ADK Adventure 2018: Wild Center Wednesday

When we looked at the weather forecast for the week we would be spending in Lake Placid, it looked like it was going to be mostly beautiful.  I had a hard time buying this, because it has rained pretty much constantly all summer in D.C., and I pretty much stopped believing that sunshine happened.  But the weather reports for the ‘dacks all promised that most of the week would be gorgeous, with Wednesday the only gloomy day.  So we decided to spend Wednesday morning at an indoor activity we knew the kids would love: visiting the Wild Center in Tupper Lake.

The Wild Center is part outdoor experience (there is a treetop walk with a gigantic pretend bird’s nest the kids can climb in – we didn’t do that because by the time we had finished the indoor part, the rain had started in earnest and the kids were hangry), part children’s science and nature museum focusing on local environments, and part small aquarium highlighting local species.  We entered the museum in the aquarium-ish part, and the kids were enthralled by the fish and amphibians.  There were even some adorable ducks!

We made it through the fish tanks and into a room with a lot of fun play activities designed to teach kids about environmental conservation – so cool!  Peanut got really into playing a game about healthy river systems, and Nugget found some blue sand to slop everywhere.  But he was over the blue sand much sooner than Peanut was ready to move on from her river game, so Dad hung with her while Nugget and I ended up doubling back and hanging out with the fish some more (which is why you don’t see Peanut in any of these pictures).

Total fascination.  Anyway, we all reunited eventually and headed outside to try to explore the Wild Center grounds before the skies totally opened up.

I loved the beautiful wooden bridge over the wetlands.  You all know I can’t resist a marsh habitat!

They had a beautiful little nature trail through a pretty wildflower garden.  The kids loved running ahead and reporting back on the scenery a few yards down the trail.  I did not count this toward my 52 Hike Challenge, because it literally lasted ten minutes.  Had we made it to the Wild Walk, I probably would have counted that.  But we had barely started exploring the gardens before it began to rain in earnest, as I mentioned above, and the kids were grumpy and complaining about their stomachs.  So we went back to the car, had a snack, and headed back to Lake Placid to let Peanut log some quality time with her birthday presents.

The Wild Center was a perfect kiddo activity for a gloomy morning.  We were able to get some fresh air exploring the gardens, but there was plenty to see indoors.  I loved the focus on local flora, fauna, and indigenous/First Nations cultures, and I think the kids learned a lot.  We’ll be back for sure!

Next week: Steve and I tackle our fourth Adirondack high peak!

The Summer List 2018: Final Recap

The end of another season is always bittersweet, isn’t it?  They just seem to fly by, faster and faster every year.  I usually struggle with the transition from summer to fall, because I love both seasons, so I never know what to feel.  Sad that summer is ending?  Check.  Excited about all the fall fun ahead?  Check.  I’m a basket case.  But this summer has been so weird – I’m kind of glad it’s on the way out.  We had terrible family sadness, lots of unexpected separations, and rain almost every weekend.  We tried, so hard, to have fun and enjoy the season, but it mostly just sucked.

  • Family vacation season!  Spend a week on Lake Placid – hiking, kayaking, and swimming from sun-up to sun-down.  Check!  We had a wonderful week away in late August with my parents.  We hiked almost every day, took the kayaks out for a romantic paddle, and splashed in Mirror Lake until we shivered.  We celebrated Peanut’s sixth birthday on vacation and just unplugged as much as possible and soaked in time together.

  • Related: climb another high peak (or two).  Check!  Thanks to my parents, who generously babysat the kids from sun-up (literally: we picked Nana up before it was even light out) to bedtime, Steve and I were able to spend a whole day in the mountains together, soaking up the silence and views and notching another high peak – Big Slide Mountain, this time.  Recap coming soon!

  • Read The Summer Book by Tove Jansson.  Check!  I read it on vacation, which seemed appropriate, and really enjoyed this lovely, ruminative book about a young girl and her grandmother and their long summer days spent together.
  • Fill up on sweet summer greens and juicy stone fruits from the farmers’ market.  We never made it to the farmers’ market.
  • Start running again!  Haha, this is funny!
  • Pick blueberries at Butler’s Orchard and bake something yummy with Peanut.  It would’ve had to stop raining.
  • Hike Big Meadows at Shenandoah National Park.  Again, would’ve had to stop raining.
  • I don’t know if this’ll happen, but I want it to, so I’m putting it on the list: spend a weekend with Rebecca on Virginia Beach.  Well, Rebecca had only one functioning bedroom and no HVAC all summer, so this didn’t happen.
  • Get my bike tires pumped up, figure out how to hitch up the kids’ trailer, and start taking some family bike rides on the Mount Vernon Trail.  I got my bike tuned in hopes of biking to work, and it has rained every day since.  Literally.  Every.  Day.
  • Kayak Fletcher’s Cove as much as possible, and check out the Ballpark Boathouse too.  I have faith and believe that Fletcher’s Cove and the Ballpark Boathouse both exist, but I haven’t seen them all year.

I can hardly believe it, but that’s the extent of it.  The wet weather this summer really hampered our fun – we never went to the farmers’ market or to the DC boathouses at all; we missed blueberry season; we never got the bikes out; and we didn’t have time for either Shenandoah or Virginia Beach.  The fall is shaping up to be just as wet as the summer, and if it doesn’t stop raining on the weekends soon, I am going to seriously lose my mind.

How was your summer?  I hope you checked more off your list than I did off mine!

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (September 24, 2018)

Here we go again – Monday.  They just keep rolling around.  I’m not ready – am I ever?  This weekend was just busy.  On Saturday, we walked down to the farmers’ market to stock up on produce, because we had literally none in the house.  (I have Thoughts, capital T, about our current grocery situation.  It’s causing a lot of strife in the house at the moment.)  On the way to the farmers’ market, we were brought up short – imagine Scooby-Doo ruhhh? noises – when we realized that our favorite Buffalo-based artist, Sean Huntington, had a booth at the King Street Art Festival.  Of course we had to stop and have a good catch-up session with him.  We exclaimed over his new paintings, he exclaimed over how much the kids had grown, and we promised to swing by on our way back from the market (we did, and bought a print from him – a full-scale original painting wasn’t in the budget this time, although we do have several of his originals at home).  Seeing Sean was the highlight of the weekend, and just a completely delightful surprise.  The market was lovely too, and we came home stocked with all kinds of green goodness.  Also – it’s Asian pear season!  My favorite.  The rest of Saturday was a mix of fun and blah.  A short but fun hike and playground session at Jones Point – fun.  Several hours of work – blah.  A first birthday party for a friend’s little girl – fun.  More work after the kids went to bed – blah.  On Sunday, we woke up to gloomy skies and drizzling rain: perfect weather for getting things done around the house.  Steve’s and my bedroom had become one of the dumping zones for miscellaneous crap, and there were mountains of clean clothes to fold and put away.  I spent the morning tearing through the mess, and it’s much better now.  The rest of the day was spent puttering around.  Steve watched the Bills’ game; the kids bickered.  The usual.

Reading.  I have surprisingly little to report this week; it just hasn’t been a reading-heavy week for me.  I’m still working my way through The Fortnight in September, which is starting to seem like it’s going to take a fortnight to finish.  That’s not a reflection of the book at all – it’s a joy to read and I am having so much fun peeping in on the Stevens family and their late-summer seaside vacation.  I just have zero attention span for printed material, apparently.  I am close to being done, though, so I expect to wrap it up in the next few days, and I think the next book on my agenda is Astrophysics for People in a Hurry.  I’ve heard great things about it.

Watching.  So, it seems a complete series re-watch of Parks and Recreation is a thing that we are doing now.  I can’t lie, I’m not sad about it.  We’re into season 3 now, and Chris and Ben have arrived in town – yay! – and the show is really hitting its stride.  I think it might be officially my favorite show of all time.  It’s just so perfect in every respect.

Listening.  As much as I have not been reading much, I have been listening to ALL the things.  Podcasts, actually. All the podcasts.  Every day on my way in and out of work, and for hours on Sunday as I tornadoed through the bedroom cleaning.  Some of the usual suspects – Sorta AwesomeThe Mom Hour – but I recently added a few new-to-me podcasts to my rotation.  Last thing I need, I know.  The podcatcher is already bursting at the seams.  But I subscribed to a few ocean conservation podcasts: A-Pod Cast for Killer WhalesSpeak Up for Blue; and Marine Conservation Happy Hour.  I’m particularly loving Speak Up for Blue, which is an approachable podcast about marine conservation issues, mixing science topics with issue-oriented coverage and content about how to live a more sustainable life.  There are a few years of back episodes and I went through the entire archives, downloaded everything that I wanted to hear, and have been listening in fascination all week.  The production is super professional and the content is really timely and relevant.  I love it and I predict you’ll see me mentioning it many more times in this section.

Moving.  I’m trying, as always, but it’s tough – especially in this busy season!  I went to my old favorite 5:30 a.m. yoga class on Friday and it just… wasn’t the same.  The instructor seemed nice, but I didn’t love the class, and there were some things that just felt weird about it.  I am cooking up some plans to get back to barre and running, though, and I’m excited about that.

Blogging.  Sorry I flaked on you last week – I know I promised a post about my book club and I didn’t deliver.  It’ll have to wait a few weeks, because this week and next, I’m planning to go through my summer list and share my fall list, and there are still vacation recaps to post.  But do keep checking in with me!  I’ll get caught up eventually.

Loving.  I’ve been exclaiming over kid art for a few years now, but I’d forgotten about the transition from scribbles to actual recognizable figures.  Peanut’s art skills have been steadily expanding for awhile, but Nugget has been a scribbles guy.  But lately he’s started drawing cetaceans – because he knows I love them, and can we just take a moment over how sweet and adorable it is that he wants to draw me pictures of something I love and not just whatever is in his head? – and I’ve received pictures of whales and dolphins that, dare I say, actually look like whales and dolphins.  Maybe I wouldn’t think “oh, that’s clearly a Pacific bottlenose” if I saw the picture with no context, but knowing what it’s supposed to be, I can totally see it.  And I just love it.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

ADK Adventure 2018: Owls Head Mountain

Steve and I definitely each have our strengths when it comes to vacation planning.  He excels at logistics – knowing where we are going to be, how to get there, etc. – and so he’s usually the one who does things like booking plane flights and rental cars, planning driving routes, and all the other boring but necessary tasks.  I prefer (and think I’m good at) the part of planning that has to do with making sure everyone has a good time – picking good lodgings and especially planning fun adventures.  The Adirondacks was a test even for me, though, because there’s an embarrassment of riches when it comes to fun and adventures, but not all of those adventures are realistic for a family with small children.  So while we were planning to get out on an adults-only adventure or two, I also had to call upon all of my knowledge of the area and my fun-wrangling skills to find activities that were adventurous and/or scenic enough for the parents, but safe and easy enough for the kids.  As I searched, there were a few trails that came up over and over again, and one was Owls Head Mountain in Keene.

Owls Head is a lovely and charming little mountain, situated right off Route 73 – one of the main arteries in this part of the Adirondack Park – just a short drive outside of Lake Placid.  It’s a short and sweet hike – just over half a mile of moderate-grade, non-technical climbing to the summit, and the views from the peak are breathtaking.  It’s also technically on private land, and a couple of years ago the trail had gotten so popular that the property owners closed it to the public on weekends and holidays – after the hordes of hikers abused the landowners’ generosity by actually parking them into their own homes.  (If that’s not a case for limiting public use of natural resources, I don’t know what is.  What if one of the landowners had a medical emergency and wasn’t able to get to the hospital because they were completely blocked in?)

Fortunately, since we were in town for an extended stay, we had a week’s worth of days to choose from, and on Tuesday morning we headed down to Keene to check out the trail.  It was an absolute delight to hike, as you can see – enough of the Adirondack granite to make things interesting, but not so much that it was beyond Nugget’s abilities.

Little hiker on the trail!

The birthday princess hitched a ride on Daddy for the uphill portion of the hike.  Yes – this climb was our celebration of Peanut’s sixth birthday!

As we neared the summit, there was one steep/technical part of the trail.  Grandad helped Nugget navigate the terrain.  I have to say this for Nugget: he’s your typical rambunctious three-year-old boy, but he does seem to understand when it’s actually important for him to listen carefully and follow directions.  He did a great job climbing the steep terrain with his Grandad’s coaching.

There were a few false summits on the way up, which I never mind in the Adirondacks, because there’s no better opportunity to relax, take a deep breath and snap a few pictures of the gorgeous mountains all around.

Stunning views of the high peaks!

And then, before we knew it, we were at the summit!

Nana and Nugget relaxed and drank in the panoramic mountain views, while I dug through the pack for the trail snacks I’d brought along for the whole family to enjoy: little packets of olives, salt-and-pepper macadamias, delicious dried apricots, Babybel cheese, and brownie bites for the kids.  We all dug in and slurped on our water bottles while soaking in the scenery.

Family picture time!  Summit smiles:

After a good long rest and snack session on the summit, it was time to head down and get on with the rest of our day.  Nugget hopped into the backpack and Peanut put boots – errrr, sandals – on the trail.

Owls Head did not disappoint!  I can see why it’s a popular mountain, but I’m glad the owners are limiting access to the trail – we saw several other hiking groups, and one family rock climbing, and I can’t imagine what it would be like on a popular holiday weekend – probably so intrusive that there’d be no trail left.  Opening it during the week and closing it on weekends and holidays seems like a good compromise to (generously) allow people to continue enjoying the mountain without destroying the trail or seriously impeding the landowners’ movement.  Makes sense to me!  And as for the trail itself, it absolutely lived up to its billing as a perfect family hike.  There was enough climbing and terrain to keep it interesting, but it was approachable enough that my small children were easily able to manage it with attentive adult supervision, and it was short enough that we were able to get a late start and spend considerable time hanging out on the summit, and still be off the mountain in time for lunch.  Wins all around!

Next week: Wild Center Wednesday!

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (September 17, 2018)

Does it have to be Monday?  I need one more weekend day, just for relaxing.  We were super busy this weekend – Saturday, especially, because we were throwing Peanut a sixth birthday party.  But I thought she turned six last month?  If you’re confused, so was Peanut; she thought she was turning seven, and you should have heard the caterwauling when I broke the news to her that: nope, still six.  We like to wait to throw her party until a couple of weeks into the school year, so that more people can make it – someone is always on vacation if we do the party in the summer.  This year, Peanut requested a “cheetah tea party,” so that’s what I delivered (although no one drank the African Autumn iced tea – the best laid plans).  We had originally planned to have a picnic down at one of our favorite waterfront playgrounds, but last week the area flooded due to non-Florence-related rainstorms.  (We had such a wet summer that the Potomac was straining at its banks, and I guess last week’s rain was the final straw.)  So the party moved to our house as the backup location, and it was kind of better, because at least that way I didn’t have to haul all of the food down to the waterfront.  We invited all of the girls in Peanut’s class, plus some non-school friends, and the kids had a great time wearing cheetah ears, watching The Lion King, and tearing apart Peanut and Nugget’s rooms.  After everyone left, Nugget was desperately in need of some running around time, so I took him (and my sore party-throwing feet) to a block party (the fire trucks were there) and then to the playground and to ride his bike around a basketball court for awhile.  On Sunday, we wanted a low-key family day, but we were still on the go – down to Mason Neck, one of our favorite local parks, for a hike and some playground and turtle-watching time.  We made it home in time for lunch, and then the kids and I hung out on the patio – the kids digging in the sandbox and playing with Peanut’s new stamp set (a birthday present) while I made some headway on weeding the patio – it was horribly overgrown – and periodically yelled at them to stop bickering.  Good times.  And now – another week.  I’m already wondering if next weekend is apple-picking weekend.  Maybe?

  

Reading.  I started off fairly intense this week, reading When They Call You a Terrorist: a Black Lives Matter Memoir, which was hard to read but so important.  After finishing that and returning it to the library, I finished up The Modern Guide to Witchcraft and then turned to a book I’d been saving, the meditative and charming The Fortnight in September.  I’m reading it slowly and savoring it – and, to be honest, I was super busy all weekend and didn’t have much spare time for reading – and loving it, as I knew I would.

Watching.  Jumping around here and there.  I only watch TV about every other day at most, and then only one episode at a time.  This week, I think I watched one or two episodes of Parks and Recreation (which can cheer me up when nothing else can) and one episode of The Crown – my favorite, “Hyde Park Corner.”  I told Steve, “I keep forgetting how sad this episode is.”  In my mind, it’s all just Liz and Phil go to Africa and see elephants!  Liz wears jammies and amazing sunglasses! and I somehow forget that this is the episode where King George VI dies.

Listening.  I’m down to two hours left to go in my audiobook of Nick Offerman’s Paddle Your Own Canoe.  I’m still enjoying it, but am kind of getting ready to move on to something else.  And he still hasn’t mentioned Parks and Recreation, except briefly and in passing.  Come on, Nick!  Inquiring minds want to know ALL about that show!

Making.  I made an indoor safari birthday party this weekend, and that sapped pretty much all of my creativity for the week.  But it was a hit!  We had animal print tablecloths, a lion head made out of hummus, cheetah ear headbands and more.  The kids all had a great time, which was the most important thing.

Blogging.  Dishing about starting a book club on Wednesday, and then another vacation recap post on Friday – we climbed a mountain for Peanut’s sixth birthday!  Check in with me then.

Loving.  Okay, this has been public information for ages, but I just found out and it BLEW MY MIND: did you know the actress who plays Caroline “There Is No Enjoyment Like Reading” Bingley in the classic 1995 adaptation of Pride and Prejudice (Colin Firth, wet shirt) is DESCENDED FROM JANE AUSTEN?  (Sixth great-niece.)  And also from Mary Boleyn and the first Duke of Marlborough, but focus on the Austen.  HOW DID I NOT KNOW THIS FACTOID?!?!  I feel so out of the loop, but also kind of ridiculously (and irrelevantly) excited about this piece of trivia.  As I did whenever I have exciting bookish news to recount, I immediately emailed my fabulous Janeite friend Susan, and she was similarly all-caps SHOCKED and DELIGHTED and ASTONISHED.  So, why am I “loving” this?  Well, Firth of all, I just find this piece of information (which everyone except for Susan and me probably knew already) completely delightful.  Caroline Bingley is my favorite Austen baddie, and Anna Chancellor plays her to perfection, and I can’t love enough the connection she has to Dear Aunt Jane.  You know how sometimes you just learn a little fact that completely delights you?  This completely delights me.  And then there’s the fact that I have a friend who – I knew – would geek out about this too, and everyone needs That Friend Who They Geek Out With.  The best.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

ADK Adventure 2018: Brewster Peninsula and Mirror Lake

Finally, some vacation recaps!  It feels like it’s been forever, and it has been a year since our last trip of a week or more.  Last year, we flew twice – once to California for a wedding followed by a family reunion and vacation, and a month after that, to Florida for another wedding.  So my one criterion for this year’s vacation was this: no flying.  I picked four driveable locations – the Adirondacks; Maine; Smith Mountain Lake or Congaree National Park – and told Steve to choose.  He picked the Adirondacks, so we started gleefully planning a week of hiking in and around Lake Placid, New York.  We drove up to my parents’ place on a Saturday in late August, crashed overnight, then drove the rest of the way on Sunday morning – and on Monday, our first order of business was to hike.  For our first trail, we picked the Brewster Peninsula Nature Trail.  Steve signed us in at the trail register – an Adirondack must – and we were off.

First views of Lake Placid!  I grew up coming to this area all year ’round, but especially in the winter – for skiing, ice skating, and snow fun.  Our Adirondack summer fun was concentrated around the Sacandaga, although we did come to LP to kayak from time to time.  So it was a treat to get to immerse myself in the Lake Placid region for an entire week.

The sun was sparkling on the clear mountain lake.

Nugget and Peanut dove right into their favorite hiking activities.  Peanut immersed herself in tracking “the Blood,” a forest creature of her own invention (shhhh) and Nugget set up a camp kitchen.  We probably loitered by this stump for twenty minutes while he cooked up trail delicacies for the rest of the family – and the Blood.

Get your trail snacks!

I passed on the dirt pies in favor of a much more delicious trail snack – wild raspberries!  (Of course, you should never eat anything that you can’t identify.  But I grew up picking wild raspberries from the large thicket that grew around my grandparents’ camp on the Sacandaga, and I can easily tell them apart from less palatable trail produce.)  There were wild raspberries growing all over Lake Placid, and I plucked a few whenever I spotted them – which was often.

What a welcome to Lake Placid!  The Brewster Peninsula trail was fun and family friendly, but still an Adirondack trail – so there were plenty of roots and rocks to keep the terrain interesting.

And plenty of incredible views to soak in!  I kept pinching myself, because I couldn’t believe I was lucky enough to be looking forward to a whole week of this.

That afternoon, Nana and Grandad arrived to share in our Adirondack fun, and we all headed over to the municipal beach on Mirror Lake.  My memories of this beach are all wintery.  I’ve tobogganed down the hill and onto the frozen lake, and practiced my skating moves here on freezing February days – but I don’t think I’ve ever waded in on a warm August day.  Time to correct that!

The kids both enjoyed running and splashing in the crystal clear water.

In addition to being gorgeous and clear, the water was also quite bracing – refreshing, sure, and we did get used to it, but after a good dousing both kids were shivering.  Time for the action to move to the beach – good thing we were well stocked with sand toys.

Nugget enjoyed dumping buckets full of sandy water all over Grandad’s feet.  Meanwhile…

It’s not an official day at the beach until Peanut has a mermaid tail.  Thanks, Nana!

What a fun welcome to Lake Placid!  I’m already plotting a way to return to that bright mountain sunshine and sparkling water.  For now, more soon.

The Classics Club Challenge: The Village

There comes a point in the life of a classic literature fan where – while you may not have completely worked your way through “the canon,” such as it is – you start looking for the different, the less-known, the forgotten.  I’ve always felt a strong connection to classics by women – your Jane Austen, your L.M. Montgomery, your Edith Wharton, your Bronte sisters, your Elizabeth Gaskell, etc. – so it was only a matter of time before I discovered Persephone Books, an independent publishing house based in London which has built a following through its dedication to printing long-neglected classics by mostly women writers, many of whom I’d never heard of before discovering these lovely dove grey volumes.  Any new convert to the Persephone way learns that there are two authors in particular who enjoy a spot atop the pyramid of Persephone’s stable of authors – Dorothy Whipple and Marghanita Laski.

I’ve read one Whipple – Greenbanks – and loved it, so I thought I’d better give Laski a go.  One thing about Laski is that no two of her books are alike.  They vary in subject, tone and style.  So I suspected that I might like some better than others, and decided to start with The Village, which seemed a likely success for me – and it was.

In the opening scene of The Village, victory has just been declared in the European phase of World War II.  The war, of course, was still raging in the Pacific, but for the residents of Priory Dean, V-E Day effectively meant the end to hostilities.  Refugees would be headed back to London – if they weren’t already – the threat of German bombs was over, and deployed local boys would soon be straggling home, if they had survived.  On the first night of peacetime, there’s no curfew, there are bonfires and dancing in the streets.  And as the celebrations whirl through the village, Wendy Trevor and Edith Wilson wend their way to their night’s watch.  There’s really no need for them to scout through the evening, since the war is over.  But both women are oddly reluctant to let their wartime duties go.  They come from different stations in life – Wendy belongs to impoverished gentry, and Edith to the working class, lacking in social graces but better funded than the Trevors and their like.  Edith used to “do for” the Trevor family, and she and Wendy both know that their friendship, forged in the crucible of wartime, is now going to have to end.  Edith will be sticking with her kind, and Wendy with hers.  But they both crave one last evening of companionship before returning to their respective stations in life.

Wendy said with a half-laugh, half-sob, ‘Listen, the dance music’s stopped.  Edith,’ she sad, mopping her eyes, twisting her handkerchief in her hands.  ‘I don’t know how to apologise.  I don’t know what came over me, making an exhibition of myself like that.’

‘There’s nothing to apologise for at all,’ said Edith.  ‘We’re all of us that tired and overwrought these days anyway, and if you can’t have a good cry here tonight I don’t know when you can.’  She added almost casually, her face half-turned away, ‘I lost a baby too, you know.  A little girl, mine was.  It was my first, too.’  She sat down beside Wendy, and again the two women sipped their tea, talking now in soft relaxed voices of the children when young, of their husbands, their parents, remembering the little things that had made up their lives, made them what they were.  Neither had ever talked like this to anyone before and never would again.

At last Wendy glanced up at the window and it was light.  On a single impulse they both got up and went to the door, looking out at the village in the early morning light, at the Norman church and Dr Gregory’s long Georgian house on the north side of the Green, the dark cedars that spread over the wall from Miss Evadne’s garden on the short side, at the ugly new shops flanking the village hall and closing the triangle around the Green.  The air was cool and sweet and no one was about.  It was the first day after the war.

Unbeknownst to Wendy and Edith, however, they’ll soon be thrown back together.  The Trevors – Major Gerald and Wendy – have two daughters, for whom they have scrimped and sacrificed to provide the best education.  Margaret, the eldest, is concluding school and the education seems to have been wasted on her.  She dreams of marriage and motherhood.  Unfortunately, the only son of the local gentry, Roger Gregory, is covered in acne and made even more unattractive by his unpleasant attitude.  After an embarrassing rejection at a local dance, however, Margaret finds herself back in the orbit of her childhood companion, Roy Wilson, with whom she used to play when his mother – Edith – cooked and cleaned for the Trevors.  Roy and Margaret drop back into their easy companionship and – I’m sure you see where this is going – are soon in love.

‘Oh, Roy,’ said Margaret, in an anguish of longing, and he demanded fiercely, ‘Margaret, you must marry me.  Say you’ll marry me.’

‘Oh, Roy,’ she repeated, and then he bent his head to hers and they kissed in bliss.

At last, he lifted his head and looked into her eyes.  ‘I love you,’ he said despairingly and Margaret sighed, ‘Oh, Roy, I love you too.  I love you,’ and he kissed her again, but this time they clung together for fear of loss and kissed in desperation.

When this kiss ended, their lips were trembling and their faces troubled.  ‘Oh, Margaret, I need you so much,’ whispered Roy.  ‘You’re what I’ve always wanted, we could be so happy–‘  He buried his face in her neck, the touch of his lips bringing to both a warm excited content.

Tentatively Margaret’s hands began to touch his neck, to stroke his hair.  ‘Let’s go on pretending,’ she said softly, ‘do let’s go on pretending.  Tell me about the rest of the house.’

He dragged himself upright and leant back against the tree, pulling her against him so that she leant on his shoulder, his arms around her and his other hand playing with her hands.  ‘There’d be a hall with a barometer,’ he said, ‘and I’d tap it to see if I was going to dig in the garden or go off to the pub.’

‘I’d come to the pub with you,’ said Margaret tenderly.

Roy and Margaret attempt to keep their romance secret, but in a small village, no gossip stays secret for long.  When the village gentry learn of Margaret’s affection for Roy and the young couple bravely declare their intention to marry, the Trevors are properly horrified by this unprecedented intermingling of classes.  Wendy, expecting her night’s watch companion to be as unsettled by the union as she is, appeals to Edith to help her minimize the damage.  To Wendy’s chagrin, Edith insists on being baffled as to what’s so shameful about marrying her upright, kind, gainfully-employed son.  And so the union between the daughter of impoverished gentry and the son of the upwardly mobile working class becomes the first test of a new social order.

There’s a lot in this book.  My one complaint was that the book’s central theme was sometimes a bit unsubtle.  It did feel, on occasion, as if Laski didn’t trust her readers enough to draw their own conclusions, and instead she felt the need to beat us over the head with her social theories.  The result was that the action was sometimes predictable.  But it was easy to overlook the occasional ham-handedness of the narrative because the village and its denizens were so alive.  There were a number of side plots that I haven’t addressed at all, and my favorite was the collective aneurysm of the gentry when a successful shopkeeper sells her business, buys a home in the “nice” section of town, and starts wearing tweeds:

To Miss Porteous’s immense surprise, Miss Moodie, when she came to the door, was seen to be wearing a tweed suit.  Miss Porteous had never through of it that way before, but tweed suits, in Priory Dean, were definitely gentry-wear.  In the past Miss Moodie had always been seen in the unnoticeable stockinette dress and cardigan of the respectable tradeswoman; she might, indeed, in these days even have worn a skirt and a hand-knitted jumper; but never, Miss Porteous obscurely felt, a tailored tweed jacket.  Why, now, with her smooth grey hair in the neat bun above this unassailable uniform, she looked just like anyone else, not even very unlike Miss Porteous herself, and it was the confusion she was feeling that led her, without thinking, to cross the threshold when Miss Moodie said, ‘Do please come in, there’s really a nip in the air today.  You’d hardly think it’s really June,’ and then to walk into the sitting-room when Miss Moodie turned the oxydised copper handle on the oak-grained door.

It’s the well-drawn village and the living, breathing characters that takes The Village from a heavy-handed tale of social upheaval to a classic.  I loved the peeks into the kitchens and drawing-rooms of another age, I was righteously angry when Roger Gregory (twice!) snubbed Margaret Trevor, and I cheered for Margaret in her new-found strength to defy her social circle and marry the man she loved – with the encouragement of an unlikely source, and I’m not going to tell you whom, because you really should read The Village.

This review is part of my Classics Club Challenge.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (September 10, 2018)

All right, here we go again – another trip on the weekly merry-go-round.  This weekend was good, although we didn’t do much.  On Saturday, we had the first in a three-week string of birthday parties to attend – this time, a school friend of Peanut’s.  The party was at a local bounce gym, and man was it loud.  Peanut was a bit overwhelmed to start, but she found her groove soon and enjoyed hanging out with her friends, and especially her BFF, who transferred schools and is no longer a part of our daily orbit (sob).  Dad and Mom had a treat later in the evening – dinner out with an old friend who we don’t see nearly enough.  We went to Virtue Feed & Grain, a favorite neighborhood spot, and enjoyed a delicious dinner and even more delicious laughter with our friend.  The dinner out was made possible by our beloved nanny, who came over to babysit the kiddos, and it was such a joy to see her.  Now that both kids are in school, she’s also not part of their daily orbit – lots of changes this year – and there was much rejoicing at the reunion.  Sunday was kind of a blah day.  Steve was watching the first football games of the season (it begins) all day, and the rest of us bummed around the house and looked out the windows at the rain.  I did some reading and some blogging and a whole lot of playing with the kids, and Nugget and I baked sourdough biscuits; they came out pretty well but I don’t know that they’re going to become a regular rotation item.  And now off to work again – another busy week ahead as I work my way toward the end of the fiscal year.  Is it October yet?

  

Reading.  All non-fiction this week – unusual for me!  I read Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race on my commutes throughout most of last week, and it was an interesting perspective, as it was focused on the experience of being black in England.  Being American, I’m more attuned to what’s going on over here.  So I felt that it was important to broaden my understanding, and it was an excellent book – I learned a lot.  After that, I felt the need for something lighter, so I picked up the sixth issue of Slightly Foxed – I’m still working my way through the back issues.  I’m finishing the weekend with When They Call You a Terrorist: a Black Lives Matter Memoir.  I’m only a couple of chapters in, but it’s excellent so far.

Watching.  Nothing really – just glances at whatever happens to be on the screen for someone else.  Sunday, as I mentioned, was all-football, all-day.  I didn’t really watch, but it was impossible to help noticing that the Bills got creamed.  The rest of the week and weekend, I just watched a little here and there as the kids took in The Blue Planet and BBC Earth: Africa.  Unfortunately, they also discovered a super creepy cartoon movie about some undersea creatures who go on a mission to save their colony – sounds cute, but there is some irksome language and really unnerving imagery (we’re talking skeletons, terrifying homicidal fish, a vampire octopus (???) and a submerged New York City, among other weirdnesses).  They can’t stop watching, and it’s really freaky.

Listening.  I’m almost halfway through Nick Offerman’s Paddle Your Own Canoe on Audible.  Definitely not family-friendly or suitable for work!  But it’s really fun to hear Nick describe, in his own words and voice, his salt of the earth upbringing and his escapades early in his theatre career.  I’m hoping for some good Parks and Recreation talk to come…

Making.  Took a break from bread-baking Sundays this week and whipped up some sourdough biscuits instead, as noted above.  They were good, but not spectacular.  It could be that I’m working my way through my white whole wheat flour, and I don’t think it’s especially fresh.  Muffins next weekend, maybe?

Blogging.  I flaked on you for the promised vacation recap last week, huh?  Let’s change that this week.  The first of the Adirondack posts is coming on Friday – for real this time.  On Wednesday, I’ll have the promised book review for you – another Classics Club entry.  Speaking of which, I’ve added a new page tab at the top of the window, where I’m collecting my Classics Club reviews.  So you can check that out and I’ll update it as I work through the list.

Loving.  With the school year swinging into gear, I’m actually really excited about both kids’ classes. Nugget is spending his days with three really sweet and loving ladies, and both of Peanut’s teachers seem super fun and engaged.  I’m one of the room moms in Peanut’s class this year, and I’m also helping out with “green school” initiatives this year (any ideas for us? keep in mind it’s a small school and the building is old) – I’m feeling inspired and hopeful for a great year ahead.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

52 Hike Challenge: Update the Third – Hikes #21-30

The 52 Hikes Project chugs along, almost under its own steam – I’ve slowed up a bit because of unexpected family stuff, but getting out into nature is always healing for me, and so I’m still hitting the trail whenever possible.

Hike 21: Theodore Roosevelt Island (Washington, D.C.), June 24, 2018.  This was possibly the muddiest hike I have ever done.

Hike 22: Huntley Meadows Park (Alexandria, Virginia), July 4, 2018.  We desperately needed some trail time on Independence Day, so we re-visited Huntley Meadows.  The last time we were there was in March, and it sure has changed with the seasons.  Lots of animals spotted on this one.

Hike 23: Bash Bish Falls State Park (Mount Washington, Massachusetts), July 7, 2018.  Still needing that nature release, we checked out one of my parents’ favorite hikes near their home, and it was just beautiful.

Hike 24: George Washington’s Mount Vernon (Alexandria, Virginia), July 22, 2018.  We saw a hawk!  The hike was a bit curtailed as a result – we turned back rather than hike the whole nature trail, in order to give the hawk space.  But well worth it.

Hike 25: Turkey Run Park (McLean, Virginia), August 4, 2018.  Holy switchbacks, Batgirl!  This was a new park for us and definitely a good one.  Last Thanksgiving I was thinking this would be a good Friday-after-Thanksgiving hike, just because of the name, but we didn’t get to it then.  Maybe this year!

Hike 26: Mason Neck State Park (Lorton, Virginia), August 5, 2018.  We were planning to kayak on this day, but after seeing how high and fast the Potomac was at Turkey Run the day before, we scrapped that plan (sob) and decided to knock off another hike instead (yay!).  My favorite Virginia state park was clearly the perfect spot to celebrate being halfway through the challenge – wahoo!

Hike 27: Brewster Peninsula Nature Trails (Lake Placid, New York), August 20, 2018 – Starting off our Adirondack vacation right, with expansive views over Lake Placid.  Also, Nugget set up a camp kitchen in a tree stump, and I ate wild raspberries directly off the bush.

Hike 28: Owl’s Head Mountain (Keene, New York), August 21, 2018 – There’s no more epic way to celebrate a sixth (!!!) birthday than by climbing a mountain, right?  We hiked this fun mountain as a family with Nana and Grandad, and gave our birthday girl some summit kisses.

Hike 29: Big Slide Mountain (Keene, New York), August 23, 2018 – Fourth Adirondack high peak in the books!  Big Slide was kind of a big slog for me, but I gutted it out and made it to the summit, and the views were 100% worth it.

Hike 30: Heaven Hill Trail (Lake Placid, New York), August 24, 2018 – This hike was beautiful but unlucky.  First, we were shut out of the hike we had intended to do (Heart Lake) by a full parking lot – oof.  Then Nugget face-planted on the wooded connector trail leading to the field.  Then, no sooner had we started taking in the views of the wildflowers and the mountains, but Peanut was stung by a bee – ouch!  She’s a tough cookie, though.  She gutted it out on the way back to the car and was fine almost immediately.  But we called a stop to the hike and took her out for ice cream instead, obviously.

Well, I’m still WAY behind on the 52 hike challenge, thanks to this weird summer we’ve been having.  But this last stretch of hikes has been pretty great.  It’s taken us rambling on trails in four different states/jurisdictions – Massachusetts, the District of Columbia, Virginia and New York – past waterfalls and up mountains, and even up close to a hawk.  I can’t wait to see what the next few months, and the next batch of hikes, has in store.

It’s Labor Day Monday! What Are you Reading? (September 3, 2018)

Happy holiday weekend to my American friends, and happy new week to my friends around the world!  Here in the States, it’s Labor Day, which is usually a bittersweet holiday for me, because it marks something of a demarcation between my two favorite seasons – summer and fall.  I love fall with all my heart, but I love summer almost as much and am usually sad to see it go.  (It helps that here in Virginia, we have a couple more months of summer weather headed our way before the jeans, puffy vests, and boots come out to stay.)  But this summer has been so off that I’m kind of ready to bid it goodbye and turn my attention to fall fun – apple, blackberry and pumpkin picking, fall sunflower festival, foliage, cider, hiking, and Hallowe’en, I’m coming for you!  Anyway – this was a pretty low-key Labor Day weekend.  We spent it at home, which was just what I needed after either solo parenting or traveling most weekends in August.  On Saturday, we spent a very relaxed morning at home.  Nugget and I walked out on an errand in the neighborhood – taking my bike for a tune-up at a local cycling shop – and then went to REI to buy him his first two-wheeler (with training wheels).  It cost way too much money for a child’s bike, but he was smiling so big I couldn’t say no.  On Sunday, we spent the morning hiking at Lake Burke, one of my favorite nearby parks, but it was a bit of a dud of a hike.  The kids were just in a really belligerent, uncooperative mood, which makes it hard to relax and soak up the trail.  Peanut also wanted to loudly declaim on all the particulars of a character she had just invented, “Aloha Lahalo,” and while I love her imagination, she scared most of the birds away.  Sunday afternoon meant more errands – Target for dress-code compliant socks and a water bottle for school; Whole Foods for lunch goodies and a kombucha re-stock; and Lowe’s for my annual orange mums and some more birdseed.  We’re spending this morning hiking at Great Falls with some new friends, and I’m sure we will just chill at home – maybe Nugget will ride his new bike – this afternoon as we get ready for a short, but busy week and the first day of school.  How is it upon us already?

Reading.  Pretty fun reading week.  At the beginning of the week, I finished up Canoeing in the Wilderness – read my thoughts here.  For the rest of the workweek, I worked my way through The Woman Next Door, by Yewande Omotoso – after hearing Rebecca of Book Riot describe it as “Golden Girls, but woke and in Africa,” I was sold.  I wouldn’t say it’s destined to become a favorite, but it was good.  This weekend I blazed through one of my favorite books of all time, Where’d You Go, Bernadette, which I chose for this month’s book club selection (I’m hosting on Wednesday).  Finally – ’tis the season! – I picked up The Modern Guide to Witchcraft.  So don’t make me mad, because soon I will know how to hex you.  Just kidding!  (Or am I?)

Watching.  Kind of all over the place this week.  The latest season of The Great British Baking Show dropped and I am doing my best to reconcile myself to no Mary, Mel or Sue.  The new judge seems like a good not-Mary, but I don’t know what to do with the new hosts.  One looks like a glam rocker, so I’ve decided to call him Decibel Jones.  We’ve been alternating TGBBS with Making It – if you haven’t heard, same concept, but with crafts, hosted by Amy Poehler and Nick Offerman.  (I saw a thing on Twitter saying, basically, “There should be a category of Netflix recommendations for after you finish The Great British Baking Show and it should basically be, ‘you’re clearly going through some stuff, so here are more shows with people being nice to each other over low stakes things.'”  Making It would definitely fall into that category.)

Listening.  After watching the first episode of Making It, along with an episode of Parks and Recreation, which is almost a nightly occurrence in my house, I decided I needed more Nick Offerman in my life, so I downloaded Paddle Your Own Canoe on Audible, and I’m a little more than an hour into it.  (What is going on with me and canoes lately?)  You know how I loved Nick Offerman before?  You didn’t know?  Well – I did.  And now, multiply that by a thousand.  I don’t mind my commute at all as long as Nick is in my earbuds, talking about fishing and doing his Nick Offerman giggle (Ron Swanson fans, you’ve heard it).  Also, I might be getting old because I find Nick Offerman surprisingly handsome and I especially love his shaggy grey beard.  25-year-old me is shocked.

Moving.  Back to the usual hiking and walking – nothing much to report.  I did take my bike in for a tune-up (see above) this weekend, so once I have it back I’m hoping to get back in the [bike] saddle soon.  I mapped out my route to work and I could do almost the whole thing on car-free bike paths in about the same time it takes me on the commuter rail, so I’m thinking of trying bike commuting once the heat breaks a little bit.

Blogging.  I’ve got an outdoorsy week coming up for you; what with a vacation in Lake Placid to recap, you had to have seen that coming.  On Wednesday, I have another update to share on my 52 Hike Challenge, and on Friday, the first recap from my Adirondack vacation.  Check in with me then, or if you’re all, look, lady, I’m here for the books, I’ll have a book review for you next week.

Loving.  I’ve finally found my perfect kombucha brand!  I’m totally obsessed with Brew Dr. – finally, a kombucha that is tea-forward, not too sugary, readily available near me and doesn’t break the bank!  My favorite flavor so far has been the Strawberry Basil – the summer seasonal – but I’ve also really enjoyed the Clear Mind, and I’m digging the Harvest flavor – the autumn seasonal just released – too.  I got my BFF, Rebecca, to give it a whirl too, and she’s a fan.  It’s the best-tasting, least expensive kombucha I’ve found and I’m starting to get a twitch if I don’t have a week’s worth stocked in the fridge.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?