that I am not showing you the mint pot.  That is because it is really most sincerely dead.

Finally, the tomato plant: the crown jewel of any container garden, right?  At the kids’ urgent request, I bought two tomato seedlings and planted them in my biggest pot.  They were both doing really well – growing fast, lush green leaves.  So, you might be wondering: why is one so much shorter than the other?  Are they different varietals?

They are not different varietals.  But one was viciously, intentionally, maliciously decapitated.  The guilty party?  Peanut.  She was mad at me about something (I probably told her to wash her hands before dinner, because I’m awful and unfair like that) and she very coolly, calmly marched out to the garden and snapped the poor innocent tomato plant in half.  (How do I know it was her, you ask?  I am an eyewitness.  I watched, shocked, from the sunroom, as she attempted to murder the tomato plant she begged me to get.)

Fortunately, it doesn’t seem to have suffered too much, other than being – ahem – shorter than its buddy.  It’s growing back and has added height, leaves and blossoms since the malicious attempted murder.  Hopefully we’ll still get some tomatoes out of it this summer – time will tell.  Meanwhile, the other tomato plant has tripled in size, and I staked it this morning.  (I use the Ultimate Tomato Cage, which I’ve had for several years now and absolutely love.)  Here’s hoping for continued strong growth from at least one of the tomato plants.

As for the birds, I think I’ve finally got the summer setup finalized.  Out front, I’ve got a Cole’s tube feeder and a Perky Pet water dispenser on the double shepherd’s hook, and an Aspects window cafe suctioned to the kitchen window.  Out back, I hung up a Perky Pet hopper that is supposed to be squirrel-resistant, but – surprise, surprise – it’s not.  So far, the tube feeder is by far the most popular spot.  There’s been some mild interest shown in the hopper and the window feeder, but no one has actually eaten anything – that I’ve noticed.  Except the squirrels, that is, who have completely defeated the hopper.  The tube feeder keeps me entertained all day, as it’s attracted Carolina chickadees, a tufted titmouse, one very grumpy-looking Carolina wren, and a gaggle of goldfinches.  More on that soon – I am still on the hunt for that elusive picture of the downy woodpecker I’ve spotted in my backyard, but I’m planning to do a big post with a bunch of snaps of the neighborhood birds sometime in the next few weeks.  And I’m already contemplating how I might change up the feeders for fall – I’ve got my eye on a squirrel stopper pole station and an oriole feeder to attract Baltimore orioles (the birds, not the baseball team, LET’S GO NATS) as they migrate south for the winter.  More to come…

How are your summer gardens faring?

It’s… Wednesday! What Are You Reading? (July 22, 2020)

Good Wednesday morning to you, friends!  How go your weeks so far?  Catching up and doing my weekly check-in midweek instead of on Monday – no reason except that Monday was the anniversary of the Declaration of Sentiments, and I felt like posting some excerpts both to celebrate how far we’ve come since July 20, 1848, and also to call out how far we have yet to go.

Anyway!  It is weirdly quiet around here without the kids.  I really miss them!  We all needed a break from each other, so this is definitely a good thing, but I would dearly love to hug each of them right now.  They’re having a grand time with Nana and Grandad – Nugget can read three books now, no big deal! – and Steve and I are getting some time to decompress, catch up on work, and knock out a few house projects.  Steve ordered us a dumpster and we have embarked on a massive garage clean-out and de-cluttering project; we spent most of Saturday morning gleefully throwing full trash bags into the dumpster.  We made time for some fun, too – exploring our neighborhood park (pic above!) and hiking at Lake Fairfax and Seneca Regional Park.  It’s nice to have this time to catch up on things and enjoy each other’s company without 80% of our brains being devoted to parenting – but I am looking forward to having the little boogers back, too.

Reading.  Still slowly working my way through books.  I finished up Sword of Bone over the weekend and moved on to one of the newer reprints from Persephone Books – Marghanita Laski’s Tory Heaven, or, Thunder on the Right.  Sword of Bone was wonderful – the end, especially, was gripping and completely riveting.  And I’m really enjoying Tory Heaven so far, too – just finding it hard to make myself sit down with any book.

Watching.  Steve and I finally finished up season three of The Crown last night – so good!  I can’t wait for season four to drop; bring on Diana!  We’ve got to figure out what our next show will be.  On my own, I started watching the new Netflix adaptation of The Baby-Sitters Club, and it is WONDERFUL.  More about that below.

Listening.  Lots of podcasts this week and last!  I drove into the office a couple of days and listened to about six episodes of The 46 of 46 Podcast – all about the host’s section hike of the Northville-Placid Trail (which is on my list, but not especially high up there).  Also listened to a couple of episodes of The Slightly Foxed Podcast while organizing my books and re-stocking my shelves, because it seemed like the appropriate choice.

Making.  I’ve been doing a fair amount of cooking without the kids around.  It’s been nice to cook with some more grown-up flavors and ingredients without worrying that half the family is going to complain vociferously.  Steve and I even collaborated on grilled ginger-miso marinated shrimp skewers and zucchini noodle salad one evening.  Look at us go!  I have also been making progress on various grown-up responsibilities – not as much work product as I was hoping to churn out, but I went to the dentist and filled out registration paperwork for the kids’ school.  Next up: a much-needed, long-overdue, HAIRCUT.

Moving.  Again, not as much as I thought I might do, but more than I have the past few weeks, so: winning.  Since the kids embarked on their grandparent vacation, I’ve gotten out for several runs – including a some time on the dirt in my new trail-running shoes!  (If they look familiar, they are a Merrell collaboration with Dogfish Head, designed based on the can design for SeaQuench, my most favoritest beer.  I love this.)  And Steve and I have hiked a few times, and I made it to a Zoom flow hour with my favorite yoga instructor, Angelina Fox.

Blogging.  I’ll have a garden update for you on Friday.  Spoiler alert – not much has happened; I’ve been busy.  And one of my tomato plants was viciously murdered, but you’ll have to wait for the post to find out who the perp was.  (You’re probably thinking that it was a squirrel, my arch-nemesis, but you’d be wrong.)

Loving.  So, I teased up above – I am absolutely loving the new adaptation of The Baby-Sitters Club on Netflix.  I was skeptical, because the premise of the books, after all, centers upon a landline phone; how on earth was Netflix going to update that to present day?  But they did it seamlessly – keeping the landline and easily explaining why Claudia has it, and updating the rest of the show to be very of-the-moment for 2020.  The cast is wonderfully diverse and the girls deal with present-day issues like social media harassment.  Mary Anne finds her voice while advocating for a little girl who is transgender, there are same-sex parents calling the BSC, and there are pop culture Easter eggs hidden throughout – for instance, in one voiceover Kristy reluctantly admits that her mom, played by the legendary Alicia Silverstone, “isn’t completely clueless.”  It’s rare that I find a show I’d like to binge-watch; I don’t have the time for that, unfortunately, but I could easily sit down and watch every episode of The Baby-Sitters Club back-to-back.  It’s THAT good.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?  And have you watched The Baby-Sitters Club yet?

Sentiments

We hold these truths to be self-evident; that all men and women are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness; that to secure these rights governments are instituted, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed. Whenever any form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the right of those who suffer from it to refuse allegiance to it, and to insist upon the institution of a new government, laying its foundation on such principles, and organizing its powers in such form as to them shall seem most likely to effect their safety and happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly, all experience hath shown that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves, by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same object, evinces a design to reduce them under absolute despotism, it is their duty to throw off such government, and to provide new guards for their future security. Such has been the patient sufferance of the women under this government, and such is now the necessity which constrains them to demand the equal station to which they are entitled.

The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her. To prove this, let facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has never permitted her to exercise her inalienable right to the elective franchise.

He has compelled her to submit to laws, in the formation of which she had no voice.

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Having deprived her of this first right of a citizen, the elective franchise, thereby leaving her without representation in the halls of legislation, he has oppressed her on all sides.

He has made her, if married, in the eye of the law, civilly dead.

He has taken from her all right in property, even to the wages she earns.

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After depriving her of all rights as a married woman, if single and the owner of property, he has taxed her to support a government which recognizes her only when her property can be made profitable to it.

He has monopolized nearly all the profitable employments, and from those she is permitted to follow, she receives but a scanty remuneration.

He closes against her all the avenues to wealth and distinction, which he considers most honorable to himself. As a teacher of theology, medicine, or law, she is not known.

He has denied her the facilities for obtaining a thorough education – all colleges being closed against her.

He allows her in Church as well as State, but a subordinate position, claiming Apostolic authority for her exclusion from the ministry, and with some exceptions, from any public participation in the affairs of the Church.

He has created a false public sentiment, by giving to the world a different code of morals for men and women, by which moral delinquencies which exclude women from society, are not only tolerated but deemed of little account in man.

He has usurped the prerogative of Jehovah himself, claiming it as his right to assign for her a sphere of action, when that belongs to her conscience and her God.

He has endeavored, in every way that he could to destroy her confidence in her own powers, to lessen her self-respect, and to make her willing to lead a dependent and abject life.

Now, in view of this entire disfranchisement of one-half the people of this country, their social and religious degradation, – in view of the unjust laws above mentioned, and because women do feel themselves aggrieved, oppressed, and fraudulently deprived of their most sacred rights, we insist that they have immediate admission to all the rights and privileges which belong to them as citizens of these United States.

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Firmly relying upon the final triumph of the Right and the True, we do this day affix our signatures to this declaration.

Declaration of Sentiments

Seneca Falls, New York

July 20, 1848

This is my Declaration of Independence.

The Classics Club Challenge: Where Angels Fear to Tread, by E. M. Forster

It’s taken me a minute, but I am finally making some time to review Where Angels Fear to Tread, which I read way back in – March?  E.M. Forster’s first novel is less polished than his later efforts – especially my favorite, A Passage to India – but it explores many of the same themes of travel, Imperialism, and culture clashes between wandering Britons and the people they encounter in other countries.

Where Angels Fear to Tread opens with a comedic scene at a train station: Lilia Herriton, a flighty young widow, is heading off to explore Italy.  Her in-laws have mixed feelings about this: on the one hand, Lilia is about as spacey as they come, and the conservative Herritons are worried that she might get carried away and embarrass the family.  But on the other hand, they never liked her to begin with and they’re not overly sad about getting rid of her temporarily, especially because she is leaving her young daughter in their care, to be raised as befits a child of the house of Herriton.  To guard against the possibility of bad behavior, Lilia is accompanied by a local friend, Caroline Abbott, who is both substantially younger than Lilia and substantially (allegedly) smarter.

I’m sure you see where this is going.  Caroline Abbott’s influence is either overstated, or unequal to the task of restraining Lilia’s impulses, or both – because the next the Herritons hear from either young woman, Lilia is engaged to be married to an Italian nobleman several years her junior.  This cannot happen.  Lilia the flaky daughter-in-law is bad enough.  Lilia the Italian Countess is untenable.

Philip Herriton, Lilia’s brother-in-law, is dispatched to talk sense into the bride and groom and stop the wedding.  Philip views himself as a man of the world and is eager to fall in love – but not too in love – with Italy.  His first view of Monteriano, scene of Lilia’s folly, reveals the complexities of the landscape:

They were among olives again, and the wood with its beauty and wildness had passed away.  But as they climbed higher the country opened out, and there appeared, high up on a hill to the right, Monteriano.  The hazy green of the olives rose up to its walls, and it seemed to float in isolation between trees and sky, like some fantastic ship city of a dream.  Its colour was brown, and it revealed not a single house–nothing but the narrow circle of the walls, and behind them seventeen towers–all that was left of the fifty-two that had filled the city in their prime.  Some were only stumps, some were inclining stiffly to their fall, some were still erect, piercing like mass into the blue.  It was impossible to praise it as beautiful, but it was also impossible to damn it as quaint.

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(San Gimignano, Italy – model for Monteriano – image sourced from Life in Italy.)

Spoilers ahoy!

When Philip arrives in Monteriano, charmed by the village and its towers, he immediately sets to work persuading the groom to back off.  Unfortunately for his efforts – it’s too late.  When Lilia wrote to inform her in-laws that she was engaged… she was actually already married.  Oh, and it gets worse!  The “Count” is actually the son of a dentist – there’s not a drop of aristocratic blood running through his veins.  Philip is dismayed, but at the same time – he can’t deny that there’s something magnetic about Gino, Lilia’s non-aristocratic Italian husband.

Needless to say, Philip leaves without accomplishing his objective of breaking up the relationship – and then everything gets super sad.  The marriage is not a success; Lilia and Gino immediately find themselves at odds and in constant tension, brought about mainly by their cultural disconnect and – as a result – very divergent expectations for the relationship.  Lilia produces a baby and then promptly dies, of course.  With Gino left alone with his new son, the Herritons turn their attention to concealing the baby’s existence from his half-sister.

Meanwhile, everyone is wondering how exactly the situation got so out of control.  What happened to the supremely sensible Miss Abbott, dispatched to Italy to ensure that her older but dumber traveling companion didn’t do something regrettable?  Philip grills her and discovers that the serene neighbor has unsuspected depths and grievances:

“I hated Sawston, you see.”

He was delighted.  “So did and so do I.  That’s splendid.  Go on.”

“I hated the idleness, the stupidity, the respectability, the petty unselfishness.”

“Petty selfishness,” he corrected.  Sawston psychology had long been his specialty.

“Petty unselfishness,” she repeated.  “I had got an idea that everyone here spent their lives in making little sacrifices for objects they didn’t care for, to please people they didn’t love; that they never learnt to be sincere–and, what’s as bad, never learnt how to enjoy themselves.  That’s why I thought–what I thought at Monteriano.”

“Why, Miss Abbott,” he cried, “you should have told me this before!  Think it still!  I agree with lots of it.  Magnificent!”

(If you’re wondering, the answer is yes: Philip really is unbearably self-congratulating and pompous, and he really does think he is the most interesting man in the world.)

Ultimately, like all plans laid by the Herritons, the plan to conceal the baby’s existence from Lilia’s daughter goes awry.  Gino himself spills the beans.  Some quick strategic realignment later, the plan shifts from pretending the baby doesn’t exist to trying to adopt him so that he can be raised in a manner befitting the half-brother of a Herriton.  (The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.  All of the Herritons are as generally awful as Philip – in fact, he’s probably the most open-minded, least irritating one out of the whole clan.)  A “rescue” party is dispatched to Monteriano to convince Gino to part ways with his son – because convincing him not to marry Lilia went so well. /sarcasm

And, of course, the entire “rescue” party falls under Gino’s spell immediately.

So this strenuous day of resolutions, plans, alarms, battles, victories, defeats, truces, ended at the opera.  Miss Abbott and Harriet were both a little shamefaced.  They thought of their friends at Sawston, who were supposing them to be now tilting against the powers of evil.  What would Mrs. Herriton, or Irma, or the curates at the Back Kitchen say if they could see the rescue party at a place of amusement on the very first day of its mission?  Philip, too, marvelled at his wish to go.  He began to see that he was enjoying his time in Monteriano, in spite of the tiresomeness of his companions and the occasional contrariness of himself.

(Image of San Gimignano sourced from Lonely Planet.)

Miss Abbott, too, had a wonderful evening, nor did she ever remember such stars or such a sky.  Her head, too, was full of music, and that night when she opened the window her room was filled with warm, sweet air.  She was bathed in beauty within and without; she could not go to bed for happiness.  Ha she ever been so happy before? Yes, once before, and here, a night in March, the night Gino and Lilia had told her of their love–the night whose evil she had come now to undo.

Forster is at his best in describing the romance and delight of Italy, which he clearly loves.  One by one, the characters succumb to its joys.  Monteriano becomes less dreary, Gino less embarrassing of a connection.  And it also becomes clear that Gino actually loves the baby and doesn’t want to give him up, shocking the party from England into a rash action that brings about the climax of the story.  I won’t tell you what that action is, nor will I give away the ending, but this is E.M. Forster, so that should tell you what you’re letting yourself in for.

As I mentioned above, the classic Forster themes are all there.  You see beautiful travel writing, complex characters (there are no heroes or villains in a Forster novel, just characters of varying degrees of sympathy) and culture clashes generally brought about by British travelers attempting to impose their will on people they can’t understand.  You can see the seeds of both A Room with a View and A Passage to India beginning to germinate in Where Angels Fear to Tread, which is fun.  I love to read earlier works to see how an author’s powers mature, and there is a clear progression in Forster’s novels – but Where Angels Fear to Tread is worth reading on its own, even if it is not the pinnacle of his writing career.  (I think most readers would say that’s Howard’s End, which I did think was wonderful, even if I loved Passage more.)

Have you read E.M. Forster?  Which one is your favorite?

Tales From the Exurbs, Vol. I: Strange Bedfellows

(Seen on my neighborhood run.  Toto, I don’t think we’re in the city anymore…)

Yesterday morning, this casual conversation took place…

 

Steve: There was a firefly in our bedroom last night.

Jaclyn: You’re serious?  Did it light up?

Steve: Yeah, that’s how I knew it was there.

Jaclyn: Well, did you escort it back outside?

Steve: Nah, I figured fireflies are harmless, so I just went back to sleep.

 

Worth noting: I love fireflies; they’re my very favorite bugs, so I found the idea of one flying around my bedroom sort of delightful.  (Although I do hope it found its way back out to its family and friends.)  If it was a moth, this would be a very different blog post.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (July 13, 2020)

Morning, friends.  How were your weekends?  I guess I did end up taking Friday “off” from posting – whoops.  It was just one of those days, I didn’t have any time to spare for thinking up topics and I had nothing already prepared.  Anyway – this weekend was nice.  My parents arrived on Friday for a quick visit – the first time we’d seen them in seven months.  (They were supposed to come down for Nugget’s birthday party in March, but that ended up being cancelled, like everything else.)  The kids were, obviously, in heaven from the moment the grandparents arrived.  My mom dove right into organizing their playroom (and here I thought I’d gotten it pretty well unpacked!) and the bedrooms.  On Saturday, we took my folks to Riverbend Park for a hike – no owls sighted this time, but I heard a few, so they were definitely around.  They really enjoyed getting to see a new park and a few glimpses of our new area.  On Sunday, they asked for a visit to Old Town, and we are always up for a ramble around our old neighborhood, so we headed down there.  It wasn’t as crowded as I was expecting, although there were more people there than I would have liked.  But we were able to mostly stay away from others – and we got ice cream from The Creamery, my old favorite spot for frozen treats.

My parents left this morning and – this is the really big news – they took the kids with them for an extended visit.  We all kind of needed a break from each other, so I think this will be good for everyone.  The kids will have lots of grandparent time after not seeing them since New Year’s – fun at the lake, swimming at my aunt’s pool, meeting their new baby second cousin, and getting a little summer homeschool in with Nana.  And Steve and I can work in peace during the week, finish unpacking, and do some grown-up stuff – hiking more technical trails, kayaking without duffers complaining the whole time, and cooking together – in our free time.  I’m going to miss the rugrats while they’re on their grandparent vacation – Nugget and I had a good long cry together last night – but we all will be better for it.

Reading.  Well, I promised you a non-Lumberjanes thumbnail this week, and you got one.  It was another light week of reading.  I was slammed with work and the kids were all I could handle last week, and all I could get through during the week was two volumes of bonus Lumberjanes stories.  They were fun, though!  As with any “short stories” I read, there were hits and misses – but overall, really enjoyable.  I think I scratched my Lumberjanes itch, finally, and felt ready to get back to plain words on a page – ha!  Picked up Anthony Rhodes’ forgotten Dunkirk memoir, Sword of Bone, in a lovely Slightly Foxed Edition, toward the end of the week and I’m about a third of the way into it as of today (maybe a little less).  It’s exactly as good as you would expect from Slightly Foxed!  I told my mom all about my favorite small publisher while she was here this weekend, and she took my copy of To War with Whitaker home with her, making me very nervous indeed.  (I hope she likes it, and more importantly, I hope she doesn’t crack the spine.)  Not sure what I will pick up when I finish Sword of Bone, but organizing the bookshelves is on my agenda for this week, so I’m sure inspiration will strike.

Watching.  Hamilton, again!  The parents don’t have Disney+ so they hadn’t been able to watch the film yet (they’ve seen the show on stage, when the Philip Tour stopped in Albany).  We all loved it, of course.  Other than Hamilton – let me think.  Steve and I finished up Continent 7 earlier in the week, so we’re on the hunt for another science/nature docuseries.  (I’m thinking Wild Hawaii is next.)  With the kids gone, we might also be able to get through Season Three of The Crown.  Oh, and on Monday morning before they left, the kids rented How to Train Your Dragon 2 – how?  I don’t even know how to rent a movie on our system.  Nice going, kids.

Listening.  Sort of the usual.  No podcasts this week, but I belted out some R.E.M. in the car on the way to the grocery store on Monday night, and then en route to our hiking destination over the weekend.  I’m sure everyone else in the car enjoyed my rendition of “Harborcoat.”

Moving.  Other than the hike and general kid-chasing, nothing.  This week will be different!  With a normal work schedule back and no 3:00 a.m. fistfights to break up, I am imagining that I am going to get all the running in.  I might even throw on my Merrell x Dogfish Head trail-running shoes and hit the dirt.

Making.  Again, not much.  It was just a really busy week.  I made work product – lots of it – and a pile of life jackets, water shoes, and baseball caps to go up to the lake.  But that’s not really what you’re interested in.  I do have my eye on some grownup cooking this week, so that should be fun.

Blogging.  Errrrrr – I don’t have anything planned, actually.  But I do have lots of spare time right now, so I should be able to pull it together and get you a book review on Wednesday (I have a Classics Club read I have yet to write up) and I’ll come up with something fun for Friday.  I’m planning a post about all the birds we have been spotting lately, but I want to see if I can snag a picture of the downy woodpecker that has been hanging out near our woodpile (!!!) before I share it.  We’ll see.

Loving.  It’s officially summer fruit season!  I brought a watermelon (which was only okay) and a box of peaches (which were delicious) home from Wegmans last week.  I’m working my way through the watermelon, but the peaches were gobbled up immediately.  There’s nothing like summer produce, and especially the stone fruits – I can’t get enough.  I’m thinking of stopping by one of the roadside produce stands near my new place (this is true exurbs, guys) and picking up some more peaches this week.  With the kids on their grandparent vacation, I will get them all.  That, my friends, is true luxury.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

America Now: Reflections on Independence Day 2020

“That’s the paradox of this Fourth of July. It is an awful time to be an American. It is a great time to look forward to a New America.”

~ John Blake, via this piece

I’ve been thinking a lot about this Fourth of July.  Independence Day has been my favorite holiday for a long time.  It hits my sweet spots – family, summer, outdoor fun on the water or the trails – with some classic Americana thrown in for good measure.  It’s less commercial than Christmas, less of a food frenzy than Thanksgiving.  I’ve got good memories of sparklers and fireworks at the lake growing up, and I love taking a day of togetherness to usher in the high summer season.

So the Fourth of July is more about grilling in the backyard to me, and less about waving a flag.  But this year I felt a little complicated and guilty about loving this holiday.  In the midst of a pandemic and a reckoning with our long hushed-up history of systemic racism, and no leadership, I almost don’t want to admit that I still love this holiday.

I thought a lot more about America this year than I usually do.  And here’s what I came up with: this country is a big, imperfect, unfinished, sometimes clumsy, experiment.  That’s always been true, but it’s never been more clear.  We’re polarized, and there isn’t much we can all agree on right now – which seems crazy.  There are concepts that seem really basic to me: Black lives matter, love is love, science is real, wildlife deserves protection, people should be paid fairly for their work, wearing a mask is an easy thing to do to protect my neighbors, etc.  But there’s still polarization and clearly, we have a lot to work through as a country.

While it doesn’t feel like there is much to celebrate this Fourth of July, I am celebrating anyway.  I’m celebrating big ideas.  This place has always been full of them – from the Founding Fathers, as I was reminded while watching Hamilton on Friday night (“the story of America then, told by America now”), to the proponents of the Green New Deal.  (Love it or hate it, it’s a big idea.)  Big problems require big solutions, and if Americans are good at anything, it is thinking big.

I am not trying to minimize the pain of the BIPOC community, who don’t feel truly free, or the First Nations and indigenous people who have to watch Americans recreate on their ancestral lands.  Or anyone who feels marginalized – and there are a lot of people who feel that way and for good reason.  But I am choosing to place my hope in big ideas, and to celebrate – maybe not the America now, but the America that can be if we hold up the tradition of thinking big.

Happy (belated) Fourth, and keep thinking big.