Pied Beauty, by Gerard Manley Hopkins

Glory be to God for dappled things –
For skies of couple-colour as a brindled cow;
For rose-moles all in stipple upon trout that swim;
Fresh-firecoal chestnut-falls; finches’ wings;
Landscape plotted and pierced – fold, fallow, and plough;
And all trades, their gear and tackle and trim.

All things counter, original, spare, strange;
Whatever is fickle, freckled (who knows how?)
With swift, slow; sweet, sour; adazzle, adim;
He fathers-forth whose beauty is past change;
Praise him.

If you’re celebrating this weekend, I wish you a very happy Thanksgiving, filled with all the blessings that family and mashed potatoes can bestow.  I’m grateful for you!

Small Gratitudes

Happy (American) Thanksgiving, friends – it’s tomorrow!  I’m spending the day wrapping up a bit of work in hopes of an actual breather and a real four-day weekend, and later this afternoon I’ll probably be elbow deep in potato peelings.  While I make final preparations for a weekend that I hope will include some of my favorite things – like mashed potatoes, hikes through crunchy fallen leaves, and time with my grandmother – I’m thinking, as always, of the big and small things for which I am grateful.  The big things are obvious – sweet, healthy kiddos; a marriage that is going on fifteen years now; a roof over my head, healthy food to eat, and the means to send my kids to a good school; and a job where I do work that I’m good at and where my colleagues respect me.  But there are little things, too.  Things like:

  • Shelves of good books to read, especially my beloved classics.
  • Related: an excellent public library system.
  • Farmers’ market flowers on grey afternoons.
  • The Slightly Foxed Quarterly, with its cream-colored covers and literary joys.
  • Tea!  All the tea!
  • The fun of fitting jigsaw pieces together with my puzzle-loving little guy.
  • Lovely next-door neighbors.
  • Bruschetta from Pizzeria Paradiso.  So delicious.
  • The Great British Bake-Off, for when I want to turn off my brain and watch people being kind to each other and baking up delicious treats.
  • Lights in the trees in Old Town.
  • Bolognese sauce made with Impossible burger ground, impossibly delicious.
  • Brick sidewalks and cobblestone streets.
  • Yellow and red leaves outside my kitchen window.
  • Shenandoah National Park, practically in my backyard.
  • Afternoons spent flipping through old photo albums, reliving good times.
  • The Mount Vernon Trail, which is the best running and biking location.
  • Newly discovered playgrounds – and old favorites, too.
  • Texts from my BFF, who has been sending me videos of dolphins playing in the gulf waters right off her dock.
  • Jane Austen.
  • The free LaCroix we have at work.  That’s right.
  • Hockey season gearing up just as baseball wound spectacularly down.
  • Having my dad’s old film camera back in working order.
  • My favorite warm orange sweater from Target, which is a weekday workhorse.
  • Vacation plans starting to fall into place for 2020.
  • Blue skies and crisp breezes.
  • Roasted vegetables, especially when they get a little caramelized around the edges.
  • My new wallet, a birthday gift from my BFF.  It’s vegan, pretty, and easy to organize.
  • Mists rolling in over the Potomac River, and anticipating paddling season (already).

And there are so many more that I can think of – small things that make life nicer every day.  The fact that I can make such a long list – and have to cut myself off, lest I go on for hours – is in and of itself a big thing.

What little things are you grateful for this season?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (November 25, 2019)

Happy Thanksgiving week, friends!  If you’re traveling this week, I wish you a safe, speedy and seamless journey.  We’re looking forward to celebrations later in the week, but there are a few work and school days to get through first.  And there’s recovery after a busy weekend!  I was very glad to see Friday’s arrival after another busy week of late nights.  We planned to celebrate Steve’s birthday this weekend – poor guy was stuck with a lame Tuesday birthday this year – and he decided that for his birthday activity, he wanted to take the kids to the National Zoo.  What a guy, right?  I reminded him that they’re not actually in charge of what we do, but he decided that he’d rather not listen to the whining, so he gave up his right to a birthday hike.  He was rewarded, though, because we caught the lion in the act of this spectacular yawn.  (I took a whole progression of snaps, so stay tuned.)  On Sunday, Nugget asked to go to the Natural History Museum and despite having a disgusting and pretty painful cough, I put on my Mom pants and took him.  Peanut wasn’t in the mood and Steve wanted to stay home, so it ended up being a mother-son outing.  We took the Metro, saw the dinosaurs and the giant squid, and ate lunch under an enormous shark.  Basically, you could be excused for thinking that Nugget, not Steve, was the birthday boy this weekend.

Reading.  Pretty busy and pacey reading week.  On Monday I finished up The Testaments – ripped right through it.  Then I spent most of the rest of the week over Magic Flutes, which disappointed me (even though I knew going in that it was not Ibbotson’s best).  I spent the weekend with Debo Devonshire, also known as Deborah Mitford, youngest of the most famous set of six sisters (and Tom!) of the twentieth century.  Also dipped in and out of Poems of Gratitude – getting ready for Thanksgiving.

Watching.  We had a family movie night on Saturday evening and watched Ice Age – somehow I’d never seen it.  Very cute and funny.  I also watched the second episode of Miranda Mills’ new booktube channel, on bookish dilemmas.

Listening.  A little of this, a little of that.  The highlight was listening to the Book Riot podcast bonus episode on The Testaments and the Handmaid’s Tale phenomenon.  I expected Jeff and Rebecca to deliver with well-considered and insightful commentary on the cultural moment that these books are having, and they did.  The other highlight of the week was downloading the original recording of Rhapsody in Blue, my favorite piece of instrumental music ever, played by Gershwin himself.  That was $1.49 extremely well spent.

Making.  Not making much this weekend – almost no cooking, as we’re trying to eat through the contents of our fridge before Thanksgiving mania descends; the only thing I made in the kitchen was a quick batch of homemade applesauce, to use up some apples that looked beautiful but turned out to be a little too grainy to eat out of hand.  Homemade applesauce never lasts long in our house, so it will be well out of the way before the big day.  I did a few rows of a seed stitch scarf I’m making – at the rate I’m going, I should be done with it just in time for the first July heat wave of 2022.

Blogging.  It’s Thanksgiving central here this week!  I have a list of small gratitudes for you on Wednesday and would love to hear what little things you’re grateful for this season.  And on Friday, a seasonal poem that I recently read for the first time.  Check in with me then, and have a lovely holiday!

Loving.  I’ve been working on drinking through some of my tea stash – I know, what else is new? – and lately I’ve been working on a box of Kusmi peppermint tea in lovely muslin tea bags.  It’s delicious and tastes just right for these chilly pre-holiday nights.  (Next up: Harney & Sons “White Christmas” tea, which I’ve been saving for December.)

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Recent Aquisitions of a Bookish Variety

I’m really not much of a shopper – you won’t find me spending hours at the mall (unless it’s a mall made up entirely of bookstores and REI; if you know of one of those, please do tell) and aside from fun sneakers, I don’t have any accessory vices.  But I have had a fair number of books trickle in over the last six months or so, and it struck me that it’s been awhile since I rounded up the new arrivals and showed them to you.  I’ve definitely missed some, but here’s the latest.

Poems of Gratitude, ed. John Hollander – Slowly building up my Everyman’s Library Pocket Poets collection; I’ve had my eye on this little volume for years and Thanksgiving seems like a good time to finally dive in, so I just picked it up.

New Year’s Day, by Edith Wharton – My favorite of the four novellas that make up Old New York, by Edith Wharton, I couldn’t resist a first edition at a surprisingly good price.  I’d have loved if this came with the pretty sprigged floral dust jacket, but that would have taken the price from affordable to prohibitive.

The Week-End Book: A Sociable Anthology, by Frances Meynell – Read a blurb about this 1930s book of odds and ends in a back issue of Slightly Foxed and knew I wanted to read it.  Obviously, the library didn’t have a copy – but it’s not exactly a sought-after title, so I got a good deal on a used copy.

Fraulein Schmidt and Mr Anstruther, by Elizabeth von Arnim – When comfort reading is in order, von Arnim delivers, and I know I will be turning to this soon.

The Secrets of the Bastide Blanche, by M. L. Longworth – A mystery set in Provence?  I’m sold – I don’t need any more information than that.  Also, this was on the dollar table at the library sale, so the price was definitely right.

The Corner that Held Them, by Sylvia Townsend Warner – Whenever I stop into Old Town Books, my local indie, I try to show my support and buy something.  I’ve had Townsend Warner’s novel about nuns in a medieval abbey on my wish list for years, and I was delighted to happen upon it on the shelves in the new “classics corner” at OTB.

Anything Considered, by Peter Mayle – I am always down for Mayle, and this was another dollar table find at the library sale.  I also picked up Chasing Cezanne.

Christmas Crackers, by John Julius Norwich – Having discovered my love of the commonplace book last Christmas, I have been wanting to dive into Norwich’s – he may not have invented the genre, but my understanding is: he perfected it.  I had to scout a bit to find a used copy of the first decade of his “Christmas Crackers” in good shape and at a decent price, but I found it!

The Twelve Days of Christmas, by John Julius Norwich – I heard about this on the “Tea and Tattle” podcast and knew I had to pick up a copy.  Saving it to read by the light of the Christmas tree.

The Vegetable Gardeners Handbook (The Old Farmers Almanac) – To be honest, I was surprised when this turned up on my doorstep.  I pre-ordered it months ago and forgot all about it.  I’m excited to dig in (pun, appreciate) to this and an organic gardening book I recently received through my Buy Nothing book this winter, to get ready for the gardening season ahead.

Ancestral Voices and Prophesying Peace: Diaries 1942-1945, by James Lees-Milne – I can’t even tell you how long I’ve been trying to track down a copy of the first two volumes of Lees-Milne’s diaries, but they’re so expensive.  It took awhile to find a copy in good condition at a price I could swallow.  I can’t wait to read this!

A Great Reckoning, by Louise Penny – My aunt insisted that I read Louise Penny’s Three Pines mysteries, and after the first one I was hooked.  When I found a pristine hardcover for $2 at the library sale (are you sensing a theme here?) I instantly grabbed it.  Every time I go to the library to check out or return books, I now scout the sale tables for more Louise Penny.  So far, I haven’t found any more, but luck favors the persistent.

A Better Man, by Louise Penny – The latest Three Pines, picked up at our other local indie, Hooray for Books! – it will be awhile before I get to this, since I’m still in the early part of the series.  But I love supporting my neighborhood bookstores.

What have you picked up recently?

The Classics Club Challenge: Wives and Daughters, by Elizabeth Gaskell

Well, all I can say is, never be the heroine of a mystery.  That you can avoid, if you can’t help being an accessory.

The more I experience of the worlds created by Elizabeth Gaskell, the more I love her work.  While she’ll never knock my beloved Jane Austen and L.M. Montgomery off the pedestal they share, she’s stepped right over her dear friend Charlotte Bronte’s place in my affections.  I’m sorry to say I clung to a teenaged prejudice against Gaskell for too long, based entirely on her responsibility for the sanitized Life of Charlotte Bronte, the very idea of which (because I haven’t actually read it) my high school self found offensive.  But a few years ago I decided it was time I gave Gaskell a try, so I picked up Cranford and was captivated and delighted.  Then last year, grieving a family member who had appreciated Gaskell, I turned to North and South to ease the loss, and it was just what I needed.

Wives and Daughters is my third Gaskell, and I think it’s my favorite so far.  It’s pure joy from the first page to the last.  When the story opens, we meet young Molly Gibson, daughter of a respected country doctor, on her way to her first foray into society – for a garden party at Cumnor Towers, the local seat of the Earl and Countess of Cumnor.  While at the Towers, Molly falls ill – too much excitement, not enough food – and is bundled off to rest in the bedroom of the younger Cumnor ladies’ governess, a woman named Clare.  Clare promises to retrieve Molly in time for her to go home, then promptly forgets that Molly exists at all.  When Molly awakens, it’s dark, and she has to spend the night at the Towers – the first night she’s spent away from home, and away from her widowed father.  She’s distraught and forlorn, and your heart breaks for her immediately – and you want to throttle the thoughtless Clare.

Fast-forward a few years: the teenaged Molly is just as innocent as the young lamb who found herself lost and forgotten at Cumnor Towers, but now she’s the recipient – unwittingly, though – of her first love correspondence.  Mr. Gibson intercepts a letter from one of his medical students, professing his (somewhat embarrassing) undying love for Molly.  Mr. Gibson panics, packs the young offender (he’s a ginger! the horror!) off to his relatives, fires the housemaid from whom he intercepts the message, and sends Molly to Hamley Hall, residence of the local squire, to be out of the way.  At Hamley, Molly endears herself to the squire and his wife – especially his wife.  And she develops a girlish crush on the poetic elder son of the house, Osborne, and a quiet respect and admiration for his younger brother Roger.

Meanwhile, Mr. Gibson, still in a dad-panic, decides there’s only one thing to be done: he needs to marry again, and fast.  Molly clearly needs a mother, someone dependable and loving, who can guide her as she transitions from girlhood into young womanhood.  It doesn’t much signify that Molly doesn’t want a stepmother intruding on her intimacy with her father – in fact, Mr. Gibson doesn’t even ask her opinion.  (Mr. Gibson is a man of many wonderful qualities, but his one major failing is a tendency to have knee-jerk reactions and freak out and make really dumb decisions.)  In his search for a steadying influence on Molly (who doesn’t actually need steadying) Mr. Gibson chooses the worst possible candidate: one Hyacinth Kirkpatrick, a pretentious social-climbing widow, who in her more youthful days was none other than the self-centered Clare – the very same, whose forgetfulness was at the root of Molly’s one and only traumatic childhood memory.  Whoops!

Mrs. Kirkpatrick, who sees a good thing and quickly becomes Mrs. Gibson, is a terrible choice for a stepmother.  She’s hardly the sobering influence Mr. Gibson has in mind.  Molly dreads her entry into the family and suffers a great deal of heartache around her father’s wedding, and it’s immediately apparent from the new Mrs. Gibson’s tone-deafness when it comes to her stepdaughter (insisting on being called “Mamma,” stripping the house of Molly’s memories of her real mother…) that Mr. Gibson has made an awful mistake.  But the reader is fortunate, because Mrs. Gibson, with all her pretentions and aspirations, is one of the best comedic characters I’ve ever read, and she also ushers the blooming Cynthia into the story.

Cynthia is Mrs. Gibson’s daughter from her first marriage.  She’s everything Molly is not – flirtatious to Molly’s quiet serenity, gaudily beautiful to Molly’s restrained elegance, underhanded to Molly’s straightforwardness and forthrightness.  But Molly immediately adores Cynthia, and Cynthia, to her credit, adores Molly.  And somehow – it works.  Molly is Cynthia’s staunch ally, and Cynthia is Molly’s devoted friend, and their relationship quickly becomes as close as if they were really sisters – even when Cynthia catches the eye of Roger Hamley, which Molly discovers she doesn’t quite appreciate, somehow.

Cynthia looked lovelier than ever to him for the slight restriction that had been laid for a time on their intercourse.  She might be gay and sparkling with Osborne; with Roger she was soft and grave.  Instinctively she knew her men.  She saw that Osborne was only interested in her because of her position in a family with whom he was intimate; that his friendship was without the least touch of sentiment; and that his admiration was only the warm criticism of an artist for unusual beauty.  But she felt how different Roger’s relation to her was.  To him she was the one, alone, peerless.  If his love was prohibited, it would be long years before he could sink down into tepid friendship; and to him her personal loveliness was only one of the many charms which made him tremble with passion.  Cynthia was not capable of returning such feelings; she had too little true love in her life, and perhaps too much admiration to do so; but she appreciated this honest ardour, this loyal worship that was new to her experience.  Such appreciation, and such respect for his true and affectionate nature, gave a serious tenderness to her manner to Roger; which allured him with a fresh and separate grace.  Molly sat by, and wondered how it would all end, or rather, how soon it would all end, for she thought that no girl could resist such reverent passion; and on Roger’s side there could be no doubt – alas! there could be no doubt.

It’s worth mentioning the relationship between Osborne and Roger, as it parallels the relationship between Cynthia and Molly in many ways.  Osborne and Roger are as different as two brothers can be – yet once again, it works.  Their genuine affection for one another, as with Cynthia and Molly, overcomes their differences in personality.  Roger steadfastly loves and supports his brother through any number of troubles, and it’s beautiful.

Because Osborne does have some troubles – or more to the point, some secrets.  And so does Cynthia.  Molly becomes party to both of their secrets, and she is resolved to help Cynthia out of a “scrape” that the latter has been concealing.  Help she does, but…

Scandal sleeps in the summer, comparatively speaking.  Its nature is the reverse of that of the dormouse.  Warm ambient air, loiterings abroad, gardenings, flowers to talk about, and preserves to make, soothed the wicked imp to slumber in the parish of Hollingford in summer-time.  But when evenings grew short, and people gathered round the fires, and put their feet in a circle – not on the fenders, that was not allowed – then was the time for confidential conversation!

Molly is observed undertaking some actions to help put Cynthia’s life in order, and her well-intentioned comings and goings are misconstrued and misinterpreted by the idle ladies of Hollingford.  And then – as Gaskell puts it – Molly finds a champion, in Lady Harriet Cumnor, one of the best secondary characters in the book.  (Side note: I’d like to read a book starring Harriet as a lady adventurer.  She and the fabulous Miss Dunstable, of Trollope’s Doctor Thorne, could go mountaineering together, or maybe excavate some tombs like Victorian lady Indiana Joneses.  Will someone please write that?  Perhaps I’ll have to.)  The quick-witted Lady Harriet, overhearing her parents’ gossiping about Molly, immediately puts two and two together, figures out what’s really going on, and single-handedly saves Molly’s reputation in the fearless way that only a woman who knows she’s on a high enough pedestal to have nothing to fear from gossips can do.  But no sooner is Molly’s reputation on the mend, than tragedy strikes – and that, I won’t divulge, because you need to read Wives and Daughters and let Elizabeth Gaskell spin this tale for you.

Wives and Daughters should be more widely read – for the beauty of the language, the diversion of the story, and the wonderful characters.  And of course, the great tragedy of the book is that it’s unfinished – Gaskell died suddenly, just before writing the last chapter.  But the reader knows how it’s all going to end – there’s only one possible outcome at that point.  I’ll let you work it out for yourself.

Team Gaskell, amirite?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (November 18, 2019)

All right, Monday, let’s go.  This was sort of a blah weekend.  I’m still really tired from my marathon October and from work stress that continues apace and doesn’t seem likely to die down anytime soon.  I keep thinking things like, next week will be quieter and if I just get myself organized I can tackle it all no problem, and those things might be true but they also seem very out of reach right now.  It was a cold and grey weekend here – every year around this time we move out of the weird weather season (where it’s shorts weather one day and big coat weather the next) and the chill settles in for a few months.  (With some exceptions – we’ve had warm days throughout the fall and winter seasons, and March blizzards.)  I think that happened last week, and now I’m digging out hats and mittens.  Nugget has his first bad cold of the season – he missed school on Thursday with a fever, and compounded the misery by falling face-first off the couch on Friday evening and getting a split lip.  So we’ve been trying to give him a cozy recovery weekend of laying low, but if you know Nugget – you know that’s not a thing he does.  He spent all of Saturday on the couch and was climbing the walls by bedtime, and on Sunday I took him out to run off his energy on the soccer field.  He was still under the weather, though, and drooped on home after about twenty minutes.  As for me – I was just grumpy, with my patience at its lowest ebb for everyone except the little guy (who gets to claim sympathy for being sick and injured).  Months of nonstop high-stakes long-hours workdays have really taken their toll on me.  The sparkly season can’t come soon enough.

Reading.  Despite my dire predictions of last week, it was a productive reading week.  I finished Wives and Daughters on Monday and loved it – full review coming this week.  As expected, I spent most of the week over The Shadow King, which I appreciated for its vivid writing and cultural importance, but which I couldn’t love.  The problem was mostly with me – a gruesome tale of the horrors of World War II in Ethiopia was not the right book of the moment for me; I’m stressed out and overwhelmed and craving comfort reading.  But I was working under a library deadline (others were waiting) and had to either read it or return it unread, which I hate to do.  (I also didn’t like that the author didn’t use quotation marks, which made it hard to follow the dialogue.)  The rest of the week’s reading was also library deadline reading, also not particularly cozy, but went faster – over the course of the weekend, I read through The Stationery Shop and about half of The Testaments.  Both are engaging, but I will confess that my favorite part of The Stationery Shop was the luscious descriptions of Persian food (which made me think of my next-door neighbor, Zoya, who is Iranian and has introduced me to her favorite traditional dishes – yum).

Watching.  Another episode of The Great British Bake-Off – we’re still two seasons behind, but not in a big rush to catch up.  Also, newsworthy – for the kids, anyway – is that Steve was sweet-talked into signing up for Disney Plus, and they’ve become obsessed with Peter Pan.  If you’re wondering whether Peter Pan holds up to contemporary standards of cultural sensitivity: it does not.

Listening.  Working my way through podcast episodes, now that I’ve finished my marathon audiobook.  I’ve given up on the idea that someday I’ll have a clean podcatcher, but I’m still chipping away at it.  Most notable is what I haven’t listened to – the Book Riot Podcast bonus episode on the Handmaid’s Tale phenomenon, which I am saving for after I finish The Testaments – so, sometime this week.

Making.  Lots of cooking this weekend.  I made chickpeas of the sea (my old recipe, which I haven’t made in years, but I had a craving for it); veggie stew (also with chickpeas); roasted broccoli; sautéed green cabbage (my central European is showing!); and taco “meat” with sautéed sliced peppers.  No one is allowed to complain that there’s nothing to eat.  Also making: plans for the holiday theatre season.  For Peanut’s and my holiday tradition of seeing a show – just us girls – I am torn between Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! at the Kennedy Center, and the Washington Ballet’s performance of The Nutcracker.  Two very different options.  I’m also considering getting tickets to the kid-friendly performance of the highlights from Handel’s Messiah at the National Cathedral – going to see Messiah performed was one of Steve’s and my traditions before Peanut arrived, and I miss the music.  I’m hemming and hawing over all of these and being really indecisive – the only tickets I’ve actually purchased are for a date night, to see Amadeus at the Folger Theatre.  I loved the movie in high school, and am irrationally excited about seeing the musical, especially at the gorgeous Folger.

Blogging.  Bookish week for you!  A review of Wives and Daughters on Wednesday (not a spoiler, because you already know – I loved it) and a show-and-tell of some recent(ish) additions to the bookshelves on Friday.  Check in with me then!

Loving.  I can’t remember if I’ve waxed rhapsodic to you about cocojune yogurt yet, but if I haven’t, buckle up.  I’m obsessssssssed.  I’ve been trying to cut down on dairy (not cut it out completely, but just replace it with non-dairy options where it makes sense to do so) and one of the products I’ve been struggling to replace is my beloved plain Greek yogurt.  None of the vegan options I’ve found have the same thick texture and pleasant tang.  Daiya’s Greek yogurt alternative comes close, and I do like it, but I recently came across cocojune at my local organic market and – YUM.  It’s one of the thicker vegan yogurts I’ve found – still thinner than my beloved Fage – not too sweet, and most importantly, it has the tang.  I’ve tried all four of the flavors – original coconut; strawberry rhubarb; lemon elderflower; and vanilla chamomile – and predictably, the original coconut is my favorite.  But I surprised myself by liking the vanilla chamomile second-best – really, all the flavors are delicious.  I now have about twelve little containers in my fridge, and I am hoarding them.  No one else is allowed to touch them.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Themed Reads: Three Feisty Family Stories for Thanksgiving

Ahhhh – Thanksgiving!  That quintessential celebration of parades, mashed potatoes, Detroit Lions football, and family squabbling.  We’re celebrating with my folks, as usual, and anticipating a quiet and peaceful holiday.  But if you’re already gritting your teeth in anticipation of a shouting match over the pumpkin pie, here are three stories of family drama, featuring a spectrum of heroes and heroines from passive to feisty.

The Blue Castle, by L. M. Montgomery – Valancy Sterling is the heroine we all need.  Twenty-nine, unmarried, living under the thumb of her domineering mother and a slew of disapproving relatives, Valancy’s entire grim existence changes when she receives a diagnosis of a terminal heart condition.  Determined not to waste any more time of the year-odd remaining to her, Valancy decides she is going to say what she’s thinking and please herself for the first time in her life.  Her staid, stiff relatives are shockedshocked I tell you, when Valancy’s wit and snark comes out for the first time at a family dinner.  They react in true Ron Burgundy stunned style – Baxter, I’m not even mad, that’s amazing – and the shocks keep coming as Valancy takes herself off to keep house for a local ne’er-do-well and his disgraced daughter, then pulls the biggest surprise of all.  The Blue Castle is required reading for anyone who has ever wanted to lob a grenade right into the middle of the Thanksgiving table.

The Code of the Woosters, by P.G. Wodehouse – If you have ever had a domineering aunt, Bertie Wooster’s plight will be so real it hurts.  Really hurts, because Bertie has not one, but two, of those estimable relatives.  Aunt Agatha is sternly proper and upright, constantly despairing of Bertie’s flighty nature, embarrassing friends, and apparent failure to close the deal with any of the upper class young women she selects for his bride.  Aunt Dahlia seems better, at first, but she can’t seem to help herself enlisting Bertie in her schemes – of revenge against people who have slighted her, to keep her cook Anatole in good spirits, or for funding for her self-published magazine Milady’s Boudoir.  This despite having no great opinion of Bertie’s mental faculties.  In The Code of the Woosters it’s Aunt Dahlia who is the bane of Bertie’s existence – sending him into deep undercover to steal a cow-creamer.  Fortunately, Bertie has the incomparable Jeeves at his side, and all will be set to rights.  Are you intrigued?  Of course.  And look at it this way – when your aunts and uncles are driving you crazy over the Thanksgiving table, at least you can be thankful that none of them have ever manipulated you into committing petty larceny, probably.

 Wives and Daughters, by Elizabeth Gaskell – Families are complicated, right?  And it only gets more complicated when you start adding step-parents and step-siblings into the mix, as the widower Doctor Gibson discovers when he decides – in a panic after his daughter attracts a suitor for the first time in her life – that what young Molly needs most is a mother to guide her.  He doesn’t bother to ask young Molly what she thinks of this plan (or to let her in on the secret crush that he intercepts) and he doesn’t make the best choice of a second wife, either.  Hyacinth Clare Kirkpatrick, former governess to the local earl’s daughters, is self-centered and a bit ridiculous.  Really, the only benefit to the new Mrs. Gibson is that she comes with a daughter, Cynthia, who proves to be a built-in pal for Molly.  Cynthia is beautiful and high-spirited, and she tends to suck up all the local male attention, but Molly adores her and Cynthia’s great redeeming characteristic is that she adores Molly, too.  Of course she introduces all sorts of complications, but it’s a Victorian novel, so what else can you expect?

There you have it – three stories of feisty families to make you grateful that you don’t have a raft of stick-in-the-mud cousins, an aunt with criminal leanings, or a stepmother who schemes to marry your stepsister off to the local squire’s son.  Unless you do have one or all of these family situations, in which case my advice is: bourbon.

Introducing Themed Reads, A New Blog Series

It’s probably fairly obvious, but I’ve been trying to transition this space into more of a book-focused blog, and less of a family-and-life-potpourri.  I’ve got a number of reasons for this, which maybe I’ll go into at some point, but in the meantime – I’ve been scouting around for more, and different, ways to feature books and reading (two of my favorite subjects) here.  Recently I happened upon the archives of NPR’s “Three Books” series, which seems to have ended around 2013 from what I can tell, and it recalled to me something similar that Book Riot used to do (or might still do?).  And it also recalled to me the monthly “Seasonal Reads” episodes that I’ve been enjoying via the From the Front Porch podcast.  All of which inspired me to put my own spin on the idea and tackle themed book flights here.

So – meet “Themed Reads,” a new blog series.  Each month I’ll feature mini reviews of three books, all on the same theme, from my library.  And if you have any ideas, or want to co-host and make this a more formal endeavor, do reach out.

 Check in on Friday for the first Themed Reads post – three books about feisty families, to get you all riled up in time for Thanksgiving!

 

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (November 11, 2019)

Well – here we go again.  Another round.  I always feel like it’s only been a second since I sat down to write the last Monday post, and another one is upon me.  Last week was busy, and the weekend was busy, and next week will be busy – and I’m burnt out.  I’m hoping that all this running around will mean I can actually take a real break between Christmas and New Year’s.  We’ll see.  Anyway – not much to report about the weekend.  Both Saturday and Sunday I got up early – before 5:00 a.m. – to work, and I still didn’t get through everything I needed to do.  I probably should have bit the bullet and gone into the office all weekend, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it.  So instead, I watched the kids’ swim lessons on Saturday, then took Nugget out to run errands (our usual library and market circuit).  On Sunday, I snuck off for brunch with my friend Vanessa, then came home to plug away at more work in the afternoon.  Probably because I am really burnt out and exhausted after my marathon October – and because stress over one of the cases that had me working so many hours in October still has not let up – I was slower than usual.  Really should have kept working on Sunday evening, but I was just too tired, and wound up on the couch with my book.  I’ll be up against it this week, that’s for sure, but I’m only human.

Reading.  The fact that I only read one book all week – and didn’t even finish it – should tell you all you need to know about where my expected November reprieve has gone.  Granted, Wives and Daughters is a Victorian chunkster; they’re not exactly quick reads.  And I got through almost the entire 650-odd pages over the course of the week, reading fifty pages here, eighty pages there of an evening.  (My copy is a big Folio Society hardcover – gorgeous, but not exactly Metro material, both because it’s too heavy and because I don’t want it to get dirty or nicked, as tends to happen to the books I commute with.)  I am absolutely loving it – so far, I’ve really enjoyed everything I’ve read by Elizabeth Gaskell, but Wives and Daughters is my favorite.  And I expect I’ll finish it tonight, and be on to my next read, which will be The Shadow King, since I’m contending with a library deadline.  Even with my diligence, that’s probably going to be overdue when I return it – I have book club this week and am, fingers crossed, wrapping up a major project at work.  But at least I’ll be toting The Shadow King on the Metro, which does wonders for reading progress during the week.

Watching.  It feels weird to not be watching baseball playoffs, but I got quite a bit of time back this week.  Steve and I watched one episode of The Great British Bake-Off (I refuse to say “Baking Show”) but we’re still well behind.  It’s kind of nice to watch them slowly and savor them, though.  And on Sunday, we had a family movie night and watched Rogue One – Nugget’s choice.  I thought it was a little dark for him (although I confess to loving it and to finding Jyn Erso alarmingly relatable) but he had a grand time.

Listening.  I’m pleased to report that I made good use of my commuting time, even if it wasn’t for reading, and finished up The Great Courses: History of Medieval England from the Romans to the Wars of the Roses (or something, I can’t remember the exact title, but that’s the time period it covers).  All nineteen hours, done!  And it’s a mark of how good the series was, that I was sad when it ended.  Since wrapping up my audiobook, I’ve just listened to a podcast here and a podcast there.  My co-worker Anne insisted that I listen to an episode of The Daily on the Kentucky governor’s race and how the possible impeachment of the Orange Pretender factored into the result, so that we could discuss it.  I listened obligingly, reported to her office, and we proceeded to get really depressed together.  Good times.

Making.  While I’m still busy and burnt out and pretty unhappy about it all, things must be looking up, because I did actually make a couple of things this week – beyond work product, that is.  On Sunday, I had a sudden urge to bake what I call a “family cake” – just a quick, tossed together, informal and rustic-looking tea cake.  I started with a Dorie Greenspan recipe and added ground almonds, coconut, and dried sour cherries, and it came out pretty well.  I thought it was a little too sweet (despite cutting the sugar in the recipe by nearly half) but Steve disagreed and polished off half the cake by himself.  I’m leaving him one more slice and taking the rest to the office today.  And for Sunday dinner I made one of my favorite meals – bolognese.  Impossible burger ground and six dollar Sangiovese for the win!  (I know, I know, you should never cook with wine you wouldn’t drink.  Don’t worry, friends.  I also had two glasses of the six dollar Sangiovese and it was completely decent.)  Photographic evidence above.

Blogging.  I have a treat in store for you this week – a new blog series that I’ve decided to make a regular thing.  I’m introducing it on Wednesday, and the first official post will be Friday.  Check in with me then!

Loving.  Important announcement, you guys!  It is CRANBERRY GINGER SHANDY season again!  I really like Leinenkugel shandies – the summer shandy is absolutely respectably, the grapefruit shandy is superior, but the seasonal cranberry ginger shandy is the BEST.  (Do not talk to me about pumpkin spice shandy.  Rebecca.  Do NOT.)  I only have it between November and the end of January – sometimes it’s in stores into February, but at that point I think it’s only right to move on to grapefruit shandy.  I’ve been on a big sour beer kick for a year now, but I will never abandon the beloved cranberry ginger shandy.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Reading Round-Up: October 2019

Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby. I can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book. Here are my reads for October, 2019

Pumpkinheads: A Graphic Novel, by Rainbow Rowell and Faith Erin Hicks – I was saving this one for October, and I gulped it down in one day and loved every second.  Would Josiah talk to the Fudge Shoppe Girl?  Would Deja get her snacks?  I had to know.  It was a delight from the first page to the last – sweet, charming, and cozy.

The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, by C.S. Lewis – Our new tradition, to start off the school year, was family storytime.  Every evening we’ve all been piling onto the couch together and reading our way through classic children’s novels.  First up was The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, because Steve and I both loved it as kids.  I’m pleased to report that the magic holds.  There’s not much to say about Narnia that hasn’t already been said, but on this read-through I was especially enchanted by the homespun details and the beautiful descriptive language.

Toil and Trouble: 15 Tales of Women and Witchcraft, ed. Jessica Spotswood and Tess Sharpe – Spotswood and Sharpe continue to knock it out of the park whenever they collaborate on a short story collection.  As you all know, short stories are generally not my jam, but I do really enjoy these girl-forward, diverse and queer-positive collections.  The historical fiction stories were winners for me in this collection – I preferred them to the ones set in present day, although each story had its merits.

The Eagle of the Ninth (Roman Britain #1), by Rosemary Sutcliff – Sometimes you pick up a book and you know within the first paragraph that it’s going to be one of your highlights of the year.  The Eagle of the Ninth was that for me.  I found it so utterly captivating that I couldn’t put it down, and my only complaint was – I wish it was longer!  I could have accompanied Marcus and Esca on a dozen more adventures and not gotten bored.

Washington Square, by Henry James – Having never read any Henry James before, I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect – but Washington Square was approachable and readable.  I enjoyed sinking into Gilded Age New York again (kept expecting to meet Edith Wharton’s characters in the streets and drawing rooms) and appreciated James’ dry wit and wonderful writing.  By the end I wanted to slap all of the characters, but I’m pretty sure that’s exactly what the author intended.

The Country Diary of an Edwardian Lady, by Edith Holden – I saw this one on #bookstagram and knew immediately that it would be right up my street – and it was.  Other than the butterfly and moth illustrations (shudder) I loved pouring over Holden’s beautiful artwork and reading her diary entries from a year of wandering the fields and hedgerows of England and Scotland.

Slightly Foxed No. 63: Adrift on Tides of War, ed. Gail Pirkis and Hazel Wood – In a particularly busy week, the only reading material that held my attention was the current issue of Slightly Foxed, but it was a good one.  Even if I am not interested in the particular book that a given essayist is reviewing, I love the warm writing and sparkling literary commentary.  Also, I need to read Noel Streatfield.  It’s really beyond time.

The Secrets We Kept, by Lara Prescott – Sally, Irina and Olga were my companions throughout a stressful week of business travel, and they were good ones.  I loved their courage and fire, and it was particularly fun to read about Washington, D.C. in the 1950s.  (Prescott had clearly done her homework – the characters’ bus routes through the city all made sense, and there were shouts to D.C. institutions like the Hay-Adams Hotel and Hecht’s department store that told me she had either lived here or researched thoroughly.  Since one of my bookish pet peeves is incorrect details about D.C., I appreciated Prescott’s accuracy.)  I probably could have done without the third of the book that focused on Olga, even though she was a wonderful character – I just loved Sally and Irina, and their Cold War D.C. haunts, more.

Sula, by Toni Morrison – My first Morrison fiction (I’ve read some of her essays) was a good one.  I found Sula easy to follow and absorbing, if depressing.  Morrison created such a rich world with her words; we are so privileged to have them in the world.

The Blue Castle, by L. M. Montgomery – My book club’s read for this month (my selection!) was a re-read for me, and I loved it just as much the second time as the first.  I found myself delighting in Valancy’s wit and mischief (“Say damn.  You’ll feel better.”) and in her relatives’ shocked, stumbling reactions to her transformation.  And, as always, the nature writing spoke directly to my heart.

Poems Bewitched and Haunted, ed. John Hollander – Another re-read to close out the month and to celebrate Halloween – of course!  I love the Everyman’s Library poetry collections, and this one is such fun.  By turns spooky, wistful, and playful – I blew through it and just wished I was reading it outside, under a brooding sky and a gnarled tree with golden leaves.  That’s really the only thing that could improve the reading experience.

Eleven titles strikes me as pretty darn good for a month in which I worked about fourteen hours a day, every day.  What the list doesn’t show when presented this way is that the books were mostly front-loaded toward the beginning of the month; after my birthday, I was much slower in turning pages.  There are also a few easy ones on there – a graphic novel, a journal, and two re-reads – but hey, I’ll take whatever I can get.  It’s hard to choose highlights, because I had so many wonderful reading experiences this month.  Pumpkinheads was a delight from start to finish, and The Eagle of the Ninth took my breath away.  L. M. Montgomery is always a winner, and always a good choice for comfort reading, which I needed this month.  And I thoroughly enjoyed my visit to 1950s D.C.  It really was hard to go wrong this month!  For November, I’m looking ahead to cozy nights with a blanket, peppermint tea, and my favorite classics.  Catch you on the flip side!

What did you read last month?