Reading Round-Up: August 2018

Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby. I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book. Here are my reads for August, 2018

Fables, Vol. 8: Wolves, by Bill Willingham – It had been quite some time since I read any installment of Fables, but I stopped by the comics shelf at my library branch and there it was, looking like just what the doctor ordered.  In this installment, Mowgli has been dispatched to find Bigby Wolf, who Mayor Prince Charming believes is the only Fable who can successfully deliver an ultimatum from Fabletown to the Adversary.  (What about swashbuckling assassin Little Boy Blue? was my question.)  Meanwhile, Snow White is still living on the Farm, raising their cubs with help from her sister Rose Red, and the North Wind.  Fables was one of the first series I picked up when I started reading comics, and I still love it – it’s literary, witty, and so much fun.

The Village, by Marghanita Laski – I’ve been meaning to read Laski, who is one of Persephone’s top two authors (the other being Dorothy Whipple, whose book Greenbanks I loved) and The Village looked like a perfect place for me to start.  The novel opens on the day that peace in Europe was declared after years of fighting World War II.  For the residents of Laski’s village, that means the war is basically over – and they now have to figure out what life is going to look like in the aftermath.  During the war, social conventions were upended, but now that it’s all over, can they go back to what was normal before?  While we meet a number of characters on either side of the tracks, the book focuses on two families in particular – the Trevors, who are upper middle class gentry, but impoverished, and the Wilsons, working-class but doing well financially and on the rise.  When the Trevors’ daughter falls in love with the Wilsons’ son, battle lines are drawn.  I’ll have a more thorough review coming soon, but I really enjoyed this.  At times it could be a bit heavy-handed and overly expository about class distinctions, but the characters were so real and so well-drawn that it was a delight to read.

The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World, by Marti Olsen Laney – I’d been reading this one on my phone for months, and I liked that the sections were so short that it could be read in snippets.  It was an interesting book with a fair amount of science, but I was underwhelmed by it.  I’ve read a fair amount of books about introversion at this point, and this one didn’t really add anything new for me, and it annoyed me that the author kept referring to introverts as “innies” and extroverts as “outies.”  Excuse me, but I am a person, not a belly button.

An American Marriage, by Tayari Jones – After reading one of Jones’ earlier novels, The Untelling, and thinking it was fine but not outstanding, I was worried about this one.  An American Marriage was so heavily hyped, and I waited for months on the library holds list to get it, and I was really dreading being disappointed.  I needn’t have worried, because the hype was totally valid in this case, and I thought the book was just wonderful.  An American Marriage tells the story of the unraveling of the titular marriage.  Roy and Celestial have been married only eighteen months when the police kick down the door of the motel room they’re staying in while visiting Roy’s parents, and arrest Roy for rape.  Roy quickly learns that being innocent of the crime (he was with his wife the entire time that the rape occurred), and having a clean record, are no help, and he is convicted and sent to prison for twelve years.  At first, Celestial dutifully visits him, but soon finds herself chafing under the pressures of being married to a wrongfully convicted man and falls into a relationship with her childhood best friend, Andre.  When Roy is unexpectedly released after five years instead of twelve, Celestial has to decide if she wants to save her marriage or seek her freedom.  An American Marriage was incredibly compelling, and the characters were living and breathing.  I loved the different perspective on the criminal justice system – I don’t think I’ve ever read a story told through this lens before – and I was on the edge of my seat, furiously turning pages to find out what happened.  My only complaint is that Jones never explains exactly what it was that got Roy released early – there’s a mention of prosecutorial misconduct, but I’d have liked more details about what the legal arguments were that led to his freedom.  (Was there new DNA evidence?  Other physical evidence?  What was the prosecutorial misconduct?  Inquiring lawyers wanna know.)  But I think that’s probably a complaint that is rooted in my being an attorney, and non-lawyers wouldn’t think twice about it.

Their Eyes Were Watching God, by Zora Neale Hurston – This one has been on my to-read list for years, and I am so glad that I finally got around to it, because it was absolutely gorgeous.  The dialogue was written in dialect, which was a bit hard to get into, but once I got it, I found it easy enough to read – and the non-dialogue was just beautiful, and the story compelling and wrenching.  I reviewed it in full for my Classics Club list here.

Fables, Vol. 9: Sons of Empire, by Bill Willingham – After Bigby Wolf has delivered Fabletown’s message to the Adversary (and a very destructive message it is), the villains of the Homelands convene a council of war to discuss their response.  The Snow Queen proposes waging a wildly dramatic war, complete with plagues that will wipe out all of civilization on Earth, and she’s pretty gleeful about her idea.  (Elsa!  WHY???)  But Pinocchio successfully dismantles the Snow Queen’s plan, explaining why it can’t possibly work, and Fabletown is safe for the moment.  Meanwhile, Bigby and Snow are finally back together, raising their family at Wolf Manor – but then Snow tells Bigby that she wants them to take the cubs for a family visit to Bigby’s estranged father, the North Wind.  Obviously, there is no way that could end badly!  This series continues to be pure delight.

The Intuitionist, by Colson Whitehead – Lila Mae Watson is the first African-American woman in the history of her city’s Department of Elevator Inspectors, and so she is more than an elevator inspector; she’s a symbol of progress and inclusivity.  She’s also an Intuitionist, one of a minority of elevator inspectors who are able to simply meditate and sense any problems with an elevator (as opposed to the more methodical Empiricists, who visually inspect the elevators and their parts).  The Elevator Inspectors’ Guild is in the midst of an election season, and an Intuitionist is running against an Empiricist.  When an elevator has a catastrophic freefall on Lila Mae’s watch, she suddenly finds herself at the center of the storm, racing against time to find a “black box” – a perfect elevator design – hidden away by the founder of Intuitionism.  So, I enjoyed this once I gave up on understanding what was going on, or even really following it.  Magical realism isn’t my thing, and it was definitely at play here – but the story was compelling and Lila Mae was a wonderful character.

Portage: A Family, A Canoe, and the Search for the Good Life, by Sue Leaf – I so enjoyed this lovely, ruminative, expansive look at a lifetime of paddling.  Sue Leaf is trained as a zoologist, and she is a passionate canoeist, as are her husband and their children, who grew up paddling the lakes and rivers of the upper Midwest.  Portage is a hard book to describe – it’s part memoir, part history, part nature journal, part sports book.  Leaf begins the book by describing how she came to canoeing at age 10.  The rest of the book is organized into chapters or essays about various canoeing excursions she has taken with her family – everything from an afternoon’s paddling on an urban Minneapolis stream to two weeks canoe trekking the Boundary Waters Wilderness Area.  In each essay, she muses on the natural and human history touching the river in question; gleefully describes the avian life she saw there; writes touchingly about parenthood, marriage and aging; muses about climate change; and more.  I read it at a slow pace and enjoyed every moment.  I’m a kayaker, not a canoeist, and I am used to paddling different waters, but Leaf’s joy in time spent on the water and the pleasure she takes in her paddles splashing in and out of a lake or river were very familiar to me.

The Summer Book, by Tove Jansson – I’ve been meaning to read this one for awhile, and I’d be lying if I said that I wasn’t first attracted by the gorgeous cover.  But the book is a joy to read as well as to hold.  It’s one of those stories in which nothing really happens, but the clarity and elegance of the prose make it pure pleasure to read.  The Summer Book tells the story of six-year-old Sophia, recently bereft of her mother, and her summer pursuits on a small island off Finland with her Grandmother.  Sophia and Grandmother wander the island, build a miniature Venice, trespass in a neighbor’s house, brave a storm and a day of danger, and more.  Sophia was a completely realistic six-year-old (and I should know, because I have one of those) and her relationship with Grandmother was sparkling and heart-wrenching.  I marked so many passages of gorgeous writing to which I want to return.

Be Prepared, by Vera Brosgol – I saw this graphic novel on Instagram (specifically, on Colin Meloy’s stories) and ordered it immediately.  It’s a lightly fictionalized, but mostly pretty realistic, graphic memoir of the author’s time at a summer camp for Russian kids.  Vera feels different and set apart from her American friends – her mother, a single mom of three, can’t afford expensive dolls or fancy summer camps.  But when Vera learns of a summer camp for Russian kids, she figures she’s finally found a place where she’ll fit in.  Of course it’s not that simple, and Vera learns lessons about friendship and popularity over a summer of trying to carve out a niche for herself even at Russian camp.  Oh, and a chipmunk bites her.  I just loved Be Prepared, and I blew through it in one sitting.  It was sweet, a little bit sad, and really, really funny.

Canoeing in the Wilderness, by Henry David Thoreau – The last of my vacation reading, if you can call it that, since I started the book about one hour from home on the journey back, Canoeing in the Wilderness is Thoreau’s account of a paddling expedition in Maine with a number of companions, over one summer week.  In classic Thoreau language, he describes portages, campsites, and the vistas of rivers and lakes.  I really enjoyed it, but my twenty-first century sensibilities were bothered by his descriptions of the Native American guide the group hired to conduct them through the wilderness.  Although the man has a name – Joe Polis – which is given early on, Thoreau mostly refers to him as “the Indian” or even worse, “our Indian.”  Thoreau seems fascinated by Polis, as if he is another specimen of wildlife, and some of his descriptions of Polis’s directional capabilities, physical traits, and language really set my teeth on edge.  Throughout the book, when Thoreau would recount their conversations, I found myself hoping that Polis was trolling Thoreau and his friends with the intent of laughing at them later.

Pretty good August in books, if I do say so myself!  Eleven this month, including two comic trades and a graphic novel/memoir, which provided some of the highlights.  Other highlights: the absolutely gorgeous Their Eyes Were Watching God and the lovely The Village have to be up there, and I was really impressed with An American Marriage.  I also enjoyed some blissful vacation reading, and Portage especially was a joy.  On to September – I picked the book club book this month, which is a favorite re-read of mine, and I also have some other fun reading on deck.  Check in with me next month for more short book reviews.

Sisterhood of the Traveling Boots

I’m not exactly a gearhead.  Oh, I’m not above spending hours exhaustively researching the kayak, paddles, and SUP outfit I’d love to have someday.  I’ll click dreamily through Canoe & Kayak, REI, Werner Paddles and Hurricane Kayaks, mentally outfitting myself and imagining my paddles slicing through the water and the bow of my kayak tracking steadily along through melting Adirondack ice or warm southern rivers.  (Sometimes, in my more outlandish fantasies, I’m kayaking with whales – orcas in the San Juans or Antarctica, or humpbacks in Hawai’i – but I’m always in an orange Hurricane Sojourn 126 with Werner Camano – or sometimes Little Dipper – paddles.)  Okay, maybe I am a gearhead.  But less so when it comes to hiking, even though I hike much more frequently than I paddle.  But there’s one exception.

Last summer as I climbed Giant Mountain with Steve, more than once I caught the eye of another woman on the trail.  We’d nod, smile, and then one of us would say, “I like your boots.”  And then we exchanged the secret handshake.  (Just kidding.  Or am I?)  Because it seems there is an it boot for Adirondack hiking, and that is the Oboz Bridgewater BDry.  In raspberry red, please and thank you.  I swear I didn’t know this when I bought them.

But while I may not have realized that I was joining a sisterhood – the Sisterhood of Oboz – when I bought my boots, I like having this connection to other women on the trail.  I especially like that this connection is through boots, which carry us all so many miles, over ridges, past vistas, to summits and cols and goals.  My boots aren’t as bright red anymore – they’re faded from love and adventure.  But when I eventually replace them, I plan to buy the exact same ones.  Red as the sky at night, hiker’s delight.  And I’ll cherish every connection I make on the trail, a friendly place already that just becomes friendlier when I catch sight of a flash of red and a smile.

I’m not in the market for new hiking boots, obviously, but what are your favorite hiking sandals?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (August 27, 2018)

It’s a Monday reading post, post-vacation edition – and I wish I was still on vacation.  We spent last week in Lake Placid, New York, with my parents, doing all the Adirondack things – lots and lots and lots of hiking, swimming, and some (not enough) kayaking.  It was exactly what I have been needing: lots of time outdoors, with trail under my feet and smelling the scents of pine trees and fresh mountain air.  We knocked off another high peak (Big Slide – recap coming soon) and plenty of other ADK trails, although there were quite a few more on my list that we didn’t get to.  Something to save for next time!  I grew up playing in these mountains in every season, and it was so much fun to introduce the kiddos to this special place.  Of course, I ended up having to do a little work most days of the vacation – isn’t that always the way it ends up?  But there was enough down-time and enough family time that I still feel refreshed.  And good thing, too, because I have a loooooong and stressful week ahead of me.  (It’s only Monday and I’m already wishing for Friday.)  I know one thing; I’ll be clinging to memories of mountain vistas and giggling kids splashing in a crystal clear lake to get me through the week.

Reading.  I know that I flaked on you for a Monday reading post last week – sorry about that.  I was in such a rush getting everything ready to go on vacation that I didn’t have time to start a draft, and then, well, I was on vacation and I didn’t get to it.  So let’s blow past that and talk about vacation reading.  The joke was on me for a little bit there, because before the trip I put together a huge stack of books to take along, even throwing a giant doorstopper of a Victorian novel onto the pile at the last minute.  The realistic part of me knew I wasn’t going to get through everything, but even I was surprised that it took me almost the entire week to get through Portage: A Family, a Canoe, and the Search for the Good Life.  It’s no fault of the book, which is completely lovely.  It was just that I found myself squeezing work into the after-bedtime hours that I thought would be my prime reading time.  It happens.  Anyway, I enjoyed every moment I got with Portage and then moved on to The Summer Book on the final day of vacation.  It was lovely, and I finished it up in the car on the way home to D.C., then blew through all of Be Prepared, a lightly fictionalized graphic memoir of summer camp – so fun! – on the same car ride before finally turning to Canoeing in the Wilderness.  (What was it with me and canoes last week?)  Anyway, it was a summery, nature-heavy week of reading as it turned out, and I did enjoy myself rather a lot.

Watching.  I didn’t watch any TV at all last week – I usually don’t watch very much, but none at all is unusual even for me – and it was glorious.  Instead, I watched: birds (chickadees, blue jays, and several gorgeous loons); my boots on the trail (ADK trails are notoriously rocky and rooty); my kids splashing and laughing in Mirror Lake.  And it was all wonderful.

Listening.  As with TV, it was a week of earbud detox, and I can’t even say I missed them.  I listened to the Moana soundtrack a lot, on CD in the car driving to and from hikes.  And I listened to the sounds of nature – birds calling; kayak paddles splashing; twigs snapping under my hiking boots.  I’d like some more of all of those things right now.

Moving.  I’m not really one for sedentary vacations, and this one was no exception.  Lots and lots and lots of hiking – including up a high peak, which was a tough climb – and some water sports, although not as much as I’d have liked.  But we were on our feet every day, and our wanderings ranged from the very easy (a stroll through the Wild Center on our one grey day) to the crazy challenging.

Blogging.  In the spirit of just having gotten back from an Adirondack vacation, I have a tribute to my favorite hiking boots ever on Wednesday.  And for those of you who will groan at the hiking-heavy content that is on the way, I’ll return to the books on Friday, with my August reading recap.  Check in with me then!

Loving.  It was so much fun to be on vacation with the family last week!  We managed to see my Grandma at her assisted living facility on our way up to the lake, and of course the kids ate up every second they got with Nana and Grandad.  I just wish that my brother Dan and sister-in-love Danielle could have been with us, but we were all together in June and that’s good too.  With every year that goes by, family seems to get more and more important.  I’m glad I lucked into such a close one.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Notes of a Novice Bread Baker

I should be embarrassed at the hang-ups I’ve had about baking with yeast.  Considering this started out as a cooking and baking blog, there shouldn’t be any baking endeavor that frightens me – but yeast baking did.  I had one success years ago – light and flaky dinner rolls I made one Thanksgiving, which I kneaded to within an inch of their lives, thank you work stress.  But when I tried to make a full loaf of (no-knead!) bread, it came out as heavy and dense as a boulder, and I gave up.

Still, now and then I would feel inspired, and I’d resolve to try again and learn how to bake with yeast.  I’d put yeast baking onto New Year’s resolution lists or seasonal to-do lists (usually in the winter, because bread-baking seemed – still seems – like a lovely warm thing to do when the winds are howling outside, although now I know that hot summer rains are actually the best bread-baking weather, but we’ll get there).  A few months ago, my BFF, Rebecca, mentioned that she was feeding her sourdough starter.  Since I knew enough to know that she’d have to remove and throw away a chunk of the starter, I begged her to give it to me.  Obligingly, she dropped by later that evening with the starter packed in a glass container – my new pet, for which I had no idea how to care.  Oops.

The starter sat in my fridge, neglected, for weeks. Trying to be a responsible sourdough starter mom (and to return Rebecca’s glass storage container to her) I ordered a stoneware crock from King Arthur Flour, to be my baby’s new home.  I plopped it in, then neglected it some more.  By the time Rebecca poked her head into my fridge to look at my starter, it was looking pretty embarrassing.  But she assured me she’d seen worse, and that I could salvage it.  The next week, I took Peanut to a play date at the home of a new camp friend.  I stuck around, because I don’t know the family – and I totally hit it off with the other mom, especially after she told me she’d been teaching herself to bake bread for the past few weeks.  She proudly showed off her new Emile Henry bread pot (OMG WANT) and promised to share her recipe.  And I went home inspired.

It was hard, but I managed to restrain myself from running off to Williams-Sonoma and buying my own bread pot.  I didn’t want to spend the money ($130!) if my new bread-baking hobby was going to be – pardon the pun – a flash in the pan.  So I scouted around online for a recipe that didn’t require a Dutch oven or bread pot, and discovered that the basic sourdough recipe from King Arthur would work in my low-key little loaf pan.

And the result?  Not too shabby for a first try!  I was really pleased to see the golden crust and good rise.

The following week, my first bread-baking temptation struck, and struck hard.  Should I go get a bread pot, or a new loaf pan, or some baguette formers?  Should I try out a new recipe?  No, I told myself strictly, be good.  Stick to the basics, get a handle on this recipe, and you’ll have plenty of time to experiment and try other recipes.  Still, I wanted to do something different, so I grabbed a small handful of fresh herbs – chives and rosemary – out of my garden, minced them finely, and kneaded them into my dough.

Herbed sourdough gorgeousness!  I really don’t know what I was so afraid of – learning to bake sourdough has been a total joy so far.  I can’t wait to try out other breads and to get the kiddos involved as assistant bakers (not just eaters).

(You know it must be good, if the three-year-old approves herbed sourdough.)

Along the way, I’ve picked up a few tips, that aren’t in the recipe I’ve been using as my base:

  • Fresh herbs take everything over the top.
  • A longer rise never hurts.  The recipe calls for an hour rise; I like to give it a good 90 minutes.
  • Similarly, a touch more kneading helps too.  The recipe calls for 7-10 minutes of kneading if using a stand mixer – which I do.  To make sure I get a good dough, I’ve been giving it 10 minutes in the mixer with the dough hook and another five minutes by hand, which the bread seems to appreciate.
  • Another thing the recipe doesn’t call for, but which is key, is a shallow baking dish filled with water in the bottom of the oven during the baking process.  Hello, golden crust.
  • Speaking of water, did you know bread likes humidity?  It turns out the best weather for baking is when there’s plenty of water in the air – like during a hot summer thunderstorm.  Who knew?  (Probably lots of people, but I didn’t know.)  Conversely, when I knead in front of the air conditioner, the dough is dryer and less pliable.  SCIENCE!
  • The recipe I’ve been using calls for a lot of starter – double the amount (two cups) that most other recipes I’ve seen call for.  As a result, I’ve developed a feeding routine for my starter that yields a little bit more.  I take the starter out of the fridge a few hours before I’m planning to feed it.  When I’m ready to feed, I remove one cup and set it aside for use in the recipe.  Then I feed the starter, and a couple of hours later, I remove another cup of starter, bake the bread and feed the starter again before it goes back into the fridge.  Without this little dance, I’d be wiped out of starter after one loaf.

Is it obvious that I’m having a lot of fun?  Because I am – once I gave myself permission to make a bad loaf or two, the whole process got less scary and more exciting.  Now I want to learn everything there is to know about bread-baking; I feel like a whole world has opened up to me.  So much for the fear of yeast baking…

Do you bake bread?  What’s your favorite recipe?

Sweet Six

Yesterday, this beauty turned six.  Six!  Six is so many lovely things.

Six is pure unadulterated joy.  It’s discovering the fun of squashing peach slices between your fingers as you bake a crumble to brighten up a rainy day.  It’s singing while you do that.

Six is a gap in your smile, but smiling big nonetheless.  Six is speculating what the Tooth Fairy will leave for you, and hoping it’s shiny.  Six is being absolutely thrilled to find four quarters under your pillow in place of your tooth.  Six is all about finding joy in the little things.

Six is chock-a-block full of personality and sweetness and sass.  Six is kicking shyness to the curb, running out onto a makeshift stage at the camp talent show, grabbing the mic and belting out How Far I’ll Go in front of the entire camp and their parents.  Six is absolutely glorying in the applause.

Six is learning, always learning, about the world.  Six is finding your people, and your people might be cheetahs, caracals and servals, birds of prey – where my peregrine falcons at? – and brightly colored fish at the National Aquarium.  Six is delighted with everything.

Six is getting your hands dirty, feeling the soil – even if it’s potted soil in a container garden on your little urban patio.  Six is plucking a fresh mint leaf, chewing it contemplatively, and then declaring that you prefer lollies.  Because of course you would rather dig in the dirt and then eat candy.  Six tells it like it is.

Six says the darndest things sometimes.  Six is all about prancing through a path surrounded by wildflowers and declaring “It’s like we’re inside a Monet painting, Mommy!”  Six is also engaged to marry a boy from camp (Daddy says “we’ll see”) – sometimes six is a little too precocious.

Six is adventurous, and brave, and ready for anything.  Six is fun, and funny, and always looking for the next adventure.  Six is my adventure, my wish come true, and my heart’s treasure.

Happy birthday, Peanut.

The Classics Club Challenge: Their Eyes Were Watching God

Their Eyes Were Watching God is a classic of American literature, Southern literature, African-American literature and culture and thinking and – it’s just a must-read.  I’ve had this one on my list for years, and I finally got around to picking it up.  Better late than never.

A brief synopsis: Their Eyes Were Watching God tells the story of a woman’s journey from adolescence to middle-age, through the lens of her three marriages.  We first meet Janie as a middle-aged woman preparing to tell the story of her life, but she quickly takes us back to peer in on herself as a blooming teenager, kissing a man over a fence.  All the world is possibility in that moment:

She was stretched on her back beneath the pear tree soaking in the alto chant of the visiting bees, the gold of the sun and the panting breath of the breeze when the inaudible voice of it all came to her.  She saw a dust-bearing bee sink into the sanctum of a bloom; the thousand sister-calyxes arch to meet the love embrace and the ecstatic shiver of the tree from root to tiniest branch creaming in every blossom and frothing with delight.  So this was a marriage!  She had been summoned to behold a revelation.  Then Janie felt a pain remorseless sweet that left her limp and languid.

Janie’s grandmother, Nanny, sees her kiss the young man and quickly moves to stamp out any ill-advised romance.  Nanny informs Janie that Janie must marry a man who can provide for her; it is this eventuality that will mark the culmination of Nanny’s hard work and sacrifices – and she has just the man.  He’s much older than Janie, and Janie doesn’t love him – nor he, her – but no matter.  He means security.  Janie, complacent, marries and is shocked to discover that she can’t fall in love with her husband; she’d just assumed that love would follow marriage naturally and without any prodding from her.  So she’s easily tempted to run off when a new man, Joe Starks, appears on the scene.  Joe – or Jody, as Janie calls him – promises to keep her in the style in which she, as a shockingly beautiful woman, ought to be kept.  On his arm, as Mrs. Starks, Janie enters the town of Eatonville, where she will spend most of her life.  Joe strides into town and immediately takes the community in hand, getting himself elected Mayor and setting up a thriving business.  But Janie struggles against the bonds in her new life – working in Joe’s store, covering her lustrous hair upon his orders, and staying silent instead of joining in the life of the town as she longs to do.  After twenty years of serving as Joe’s adornment, she is widowed and free for the first time.  And then Tea Cake appears on the scene.

All next day in the house and store she thought resisting thoughts about Tea Cake.  She even ridiculed him in her mind and was a little ashamed of the association.  But every hour or two the battle had to be fought all over again.  She couldn’t make him look just like any other man to her.  He looked like the love thoughts of women.  He could be a bee to a blossom – a pear tree blossom in the spring.  He seemed to be crushing scent out of the world with his footsteps.  Crushing aromatic herbs with every step he took.  Spices hung about him.  He was a glance from God.

Tea Cake is younger than Janie – by about fifteen years – and the town speculates that he’s after her money.  He’s not, though.  When Janie finally agrees to marry him, they quickly come to an understanding (after he finds and spends her secret emergency stash – I wasn’t too impressed with him in that scene) that she’ll live on what he provides.  If they’re hungry, they’ll be hungry together.  And she works alongside him – not grudgingly, as with her first two husbands – but because he wants her with him and she wants to be there.  They struggle and strive and fight sometimes, and it’s a gloriously even partnership – and gorgeous to read.

The book culminates with a hurricane and its tragic aftermath, and some of the most compelling writing I’ve ever experienced, including the passage from which the title comes:

The wind came back with triple fury, and put out the light for the last time.  They sat in company with the others in other shanties, their eyes straining against crude walls and their souls asking if He meant to measure their puny might against His.  They seemed to be staring at the dark, but their eyes were watching God.

It’s a slim volume, and completely absorbing, so it makes for a quick read if you’re inclined to steam through books, which I certainly am; I finished it in a day.  But I did try to slow down and appreciate Hurston’s gorgeous writing, and to make sure I didn’t miss the dialogue, which Hurston writes in dialect – which takes some getting used to, but once you’re accustomed it enhances the texture and the atmosphere of the story.

I won’t spoil the ending, because everyone should read it for themselves – on the edge of your seat, if you’re anything like me.  I can certainly see why Their Eyes Were Watching God is a classic, and I’m sure I will be revisiting it.

It’s Wednesday?!? What Are You Reading? (August 15, 2018)

Whooooooops.  So my Monday reading post is a Wednesday reading post.  Sorry about that, friends.  Most of you probably didn’t even realize I was gone, so that’s a good thing.  I don’t have a real excuse – more of a shrug.  Things have been a bit rocky around here.  I had a pretty big professional disappointment last week, and I… didn’t handle it well.  The less said about it, the better, so I’m going to stop there and apologies for the vagueness.  (If you haven’t figured it out yet, I’m not exactly an over-sharer.  I have a very defined line that I’m just not willing to cross, and the price of that is sometimes vagueness.  I’m fine with it.)  Anyway, after a rough week last week, I was flying solo with the kids all weekend as Steve was out of town – again.  This time, for a family wedding to which the kids and I were invited, but it just didn’t make sense for us to go.  He had to go, though.  I was all for it, but it did mean a very long, stressful and lonely weekend around here, as I wrangled the kids by myself all weekend.  We spent most of Saturday at a friend’s birthday party and had a wonderful time, but Sunday was… tough.  Steve got home mid-day on Sunday and I just crashed and didn’t do anything the rest of the day.  I mean, I literally didn’t do anything.  I sat down at the kitchen table and stared into space for an hour-and-a-half.  I was just spent.  But let’s end the pity parade, because it’s boring to write and probably boring to read, and talk instead about – books!

Reading.  After a somewhat lackluster start to the month, over the past week and a half I have been tearing through books.  Finished up The Village (for my new Classics Club list – review coming soon) and then turned to a library stack I’d accumulated on a freewheeling trip to the local branch last weekend.  I was in the mood to dive back into the Fables series, so I did that – volumes 8 and 9, specifically – and also polished off The Introvert Advantage, which was fine but nothing earth-shattering; I’d been reading it on my phone sporadically for a couple of months.  Then I moved on to An American Marriage, because it had a hard library deadline (thank you, wait list) and I can definitely see what the hype was about – it was really good.  Next up, another Classics Club list item, Their Eyes Were Watching God – I’ve had it on my list for ages, and will have a review of it for you on Friday.  Bringing us to today, and up-to-date – I’m reading The Intuitionist, mainly because it’s on the PBS Great American Read list, and enjoying it so far.

Watching.  This and that.  Nothing in particular.  A few episodes of The Crown here and there.  My very favorite episode of the entire Gilmore Girls series (if you’re curious, that would be “You Jump, I Jump, Jack” from season 5 – in omnia paratus!) one night when I reeeeeeeally needed a pick-me-up.  And that’s all I can think of, off the top of my head.  Looking forward to the next season of TGBBO dropping on Netflix and pulling me out of my funk.

Listening.  Just finished The English Novel on Audible, from The Great Courses, and I don’t even care if that makes me a nerd.  (Well, maybe I care a little bit – please don’t stop reading.)  I enjoyed it, but like with any list or survey that purports to cover the canon or a big part of it, I felt that there were holes.  I understood why the authors that were chosen for inclusion were in there, even if I don’t care for their work (Joseph Conrad, I’m looking at you).  But there were only passing mentions of Elizabeth Gaskell and Anthony Trollope, not a peep about my beloved P.G. Wodehouse, and nothing on the middlebrow fiction of the mid-twentieth century, which I think is a really important contribution that too often gets overlooked.  Of course it’s impossible to please everyone, and the two lectures devoted to Jane Austen were very well-received (by me).

Playing.  Steve gave me Illimat, a card game invented by the Decemberists, as an anniversary gift, and we broke it out last night and played a game.  He kicked my butt.  That is one complicated game!  I’m itching to play it again, though.  It’s fun and different, and I need to work on my strategy.

Loving.  On Monday, Steve and I celebrated thirteen years of marriage!  We went out for a delicious dinner in our neighborhood and toasted to the life we’ve built together.  I love the number 13, so I was really looking forward to marking this one, and of course it’s just special to take a moment away from the hustle and reflect.  We’re not perfect people, and life can be hard sometimes, but I couldn’t have chosen a better partner.

Asking.  What are you reading this week?

Midsummer Musings

There’s no getting around it – this has been a weird summer.  And not the good kind of weird.  Lots of rain, lots of sadness, lots of solo weekends with the kids as Steve has been traveling every few weeks.  Lots of work stress and some disappointments on the professional front.  The garden’s a dud (but the weeds are thriving).  We’ve barely hit the trails at all, we’ve only been to the pool once, we haven’t picked blueberries and we haven’t kayaked once (unless you count a failed attempt I made while visiting my parents’ lake house – Nugget cried if I got more than five feet from the dock).  I bought the kids their own kayak paddles to use at Fletcher’s Cove and on vacation in the Adirondacks this summer, and they’re still in the boxes.  All things considered, it’s just… not shaking out.

That’s not to say there hasn’t been some good stuff.  I don’t mean to throw myself a pity party here – or at least, not for too long.  We made it to Cornell Reunion and to visit my folks (including my brother and sister-in-love), and we’ve done a little hiking – Bash Bish Falls was a highlight.  Peanut sang a solo at the camp talent show.  I started baking bread.  But even with those highlights, it just feels like the earth is off its axis.

But I’m a naturally hopeful person, and I’m convinced we can still turn this ship around and salvage one of my favorite seasons.  Our family vacation is still ahead of us and I’m looking forward to long days of hiking Adirondack trails, splashing in Mirror Lake and sipping local Lake Placid brews.  I’ve read some wonderful books and I have a big stack of more summer reads waiting for me.  And right now, as I write this, the kids are running around the house playing “Magic Tree House,” and their little voices lift my heart like nothing else.

It’s been a weird summer.  But I’m finding joy where I can, and there’s more on the horizon.

Reading Round-Up: July 2018


Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby. I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book. Here are my reads for July, 2018…

Slightly Foxed No. 58: A Snatch of Morning, ed. Gail Pirkis – It’s always a red-letter day when the latest issue of Slightly Foxed arrives on my doorstep!  This quarterly journal has brought me so much joy since I stumbled across it a couple of years ago now.  The latest issue was the same hodgepodge of delightfulness – this time around, there were essays on E.M. Forster’s great-aunt (which I really enjoyed, as I was reading Howards End at the same time); beards; Englishness; and Jane Austen’s favorite poet.  There’s nothing quite like an issue of Slightly Foxed for curling up with – gigantic cup of tea optional but desirable.

Howards End, by E.M. Forster – Here’s one that’s been on the TBR for ages, which I finally picked up because (1) there’s a new adaptation and I wanted to watch it but I really wanted to read the book first; and (2) I got a pretty hardcover copy from Hodder & Stoughton.  The story of the clashes and intersections between the Schlegel sisters and the Wilcox family were absorbing from beginning to end – and, predictably, I identified with Margaret and found Helen mildly exasperating.

I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness, by Austin Channing Brown – I’m not sure if lately there are more memoirs about the experience of living as a woman of color, or if I’m just more aware of them, but I’ve read several now and this is a standout.  Brown writes compellingly about names, identity, work, religion and more.  The section in which she details the microaggressions of a typical workday was really eye-opening and made me all the more determined to be a good ally.  (My friend Zan also read this book last month, although I don’t think we were aware that we were reading the same book at the time.  Go check out her thoughts on the book here.)

North and South, by Elizabeth Gaskell – Another one that I’ve been meaning for a long time to read.  I picked this up while in the first shock of grieving for a loved one who had enjoyed this book, and it was the only thing that made me feel better.  Asked to describe it midway through the reading experience, I said it was “Pride and Prejudice and labor unrest,” and I hold to that elevator pitch – but man, it is SO good.  For some reason I’d had it in my head that Elizabeth Gaskell would be a difficult read, but that can’t be further from my experience.  I’ve now read two of her books – the other being Cranford – and loved both.  I can’t wait to wend my way through the rest.

Summer, by Edith Wharton – Sometimes described as “the hot Ethan,” Summer tells the story of young Charity Royall’s awakening during an affair with the cousin of a neighbor, visiting from the city.  Typical for Wharton, the writing is spare and elegant and the scene-setting is atmospheric.  I enjoyed it all the more for having just been in Lenox, where Wharton had her country estate, earlier in the month.  (The Mount has long been on my to-do list.  I must make it happen sooner than later.)

The Coldest Winter Ever, by Sister Souljah – I picked this up because it was described as a “classic of urban literature” and was recommended on PBS’ The Great American Read.  But man alive, how I hated it.  Winter Santiaga is the spoiled eldest daughter of a Brooklyn drug kingpin, but her world comes crashing down when her father is arrested.  Winter decides she is going to do whatever she has to do in order to survive, but surviving for Winter appears to mean finding a man to take care of her, or alternatively, coming up with her own crime schemes to get money quick so she can buy designer clothes.  For a short time she comes within the orbit of Sister Souljah, a Harlem activist who comes across as completely self-righteous and sanctimonious.  Midnight, the only man Winter can’t get, and Rashida, one of Winter’s acquaintances at a group home she resides in temporarily, are the only characters I found at all worthwhile in the book.  For awhile I tried to equate Winter with other unsympathetic anti-heroines – namely Scarlett O’Hara – but it didn’t work.  Scarlett at least had something she loved outside of herself – Tara, her father’s plantation – and her schemes were all centered around her purpose of saving and keeping Tara.  Winter was only interested in Winter.  But I plugged away at it and finally finished, and it’s been a long time since I’ve been so glad to be done with a book.

Slightly Foxed No. 5: A Hare’s Breath, ed. Gail Pirkis – After the 400-page miseryfest that was The Coldest Winter Ever, I needed some quick comfort, and fortunately I had a few essays left to read in the fifth volume of Slightly Foxed (as I am reading my way through the back issues at the meditative pace of an essay or two a night, unless I need a palate cleanser from a terrible reading experience).  I think I should read through more quickly, though, because the essays at the end, when I was steaming along, made more of an impression than the earlier essays I read in snatches.  Particular highlights were an introduction to a princess who followed her Decembrist husband to Siberia, and a meander through the gardening literature of Vita Sackville-West (which is already on my Amazon wish list).

News from Thrush Green (Thrush Green #3), by Miss Read – I was still in need of comfort reading after finishing the Slightly Foxed issue described above, and there’s nothing like Miss Read for that.  I’d been saving this third installment in the Thrush Green series and I happily dove right back into that world.  In this one, marital problems abound.  Nelly Piggott leaves her husband Albert after he grouses about her cooking one too many times, and a newcomer arrives in the village with a sweet son but no husband (!!!!!) which, naturally, sets tongues wagging.  There are other domestic disturbances, too – the Baileys host an irritating family member for an extended visit and Dotty Harmer has kittens to give away.  Thrush Green is a sweet, slow-paced world where the problems are slight and you’re guaranteed that everything will turn out fine in the end.  Just what the doctor ordered.

I definitely did more reading in July than in June – I suppose I was making up for lost time.  And so many classics this month!  Time spent over Elizabeth Gaskell, Edith Wharton, E.M. Forster and Miss Read is always a delight, as is any moment I am able to snatch with an issue of Slightly Foxed.  I always end a month feeling more satisfied with and comforted by my reading if it’s included plenty of classics, and July was no exception – I guess I know what I like.

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (August 6, 2018)

Some weekend!  The big news around here is that Peanut lost her first tooth on Saturday.  Yup!  She’s officially a big kid.  She was delighted with her haul from the Tooth Fairy (four quarters! so shiny!) and I now have a tooth in my jewelry box.  (Mom readers: what does one do with baby teeth?  Saving them seems weird.)  The other big news was that Peanut sang a solo – How Far I’ll Go, from Moana – at the camp talent show on Friday.  I worked from home and Steve and I both took the afternoon off to be there.  I was so proud!  Last year she hid in the back row as her group sang “This Land is Your Land” and this year she tore out in front of the audience, grabbed the mic and went to town.  What a difference a year makes, huh?

The rest of the weekend was fairly low-key, which was both bad and good.  Bad because I had a long list of things I really needed to get done – for work and for the personal project I am still plugging away at, which feels like it has no end in sight, ugh – and good because all I want lately is slow weekends.  We hiked both Saturday and Sunday – on Saturday at Turkey Run Park in McLean, and on Sunday at Mason Neck, our favorite Virginia state park, in Lorton.  We’d hoped to get out on the water on Sunday, but with all the rain we’ve had, the Potomac water levels were crazy high and moving fast – not exactly little duffer conditions.  The rest of the weekend, we mostly just drifted around.  I baked bread, Nugget and I walked to the library, and Peanut and I did some grocery shopping.  It would’ve been perfect had I just not felt anxious/guilty about the work and project stuff I wasn’t doing.

 

Reading.  Fairly slow, but thoroughly enjoyable, reading week around here.  I finished up News from Thrush Green midweek, and there is really nothing like Miss Read to beat the stress of a fast-paced and demanding life.  I love Thrush Green just as much as Fairacre by now, and it’s such a joy to spend more time in Miss Read’s worlds.  Still looking for village calm and peace after finishing News, I turned to Marghanita Laski’s novel of post-war social changes, The Village.  I’m reading it slowly and meditatively, but loving it.

Watching.  Still working our way through the latest season of The Great British Baking Show.  We’re down to the final four contestants now, and I’m in denial that we’re almost done and soon won’t have any more episodes to watch – sob.  At least the first episode of Making It is available, so I’ve got something to look forward to.  Oh, also, I’m pleased to report that the kids discovered SING last week, and I have now seen it eleventy-seven times.

Listening.  Y’all are going to think I’m a huge dork, but I don’t even care.  I have alternated between listening to The Great Courses on The English Novel via Audible and falling down a Fireside Collective rabbit hole, and I’m not even sad about it.  (Please don’t stop reading.)

Making.  More bread!  And lists – lots of lists – of hiking and paddling gear, camera equipment, hikes to do and breweries to check out on our upcoming vacation to Lake Placid.  Not much longer to wait now!

Blogging.  I have a belated list of July’s reads coming on Wednesday, and on Friday I’m getting a bit glum about what a weird summer we’ve been having.  It happens.

Wondering.  Moms, what sorts of things did you do to encourage your kiddos to read?  Peanut has the mechanical skills and is able to read quite a bit through a combination of sight words and phonics, and she’s totally book-crazy and given to carrying her books around the house and cuddling with them.  But these impulses are at war with her inner drive not to do anything an adult appears to want her to do.  I got her some super-cute early readers from the library, but she was all eye-rolly and ugh, Mom about them.  I don’t want to turn her off books, so I’m not pushing them hard, but I’d love for her to actually spend a little time with them.  Any advice?

Loving.  It’s vinho verde season!  I’ll happily drink rosé all year long, but I do think vinho verde is a summer wine.  I love the lightness and the little bit of fizz – yum.  Steve asked me to pick up some wine on Friday, and I tossed two bottles of vinho verde into my cart, and we enjoyed one on Friday evening.  Summer perfection!

Asking.  What are you reading this week?