ColoRADo 2015: Exploring Denver

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Our trip to Colorado involved a lot of hiking.  Like, a LOT of hiking.  Steve and I, and Dan and Danielle, all really enjoy hiking, and there is so much jaw-dropping natural beauty in the Rocky Mountains – so it was no surprise that every day when we discussed what to do, we always wanted to hike.  Still, we knew we had to mix in some more kid-friendly activities for Peanut’s sake.  She’s a good girl, and I do believe that introducing kids to our natural environment through family hikes is a fun and important thing to do – but there’s only so much time a three-year-old really wants to spend in a hiking backpack.  We wanted to be mindful of that and to make sure that we planned activities with her in mind; after all, it was her vacation too.  And so we put together a day in Denver that was pretty much all about Peanut – starting with the Denver Zoo!

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I have complicated feelings about zoos, and am on record as not being thrilled with our local zoo (or aquarium, for that matter).  After a lot of thinking, research, and soul-searching, I’ve come up with the following articulation of my position: I’m not wild (pun intended) about the idea of zoos in general, but I recognize that they present the only way most people get to see and be in proximity to majestic animals.  (Most of us are not lucky enough to afford African safaris.)  If a zoo is well-designed, such that the animals seem happy and are not exhibiting stress behaviors, and the zoo places emphasis on education and conservation, I am cautiously okay with it.  A zoo that is poorly designed, or does not have up-to-date facilities to ensure the animals’ health, comfort and well-being, and that prioritizes entertainment over education and consumption over conservation is not something I am able to support.  (As for fairs and circuses, NEVER.)

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All that said, and with only a morning’s worth of actually experiencing it, I was pleased with the Denver Zoo and happy to take my family there.  The zoo was expansive, clean, and the animals seemed happy.  (My brother, who also feels strongly about Earth and the creatures we are supposed to be stewarding, is also comfortable with the Denver Zoo.)  So that’s how we spent our morning – checking out Denver’s animal population!

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Our first stop was, OF COURSE, the sea lions!  Peanut is a pinniped enthusiast – she sleeps with two stuffed sea lions and a harbor seal – and at any zoo or aquarium featuring sea lions (her favorite), we must visit them first.  (Actually, if Peanut had her way, we’d spend the entire time with the sea lions.)  The Denver sea lions were adorable – happy and playful – and we watched them chase each other around their habitat for more than twenty minutes.  We only left – reluctantly – when everyone was getting too cold, standing in one spot for so long.

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Mom got a treat, too.  Peanut might love sea lions, but I love regular lions!  The big cats are always my favorite – I used to love visiting the lions and their cubs at the National Zoo in DC – so I was over the moon to hear that the Denver Zoo had two lion cubs of its own.  They had just made their public debut the previous day, so we were some of the lucky first few people to get to see them.  They were so stinking cute, I cannot even.

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(Sorry for the terrible picture quality.  The cubs and their mom and aunt were behind a glass partition – I think for warmth – and I had a bad angle, so you can see the reflection of the crowd control fence.  Just ignore the glare and focus on the cuteness, please.)  The only sad thing was that Aunt Danielle wasn’t there to see them.  She had to work – boo.  We all missed her.

We visited a few more animals and caught part of the elephant show – very cool and educational – and only left when Nugget was hungry and Peanut was starting to get cold.  (My only complaint about the Denver Zoo was the lack of nursing facilities.  I ended up feeding Nugget in our parked rental car – a cozy mothers’ lounge would have been nice.  But I do realize that most people will not have need of that particular facility.)

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After the zoo, we headed across town to the Denver Aquarium.  (Doing both in one day was definitely not the most efficient use of time.  The zoo is close to the Denver Science Museum, so that would have made more sense for most people to do.  But we knew we probably only had one day to really explore Denver, so we had to squeeze in the sights that Peanut would enjoy most.  Next time we’re there, we will try to hit the Science Museum and the Children’s Museum – I was disappointed to miss out on that one.)

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The Denver Aquarium, like the Denver Zoo, was really cool and Peanut had a ball.  (Please ignore her mittens.  Some battles are not worth fighting.)

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We got to walk through this really cool underwater walkway, while rays and sharks swam all around.  Peanut was absolutely enthralled.  The girl loves marine life.

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Another treat for Mom – a tiger!  Don’t ask me to explain why this tiger is resident at the Aquarium instead of the Zoo.  (As my brother said, “What? Tigers like water.”)  He was absolutely stunning.

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I mean, WOW.

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Peanut was duly impressed.

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After the tiger, we continued making our way through the aquarium toward the other big attraction – a stingray petting pool!  Uncle Dan was totally into it and bought a little basket of shrimp to feed the stingrays.

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Yikes!  He offered to share his shrimp but the rest of us declined.  So he got those stingrays all to himself.  Lucky guy…?  Peanut was on cloud nine because a mermaid, who had been sitting by the petting pool but was on her way back to her “tank,” waved to her on her way out.  (She talked about the mermaid for days afterward.)

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After the aquarium, we had one more stop to make – REI!  The Denver flagship store was just down the block from the aquarium, and I really wanted to visit. On top of just wanting to see an REI flagship store (I’m not the only one who considers REI a tourist attraction, right?) I needed a hat and gloves.  I wasn’t expecting the cold snap and hadn’t packed appropriate winter gear.  (And yes, Nugget pulled his sock off just as I was snapping the picture.)

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So we warmed up in REI and spent about fifteen minutes exploring and checking out all the cool gear, then I grabbed a hat and gloves and we headed back into the mountains.  (If there’s any store where you can wear a hiking backpack around and no one bats an eye, it’s REI, amirite?)

Denver is such a cool town!  We definitely only scratched the surface.  I hope we’re able to spend a lot more time there in the future.  Next week, we’re back in the mountains.

A Storytelling Birthday Party

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Well, here we go… it seems like only yesterday we were welcoming our baby boy to the world, and this past weekend I threw another first birthday party.  This year has gone by so quickly, and we really wanted to do something special for our little guy, and to celebrate the fact that we made it through.  Our first year as a family of four brought a lot of growing pains and also a lot of joy.

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I started thinking about Nugget’s birthday party a couple of months ago.  March is a tricky time for a birthday in upstate New York, because the weather is so iffy.  Last year, when Nugget was born, we still had quite a lot of snow on the ground – when we came home from the hospital, I remember being greeted by a family of three foot tall snow rabbits just off the driveway.  This year, it was sixty degrees and sunny – who’d have thunk?  Still, I knew that if I planned a party at a park, it would be cold and probably freezing rain, because that’s how my luck runs.

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I also wanted to do something a little different.  We’ve been blessed with wonderful friends here and as a result, we’ve been to a fair few kids’ birthday parties in a number of different locations around town.  We’ve celebrated at friends’ houses, at the YMCA, at a local nature preserve, and at a working farm.  I knew that our townhouse was too small to host a group, so we’d have to go somewhere, but at the same time I didn’t want to copy any of our friends’ ideas.  A bit of googling and I found the perfect place – Monkey See, Monkey Do – a children’s bookstore in Clarence, one of the Buffalo suburbs.  We’d actually been to Monkey See, Monkey Do once before – on Christmas Eve morning, when they hosted a Polar Express story hour.  It’s a gorgeous children’s bookstore, housed in a building that dates from the mid-nineteenth century (and still has its original walls and ceiling beams) and the book selection is beautifully curated.  They host events and parties regularly, and they have two birthday packages available.  I called them up, verified that our date was available, and immediately started talking details with the party coordinator.  And a nature/garden-themed party was born.

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The bookstore handled the cupcakes and I provided the rest of the food.  The party was after lunch, so we went with an assortment of snacks.  My favorite (Pinterest-found!) snack was the s’mores lollipops.  They looked so cool and couldn’t have been easier.  Just marshmallows impaled with a lolly stick, dipped in melted chocolate (done over a double boiler with a little cream) and rolled in graham cracker crumbs.  Looked ten times harder than they were, and they were delicious.

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I can’t say enough good things about the bookstore.  The party package included a craft or two (they planned two) and a storyteller, plus the cupcakes and tea and coffee, and all of the paper products.  The wonderful party planner had arranged a table with garden tools for the kids to decorate.  (I’d told her that even though it was  party for a one-year-old, she should gear the activities to three and four-year-olds, since Peanut and her friends made up the entire guest list.)

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And after the kids had finished beading their spades (!!!) she had foam flowers to decorate, and then they got to put stickers on flowerpots and plant beans.  I mean, really.  How perfect is that activity for an early spring birthday?

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(Obviously Nugget’s participation was limited, but Peanut and her friends had a ball.)

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Don’t worry about the little guy, though.  We had an activity for him, too.  I brought his campfire from home, which is one of the favorite toys in our house.  At $60 I thought it was a bit steep for a baby toy, but I can’t argue with the hours of entertainment that both Peanut and Nugget have gotten out of this thing.

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After the crafts and cupcakes, Miss Kim – the owner of the store – read the kids a story.  They had a selection of several books, all related to the gardening theme, on the table, and we chose Compost Stew.  Kim read the book to the whole group; she’s a fabulous storyteller.  (She was also the storyteller at the Polar Express story hour.  Man, I wish my job involved reading stories to kids in a beautiful bookstore!  #lifegoals)

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After the story, we wrapped up the party.  Nugget took Compost Stew home as the store’s birthday gift to him, and we picked up a few more books, too – Jumping Off Library Shelves for Peanut, and Bee-Bim Bop!A Bear’s Year, and Forest Has a Song for our family library.  Peanut’s friends each got to take a book home, too (and I felt a little guilty about having a party in a bookstore when one of Peanut’s pals suckered her mom into buying Princess Hamster – oops).

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We headed back to our place with Nana and Grandad and did the rest of our gift-opening there.  Nana and Grandad had Hilton Head souvenirs for both kids, and a mess of presents for Nugget for his birthday (including two that light up and make noise – poor form, grandparents).  We mostly gave Nugget puzzles and books, because that’s how we roll.  He got a few new board books from the BabyLit gang, a London opposites primer, and two gorgeous books about water and rocks, as well as his special gift from us – a beautiful Folio Society edition of Stuart Little.  And because Nugget has to be Nugget, he also got some vehicles – wooden London taxi, police car and double-decker bus, and a new helicopter.  Nana and Grandad also brought cars (and this cool rug to zoom them around on!), books, clothes and a couple of stuffed animals.  So Nugget did quite well.  I think he was psyched about his haul.

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We spent the rest of Saturday afternoon and evening relaxing, but on Sunday morning the grandparents came back around and we all headed out to get some fresh air at Glen Park in Williamsville.  I used to come to this park all the time when my Stroller Strides class met to work out there, but haven’t been in months (Stroller Strides ended last fall and hasn’t met since).  I love Glen Park, but I did break out in cold sweats thinking about all the times I’ve sprinted up and down the switchback-laden path up that waterfall.

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We weren’t at the park for hill repeats, though.  We were there because it’s SPRING, and SPRING means DUCKS!  Peanut was overjoyed that her feathered friends were back for the season.

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I love ducks – they’re so adorable.  This crowd wasn’t shy at all.  There’s a sign instructing park visitors not to feed the wildlife, but I don’t think most people abide by it.  These ducks have definitely gotten used to being fed by humans – they came right up to us wanting bread.  (We didn’t have any, and didn’t feed them.)  Peanut had a blast climbing up the rocks, running around on the grass, and checking out the new arrivals to the duck pond.  And Nugget had a blast watching his sister play.

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One more time – happy birthday, little boy!  You’re my heart’s joy and I hope you had a wonderful weekend.  We loved celebrating you, and we’re so glad you’re here.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (March 14, 2016)

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Whew, what a week.  I’ve been super stressed about a few different things, and trying to balance and cope with everything that’s going on (I won’t bore you with specifics) has taken a lot out of me.  But there’s some good stuff, too.  Nugget turned one on Friday and we hosted family and friends for his birthday party on Saturday.  I’ll share more about the party on Wednesday, but it was a hit.  I have been back on the Pinterest wagon recently (pinning is a good activity for 3:00 in the morning when I am rocking Nugget – yes, still) and I got a lot of good ideas for his party on there.  And more than just ideas – I pulled several of them off and felt rather pleased with myself as a result.  Saturday we were party central, and I just collapsed after it was all done and cleaned away.  My parents stuck around on Sunday and had a low key day playing with the kids.  So all things considered, we had a nice weekend.

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Just not a productive reading weekend.  Or productive reading week, for that matter.  See above: stress.  I’ve made progress in both The Road to Little Dribbling and The Enchanted April, but I’m not done with either of them just yet.  Little Dribbling continues to inform and entertain in true Bill Bryson style.  Man, I really love Bill Bryson.  Bryson is first and foremost a travel writer, but as several reviewers have noted, he’s actually at his best when he goes off on a tangent – which, luckily, he does often in his latest book.  It’s chock full of factoids and musings, and I love them all.  As for The Enchanted April, I’m about halfway through it, and I can see why it’s so beloved and such a favorite to actually read in April (maybe I should have waited…?).  I’ve been pulling it up on iBooks and reading a chapter here and a chapter there and while it’s not quite as good as an actual trip to Italy would be, that’s not in the cards for some years still, so for now, Elizabeth von Arnim will do.

When I’ve found myself getting dragged down a black hole of stress and anxiety – which has felt like about every ten minutes this week – I’ve been trying to refocus by thinking about what I’m going to read next.  I think my next book will be The Queen of the Night, which I have checked out from the library and which is due back by the 26th – and it’s long – so I have to get a move on.  But I also have the third and fourth books in Catherynne M. Valente’s Fairyland series out, and those are calling to me a little bit.

On the blog this week: a first birthday party recap on Wednesday, and back to Colorado (Denver this week!) on Friday.  Have a great week, my friends!

Did you get any good reading done this week?

Nugget: Twelve Months

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Oh, little buddy – beautiful little boy – you are ONE YEAR OLD today!  Hold me.  I can’t believe this year has already gone by.  A year ago at this time I was complaining about my hospital bed being periodically uncomfortable, and being told by the nurse, “That’s not the bed, that’s you, dear.”  Ha.

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We have had quite a year.  We’ve traveled to the Outer Banks and the Rocky Mountains, spent more than two weeks (between the two trips) giving the kids lots of quality time with Uncle Dan and Aunt Danielle – and what a gift for Nugget in his first year of life – we’ve walked countless miles around East Aurora and on the hiking paths, and we’ve spent many afternoons dozing together in a patch of warm sunlight in Nugget’s rocking chair.  This little guy speaks to my heart in ways all his own.  Before he came I wondered – was my heart big enough to love another baby as completely as I love Peanut?  And the moment I looked at him for the first time, I knew: yes, yes, absolutely.  There is a place in my heart that is all Nugget’s, always has been, always will be.

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And now here he is today, a big one-year-old.  He’s still a little dude – small for his age – but he is mighty.  I’m living in fear of the day that he rips the faucet out of Peanut’s play kitchen (it’s going to happen).  He’s pulling up and cruising all over the place now, climbing the stairs (y’all, there’s no fear quite like a one-year-old who climbs stairs), and generally wreaking havoc all over the house.  It’s chaos, and it’s so much fun.

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What hasn’t changed this month?  Well, the obvious – this boy is still completely, wildly, all-consumingly in love with his sister.  His face lights up when she comes into the room, and he starts giggling as soon as she talks, or laughs, or even appears to notice him.  He lives for her, and she for him, and it’s the best thing I’ve ever seen.  Of course, he’s a little brother.  So he also annoys the bejeezes out of her.

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You know what he is not doing?  Eating table foods.  At this age, Peanut was snacking on all kinds of table foods in addition to her purees.  Nugget – not so much.  We offer them at every meal, and his teachers at daycare reinforce it, but it doesn’t matter what we offer – it pops right back out again.  I keep on telling myself that he’ll get the hang of it eventually, but so far, no joy.

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(We did discover one table food that he’ll eat: frosting.  Last weekend we attended a birthday brunch for one of our closest friends here – the lovely mom of Peanut’s lovely BFF – and there were cupcakes.  And there was cupcake domination.  He even ate some of the cake.  So at least I know that tomorrow he’ll eat something at his birthday party.)

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There have been a lot of things about this year that have been really tough.  A preschooler and a baby – that’s no joke.  Having two small children, who both need me very much, has put me through the wringer.  The long days and multiple night wake-ups have taken their toll for sure.  It’s been an adjustment for our family, our marriage, our friendships – you name it.  But it’s been so worth it.  This has been one of the hardest, most exhausting years of my life – but I wouldn’t trade it.  And while I have wished for a little more understanding, and a little more grace, from time to time this year, ultimately, we’ve survived and now we’re here, with a sweet, funny, joyful, absolutely miraculous little one-year-old that we couldn’t love more if we tried.  So it’s good.  It’s hard, but it’s very, very good.

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Nugget at 12 (!!!) Months:

Weight: 18 pounds, 10.5 ounces.  And the funniest face ever when I weighed him.

Height: Forgot to take this one, but I’ll add it in on Monday after his well-baby appointment, sound good?

Clothing Size: Twelve months.

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Sleep: I don’t have much to say this month.  Pretty much the same.  Still no naps to speak of (naps are for weaklings, you guys, weaklings), still waking up 1-2 times per night to eat.  (He may not be hungry, but it’s the easiest way for me to comfort him so we’re still nursing at night.)  We did have a few days of shenanigans because we swapped the kids’ rooms, for reasons that are way too complicated to get into in a short paragraph about sleep.  It took Nugget a few nights to get used to his new space, but he’s about back to his baseline now.  Which isn’t to say good sleep, but at least I can manage it.

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Likes: Cruising, the play kitchen, the actual kitchen, his SISTER!, pointing at EVERYTHING, climbing stairs, climbing Mom, throwing puffs, being spoon fed pouch puree at exactly his preferred speed, watching cartoons whenever Mom is not being vigilant enough, having raspberries blown on his tummy.

Dislikes: Your normal baby stuff.  Having his clothes changed and his nose or face wiped.  (Bad news: it’s spring cold season.  There’s a lot of nose-wiping going on.)

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Favorite Toys: Still loving cars and trucks.  We opened up a train set that he received for Christmas and that’s been a big hit, which is not surprising at all.  (Peanut loves it too.)  And still loving anything that is not a toy, especially – this month – whatever he can find on the floor and the lowest shelf of the pantry.  Especially the pretzel jar!  So fun!

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Milestones: So many, again, this month.  Last month he was just beginning to pull up – now he’s cruising, pulling up on toy baskets and rooting around, dancing in place, and even starting to (very cautiously) let go and try to balance for a moment or two.  He’ll be walking before I know it.  He has a couple of words – aside from Mama and Dada we’ve heard “up” and “uh-oh.”  And as I said, he loves to climb stairs (Mom is less than thrilled about that one).  And a milestone Mom doesn’t love?  Nugget’s hair is starting to fill in and weigh itself down, which means that his signature rooster ‘do is all but tamed.  I’m going to miss that exuberant baby cowlick when it’s gone.

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Quirks: Here’s one for the books – Nugget loves kitchens.  He likes Peanut’s play kitchen, our regular kitchen (dishwasher! pantry! pots and pans to bang!) and he can’t get enough of watching the guys make pizza at a wood-fired pizza place we found in our new neighborhood.  I’ve been joking that he’s going to grow up to be the next Bobby Flay.

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Happiest of birthdays, baby boy!  You’ll always be my little sweet one.  Mommy and Daddy and Peanut love you more than you will ever know.  We’re sad to bid goodbye to the first year, but excited for all the good that is right around the corner.  You keep right on being you, growing so big and strong and amazing us every day.  We love you!

Twelve Months Hiking Project: Final 2015 Recap

Well, we did it!  Twelve months of hiking in a different place each month!  We managed to get ourselves outside and on the trails not only when the weather was nice or it was easy to get out the door, but also during the frigid cold of last winter in Buffalo, and even when we had a newborn baby.  I’m really proud that we made a commitment and stuck to it, as a family, all year long (even if it was a fun commitment to explore our local hiking trails and get out hiking on vacations).  It was a wonderful year, full of big breaths of fresh air, warm sunshine on our faces, and lots of joy as we explored together as a family.  And in case you missed any of our recaps, I’ve gathered links to each of them here.

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January: Reinstein Woods Nature Preserve (Cheektowaga, New York)

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February: Knox Farm State Park (East Aurora, New York)

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March: Como Lake Park (Lancaster, New York)

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April: Times Beach Nature Preserve (Buffalo, New York)

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May: Darien Lakes State Park (Darien Center, New York)

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June: Sprague Brook Park (Glenwood, New York)

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July: Great Falls National Park (Great Falls, Virginia)

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August: Eternal Flame Trail, Chestnut Ridge Park (Orchard Park, New York)

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September: Niagara Falls State Park (Niagara Falls, New York) – with Rebecca!

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October: Letchworth State Park (Castile, New York)

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November: Bear Lake, Rocky Mountain National Park (Estes Park, Colorado)

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December: Tifft Nature Preserve (Buffalo, New York)

Happy trails, indeed!  We put feet on so many beautiful trails last year.  Here’s to another year of fabulous hiking in 2016!

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (March 7, 2016)

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Another week gone.  This one was better but I’m still in a bit of a funk from my comically awful week at the end of February.  I’m doing my best to shake it, though.  This was one of those weekends that had us running around the entire time, but it was a lot of fun.  On Saturday morning we attended a surprise birthday brunch for a friend.  It was such a great morning.  Our friend was very surprised, and thrilled, and everyone had a fabulous time at the party.  The kids loved running around together and the grownups sipped mimosas and chatted – it was perfect.  After the brunch we headed back to our townhouse and spent a few frantic hours cleaning up and finishing unpacking the living room.  I was just D-O-N-E with the boxes and I announced that we were going to have the living room in shape before our evening plans.  And we made it – just in time.  Just after we finished our unpacking extravaganza, Grandpa arrived at 6:30 to babysit, and Steve and I headed out to a fundraiser at the kids’ preschool.  It was a lovely night and we had a blast sipping wine and chatting with other parents.  The highlight of the evening was a live auction of art pieces prepared by each classroom.  I wasn’t planning to participate, but somewhat on a whim ended up bidding on the piece created by Nugget’s classroom – and I won!  It’s an underwater scene and the fish – if you can’t tell – are made by hand- and footprints; one from each kid in Nugget’s class.  I have a hunch which print is Nugget’s, but I’m hoping his teacher can confirm.  On Sunday we were invited to join a group at a roller derby, but ended up passing because someone was still awake and running around like a maniac when we got home from the fundraiser.  So Peanut had a snuggly day at home and Nugget and I ran errands most of Sunday.  Not exactly a restful weekend, but fun.

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As for reading, the week itself was slow but I polished off two books over the weekend – score.  I took most of the week over it, but I finished Jam on the Vine on Saturday and was really impressed with the writing and the character development.  I learned a lot from the book as well, but interested readers be forewarned: there are some very upsetting scenes of violence in the book.  Fortunately, I was able to keep the mood light even with a pretty serious read, as I also had My Man Jeeves on the go on my phone.  (Side note: why did it take me so long to realize I could download public domain books for free on iBooks?  I went a bit crazy with downloads this week.)  I finished Jeeves on Sunday and now have two new books on the go: Bill Bryson’s latest, The Road to Little Dribbling, out from the library, and The Enchanted April on my phone.  I’m excited about both; I was already laughing so hard I was crying about three sentences into Little Dribbling, and April is one that has been on my list for awhile.  So I’m looking ahead to what should be a good week in reading.

A look ahead to the rest of the week on the blog: I’ve got a final round-up of all of my monthly hikes from 2015 coming to you on Wednesday, and on Friday, Nugget’s TWELVE MONTH update.  Can you believe he’ll be one year old in just a few days?  I can’t even talk about it.  Hold me.

What are you reading this week, my friends?

ColoRADo 2015: Indian Peaks Wilderness

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Our second full day in Colorado was a big one.  I’d asked Dan to show us the very best of his adopted home state, and he came through in a major way, starting with Indian Peaks Wilderness.  If he was trying to show us how spectacular the scenery is less than thirty minutes from his house, he succeeded.

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We got to Indian Peaks and suited up in our winter gear.  The temperatures were very low – the Boulder-Denver area was enduring a vicious cold snap while we were there – but it wasn’t particularly windy that day, so it was really quite comfortable in the sun.  Dan told us that we were going to walk to Brainard Lake, and he promised that it was only about a half mile hike along the road.  Normally, he explained, we’d drive all the way, park near the lake, and hike the trails – which would be more to everyone’s enjoyment.  But on this particular day, the road was closed – whether that was for the season, or just because of the snowfall, I don’t know – so our hike became a road walk.  Although we’d have loved to explore the trails, a road walk was okay by us, too.  There was snow on ground and it was deep in some areas, and we were up over 10,000 feet of elevation, so anything to make the walk a bit easier on the littles was welcome.  The road was nice, but Dan’s promised half mile turned out to be two miles each way!  Oops.  It was just more scenery, and the kids were champs, so in the end it was fine.

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Heading off on our walk!  See that mountain?  Our goal lake is at the base.

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Shortly after beginning our walk, Dan pointed out a small path leading down to a pristine little pond.  Steve wanted to stay on the road, so Nugget, Dan and I opted for a quick visit.  So beautiful!

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Seriously feeling so happy to be able to share all this natural beauty with my little boy!

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We continued on our way, marveling with every step at the jaw-droppingly gorgeous views.  As you can see, although this was a “road hike” it was still quite challenging!  Between snow and ice making some of the footing treacherous, and wading through ankle-deep powder in other spots, plus the high elevation, it definitely wasn’t the easiest stroll we’d ever taken.  I was happy to be getting in a good workout, though, and the mountains made for a good distraction from burnin’ legs and lungs.

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Holla, Pawnee!  I got unreasonably excited to see a sign for Pawnee Campground!  Dan did not understand why I was laughing and snapping pictures because – now, this may come as a shock – he doesn’t watch Parks & Recreation.  I know.  I was appalled, too.  But I forgave him, and instructed him to watch it ASAP.

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Somewhere in there, the little dude fell asleep.  That’s one cozy snowsuit!

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Finally, just when our endurance was starting to flag, we made it to Brainard Lake… and the long walk turned out to be well worth it.

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Cannot.  Handle.  The.  Beauty.

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After a tough year, many sleepless nights caring for a newborn and worrying about the future, it felt so good to be together as a family in such an awe-inspiring place.  All our hard work and struggles just seemed to drop away as we took in the beauty all around us.  I know it’s cheesy, too, but I was so grateful that Peanut and Nugget got to take this trip – even though they’re little, and Peanut will probably remember very little of it, and Nugget none at all.  I want them to grow up with an appreciation for our beautiful natural places, and this trip was a good early step toward that goal.

After taking in the view for awhile, we headed back toward the car and made our drive down through the mountains, back to Dan’s house.  We reunited with Danielle – who sadly had to work most days, and was missed very much during the activities she couldn’t attend – and headed out for dinner in Nederland, a cool little town not far from Dan and Danielle’s cabin.  Our first stop in Nederland was the Carousel of Happiness, an all-wooden indoor carousel.  I was a little stressed about some work drama (that lasted all week) but this Carousel did put a smile on my face the moment I saw it.

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We managed to squeak in for the last ride of the evening.  Dan and Danielle grabbed animals to ride on…

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While Peanut and Daddy settled onto a bench.  Peanut was pretty apprehensive about the whole thing – the carousel employees actually nicely delayed the start for us while we tried to talk her into riding.  In the end she pretty much had to be dragged on, but I think she had a good time!  Nugget and I didn’t ride – we had fun watching the lights, listening to the music, and waving at the rest of the family as they went by.  (In retrospect, I probably could have brought Nugget on and sat with him on one of the benches.  But someone had to be the photographer!)

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Peanut was a lot less apprehensive once she was off the carousel.  She enjoyed petting this wooden tiger.  What a nut!

After the carousel, we headed to an Indian restaurant that Dan and Danielle had been wanting to try out.  Since we’re all big fans of Indian food, it felt like a great fit – the food was delicious, and we pretty much had the place to ourselves, which meant very few people had their dinners ruined by our rambunctious children.

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Nugget sat on Aunt Danielle’s lap and made grabs for her water while Steve and I attempted to bribe, threaten, cajole and browbeat Peanut into eating dinner.  (Every.  Single.  Night.)  Nederland was so cool – I just wish we’d gotten to see it in daylight!  And I wish we’d been able to explore more of the trails around Brainard Lake.  I guess we’ll just have to go back!

Next week, I’m taking a week off from recaps to celebrate a little guy who is turning ONE!  But the week after that, we explore Denver – check back in two weeks!

Reading Round-Up: February 2016

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Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby.  I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book.  Here are my reads for February, 2016

the immortal life of henrietta lacks The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, by Rebecca Skloot – I had been meaning to read this one for years, and once I finally got to it, I was blown away.  Henrietta Lacks was a cancer patient in Baltimore in the 1950s.  Shortly before she died – from a particularly vicious strain of cervical cancer – and unbeknownst to Henrietta, doctors harvested a few of her cancerous cells.  Up until Henrietta, no cells had ever managed to survive more than a few days after being harvested.  Henrietta’s were special – they lived forever, dividing and dividing and dividing.  HeLa, as the cells were named, went on to be instrumental in some of the most important scientific discoveries of the twentieth century.  They were used in testing some of our most prevalent drugs.  They were blown up in atomic bombs and shot into space.  And all the while, Henrietta’s family had no idea that her cells lived on.  They only discovered HeLa’s existence in the 1970s – more than twenty years after Henrietta’s death.  To this day, they have not been paid for the cells, which were extracted without Henrietta’s knowledge or consent.  And many of Henrietta’s descendants cannot afford health insurance.  Henrietta Lacks is all the more amazing – and disturbing – of a story for being true.  In Skloot’s capable hands, the reader comes to care deeply about Henrietta, her family, and the unfair system that has allowed some to profit handsomely from her cells while her family goes without insurance.  My only complaint was Skloot’s occasional penchant for describing people by their weight – I don’t need to know that a particular individual was “a substantial woman, about 200 pounds,” or that another individual was 400 pounds.  It wasn’t germane to the book and seemed a bit disrespectful.  But that is my only (minor) quibble with the book – overall, I thought it was spellbinding and fascinating.  Henrietta Lacks should be required reading for all human beings.

welcome to braggsville Welcome to Braggsville, by T. Geronimo Johnson – Daron Davenport is a son of the South, away from home for the first time as a student at UC Berkeley.  When he mentions in a class that his hometown, Braggsville, stages an annual Civil War reenactment, Daron’s friends seize on the idea of a performance protest.  They traipse to Braggsville for spring break and proceed to stick out like sore thumbs everywhere they go – but their antics take a quick turn from comedic to tragic.  So… I liked Braggsville, but didn’t love it.  The plot was intriguing, but something about the writing style just didn’t resonate with me.  You ever read one of those books where you can appreciate that the writing is excellent, but it’s just not grabbing you?  That was my experience with Braggsville.  I found it hard to get invested in the story as a result.  Still a worthwhile read and particularly interesting during Black History Month.

march 1 March: Book One, by John Lewis – March is going to be a trilogy of graphic memoirs recounting the life of Congressman John Lewis and his role in the Civil Rights Movement.  This first volume described Congressman Lewis’ rural Southern boyhood, his college years in Nashville, and the beginnings of his involvement with nonviolent protest.  I found it riveting and powerful – the graphic novel format was a really unique way to tell the story, and Lewis’ voice comes through beautifully.  I immediately checked the second volume out from the library.

the fifth season The Fifth Season (The Broken Earth #1), by N.K. Jemisin – I don’t know how to describe this book without going on for paragraphs and paragraphs, giving away the story, or both… but I’ll try.  The Stillness is a vast continent that is plagued by seismic events – earthquakes, tsunamis, disasters of all stripes.  Resident on the Stillness, amongst the ordinary “stills,” is a race of people called “orogenes,” who can sense and control the geologic environment.  The orogenes are feared and hated for their powers, but the stills also need their skill, and so the entire group has been suborned to the point of slavery – until a few orogenes decide that they’ve had enough.  I don’t want to say any more, because I don’t want to risk spoiling the many surprises.  The Fifth Season was my first N.K. Jemisin experience, and I was incredibly impressed with her world-building and her beautiful writing.  I’ll be reading her entire backlist now, kthanksbye.

march 2 March: Book Two, by John Lewis – I couldn’t leave March this month, so I returned to Congressman Lewis’ memoirs for the second volume.  The Congressman finds himself in more and more volatile of a situation as he assumes a leadership role, first in the Freedom Rides, and then in SNCC, the nonviolent student organization he helped to found.  The volume concludes with the March on Washington and Dr. Martin Luther King’s “I Have a Dream” speech, and it is incredibly moving and powerful.  What a wonderful way to tell such an important story – everyone should read March.  I’m now impatiently waiting for the third and final volume.

turner house The Turner House, by Angela Flournoy – The Turner house stands on Yarrow Street in a crumbling Detroit neighborhood.  For years, the house has sheltered Francis and Viola Turner and their thirteen children, from Cha-Cha, the responsible eldest son, to Lelah, the baby of the family.  Now Francis has passed away and Viola is dying.  The house – all but abandoned – is only worth about $4,000, but Viola still owes $40,000 on it.  Against this bitter backdrop, the Turner children gather to debate what should be done with their family home.  As the discussion unfolds, the children deal with their own private dramas.  Cha-Cha believes that he is being haunted, and the “haint” is causing both Cha-Cha and his marriage to unravel.  Twelfth child, Troy, is determined to buck his elder brother and take the house’s fate into his own hands.  And Lelah, the youngest, is coming undone – evicted, recently backslid into a gambling addiction she had worked hard to break, and at odds with her only daughter.  I loved this book.  Each of the Turners felt so real – the characterization was absolutely masterful.  Cha-Cha, in particular, was such a wonderful character, and I rooted for him to confront both his haint and the pressures of being the new family patriarch.  I simply can’t believe that The Turner House is a debut novel – if this is Angela Flournoy’s first effort, I can’t wait to see what she does next.

February, as most of my friends are no doubt aware, is Black History Month in the U.S.  Early in the month, I decided that I really wanted to celebrate by reading as many books by African-American authors as possible, and I certainly met that goal.  Of the six books I read this month, five were by African-American authors, and the sixth – Henrietta Lacks – was a sensitive and well-handled discussion of race and ethics in medical research, an issue that should be important to all of us, but that has particular implications for people of color, who have been disproportionately ill-treated by ethical and legal “rules” that do not require patient consent for taking and using human tissue.  (As a lawyer, I was stunned by this.)  I felt great about my Black History Month reading – some good fiction, some good non-fiction, and the discovery of two voices in fiction – N.K. Jemisin and Angela Flournoy – that I will enjoy following for years to come.  A successful month, indeed!

What were your reading highlights in February?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (February 29, 2016)

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Happy Monday, happy Leap Day, happy new week.  Last week was terrible.  I mean, it was one of those weeks where if something could go wrong, it did go wrong – it felt like one disaster after another.  Monday was the worst of it, but the rest of the week didn’t get much better from there.  It was almost comically awful, and I found myself repeating that old motivational saying “If Britney could get through 2007, I can get through today” more times than I can count.  So I don’t really want to talk about what we were up to.  Just look at the cute picture of babies in a race car shopping cart (pretty much the highlight of the week) and let’s just talk about books.

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It might have been a bad week in life, but it was a good week in books, so at least there’s that.  I started the week off by finishing up the second volume of March, Congressman John Lewis’ graphic memoir.  This volume was all about Lewis’ experiences as a Freedom Rider and leading SNCC, and culminated in the March on Washington and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” speech – so powerful.  There’s going to be a third volume at some point, so I’ll be keeping my eyes open for that.  Then I opened Jam on the Vine, about which I’d heard great things on the All the Books! podcast.  I only got about a chapter in before I had to pick up my library holds, though, and as I predicted, one of them was a seven-day book: Angela Flournoy’s acclaimed debut, The Turner House.  So I tabled Jam on the Vine and switched to the Turner family saga, and I’m about twenty pages away from finishing it as of this Monday morning.  I’d have finished it over the weekend, but bedtime shenanigans saw me spending most of both Saturday and Sunday nights rocking Nugget to sleep for hours, and not reading my library book.

Plans for the week in books including finishing The Turner House today, and then turning my attention back to Jam on the Vine.  And then I don’t know what – maybe back to We that are Left, which is due back to the library on March 8th (and I think I’m out of renewals).

On the blog front, my Black History Month reading round-up on Wednesday, and the next Colorado recap on Friday.  Check back!

What are you reading this week?

ColoRADo 2015: Getting There and Settling In

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Here we gooooooooo!  For the next few Fridays I’ll be recapping our second vacation of 2015 – our trip to Colorado to visit my brother Dan and sister-in-law Danielle for Thanksgiving.  This trip was a BIG DEAL for us – a big expense, a big effort, and a BIG payoff, because it was totally worth it to get to spend ten days with family members that we love so much and don’t see enough, enjoying one of the most beautiful places in the world (where they are lucky enough to live!).  It was also a major first for us – the first time we’d flown with either kid.  I spent the weeks leading up to the trip talking up the plane flight in a big way, and Peanut was excited.  Nugget was not.

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I wasn’t sure what to expect, but the flights went really well.  Steve and I were both working the whole time – Steve entertaining Peanut and me keeping Nugget fed, calm and happy – so as to not ruin the flight for the rest of the passengers.  Thank the travel gods, both kids behaved as well as I could possibly have expected.  Nugget didn’t sleep, of course, because Nugget doesn’t do that sort of thing.  But he was happy to eat, play and look around, and he had quite a few fans by the end of each of our legs out to Denver.

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The first leg took us to Atlanta, which was weird for me!  In my previous job, it so happened that I spent a lot of time in Atlanta, and I know the Hartsfield-Jackson airport like the back of my hand.  I went on autopilot and started wandering off toward the C terminal, from which the flights to DC always depart.  Ha!  Steve was laughing at me.  But it did feel strange to be in the ATL and not headed to work meetings, and to be toting a baby instead of a briefcase.  Anyway, it was a fun blast from the past for me, and Peanut had a ball watching the planes out the window.  There’s our ride to Denver!

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We made it safe and sound to Denver, and Uncle Dan and Aunt Danielle were waiting for us when we arrived at the airport!  They were toting a car seat that we’d ordered and had shipped to their house, so that we didn’t have to worry about renting one when we got to Colorado.  (I’d heard horror stories about arriving at rental car facilities to find that they’d given a reserved car seat to someone else, and about rental car seats that were broken, unsafe, or dirty – so figuring out car seat logistics was actually my top priority for trip planning.  We ended up taking Nugget’s car seat with us and buying a new seat – on sale – for Peanut.  We’re keeping it at Dan’s house for future visits.  It was the perfect solution!)

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We spent our first evening relaxing at Dan’s house, and were ready to play the next morning!

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After a relaxing morning around the house – well, relaxing for the kids, anyway; Dan, Steve and I each had to squeeze in a little work almost every day – we headed into Boulder to explore a bit.

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Downtown Boulder was beautiful!  At Danielle’s suggestion, we took a walk down the Pearl Street Mall.  It reminded me of the Ithaca Commons – so pretty!

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We had lunch at a cute little pub and brewery – I had black bean chili, which sounded like exactly what I wanted, and it hit the spot.  Peanut enjoyed mac and cheese and some crayons.

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And tortilla chips.  Heh.

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After lunch, we found a cool playground with bronze and concrete animals.  Peanut dubbed the playground the “Ugly Pond Museum.”  She had a ball running around and riding the animals, like ya do.

Totally jealous that Dan and Danielle live so close to this cool town!  We didn’t even scratch the surface of Boulder – there was so much to see.

Next week, a hike, a carousel, and Indian food – check back!