A Very Virginia Christmas, Part II: More Advent-ures, and Christmas Weekend

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Ready for more festive family fun?  We’ve been strolling the streets of Old Town, checking out the lights, a few times each week – and I’m completely delighted by them every time.  When Steve and I lived here before kids, one of our beloved traditions was a walk through Old Town to check out the décor – the houses there really go all out, but in a super-classy way.  We’ve loved being right in the neighborhood this year, and getting to spend the entire month surrounded by all the Christmas joy.

Teddy Bear Tea at Mount Vernon

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Another activity I planned – and couldn’t wait for – was a “Teddy Bear Tea Party with Lady Washington” at Mount Vernon.  I knew that it would be exactly the sort of thing that Peanut would LOVE, so I snatched up a ticket for her as soon as I learned of the event.  And on December 10th, we headed down the Parkway to Mount Vernon to enjoy a girls’ afternoon out!

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The tea party was fabulous.  I can’t say enough good things about the presentation!  They had a seat at the table all ready for Peanut, and she was immediately presented with a plate of gingerbread and a cookie, and a green cup with hot cocoa.  While the kids snacked, a musician played holiday tunes on a wooden recorder, and Martha Washington herself (!!!) spun tales and taught proverbs.

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After snack and stories, Peanut (and Corduroy, her date to the Teddy Bear Tea) made a pomander ball with an orange and cloves provided by the staff (who had little kits made up in advance – so easy!).

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To conclude the party, the kids were all herded into line to meet “Lady Washington” and get their pictures taken.  Peanut was first in line and immediately scrambled up Martha’s wide skirts and perched on her lap.  (Martha was a bit surprised but recovered quickly.)  Peanut then proceeded to tell Martha that she would like a dollhouse for Christmas, while I almost passed out from laughing.  She’s terrified of Santa and wouldn’t be caught dead sitting on his lap, but had no hesitation about jumping up onto Martha’s!  (Considering last year, $25 bought me a picture of two crying kids and a creepy looking Santa, I thought that $5 for a snack, two crafts, stories, music and a picture of a happy little girl showing off her teddy to the mother of our country was a very good deal, indeed.)

The Secret Garden at the Shakespeare Theatre Company

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We had more fun planned the following weekend!  Peanut was sick with a stomach flu on Friday, and I got it on Sunday, but on Saturday we were in a sweet illness-free zone – perfect timing for the other fun holiday outing I planned for my girl!  She and I slipped out of the house while Nugget napped and headed into D.C. for a performance of The Secret Garden musical at the Shakespeare Theatre Company.

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I was beyond excited to introduce Peanut to the joys of live theatre!  She was pretty pumped, too.

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We had great seats in the first row of the mezzanine – a perfect view.

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Peanut looked adorably serious studying the playbill!  I’d been preparing her by telling her the story and reading her “Babylit” Secret Garden book, and she was excited to see the show.  We had a fabulous time.

Christmas Trains at the U.S. Botanic Garden

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Since Peanut had a special outing planned just for her on Saturday, Sunday was about Nugget.  I couldn’t think of any holiday activity he’d enjoy more than seeing the Christmas trains at the Botanic Garden, so that’s where we went!  And look who joined us – Nana was in town!  She came down on Thursday evening to provide childcare in a pinch on Friday, and stayed a couple of days to spend time with us, enjoy some D.C. holiday cheer, and absorb all of our germs (sorry, Nana).

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At the Botanic Garden, we were pleasantly surprised to see that the Christmas train exhibit was extra special this year – in celebration of the centennial of the National Park Service, the trains were wending their way through a specially prepared exhibit of national landmarks, parks and historic places made entirely out of plants – amazing!

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Hello there, U.S. Supreme Court!

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The regular train chugged along an elevated track running throughout a couple of the rooms of the greenhouse.  So cool!

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There was a major bottleneck by Arctic Brotherhood Hall.  Can you spot the reason for the traffic jam?  Hello there, Thomas!

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Around the rooms, we spotted a few of our very favorite American places.  Like Mount Vernon!

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And the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse!

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More places we hope to visit someday, like Mesa Verde.  (The picture makes it hard to tell, but the train has the National Park Service logo on its side – cool.)

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John Muir’s house!  And one of Thomas’s friends.

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It was an absolutely magical exhibit.

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The kids both loved it, and they had a blast exploring every inch.  The grownups loved it, too – the detail on each of the plant-based replica landmarks was absolutely astounding.  I can’t even conceive of how much work must have gone into putting this exhibit together.  It was one of the most impressive things I’ve seen.

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The crowning glory was a massive Christmas tree, decorated with ornaments from all of the national parks, seashores, historic places and landmarks that were celebrated elsewhere in the exhibit (and more!).  Can you spot the Hatteras Light?  And another Thomas!

Christmas Weekend

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Moving right along to the main event!  I had a hectic week at work and was ready to party the following Saturday.  Peanut had a special request for Christmas Eve morning – baking gingerbread cookies with Mom.  So that’s exactly what we did!

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I’m loving how grown up and fun she is lately.  She’s finally really and truly out of the toddler stage, and we can do so many cool things together now.

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She was really into stirring.  The dough might have gotten just a tiny bit overworked.  Oh, well!

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I’m sorry to say our cookies were not very good, in the end.  But we had fun making them, and that’s really all that counts!

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After lunch on Christmas Eve, we headed down to the waterfront for one more classic Old Town Christmas activity – watching Santa waterskiing on the Potomac!  In all the years I lived in D.C., I never made it to see the waterskiing Santa – crazy, because it’s one of the most beloved holiday events in the D.C. area!

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The docks were packed with holiday revelers, waiting for the fun to begin!  We didn’t have to wait long before the jetskiing elves zipped out of the marina, followed closely by the Grinch and his dog Max.  And then it was time for the big guy!

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Santa came out behind a speedboat and three of his reindeer, then peeled back into the marina, dropped off the reindeer and headed back for a solo lap.

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The crowd went nuts!  It was such a fun, silly, unique and quintessentially D.C. celebration.  Another thing we’re going to have to repeat every year!

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After nap, we got dolled up for the “festive family celebration” service at our church, during which Nugget shouted “FIRE TRUCK” repeatedly during the otherwise hushed and reverent lighting of the Advent candles.  In an auditorium full of babies, it was inevitable that someone was going to shout “FIRE TRUCK,” so I guess he thought it might as well be him!  We were basically weeping, we were laughing so hard.  After church we headed back for a quiet evening at home, put the kids to bed, and then – Santa came!

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The kids gave us a gift on Christmas morning and both slept until SEVEN O’CLOCK.  Merry Christmas to Mom and Dad!  We were two rested parents, ready to snap pictures and enjoy the day with them!  Nugget’s gifts were mostly fire trucks and fire truck-adjacent – like this ride-on fire truck from his Aunt Jenn!

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Peanut was spoiled as always – she received the dollhouse and stuffed pony she’d requested, plus lots of books, legos and dress-up clothes – including this Princess Anna ball gown, which is now the nicest article of clothing she owns.

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We took it slowly, followed the kids’ lead, read books and played with toys as we opened them, and generally had a lovely day.  We didn’t have anywhere to be, since we’d attended church on Christmas Eve.  So we stayed in our pajamas and played under the Christmas tree all day, and it was awesome.

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And there ends an epic two-part Christmas recap!  If you’re still with me, high five!  And now, onward to 2017.  I’m READY.

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Happy, joyful, merry everything to you, my friends!  How did you celebrate this year?

A Very Virginia Christmas, Part I: Advent-ures

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Many happy returns of the Christmas season, my friends!  For those who celebrated, I hope you had a wonderful holiday.  For my Jewish friends, I hope you’re enjoying a magical and joyful Festival of Lights!  And for the rest of my friends, I hope you’re having a fabulous end to 2016.  (I know we’re all ready…)  We’ve been celebrating the holiday season in a big way around here.  I’m a maximizer and am always determined to pack as much fun as possible into every season – and this year, to add to my tendency to overbook, we’re celebrating our first Christmas in the D.C. area in three years!  D.C. does Christmas really well, and there was no way we were going to make it to every holiday activity that I’d have liked to.  But we squeezed a lot of fun into one short month.

Decking the Halls

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First up: walking around Old Town to check out the scene.  We got back from celebrating Thanksgiving with my parents in New York, to find that the holiday season was well underway in Alexandria.  Our town was named one of the “top ten holiday towns” in the country by U.S.A. Today this year – so awesome!  The ALX has some serious Christmas spirit, and we made it our mission to enjoy it as much as possible.

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Of course, we also had to take care of our own house.  I didn’t do much this year – our stuff is still so disorganized from the move that just finding the Christmas tree and ornaments seemed like a major coup.  Next year, maybe we’ll be one of the really festive houses.  (I’m envisioning miniature wreaths in each of our windows.)  This year, with travel and family emergencies and work and school and two very young kids, the tree felt like plenty.

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Well, that and the kids’ matching holiday jammies.  Oh, yes, I went there.

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Someone gave us this Christmas train with Santa riding on it a few years ago – pre-Nugget.  It’s not at all to my taste but something kept stopping me from tossing it into my “donate” box over the years.  Now I know there was a good reason for me to hang onto it – the little dude loves it.  He’s gotten really into trains lately, and the Christmas train became an instant favorite.  It’s going to be hard to pry it out of his chubby claws when the time comes to pack away the holiday decorations.

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Due to our tree decorating, we didn’t make it to the Old Town Scottish Parade.  The Scottish Parade is one of the quintessential Old Town holiday events, in which folks get dressed to the nines in tartans and march down the street playing bagpipes.  We’ll try to make it one of these years, but it got jettisoned this year.  We did catch some of the Scottish flair on our walk to the waterfront later that day, though, en route to watch the second parade of the day (you can see why Old Town is nationally recognized for its Christmas spirit – we’re basically the municipal version of Buddy the Elf).  The evening parade festivities were…

Holiday Boat Parade of Lights

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The holiday boat parade of lights!  I’ve been wanting to attend this Old Town Christmas event for many years.  Basically, it’s a flotilla of boats, festooned with Christmas lights, making their way down the Potomac in an armada of twinkles.

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Our first stop upon reaching the waterfront was the riverboat!  It was all decked out (<–see what I did there?) with white lights.  Beautiful!

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Even some of the boats that were not part of the parade got in on the action!  The marina was so festive and twinkly – I loved it.

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The boathouse had rainbow lights and a poinsettia plant out to show their holiday spirit.

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We found a spot to stand on the riverbank and huddled for warmth.  There was a bit of a chilly breeze coming off the river.  Don’t mind my sunglasses – it was still light out when we left the house.

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Finally, after what seemed like an hour of waiting, the parade got started.  I wish they’d held it while it was still a bit light out – at twilight, rather than after dark (I know, I know, it does get dark early these days).  The lack of any light in the sky made it hard to get pictures.  But the parade itself was a lot of fun!  Nugget was all about the fire boat, which was showing off by flashing its lights and spraying water.  Peanut surprised me by saying she best liked a boat that was decorated to look like a train engine.  Both kids had a fabulous time.

Christmas in Little Washington

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We had more fun plans lined up for the following day – Christmas in Little Washington, complete with the second parade of the weekend!  When we visited Little Washington for the first time in October, I was enchanted with the town and vowed to return as soon as possible.  On that trip, a local gallery owner encouraged us to come back for the annual Christmas in Little Washington event.  You don’t have to tell me twice!

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Our first order of business was FOOD.  The whole downtown area (about a block square) was filled with local merchants selling everything from edible treats to handmade wreaths, Christmas decorations, hats and scarves, floral arrangements and more.  The world-famous Inn at Little Washington, of course, had several booths set up with goodies.  We picked up some of their squash and apple soup (INSANELY delicious) and cider donuts for a treat to eat on the spot, and grabbed house-made pickles, bar nuts and gingerbread chefs to enjoy later.

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The kids shared a cider donut and they gobbled up every. last. bite.  Mom and Dad had our own, too – crazy delicious.  What a treat.

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Over Thanksgiving, Nugget learned “CHEERS!” and now he wants to toast with everything.  There were quite a few “CHEERS!” with the cider donuts.  Eventually Peanut put a stop to the toasting by actually eating her donut, and Nugget then had no choice but to follow suit.

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After our snack, it was time for real food.  We found a few tailgating tents and sat down to enjoy our picnic lunch – homemade soup, sandwiches and bananas.  Had I known that there would be so many great food options (there were even a few food trucks!), I wouldn’t have packed food from home.  But the kids enjoyed their packed lunches.  There was more CHEERS!-ing with their sippy cups.

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After lunch we warmed up by the gorgeous stone fireplace and then cruised around checking out the decorations in town while we waited for the Christmas parade to start.

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The White Moose Inn, looking pretty with natural greenery on the happy yellow front door.

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And of course, the Inn at Little Washington was the showstopper!  How stunning is this front window?

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The Inn at Little Washington outbuildings got in on the greenery action too.  And imagine my delight when I happened to glance down an alley just behind the Inn and spotted…

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The KITCHEN!  The Inn at Little Washington is famous for being one of the most decadent (and expensive) dining options in northern Virginia.  Having gotten a little taste of their work at the Christmas market less than an hour before, I was even more excited to peek in the window and see where the magic happens.  The picture does it no justice, of course, but I loved the rows of copper pots gleaming just on the other side of the glass – and how perfect is that wreath?  Festooned with colanders, whisks, wooden spoons, cookie cutters and other cooking and baking paraphernalia, and finished off with a golden loaf of challah!  It was my favorite Christmas decoration of the season.

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I couldn’t stand gazing at the kitchen wreath forever, though – we had a parade to watch!  We found a perfect spot near the very start of the parade route and settled in to wait.

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We didn’t have to wait long!  A Colonial militia opened the parade (complete with a redcoat marching band – only in Virginia).  Followed shortly by…

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George Washington on horseback!  He got a rousing cheer.  #Virginia.

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Then the rest of the parade got going.  There were miniature ponies…

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The local lunch club, seated around a picnic table…

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MULTIPLE tractors (a certain someone was absolutely delighted)…

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The Shenandoah National Park “mobile visitor center,” from which a park ranger was tossing out “Junior Appalachian Trail Ranger” patches instead of candy…

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The Rappahannock County High School marching band…

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And the most important part of any small-town Christmas parade…

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FIRE TRUCKS!  (You thought I was going to say Santa, didn’t you?)

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The first one was the best (there were two, doubling the holiday happiness of a certain little boy who LIVES for fire trucks).  They had a little fire truck-themed Christmas tree and two boots decorating the back of the truck.  Small-town Christmas game strong.

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Then came the second truck, followed by…

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Santa in a vintage green pickup truck!  At this point, Nugget blew a fuse in his baby brain and started shouting “SANTA! FIRE TRUCK! SANTA! FIRE TRUCK! SANTA! FIRE TRUCK!”  It was altogether too adorable.

I can definitely see both the holiday boat parade of lights and Christmas in Little Washington becoming beloved holiday traditions for our family!  We had a ball and it was the perfect weekend to kick off the Christmas season.

Still with me?  On Friday, I’ll have Part II of the recap for you – our adventures through the rest of December, including Christmas weekend.  Check back!

What local holiday activities are can’t-miss in your area?

It’s Boxing Day! What Are You Reading? (December 26, 2016)

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Merry Christmas to my friends who celebrated, and happy new week (and hopefully day off work) to everyone!  Did you all have nice holidays?  Our Christmas was predictably hectic, but it was great.  I think the kids had a ball – they loved their presents and had a blast playing all day with their new toys.  By the end of Sunday, Steve and I were exhausted from all the hilarity (and the meltdowns that inevitably happen when you combine overstimulated kids with lots of sugar and new stuff).  We’re coming down from the holiday high temporarily – my parents will be here later today, bringing with them a whole sleigh full of more toys and jollity.  It’s gonna be another wild night…

I’m just beginning to dig out of a deep hole that I made for myself over the last week – in case you’ve been wondering where I’ve been (which you probably weren’t).  Last weekend I’d planned to spend Sunday getting ahead on my posting and have plenty of fun content scheduled for you, but all of that went out the window when we were visited by a brief but vicious stomach flu.  We’re not sure which of the kids brought it home, but it laid the whole family low – including Nana, who we’d flown down to provide some child care in a pinch while Steve was traveling for his firm’s holiday party.  Sorry, Nana!  Losing the weekend put me way behind in holiday preparations, and while in the end I got everything done, this space got neglected.  Sorry about that.  So here we go, two weeks of catching up on reading and more…

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Reading.  The stomach flu didn’t just put me behind in holiday preparations – it put me behind in reading, too.  I didn’t turn a page all last weekend, which was a big problem because I was in the middle of Barkskins, the 713 page epic Annie Proulx novel about lumberjacks (yes, really).  Anyway, I powered through it over last week and finally finished it up a few days ago, and while I respected the excellent writing and epic scope, I can’t say I really connected with it, which was too bad because it was a major commitment.  I was looking for something more Christmassy and sweet after closing the cover, so I picked up The Fox at the Manger, a sweet holiday story to which I’d treated myself, and read it in one sitting.  Now I’m midway through some educational reading – Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids, which has been on my to-read list for ages.  I’m making myself read it, but so far I’m not finding it all that revolutionary – kind of disappointing.

Watching.  So many great things!  The highlight of my watching over the last two weeks had to be watching the kids’ joy as they opened their presents on Christmas morning.  There’s nothing like seeing the magic of Christmas reflected in the face of a child!  Other great watching – The Secret Garden musical, at the Shakespeare Theatre with Peanut, last weekend (after she was feeling better and before I started to feel sick – the sweet spot of the weekend).  We loved it, and Peanut is still singing the songs over a week later.  It’s not quite competing with “Hamiltunes” in Peanut’s repertoire, but she sure did have fun.  And I was psyched that she did so well at the theatre – hoping this means I’ll get out to more plays in 2017!

Listening.  Still trying to catch up on my podcatcher.  In my earbuds at the moment – the Sorta Awesome “best books of 2017” show.  By far the best podcast episode I listened to over the past week was the Tea & Tattle Christmas episode.  Miranda and Sophie took turns sharing their favorite holiday traditions and reading aloud from some of their favorite Christmassy stories – including holiday scenes from Betsy and Tacy Go Downtown and Anne of Green Gables.  LOVED.

Making.  Piles and piles and piles of wrapped presents!  And most of them stayed wrapped for less than 24 hours (I left it to the last minute; can you tell?) but I loved seeing them get ripped open.  I’ve got more wrapping to do once I publish this post, too – getting in just under the wire before Nana and Grandad get here.  Also making… progress on a big work assignment while the kids nap this afternoon, a few new blog posts, and (hopefully) a Meyer lemon cake – my traditional Christmas dessert when we’re not traveling.

Blogging.  Nothing last week – sorry about that.  This week, I’m making it up to you with two big Christmassy posts.  (I went through the pictures I snapped during all of our holiday celebrations, and we did so much that I think I’ve got to break the recap into two posts, lest I crash WordPress.)  Next week, I’ll be back to sprinkling in bookish content, along with some 2016 wrap-ups (is it over yet?) and looking ahead to 2017.  Lots of good stuff coming in January!

Asking.  What are you reading this week?  And if you celebrated, how was your Christmas?

Dreamcasting an Imaginary Founders Series

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I’m on record as being a huge Harry Potter nerd, and also as wishing and scheming up a four-book series focusing on the founders of Hogwarts (one book for each founder).  Please, Jo?  It’s a good idea!  It’s a way better idea than that ridiculous play (which I will totally see when it eventually comes to New York or DC).  I feel like there is so much story to be told in the founding of Hogwarts.  Was Salazar Slytherin a straight-up baddie, or was he a more complex character?  What exactly went down when Slytherin and Gryffindor had their famous falling out?  How did Helga Hufflepuff and Rowena Ravenclaw figure into the whole thing?  What were the reverberations down the centuries?  And was there a romance between Gryffindor and Ravenclaw (as I’ve always hoped there was)?  I mean, the whole thing is awash in potential.

So I was delighted to find that there are others who share my belief that the founders’ story is begging to be told.  Recently I was catching up on some back episodes of the MuggleCast podcast (I’m working my way though my poor neglected podcatcher) and in episode 300, the MuggleCast crew was discussing additional opportunities they saw for Jo to expand the wizarding world canon, and the founders came up – as I knew they would.  The MuggleCasters thought a limited TV series would be a good vehicle for telling their story and landed on Netflix as a possible candidate to work up such a project.  (They also considered HBO.  Personally, I think Netflix would be a better choice, although HBO certainly has the resources.  But the stuff Netflix has been doing recently is just gold, so they’d be my pick for sure.)  Anyway, I’m completely on board with a limited TV series, or a run of films, focusing on the founders – but first I want my founders books.  (I’m thinking that 700-850 pages per founders novel would be a nice sweet spot, although I could go up to 1,000 or 1,200 or so.  I think that’s reasonable.  Right?)

However, in the event that Jo finishes my book series and they start turning it into a television or film production, clearly we would need to cast the founders.  I’ve been giving this some thought and here’s the cast I like:

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richard-maddenRichard Madden as Godric Gryffindor – This was the MuggleCast suggestion, and I’m sticking with it because I think it’s perfect.  And not just because Richard Madden is nice to look at (even though he is).  I loved him as headstrong, swashbuckling Robb Stark in Game of Thrones (and secretly preferred Robb to Jon Snow even though I know that Jon Snow is everyone else’s favorite).  I could see Richard Madden playing a Gryffindor who is very, very set on doing right by the wizarding community, but who gets a bit sidetracked and distracted by adventures from time to time, and who also digs in and refuses to consider other points of view.  Perhaps that’s what leads to the famous break with Slytherin?  I’d like to see how Madden would play that.

Fair Ravenclaw, from glen

michelle-dockeryMichelle Dockery as Rowena Ravenclaw – This is the most important piece of casting, in my opinion.  As a proud Ravenclaw, I would be very, very committed to getting the right actress to play the founder of my house, and I can’t think of anyone better than Michelle Dockery.  Ravenclaws are known for being bookish and cerebral, and valuing logic and intellect almost above all else.  Dockery’s cool demeanor makes her the perfect Ravenclaw from my standpoint.  Plus, and this is key, she is LADY MARY YOU GUYS and OMG I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LADY MARY.

Sweet Hufflepuff, from valley bluff

claire-foyClaire Foy as Helga Hufflepuff – I actually had a hard time dream-casting Hufflepuff.  The ideal Hufflepuff is someone who can play kind, inclusive, warm and generous with a core of steel.  My first thought went to Laura Carmichael, but I just couldn’t bring myself to dream-cast all Downton Abbey residents (keep reading) in every part except for Gryffindor, so I started thinking of other British actresses I like who might make a good Hufflepuff – and that was when I hit on the perfect name.  I only recently became aware of Claire Foy after watching her completely steal the show as Anne Boleyn in the BBC production of Wolf Hall (which, if you haven’t seen it yet, RUN and buy the BluRay – it’s amazing).  Now Steve and I are watching her dominate another cast as Queen Elizabeth II in Netflix’s The Crown.  It’s hard to imagine two English queens more different than Anne Boleyn and Elizabeth II, but Claire Foy plays each of them perfectly and I seriously cannot get enough of her.  My only concern with casting her as Hufflepuff would be whether it would be fair to the rest of the cast, because Claire Foy’s awesomeness will not be denied and I would absolutely expect her to run away with this production, too.

Shrewd Slytherin, from fen

allen-leechAllen Leech as Salazar Slytherin – This was a really tough casting call, you guys.  Before casting Slytherin I would have to know the answer to an important preliminary question, which I posed above: is Slytherin pure evil, a straight-up baddie, or is there more to him than that?  If Slytherin is a complex character, with his faults but not completely to blame for the break with Gryffindor and the other founders (i.e. if Gryffindor played a role in that falling-out), if he’s a more human character than just an evil, wizard-supremacist precursor to Voldemort, then I would want Allen Leech any day of the week and twice on Sunday.  But if he’s just pure evil, then I wouldn’t want to see my beloved Tom Branson in that role.  (Lady Sybil would never fall for a pre-Voldemort!)  I think Allen Leech could play a really interesting complex, brooding Slytherin, though.  So I’m casting him tentatively, but reserving the right to revise my casting decision if Jo makes him a more simple character (which I will leave to her discretion).  (I’m including his picture here because I like looking at it, so there.)  All other casting decisions are, however, set in stone.

Call me, Warner Brothers!

What do you think of my dream-casting choices for this film event that is not planned,  based on a series of books that is not contemplated?

Diverse KidLit: Nathan Blows Out the Hanukkah Candles (December 2016)

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In 2016, I set a goal to read more diversely both to myself and aloud to my kids.  As this year has unfolded, celebrating our differences has become more important than ever.  2016 has brought unspeakable tragedies born out of hate and ignorance – and the best way I know to fight those evils is to read books celebrating love and diversity.  This month’s diverse kidlit choice is Nathan Blows Out the Hanukkah Candles, by Tami Lehman-Wilzig.

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Jacob loves Hanukkah.  He loves the stories and the rituals, and he loves sharing delicious food – especially jelly doughnuts! – with his family as they celebrate the Festival of Lights.  There’s just one problem.

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Jacob’s brother, Nathan, is the problem.  Nathan keeps repeating himself, which drives Jacob crazy.

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Nathan is autistic – and while Jacob tries hard to be understanding, it can be tough living with Nathan at times.  Still, Jacob is determined not to let Nathan ruin his Hanukkah.  He helps his mom set up their family Menorah, imagining himself into the old Hebrew tales and sending up a Hanukkah wish that Nathan will stop repeating himself.  Then one day…

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A new family arrives next door, and they have a son – Steven – who is just Jacob’s age.  Steven and Jacob hit it off right away and spend hours “shooting hoops” together.  But when Jacob’s mom decides to invite Steven and his family over to help them celebrate Hanukkah, Jacob worries.  Is Nathan going to embarrass him?

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Yup.

As Steven’s family watches, Nathan does the unthinkable – he blows out the Menorah as if it’s a birthday cake!  Jacob basically wants to sink through the floor.

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Things get worse when Jacob goes out to play with Steven the following day.  Steven laughs and cruelly mocks Nathan’s disability.  Jacob is furious – he might find it frustrating to communicate with Nathan, but he loves his brother and feels protective.

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As Hanukkah continues, Steven’s teasing gets meaner and meaner.  Finally, on the final day of the holiday, Jacob has had enough.  He knocks on Steven’s door and demands that Steven stop making fun of Nathan.

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It looks like the boys’ friendship is over – until Jacob and Nathan’s mom has an idea.  She invites Steven and his family over to light the candles on the final night of Hanukkah.  They light the Menorah…

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And then there’s a surprise!  Eight jelly doughnuts, with birthday candles in each one.  Mom announces that it’s “time for us to celebrate Hanukkah Nathan’s way.”

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The family gathers around the doughnuts and blows the candles out together – a perfect way to bring the boys back together and close out a memorable Hanukkah.  Bravo, Mom!

I bought Nathan Blows Out the Hanukkah Candles on a whim after seeing it on a table at Peanut’s and Nugget’s old preschool’s annual book fair.  I’d been wanting to add some Hanukkah books to the kids’ library, and – well – I couldn’t resist the title, for obvious reasons.  But I was delighted to open the book and discover that in addition to introducing my kids to a holiday from a faith tradition outside their own – something I am always trying to do – it was also a wonderful, kind celebration of a sweet boy with a disability.

We read and clap along as Jacob learns a lesson about showing kindness and understanding to his autistic brother, and as he stands up to a bully in Nathan’s defense.  The message – that it’s okay to be wired a bit differently, that families and traditions can adapt, and that showing love can bring a bully around – is just lovely.  As I’ve navigated the bookstores with an eye out for diverse books for my kids, one of the biggest challenges has been finding books about kids with disabilities; Nathan Blows Out the Hanukkah Candles was a delightful exception to that rule.  (And friends, if you have any other suggestions for books celebrating kids with disabilities – I’d love to have them!)  If you’re looking for a good Hanukkah book to add to your holiday library, or if you’re wanting to showcase diverse books about disabled kids, or both – do check out Nathan Blows Out the Hanukkah Candles.  Fair warning, though – it’s going to make you hungry for jelly doughnuts.

What diverse books are you reading this month?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (December 12, 2016)

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Golly, you guys.  Someone pointed out to me this weekend that Christmas is only TWO WEEKS away now, and I’m having a bit of a panic attack over here – and also feeling somewhat Grinchy.  In my quest to make the season pure magic for Peanut (and Nugget, of course, although he’s still young enough that he’s along for the ride but not participating all that much), I’ve let myself get pretty overwhelmed and had a couple of unattractive meltdowns as a result.  Classic mom mistake, right?  I’m just getting to the point where it’s all starting to feel like way too muchOverwhelmed is my default state, and adding an extra mile-long to-do list and a schedule packed with activities isn’t making it any better.  I’m trying to relax, go with the flow, and remember why I take on all these additional tasks every December – that smile of joy on her little face, which makes it all worth it.

This weekend was no exception when it came to being packed to the gills.  On Saturday, Peanut and I had a mommy-daughter date to Mount Vernon, where Peanut attended a “Teddy Bear Tea with Lady Washington.”  It was The. Cutest.  Peanut had a snack of gingerbread, a Christmas cookie and hot cocoa; made a pomander ornament; listened to stories and proverbs read by Lady Washington; and got her picture taken.  That last was her favorite – she’s terrified of Santa but had no problem scrambling up Martha’s skirts and introducing her to Corduroy.  She had an absolute ball and this event is going on our holiday must-do agenda from here on out.  (And considering that last year, $25 bought me a picture of two traumatized kids and a ragey-looking Santa, I thought that all this for $5 was money very well spent, indeed.)  Sunday was low-key but packed: a play date with a school friend in the morning, a walk to the library in the afternoon, and Mom got to sneak away to meet one of the darling new baby boys that we’ve recently added to our friendship circle.  I had a blissful hour snuggling, sniffing his head, and telling him that Auntie Jaclyn loves him, and I left giddy with baby snuggles and more convinced than ever that I’m done having kids of my own.  Little guy’s parents looked EXHAUSTED.

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(Trying something new for a little while…)

Reading.  Decently productive reading week, considering that I was swamped at work and, well, you just read the play-by-play of my weekend and there was no bookishness in there.  I finished up Bloodline early in the week, spent most of my commutes reading Angels and Demons, and finally dispatched that around midnight on Saturday night.  (It was a page-turner, yes, but I also really, really, really wanted to return it to the library on my weekly Sunday walk.)  Bloodline was a lot of fun and answered a bunch of my questions about how the First Order came to be and what its relationship was to the New Republic – and it was fun to see Leia in her element as a politician, rather than as a wife and mother.  Angels and Demons was predictably silly, but fun.  And then on Sunday night, I picked up Just One Damned Thing After Another, on my friend Katie‘s recommendation.  Looking forward to digging into that.

Watching.  Steve and I decided that we really needed to get cranking on some of the shows we’re partway through, and I’m pleased to report that we polished off The Crown this week!  And then immediately started googling to find out when the second series will be airing.  No good answers on that point, so we moved on to Gilmore Girls.  I’ve already seen it (I binged the entire revival with my friend Jenn on the Friday after Thanksgiving and I regret nothing) but am happy to be watching it again with my Gilmore superfan husband.

Listening.  I’m on a mission to clean up my podcatcher, and I’ve been trying to squeeze in podcasts whenever possible – on walks to and from the Metro, while I do the dishes, and while I unpack during naptimes.  I’m still about 14 hours behind (and will be more when new episodes drop early this week) but I kind of love it.  Podcasts have definitely been my internetty discovery of 2016.  In my earbuds at the moment – an old episode of “Travel with Rick Steves” on the archaeology of Roman ruins in Great Britain and Chris Hadfield’s new book of photography shot from space – good stuff.

Making.  Not much.  Does my weekly batch of homemade soup count?  Nugget loves the stuff.  Oh, and another thing I’m making – progress on my Christmas shopping, although I still have a lot to do.  And of course, I’m always making cup after cup of tea.

BloggingI’ve got fun stuff coming up for you this week.  On Wednesday, my December pick for my diverse kidlit project – I’ve loved every month of working on this yearlong effort, and I hope you’ve all enjoyed those posts as well.  And on Friday, I’m dreamcasting an imaginary television or movie series about the founders of Hogwarts, to go with the book series I requested from Santa last week.  I think my casting choices are stellar.  Call me, WB!

Asking.  What do you think of this new format I’m playing with?  And what are you reading this week?

Dear Santa

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Santa Baby, just slip a Hamilton film under the tree for me… Been an awful good girl.

Recently I was driving along listening to my favorite podcast (Tea or Books?, for those who aren’t listening – get it in your podcatcher immediately) and nodding along with one of the hosts as he lamented the fact that more people don’t know about and appreciate A.A. Milne outside of Winnie-the-Pooh.  I started wishing that his work was more readily available and then began to muse on all of the other things I would like Santa to work on this year.*

…I would like someone to reprint A.A. Milne’s collected Punch columns, in cool-looking, affordable hardcovers.  They’ve already been collected, in volumes that were rolled out in the 1920s, so this shouldn’t be an impossible task.  Penguin UK, maybe this would be a good task for you.  Get to work.

…I would like the original Broadway cast of Hamilton to get together and film the entire show, start to finish, for BluRay or digital download so we can all see it.  I am indifferent as to whether they utilize time travel to accomplish this, or put a revival together just for one night.  But those of us who can’t afford $5,000 theater tickets need this.

…I would like Persephone and The Folio Society to open up outposts on this side of the Pond, and I would like those outposts to be in Washington, D.C., not New York City, please.

…I would like Virago to print its entire Angela Thirkell line in paperback.  Why are two titles being released as ebook only?  I don’t understand this.

…I would like The Folio Society to release the full set of Anne books, not just Anne of Green Gables and Anne of Avonlea, or I would like a promise that this is a move that is in the works.  While we’re talking about reprints I want.

…I would like J.K. Rowling to write a four-book series about the founders of Hogwarts, one volume for each founder.  And I would also like a longer series about the Marauders and the First Wizarding World War.  And I would like to see Hogwarts, A History published and I would like it to be 1,200 pages long.

…I would like The Kennedy Center to put on both The Dover Road and Long Day’s Journey Into Night in 2017, and I would like to be the director.

…I would like a Time-Turner, so I can get more reading done on my Classics Club challenge.

I don’t think that any of these things should be a problem.  Some people do need to get to work churning printing presses and bending the space-time continuum, but both of those things are doable if you really try.

What do you want for Christmas?

*Obviously, this is not a real Christmas list.  Or is it?  If you are actually able to get me something off this list, then please, go nuts.  Otherwise, HA HA.

Home Sweet Home

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Way back in January, I told you all that my word for 2016 was going to be home.  I’d actually been considering “forward” as a possible word for the year, because I was hoping it would give me some momentum.  I was miserable at work, feeling as though I didn’t fit in with my colleagues and missing Nugget horrendously through the day.  I was facing the prospect of another endless Buffalo winter spent slogging through slush and picking my way over ice patches into May.  I was moving houses (again) and – while I didn’t want to keep the house I was in – I was dreading the prospect of packing, unpacking, and living in limbo for the next six months or longer.  “Forward” seemed like a good word to focus on, a word that would remind me to keep putting one foot in front of the other, until another word jumped out at me.  I remember exactly when it happened.  It was December, I’d parked my car in the Main Place parking garage (in my favorite wide pull-through spot that I had to leave early to get – sometimes my one smile of the workday) and I was crossing the driving lane to get to the elevator when a word popped into my head, completely unbidden.  HOME.

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Just a couple of months before, Steve and I had had a “where are we going with this family?” conversation.  I’d been unhappy in Buffalo for more than a year, but had been trying to make it work for Steve and the kids.  It helped that much of that time, I was either distracted by pregnancy or was enjoying a sun-drenched maternity leave with Nugget.  But even on the good days, I was weighed down by a sense of wrongness.  Meanwhile, Steve was coming to his own conclusions, and in November, he told me he agreed with me – it was time to go.  The question was, where?  Since before Nugget’s birth, we had been talking – at first casually, and then increasingly more seriously – about destinations.  Sometimes one of us would throw out a truly crazy proposition.  “Let’s buy an old house in Provence and renovate it like Peter Mayle,” I would suggest as we drifted off to sleep.  Or, “Let’s live in a cottage in the Cotwsolds like Stephen and Geri,” Steve would half-joke (referring to a pair of DC friends of ours who have since moved and are splitting their time between the Pacific Northwest and England – livin’ the dream).  Ultimately, we narrowed the options down to three: staying in Buffalo and changing the things that weren’t working for us in the area; moving out to Denver to be closer to my brother and sister-in-law; and going HOME.  Which meant DC.

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As you likely already know, we ultimately decided to move back to the DC area, and here we are in northern Virginia feeling in many ways as if we’d never left, and in other ways as if we’d been gone for ages.  Some of the changes – mostly our changes – are good.  Steve is in a better place, career-wise, than he was when we left the area three years ago, and since a career move was the entire purpose of our relocation, it feels good to know that we made the right decision back then.  And of course, the main thing that is different is that there’s a fourth member of our family now.

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Back when we lived in Buffalo, people were often confused when I’d refer to DC as “home.”  I fielded many questions about how I came to consider DC my real home, when I wasn’t born there and didn’t grow up there.  Most of the time, I answered those questions simply: DC is where I grew up, I’d say.  It’s where I became who I am today.  When I was (rarely) feeling like expanding on that, I’d add: I moved to DC when I was twenty-one.  Just about every major adult thing happened to me when I lived in DC.  I graduated from law school, passed the Bar, became a lawyer, got married, bought houses and became a mother in DC and northern Virginia.  I’m who I am today because I lived there.  I think people understood that.  Either they understood or they decided it wasn’t worth asking more questions.

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But the truth goes even further than that.  To me, home isn’t just where you grow into yourself or where grown-up stuff happens to you.  Home has a meaning far beyond that, and one I’m not sure I will be able to put into words – although I’m going to try.  To me, a home is a place where you’re completely safe and free to be who you are or become who you hope to be.  It’s a place where you feel a deep belonging.  It’s not just about being around people who knew you when – I’ve had that and not felt at home.  It’s about the feeling of rightness you get when you’re in your place.  It’s a deep knowing.  And perhaps the deepest truth is the simplest at all.  How is DC my home when I wasn’t born there?  Because in DC, I am me.

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That’s not to say there haven’t been other places that were close to my heart, or where I felt at home even if I wasn’t home.  I have a place in my heart reserved for the Adirondack Mountains, especially the lake where my parents have a cabin.  And then there’s Ithaca, which will always be an important place for me – the first place I lived on my own, the location of my beloved Cornell, and the place where I first started dating Steve, where we started a journey of love and friendship that has lasted sixteen years now and will go on for many more beyond that.  And there were pockets of space in Buffalo that felt almost home-like.  My office, when I was working with one partner in particular with whom I was well-matched – I remembered what it felt like to love my job and feel like I was in the right place during those projects.  East Aurora, where I would take Nugget for long walks during my maternity leave and where Steve and I talked about moving if we decided to stay in New York.  And perhaps most of all, the kids’ preschool.  There were days when I’d walk through that gate three times – in the morning for drop-off, at lunch to nurse Nugget, and in the afternoon for pick-up – and each time, the vise around my heart would loosen and I would smile a genuine smile when greeting the receptionist, the school directors, the kids’ teachers and the other parents.  The school was one of our places, where we knew we were family.  Steve was on the parent advisory board, our kids were beloved, and I knew everyone.  It was a home.

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At the beginning of the year, I didn’t quite know what my word, home, was going to end up doing in my life – but I knew I needed whatever it was.  I thought to myself, “I want to go home to DC.  But if that doesn’t happen, I have to find a way to be at home wherever I am.”  As it turned out, I made it home.  I’m back in DC, back in my old stomping grounds – eating at my favorite restaurants, walking streets I know like the back of my hand, and resuming local friendships that had been painfully long distance for three years too many.  (Just in time to welcome two new babies to our friendship circle!  And this time, I’ll get to hold them and kiss their little cheeks and tell them that Aunt Jaclyn loves them.)  Life isn’t perfect and never will be.  But it feels good to be home, finally, after three years adrift.

Where’s home for you?

It’s Monday! What Are You Reading? (December 5, 2016)

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How – I mean, seriously, how – is it Monday already?  I’ve got a super-busy week ahead of me, a super-packed weekend behind, and my head is just spinning.  After spending last week catching up from Thanksgiving and running from meeting to meeting, what I should have done, if I was a sane person, was collapse on the couch and spend the whole weekend mainlining herbal tea and reading my way through my library stack.  Instead, I spent the entire weekend subjecting my defenseless family to an endless agenda of Forced Family Fun, starting with Christmas tree decorating on Saturday morning (complete with matching Christmas jammies, Christmas Traditional Pandora, and the relaxing strains of a mother berating herself for not making muffins).  After naps – well, one nap; a certain someone whose name rhymes with GREAT has been on strike – we headed out to the Alexandria holiday boat parade of lights on the Potomac.  It was a lot of fun, despite being freezing cold.  Peanut surprised me by loving the train boat; Nugget, predictably, was all about the fire boat.  On Sunday we drove out to Little Washington, our new favorite outside-the-Beltway getaway, for their annual Christmas in Little Washington event.  They had an artisan market set up, a food fair with multiple stalls staffed by the world-renowned Inn at Little Washington (we got soup and cider donuts, so I can now say that we’ve eaten “at” the Inn at Little Washington! and it was delicious), and at 1:30, there was a Christmas parade through the tiny and picture-perfect historic district.  It was a very Virginia parade – opened by a platoon of Colonials playing fifes and beating drums, followed by George Washington on horseback, a line of vintage cars, lots of dogs, and local attractions like the high school marching band, two church choirs, the “Notorious Lunch Bunch” (seated around a picnic table on their float), a ranger van from Shenandoah National Park, and not one but two fire trucks – among lots of other sights.  Peanut liked the parade, but Nugget was on cloud nine.  (At one point, he blew a fuse in his little brain and just started shouting “Santa! Fire truck! Santa! Fire truck!” over and over.)

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Too many books to fit on one line!  Despite that super-busy week I was complaining about above, I blew through three books and two comics.  Finished up Americanah on Wednesday, then tore through the sixth volume of Saga the same night, followed by Another Brooklyn on Thursday, A Countess Below Stairs and the seventh volume of Fables over the weekend.  I think the highlight was A Countess Below Stairs.  It was quite possibly the silliest plot EVER – Russian Countess flees the Revolution, loses everything, takes a job as a housemaid in an English great house and catches the eye of the sensitive young earl – but goshdarnit if it wasn’t satisfying.  Especially with all the dark stuff happening in the world and on my bookshelf.  Note to self: read more frothy light-hearted books in 2017.  Finally, on Sunday night, after wrestling with Shutterfly for awhile (have to get those Christmas cards made!) I settled in with a shandy and Bloodline, about which I’ve heard great things.  You know I’ll have opinions!

After I finish Bloodline, I think I’m going to pick up Angels and Demons.  The only Dan Brown I’ve read was The Da Vinci Code, eons ago, and I want to correct that.  Then who knows?  I’m finally making progress on my library stack.  I won’t get through it in time to read any Christmas books this year – boo – but I have a big stack of Persephone titles I ordered from London that just arrived, to welcome me back to my own shelves when I finally do get out from under that teetering library pile.

As for the blog, on Wednesday I have a post scheduled that answers a question I get all. the. time. – why do I refer to Virginia as “home” when I didn’t grow up here?  And on Friday, something light – my literary Christmas list!  Santa, take notice!

What’s the best thing you read last week, friends?

Reading Round-Up: November 2016

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Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby.  I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book.  Here are my reads for November, 2016

my-brilliant-friendMy Brilliant Friend (The Neapolitan Novels #1), by Elena Ferrante – My second attempt at catching Ferrante Fever was much more successful!  I’d tried to read My Brilliant Friend awhile back and gave it up after about 50 pages.  This time, I pushed through to that magic 100-page mark and found, just as I’d hoped, that the story hooked me.  Elena and Lila are two friends growing up in a tough Naples neighborhood in the 1950s and 60s.  My Brilliant Friend follows them through childhood and adolescence, as Lila changes from the scrappy ugly duckling into the beautiful, desired swan, and Lena struggles to hold onto her own identity outside of the friendship.  I loved this and can’t wait to whittle down my library pile so I can get to the next in the series.

the-fire-this-timeThe Fire This Time: A New Generation Speaks About Race, ed. Jesmyn Ward – I’d heard great things about this book of essays, collected from some of the most brilliant writers of color working today, and it was every bit as astonishing as I’d been told.  The Fire This Time is a hard look at the experience of being black in today’s America, and it can be fairly uncomfortable to read as a white reader.  But I am firmly of the opinion that we all need to be made uncomfortable periodically, and that The Fire This Time is a necessary, bold, brilliant book that should be on every American’s reading list, no matter the color of their skin – but especially those out there who need to be reminded of the personhood of others.  Which, sadly, seems to be a lot of people these days.

crowned-and-dangerousCrowned and Dangerous (Her Royal Spyness #10), by Rhys Bowen – As I often do after finishing a particularly hard or wrenching read, I reached for a cozy mystery as a palate cleanser.  This time, it was Crowned and Dangerous, the most recent installment in the adventures of Lady Georgianna Rannoch.  When we last left Georgie, she was speeding toward Gretna Green with her true love, Darcy O’Mara.  Sadly, this volume finds Georgie and Darcy foiled in their attempts to elope when Darcy spots a newspaper article reporting that his father has been arrested for murdering the rich American to whom the ancestral O’Mara home – Kilhenny Castle – has been sold.  Darcy immediately rushes off to Ireland to see what can be done for Lord Kilhenny, and Georgie follows soon after.  I love Georgie and Darcy as a crime-solving duo, and this was a fun ride.  Can’t wait to see what Georgie gets up to next!  (Can she move back into Kensington Palace, please?)

before-we-visit-the-goddess-9781476792002_hrBefore We Visit the Goddess, by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni – I’d read another of Divakaruni’s lovely, lyrical novels – The Palace of Illusions – a few years ago and was delighted to learn of this new release.  Before We Visit the Goddess tracks the relationships of three generations of mothers and daughters – Sabatri, elderly and ailing back in India; Bela, recently divorced and lonely in America; and Tara, Bela’s lost and dysfunctional daughter.  It was a slim but lovely novel, bittersweet throughout.

22698568The Invasion of the Tearling (The Queen of the Tearling #2), by Erika Johansen – When we left the Tearling, the Mort army was at its gates, provoked into war by Queen Kelsea’s rash decision to undo a treaty signed by her mother, Queen Elyssa, which required the Tear to provide slaves to neighboring Mortmesne on a monthly basis.  Now the invasion has begun and as Queen Kelsea struggles to manage her court and evacuate her people from the Morts’ path, she begins to have visions of a time before the Crossing, and a woman named Lily.  Lily’s story is missing from Kelsea’s history books, but it is clear there is some connection between them, and this connection may hold the key to Kelsea’s ability to save the Tearling from destruction.  I really enjoyed The Invasion of the Tearling – after liking, but not loving, the first in the trilogy, I found this second installment riveting.  The Lily segments were particularly enthralling, bringing the dystopic elements of the story to the forefront as they did (and scaring me senseless after the election).  Now I am itching to read the conclusion of the trilogy (and have only Googled “The Fate of the Tearling release date” approximately seventeen million times).

the-fishermenThe Fishermen, by Chigozie Obioma – Four young brothers, taking advantage of their father’s extended absence for work, steal away from school to fish on the banks of a nearby river.  One day, the brothers encounter the local madman, who makes a prophecy that convinces the eldest of the brothers that he’s destined to be murdered by one of his other brothers.  The Fishermen takes the story of Cain and Abel and transplants it into Nigeria of recent times.  It’s a gory, blood-spattered story that only gets gorier and more blood-spattered as the pages turn.  I read it with my eyes popping out of my head and couldn’t look away, although it was not my usual reading material and definitely not for everyone.  (If you have a weak stomach, as I do, be forewarned.)  The Fishermen was very hyped around the time of its publication, and while it wasn’t really my cup of tea, I appreciated the outstanding writing and can definitely understand the accolades it received.

the-audacity-of-hopeThe Audacity of Hope: Thoughts on Reclaiming the American Dream, by Barack Obama – President Obama’s musings on the American dream and public policy had been on my to-read list for awhile, and I finally grabbed it from the library in mid-November.  I was craving some words of sanity after a completely insane election, and the President’s thoughtful, reasoned discussions of all aspects of American life, and the policies that govern them, were just what I needed to read.  It was fascinating to consider this book from the perspective that I now have, after eight years of the Obama Administration, knowing what he was able to achieve (same sex marriage! eliminating bin Laden!) in light of all the opposition with which he had to contend.  (And his words on the failure of the Republican legislators to make the compromises necessary to govern seemed clairvoyant.)  The Audacity of Hope gave me plenty to consider – and now I can’t wait for the presidential memoir that I’m sure is in the offing.

americanahAmericanah, by Chimamanda Ngozi AdichieAmericanah is the story of two lovers.  Obinze is Ifemelu’s first love, and he hers, but time has passed.  Ifemelu has been living in America, studying for advanced degrees and writing a popular blog called Raceteenth, examining race relations in America from the perspective of an outsider.  Obinze spent time in London but is now home in Nigeria and has made his fortune, married and welcomed a daughter.  When Ifemelu decides to return to Nigeria, she must confront changes in the country itself, and mirroring changes in her relationship with Obinze. So, this was a beautifully written and completely engrossing book. Adichie’s musings on race, class, immigration, politics and more are fascinating and well-formulated. My only complaint was that the book was a bit too long – in my opinion, the plot – while excellent – wasn’t quite hefty enough to carry almost 500 pages of text. Still, I loved every moment of the reading, and can’t recommend it highly enough.

I can’t believe we’re into December already! Seriously, where has the time gone?  November was a great reading month with some wonderful challenges to my perspectives from Jesmyn Ward and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, interspersed with good escapist reading (visits to the Tearling and with Lady Georgie!). The escapism was particularly welcome in light of how crummy reality was in November. And now, on to December. It’s looking like a busy month, what with the holidays, but I’ll make time for reading as I always do. I have ten books left to reach my goal of 100 for the year, so I will be feverishly turning pages until New Year’s Eve if that’s what it takes!

What was the best thing you read in November?