Reinstein Woods: Winter 2015 (and 12 Months Hiking Project for January)

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Woohoo – first hike of 2015 is in the books!  If you were reading here last year, you may remember that hubby, Peanut and I took on a project of hiking at Tifft Nature Preserve in south Buffalo at least once each season.  (If you missed them I recapped all of our Tifft seasonal hikes: winter, spring, summer and fall).  We had so much fun hiking Tifft in each season (and by the fall hike we even knew our way around, winning) that we decided to carry the seasonal hiking project forward for 2015 and find a new place to explore.  After scouting around a bit, I decided that we should conduct our seasonal explorations at Reinstein Woods Nature Preserve in Depew.  We’d never been there and I’d heard such great things about the scenery and the wildlife that I was itching to check it out.

I also made a resolution this year that we would take a family hike in a different place each month.  The hikes didn’t have to be in places we’d never been (so I’m sure you will see Tifft again, as well as Knox Farm) but we couldn’t repeat.  That also meant that we could use Reinstein Woods toward that goal one time, and one time only.  I was hoping that we’d make it out for another hike this January, but circumstances (weekend work for both hubby and me most of the month, plus a week of illness when Peanut brought a bad stomach virus home from daycare) have prevented us getting out more than once.  Oh, well, c’est la vie – we’ll be counting this January walk in Reinstein Woods toward our 12 months hiking project too.

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Enough with the preamble!  Let’s get boots on the trail!

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Peanut was somewhat less than thrilled to find herself back in the backpack.  We’d actually tried to go for a walk the weekend before, at Como Lake Park in Lancaster, without the backpack, and all she wanted to do was play.  So she’s back in the carrier until she’s a little more malleable.  We do make sure to let her out at the end of each hike and give her plenty of time to stretch her legs and explore, though.

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I spent a little time checking out the information sign and getting a preview for what we can expect to see come spring, summer and fall.  I can’t wait to check out the birds!

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And we were off on our hike.  Hubby brought along his snowshoes but decided to leave them in the car.  In retrospect, he wished he’d worn them, because the snow on the trails was deep enough that it was tough going with just our boots.  We definitely got a workout!  There were a number of other families out enjoying the beautiful afternoon and most of them had on either snowshoes or cross-country skis.  We were one of the few groups that hit the trails in just our boots and we were feeling it almost immediately.

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We headed down one of the broad paths to start.  Having never been to Reinstein Woods before, we had no plan in mind – just followed the paths wherever they took us.

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After one or two turns we found ourselves approaching a large pond.  The sun was starting to go down (we had decided on a post-nap hike for warmth purposes) and we enjoyed a beautiful sunset view.

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There was a fork in the trail allowing us to choose to either walk around the pond or head deeper into the nature preserve.  As we stood debating what to do, both kids made their preferences known.  Peanut announced “All done riding in my chariot!” (yes, she really said that) and Nugget put in his vote with some mild cramping (or maybe Braxton Hicks contractions? I got them a few times during my last pregnancy and these were much less intense, so I’m not sure) so we decided to loop around the pond and back toward the car.

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We had one more stop to make before we left the preserve, though:

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I’d noted this little “nature play area” on our way into the preserve and thought it would be a great place for Peanut to play this spring and summer.  But it also worked out well as a spot for her to stretch her legs after this relatively brief ramble.  We headed into the play area and released her from her “chariot.”  She immediately fell on her face in the snow and rolled around like a dog.  Whatever works for ya, kid.

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She also did some sweeping, of course.

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And started to dismantle the “shelter” in an attempt to find the perfect stick for waving around.

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I think it’s safe to say that our little snow bunny is a BIG fan of winter!

Gear:

Hubby – I have no idea what his winter boots are, he’s had them since before we started dating; Black Diamond men’s hiking poles; Deuter KidComfort III child carrier backpack.
Me – Oboz Bridgewater BDry hiking boots (thanks, Santa!); Black Diamond women’s hiking poles.

Thanks for a great walk, Reinstein Woods!  See you again soon!

A Mystery Reader’s Day of Reckoning

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I knew this day would come eventually.

As you probably know if you’ve been reading this blog for more than a hot minute, I love mystery novels.  Mystery might be my favorite genre (maybe – I’m not committing here) and I’m always working my way through one series or another.  And as you may know – since I’m sure I’ve mentioned it before – I have a bit of a quirk when it comes to reading mysteries.

I don’t like to read more than one mystery series at a time.

Not that being in the middle of two mystery series should really interfere with anyone’s enjoyment, of course.  And not that I’m not smart enough to keep track of the differences between two series.  I’m certainly not going to mix up detectives, get confused, and say something like, “Wait, isn’t it Maisie Dobbs who runs a detective agency in Botswana?  And I thought Sherlock Holmes was an Egyptologist?”  But for some reason, I just have preferred to immerse myself in one series, one world, before moving on to another.

So I worked my way through The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency series before getting started on Maisie Dobbs.  I finished with Maisie before starting in on The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie and getting to know Flavia de Luce.

Of course, it couldn’t last forever.  When you read a series by a prolific contemporary writer, it’s bound to happen that they’ll release a new book and you won’t stay caught up forever.  And there will be a day when you have to pause the series you’re on and check in with an old favorite.

For me, that day is here… and here with a vengeance.  Technically, I’m currently reading through the Amelia Peabody mysteries.  Technically, the old favorites are supposed to stay filed away.  But they just wouldn’t.  First, I excitedly checked out of the library a book to which I’d been looking forward for months: As Chimney Sweepers Come to Dust, the latest Flavia mystery.  (Loved it.)  Then I learned that a new Maisie Dobbs novel is due to be released soon – not soon enough to get on the holds list at the library (they haven’t ordered it yet) but it’s on the radar.  Then I discovered that there have been not one, but two new No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency mysteries released since I read The Limpopo Academy of Private Detection – oops – and a new Her Royal Spyness, with another one due in August.  All I need now is for someone to uncover a long-lost Agatha Christie manuscript.

So I’ve had to throw out my rule of only reading one mystery series at a time – because over the next few months I’ll have to catch up with, in addition to Flavia: Maisie, Precious, and Georgie.  It’s time to set aside my “quirk” and deal.  And yes, I know that in the grand scheme of things, this is not a big problem.  But it’s the mystery reader’s day of reckoning… and it’s here.

Do you have any bookish quirks?  Have you ever had to buck up and deal with them?

31w4d

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(Please excuse the messy playroom.)

Last week I hit an exciting milestone – the day I’ve been thinking of as my “pregnancy PDR.”  For my non-running friends, “PDR” stands for “personal distance record.”  It’s the furthest you’ve ever run.  And the cool thing about it is, once you take a step past your old PDR, every step is a new PDR.

As many of my friends know, Peanut was a surprise early arrival at 31 weeks, 3 days pregnant.  (That’s roughly seven and a half months.)  She needed to come out, certainly, but she wasn’t ready… nor were we.  So I suppose it’s unsurprising that, ever since we found out that we were expecting Nugget, “31w4d” has been bumping around in my head.  Would I get to 31w4d?  Would I get further?

I got there on Tuesday.  It wasn’t the big celebration I had in mind, because I was miserably sick with a stomach virus that Peanut had brought home from daycare and passed around our house.  (Hence my disappearance last week – sorry about that; between all three of us floored by the virus at one point or another, and then desperately trying to catch up at work the rest of the week, it was all I could do to keep my head above water.  Thank goodness for grandparents.)  On Tuesday, I was taking a sick day and subsisting on saltine crackers and Gatorade.  But I managed to struggle out of my PJs long enough to take a commemorative bump photo.  And I’m just now beginning to appreciate that I’m here at this point in pregnancy.

I’m now almost a week past my old pregnancy PDR.  It feels good.  Every day feels a little bit safer – but I’m very aware that it’s not time to have this baby yet, and I’m still crossing fingers and toes and eyes that he stays in until March.  So far, we’re hanging in there (stomach bugs notwithstanding).  In the meantime, I’m just happy to have a new pregnancy PDR… and now I’m working on padding my stats.

Is it Slumping, or Just Living?

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Recently, I was talking to my mom on the phone, and she told me she didn’t think I was in a reading slump.  “You’re still reading a lot,” she said, “you’re just reading children’s books instead.  And you’re enjoying your baby.”  Mom told me that she thinks it’s just the stage of life I’m in at the moment – there’s less time for reading, and when I do have free time I want to spend it playing with Peanut (and soon Nugget) and watching them grow and learn and explore.

All true statements.  There is definitely less time for reading.  I’ve been swamped at work since before Thanksgiving, and when I’m not at work or ferrying Peanut back and forth from school, I’m making dinner, trying to stay on top of an increasingly chaotic housekeeping situation, and doing the bath-stories-bedtime routine (which can stretch on for two hours or more if Peanut is feeling frisky).  When, exactly, am I supposed to sit down with a book?

And even on the weekends, it just hasn’t been a priority.  I’d rather play with Peanut, as my mom pointed out, and that’s a normal thing right now.  We’re spending our time on family hikes, or snuggled up reading stories, or destroying the playroom.  I’ll have my whole life to stick my nose in a book.  What I want to do right now is snuggle my baby while she’s still a baby.

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But I do think I’m in a reading slump.  Maybe it’s no big deal, and it’s just where I am right now, but the fact remains that even when I have those rare pockets of free time – when I’m not working, cleaning, caring for Peanut or enjoying family time – I just haven’t had much of an attention span lately.  It’s embarrassing to admit, because I’m trying to be a book blogger here.  But I just don’t seem to have the head space or patience for many books lately.  Once I’ve staggered downstairs in the evening, after sitting in Peanut’s (increasingly uncomfortable) rocker for an hour or more, I don’t want to switch on the table lamp and take out a book.  I’d rather snuggle up under a blanket with hubby and watch TV.  (We’re working our way through Ken Burn’s The National Parks on Blu-Ray.)  Or scroll through my phone, catching up on social media.  Or stare blankly at the wall.  Sometimes I can’t even make myself crack the spine of a book – and that’s why I still think I’m in a slump.

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Maybe it’s just not as bad of a slump as I thought.  I mean, I just whipped through As Chimney Sweepers Come to Dust, the latest Flavia de Luce mystery, in about three days.  That’s not bad.  Once upon a time, I could have torn through a Flavia mystery in a day or less, but I don’t have that kind of spare time at the moment.  So just wanting to read was refreshing.  And now I’ve started The Romanov Sisters, which – okay – is a hefty non-fiction chunker, but I’m actually excited to read it.  Excited… I haven’t felt excited to read a particular book in months (until Flavia, that is).

So yes, I do think I’m still in a reading slump.  But I also think that my mom has a point and that it’s mainly just life, right now.  Really, it seems to be a combination of lack of time, other priorities, and a slumping attention span.  I’m sure that it’s a season that will eventually pass.  Until then, I’ll give myself a little bit of credit for the fact that I read Star Wars ABC eleventy-seven times yesterday.

Do you notice that your reading ebbs and flows with different stages of life?

2014 Book Superlatives

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One more post to go in my week of bookish 2014 wrap-ups, and then we’ll really be done and on our way to 2015 reading!  Coming up with book superlatives is always one of my favorite yearly wrap-up posts.  Anyone else’s high school yearbook do “senior superlatives?”  I actually won one – “shortest” – sigh.  But even though my superlative was a bit of a disappointment (I was going for “Teacher’s Pet”) I still love doling out the awards to the books I read each year.  So here we go, the bookish class of 2014…

the monuments men Brainiest – This year’s Valedictorian is The Monuments Men: Allied Heroes, Nazi Thieves, and the Greatest Treasure Hunt in History, for shedding light on an aspect of World War II history of which I was completely unaware.  I was hooked from the first page, and I learned a lot.

letters from father christmas Best Looking – With the whimsical illustrations and the gorgeous reprints of letters handwritten by J.R.R. Tolkein himself, Letters from Father Christmas is a shoo-in for this one.  Tolkien’s children were lucky indeed, to get these beautiful missives every Christmas.

anne of the island Best Friends – I wish I could have lived at Patty’s Place with Anne, Priscilla, Stella and Phil during their years at Redmond College.  Whenever I need a dose of cozy girlfriend chatter, I know I can find it between the pages of L.M. Montgomery’s Anne of the Island.

the honest toddler Class Clown – This would have to be The Honest Toddler: A Child’s Guide to Parenting, written under the supervision of Bunmi Laditan.  I’m a huge fan of HT (as anyone who follows me on Twitter will be sure to know – sorry for all the retweets, but I can’t help myself!) and here my second-favorite toddler has written a parenting guide full of LOLs.  I was rolling on the floor as I read it.

train like a mother Biggest Jock – Train Like a Mother: How to Get Across Any Finish Line – And Not Lose Your Family, Job, or Sanity, by Dimity McDowell and Sarah Bowen Shea, is my pick for biggest jock.  I can always count on SBS and Dimity for a dose of motherly encouragement in running, parenting and life.  I bought their second Another Mother Runner book in hopes that they’d get me across the finish line of my first marathon.  Pregnancy intervened, but I’ll be looking to my favorite #motherrunner duo for plenty of inspiration in 2015.

these happy golden years Teacher’s Pet – Hmmmm, this was a tough category to award this year.  I usually have quite a few books in school settings, but not for 2014.  So, the superlative goes to Laura Ingalls Wilder, circa These Happy Golden Years, in which Laura tries her hand at teaching to help support her family and save money for her sister Mary to go away to a college for the blind.  Teaching is not Laura’s passion, to say the least, but she does her best, and for that she’s Teacher’s Pet this year.

my life in middlemarch Biggest Nerd – This year’s award goes to a book nerd – a lady after my own heart!  Rebecca Mead’s My Life in Middlemarch will speak to any bookworm who has read her way through the same favorite classic, to the point where it becomes part of her life story.  (That’d be Jane Eyre for me, but I certainly know what Mead is talking about.)

the golem and the jinni Most Creative – I read a lot of creative books this year, but The Golem and the Jinni, by Helene Wecker, takes the prize.  Wecker merges two cultural traditions, and two mythical beings, into a rich tapestry of a story in which 1890s New York City is another living, breathing character.  I hung on every word and didn’t want the book to end, ever.

god is an astronaut Most Opinionated – God is an Astronaut, by Alyson Foster, might seem like an odd choice for this superlative, but stick with me here.  Reading between the lines of the story, which describes the crumbling marriage of a botany professor and her husband, an executive in a private space travel company weathering a major catastrophe, there’s a lot here about science and ethics.

The Girl With All The Gifts Most Likely to End Up in Hollywood – Let me preface this by saying that if this book does end up in Hollywood, I won’t be going to see the movie.  I’m not a horror fan in general, and while I did frantically turn pages to see what would happen in M.R. Carey’s The Girl With All the Gifts, and while I think it would make an incredibly gripping movie… it’s just way too scary for me!

the dead in their vaulted arches Biggest Rebel – Is there a rebel more rebellious than Flavia de Luce?  I read four of her adventures this year – A Red Herring Without MustardI am Half Sick of Shadows, Speaking from Among the Bones, and The Dead in their Vaulted Arches – and loved every moment of watching my favorite diabolical chemist break all the rules, solve murders and torment her two obnoxious older sisters.

amy falls down Biggest Loner – Amy Gallup, from Jincy Willet’s The Writing Class and Amy Falls Down, wins this category, hands-down.  All Amy wants is to hole up in her house with her resentful Basset hound, Alphonse, and write her blog “GO AWAY.”  But the outside world keeps intruding on Amy – first in the form of a murderous writing student, and then later in the form of unexpected career success.  What’s a washed-up recluse to do?  (Read these books, please.  They’re terrific!)

these happy golden years Cutest Couple – I read so many books with fantastic romantic plots this year, but the 2014 superlative just has to go to Laura and Almanzo Wilder, from the Little House books.  I mean, Almanzo sensing Laura’s homesickness and arriving every Friday on his sleigh to bring her home from her teaching job?  And still showing up even after she told him she was basically just using him for the ride?  Swoon.

yes chef Most Likely to Succeed – Marcus Samuelsson is a true success story, as his memoir Yes, Chef perfectly illustrates.  Born into poverty in Ethiopia and adopted, along with his sister, by a Swedish family, Marcus cultivates a love for cooking and follows his passion all the way to the top rung of the foodie career ladder – winning “Top Chef,” cooking for President Obama, and opening his own restaurant in Harlem.  He doesn’t gloss over his mistakes and failures, but you’ll cheer for him all the way.

And that wraps up my look back at bookish (or not-so-bookish) 2014!  How was your year in reading?  What book was your valedictorian, and who was your prom queen?

2014: Bookish Year in Review, Part II

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If you missed Part I of my bookish 2014 wrap-up, check it out here.  Otherwise, onward to Part II – my top ten books of the year!  Even though I hit a major reading slump this year – a slump that’s still going, much as I try to claw my way out of the hole – I did read some really fantastic books.  Back in July, I shared the ten best books I’d read in the first half of the year, and some of those will be making their appearance on this list too, along with some from the second half of the year.  Read on to see my favorites from 2014, in no particular order:

the dead in their vaulted arches The Dead in their Vaulted Arches (Flavia de Luce #6), by Alan Bradley – In the sixth installment of Flavia’s adventures, sleuthing takes a bit of a backseat as Flavia’s lost mother returns home.  Flavia spends a lot of the book learning many, many things she didn’t know about Harriet, and the book ended with the series poised to go in an entirely new direction.  I can’t wait to see what Flavia gets up to next, and I won’t have to wait long – the seventh volume is out this month and I’m already on the wait list for it at the library.

The Writing Class The Writing Class, by Jincy Willet – Another from the first half of the year, The Writing Class is Jincy Willet’s introduction to reclusive writing teacher Amy Gallup.  Amy is a washed-up curmudgeon (once a critically praised writer, her books are now all out of print) who makes a little cash by teaching at the local university extension.  Amy’s classes are unremarkable until one fateful semester, when the group is terrorized by a “writing class sniper,” a class member with a cruel pen, a razor-sharp wit, and a complete disregard for human life.

amy falls down Amy Falls Down, by Jincy Willet – This fall, I read Willet’s second novel featuring Amy Gallup.  Amy Falls Down is a completely different book from The Writing Class, and I loved it, maybe, even more.  In this volume, Amy trips in her backyard and hits her head on a birdbath shortly before she is scheduled to give an interview to a local reporter.  In her concussed state, Amy presents as a complete eccentric, and her bizarre interview launches her career in ways she couldn’t possibly have foreseen.  You don’t have to have read The Writing Class to enjoy Amy Falls Down, although there are occasional references to the earlier book.

henrietta's war Henrietta’s War, by Joyce Dennys – I have a thing for English fiction set between the wars, during, and immediately after World War II, and Henrietta’s War is a perfect example.  Henrietta is the wife of a hardworking Devonshire doctor, mother of two grown children, and penpal to her “dear childhood’s friend” Robert, who is off fighting for King and Country.  In this epistolary novel, Henrietta keeps Robert updated on all the goings-on in their sleepy town.  I fell in love with the characters – some eccentric, all loveable and staunch – and with Henrietta’s breezy, chatty, but sometimes bittersweet letters.

the golem and the jinni The Golem and the Jinni, by Helene Wecker – In 1890s New York City, a golem (a creature made of clay) and jinni (a creature made of fire) meet and become the unlikeliest of friends.  Although they are temporarily torn apart by a violent incident, ultimately, it is only their friendship that can save them from certain destruction.  I have grown to really enjoy the gaslamp fantasy genre, and this was a perfect addition to my reading list.  Wecker’s writing is rich and atmospheric, and the relationship between the golem and the jinni is complex and sweet.

the magician's land The Magician’s Land, by Lev Grossman – This final installment in Grossman’s Magicians trilogy was the best yet.  I liked The Magicians, really liked The Magician King, and LOVED The Magician’s Land.  Quentin Coldwater has been kicked out of Fillory – unfairly, but there it is – and is now trying to live his life on Earth again.  He’s got a new sidekick and a complicated spell to try, but Quentin can’t focus on any of that stuff.  He can only think of the dangerous mission he’s undertaken: to return his lost love, Alice, to life again.  (I’m not going to tell you if it works, because reading about Quentin’s efforts to bring back Alice, and the emotions that went along with that. were the best part of the book.)  Meanwhile, Janet and Eliot are ruling over Fillory, which is facing a crisis of its own.  The characters have all done a lot of growing up over the course of the series – I even liked Janet, which is saying a lot, and for the first time, I adored Quentin.  This conclusion to the trilogy was everything I could have hoped for: rich, satisfying, and perfect.

crocodile on the sandbank Crocodile on the Sandbank (Amelia Peabody #1), by Elizabeth Peters – Miss Marple meets Indiana Jones, is how I can best describe Amelia.  The indomitable Victorian Egyptologist’s first adventure – in which she travels to Egypt for the first time, makes friends, and confronts a mummy – is a fun, spirited romp.  I’ve still only read the first three in this series (of more than twenty!) but I’ll be following Amelia’s adventures for a long time.

the four graces The Four Graces, by D.E. Stevenson – The British-between-the-wars-gentle-fiction genre is one of my particular reading vices, I’ll admit.  (Well, is it a vice?  Can something so entirely wholesome be a vice?)  So it’s kind of amazing that I’d never heard of D.E. Stevenson until recently.  I loved The Four Graces, the story of one eventful summer in the lives of the Grace sisters – bright Liz, quiet Sal, shy Tilly, and sociable Addie.  There’s romance, overbearing relatives, and a “best ankles” contest – what’s not to love?  There was nothing particularly earth-shattering about the book, but I loved every page.

my life in middlemarch My Life in Middlemarch, by Rebecca Mead – Another genre vice: books about books.  I read a few this year, and My Life in Middlemarch was the best.  It’s part history, part memoir, part lit-crit, all delightful.  I loved reading about Mead’s journey through life, viewed through the lens of her favorite book.  And it made me want to re-read Middlemarch, which I last read in 2013 (and also loved, although Jane Eyre still holds the top spot in my particular reader’s heart).

ten years in the tub Ten Years in the Tub: A Decade Soaking in Great Books, by Nick Hornby – One more from the books-about-books genre to close out the year.  I read Hornby’s collection of all of his columns for The Believer over the course of about two months, little by little.  (Fortunately, I was able to knock it out juuuuuuust when I ran out of library renewals.)  Hornby made me cry on just about every page – mostly from laughter, but his writing about his autistic son?  All.The.Feels.  (And sometimes cry-laughs, too, like when he says that his son doesn’t have any spectacular talents unless you count being able to hear a crisps packet being opened from several streets away – snort.  Hornby might be the only writer out there who can poke fun at his autistic kid, but do it so obviously lovingly that you just laugh along with him and wish you could hang out with them both every day.)

There you have it – my top ten!  Although I didn’t have quite the volume of books I’m used to this year, I did read some really wonderful things.  How was your reading year, and what were your favorite books read this year?  I’m working on a TBR for 2015, so please, do share.

2014: Bookish Year In Review, Part I

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Well, friends, do I have a bookish week ahead for you.  Today, Part I of my traditional look back at last year’s reading, with Part II to follow on Wednesday, and one of my favorite posts of the year – Book Superlatives – on Friday!  I know what you’re thinking: FINALLY, a bookish week!  We were getting so tired of reading about her hikes and holiday recaps and New Year’s resolutions!  Well, I do promise that I am trying my best to kick this reading slump I’ve been in and keep the literary content up around here, but you can expect to see more hiking and family activity posts over the course of the year, too.  I’m hoping for some balanced posting this year, and I swear I’m trying!

As a reading year goes, 2014 was a bit of a mixed bag for me.  I read some really fantastic books last year and had a few months where I just whipped through page after page of excellent writing… but in the second half of the year I hit a major reading slump that’s still going on.  With a rough fall, a few extremely busy times at work, a toddler, and a difficult move to a new house in which it seemed that everything broke all at once, I found that even when I had the time to sit down, I didn’t always have the attention for a big (or even a short) book.  And much as I don’t want to start blaming the baby for stuff before he’s even born, pregnancy didn’t help matters (falling asleep in Peanut’s rocking chair at 8:00 doesn’t make for great evening reading time.)  As a result, my 2014 bookish stats are looking pretty weak.  Still, I managed to read a few books each month and I also learned to go easy on myself, focusing less on numbers and page totals and more on what makes me happy – because life’s too short, right?  So with that, my bookish 2014, by the numbers:

Total books read: 71
Fiction: 54, or 76 %
Nonfiction: 17, or 24 %

My Goodreads stats show 65 books read, but I don’t record re-reads over there, so my actual total is a bit higher.  I’m pretty happy with 71.  It’s not the three digits I’ve come to expect from myself over the past few years, but that just might be the way things are going these days.  Most weekdays see me rushing out the door to work, putting in a full day (no lunchtime reading) at the office, picking Peanut up, rushing home to get dinner on the table, do bath and bedtime routine, and then sit with Peanut until she falls asleep (she’s going through a clingy phase and if I don’t sit there it’s a bad scene) – and I often don’t get a second to unwind until 9:00 or later, at which point I’m pretty much spent and ready to go to sleep myself.  Weekends are a bit looser, but still packed full of caring for Peanut, errands, grocery runs, cleaning the house, meal prep for the week, and trying to squeeze a little family time (and exercise if I’m really lucky) in there; there’s not much time for reading even on days off work.  I’m not trying to “mommy martyr” – I’m just telling it like it is.  I’d love to get a bit more free time to read, but I’m snatching it in periods of a few minutes here and a few minutes there, most of which I’m too tired to open a book anyway.  Until the kids are older and I have more free time, the book totals might be lower, and I’ve got to be okay with that.  And you know what?  I am.

Anyway, the whining being over, let’s get to the detailed breakdown, because who doesn’t love a good pie… errrr, chart?

2014 Fiction Genres

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Fiction genres requires something of a judgment call on certain books.  For instance, the Little House books – are they classics or young adult?  As you can probably guess by the fact that I read nineteen classics and only one YA book this year, I considered the Little House series (which I re-read in January) classics.  There’s definitely room for interpretation on genre (I’ve written about this issue before) so please keep in mind that the genres reflected above do include somewhat subjective judgments on my part.

That said, I was pretty pleased with my classics total for the year, but wish I’d read more than six literary fiction titles – something to work on for next year, perhaps?

2014 Settings

2014 Settings

The biggest surprise for me here was that, for possibly the first time ever, the USA edged out Great Britain in terms of book settings!  Usually the UK, and England in particular, account for the greatest number of books set in those areas.  Last year the USA was a close second, and this year it was the winner by five books – which is a lot, considering I read about thirty fewer books this year than I usually do.  The other takeaway is that I really need to read more books set in other areas of the world.  I had nothing in Asia or the Pacific region, and only three books set in Africa – all three of which, I have to confess, were Amelia Peabody mysteries.  So I really do need to do better on that front.

2014 Authors’ Sex

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Hmmmmm, do you think I have a bit of a bias here?  More than three quarters of the books I read this year (and this chart accounts for both fiction and non-fiction) were written by women – wow.  I guess I need to focus on giving the guys a bit more attention next year, huh?

2014 Book Source

2014 Book Sources

Unsurprisingly, the majority of the books I read this year (34 out of 71) came from the library.  What is surprising, is that my library totals were so few!  A full 29 books from my own shelves – wow, now that’s not something I see every year.  I’m sure re-reads account for that at least a little bit, but I’d like to continue reading from my own collections more into 2015.  I own some wonderful books that deserve attention!

Coming up on Wednesday is Part II: my top ten favorite books read this year.  I did read some great books in 2014, so that ought to be fun.  Stay tuned!

How’d your 2014 reading go?  Were you a machine, or did you drift in and out of a reading slump, like I did?

Baby Monsoon

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Oh boy!  Baby joy!

Back in July, when I called my high school BFF and told her that I was expecting a second little munchkin, one of the first things she asked me was whether I wanted a baby shower.  You see, I’m not a particularly fussy girl and I don’t love to be the center of attention… and showers for second-time moms are done, but not as commonly as showers for first-time moms.  As a second-time mom, you probably don’t need a truckload of baby gear and you’re seasoned enough that you don’t need the advice of experienced moms about things like poopy diapers and 3:00 a.m. feedings.  I know this, and I knew I didn’t need much stuff for this kid… but I confessed that I did want a small shower – a sprinkle, really – because that was something I missed out on last time.  When Peanut was born two months early, she happened to show up ten days before the baby shower my mom and BFF were planning.  All festivities were cancelled and I spent that day (like every other day for the first seven weeks of her life) in the NICU.  So yes, I told BFF, I’d like a sprinkle if it can be done.

“You’re not getting a sprinkle,” she said in reply.  “You’re getting a torrential downpour.”

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We talked about the best time to have a sprinkle.  I suggested Christmas week, since I was reasonably sure I could commit to still being pregnant, and we were planning to be in town anyway.  And it was a done deal.  BFF and my mom put their heads together and came up with just the very party I’d hoped for – a sweet, simple gathering of the ladies I love the most, all there to celebrate our new little buddy-to-be.

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Before the sprinkle started, my mom picked up a dozen blue balloons.  Peanut immediately claimed them all as her own.  (Unfortunately for her, she was going to have to share with the two other littles that attended the party – BFF’s three-year-old daughter, and another friend’s fifteen-month-old son.  Hey, with a little brother on the way, she had to learn sharing sometime…)

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Peanut was delighted to have another opportunity to wear her “style shoes.”  And she picked out the dress herself!  Good taste, right?  She must have gotten her fashion sense from somewhere else, because goodness knows I don’t have any.

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The shower was, as I said, very simple – no games, no silliness, no smelling anything in diapers or wrapping toilet paper around my midsection thankyouverymuch – we just enjoyed each other’s company, had a yummy catered lunch (complete with cupcakes delivered by BFF’s husband) and chatted.  Perfect!  Peanut logged quality time in any available lap.  Here she is, above, conning my friend A into reading to her from a set of “Frozen” board books she got for Christmas.  (Peanut has patented what we call the “lap-back-up,” in which she motors in reverse, book in hand, into the nearest free lap.)  We think she has some kind of radar for mom laps in particular, because she immediately identified A (who has the fifteen-month-old mentioned above) as a good candidate for snuggles and reading.  A was a good sport about it.

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Peanut got extra lucky, because her aunts were there!  Auntie Em and Aunt Grace both came from long distances away to celebrate their new nephew-to-be, and Peanut was delighted to have her favorite babysitters there. (We were only missing Aunt Danielle.)  Auntie Em and Aunt Grace both were victims of the lap-back-up, too.

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After lunch and cupcakes, I opened gifts.  Like I said, we really didn’t need much – or anything – but my family and friends wanted to make sure that the new little guy was plenty spoiled anyway!  He got lots of boy clothes (including a superhero cape and a mini professor outfit), and plenty of books and toys – including a set of trucks that I hope he shares, because I want to play with them too.

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And this awesome sweater, which I wish came in my size!

It was just a perfect day.  Getting the celebration I missed out on last time meant so much to me – after missing out on the experience with Peanut because of her surprise early arrival, I was so unbelievably grateful to be able to smile and celebrate this time around.  Thanks, Mom and BFF, for a perfect baby shower!

Reading Round-Up: December 2014

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Reading is my oldest and favorite hobby.  I literally can’t remember a time in my life when I didn’t love to curl up with a good book.  Here are my reads for December, 2014

A Merry Christmas, and Other Stories, by Louisa May Alcott – I’ve said it before, Penguin Classics is killing it lately.  No sooner did I complete my Drop Caps collection (still looking for the perfect place to display them) did they introduce Penguin Christmas Classics, and obviously I needed all five.  (I only bought three, though – have to save something for next year.)  One of the gorgeous editions I brought home was Louisa May Alcott’s collection of Christmas stories.  The title piece, “A Merry Christmas,” was actually an excerpt from Little Women, so I’d read it before.  But the rest were new to me and were delightful reads in the Alcott mold – pretty stories of the Christmas spirit with an undertone of feminism and awareness of social inequalities.  I loved them and will be making this a holiday tradition.

No Holly for Miss Quinn, by Miss Read – Another holiday read of mine, for at least the past three years, I had to look in on Miss Quinn again.  I didn’t make time for Village Christmas this year, but I couldn’t let the month pass without a visit to Fairacre.  Quiet, introverted Miss Quinn is hoping for a solitary Christmas to finish painting her living room – but when her sister-in-law fall unexpectedly ill, she is pressed into aunt service.  It’s not the Christmas Miss Quinn was looking for, but what she finds is a holiday filled with the warmth and family joy she’s been missing (and a good dose of respect for what mothers deal with on a daily basis!).  This is one of my favorite Fairacre tales.

Gilead, by Marilynne Robinson – This slim but lovely volume has been on my to-read list for ages, and now that Robinson has just published a third book about the characters first introduced here, I felt I had to read it.  The Rev. John Ames is an aging, dying minister in the town of Gilead, Iowa.  Knowing that he will not be around to raise his young son, he writes instead a long letter filled with the wisdom he has acquired over his years.  It’s a story about love lost and found, and about the relationships between fathers and sons – between Ames’ father and grandfather, between Ames and his father, between his best friend Rev. Boughton and Boughton’s wayward son Jack, and even between Ames himself and Jack – and it is going to have to substitute for a relationship between Ames and his little boy.  It’s a lovely, compelling book and I’m glad I finally made the time for it.

Letters from Father Christmas, by J.R.R. Tolkien – The Amazon recommendations engine strikes again!  This is the second time Amazon has recommended a book to me that I’ve loved.  (I forget the first, but I know it’s happened before.)  I should probably be worried about a computer knowing so much about my reading preferences.  Anyway.  Christmas was a magical time in the Tolkien household, not just for the usual reasons, but because in addition to their gifts the Tolkien children always received a letter from Father Christmas, usually with silly asides from his assistant the North Polar Bear (who, from what I could tell, spent more time causing disasters than he did actually helping out or getting things done), and illustrated with fun, whimsical pictures of the calamities that seemed to hit the North Pole every year.  As the Tolkien children grew older, the letters became more and more elaborate (and on occasion, included goblin attacks!).  Getting to read all of the letters, collected from the 1920s to the 1940s in this little volume, was such a treat.  I can’t wait to share them with Peanut when she’s older.

Well, so ends another year of reading!  It started out well, but it was harder to keep up a good reading pace after returning to work, and especially this fall, when so many things seemed to go wrong all at once that it threw me into my first reading slump in years.  As you can see from the list of four relatively short books here, I’m not out of the slump yet, but I’m still trying.  I won’t make any predictions about what January’s reading will look like – just say that I enjoyed everything I read this month, and I’m so glad I finally got around to reading Gilead, which I’ve been meaning to pick up for a long while.  I hope you had a more productive reading month than I did (but that you had a nice, relaxing holiday) and send you best wishes for 2015 reading!

Christmas 2014

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Merry Christmas, one more time, my friends!  I hope that all of my friends who celebrated had a fabulous Christmas (and that those who didn’t got to enjoy a lovely winter weekend and maybe a day or two off work?).  We had a lovely Christmas week, most of which we spent at my parents’ house.  I was looking forward to a nice long break from thinking about work and was really hoping to turn my brain off completely.  That didn’t happen, but I still got a bit of a break and plenty of fun celebrating.  Get ready for a long recap!

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We started our Christmas festivities early with an afternoon trip over the border to Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario on the Saturday before Christmas.

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Niagara-on-the-Lake is such a beautiful town.  If you’ve been reading for awhile, you may remember that we spent a weekend there in October of 2013 – but we haven’t been back since, which seems crazy since it’s so close.  Without border traffic (which we were lucky enough to miss this time) it’s only a little more than an hour from our house – close enough for a day trip, or even an afternoon and dinner.  We figured the town would look beautiful all decorated for Christmas, so we decided to make an afternoon excursion there.

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As expected, the town looked lovely.  In quintessentially Canadian fashion, it wasn’t overdone at all – just perfectly festive and beautiful.  Niagara-on-the-Lake sits right in the middle of the Niagara wine region, which is making some excellent wines.  The last time we were here, we did some tasting.  That was out of the question for me this time, but I still found plenty to do, including finishing up my Christmas shopping and sipping a cup of the best hot cocoa I’ve ever had.

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There was a Santa Claus greeting customers outside a toy store.  We tried to entice Peanut to get her picture taken with him, but she was having none of it.  He was a good Santa, too – he didn’t get in her face at all, but gave her a jolly wave from ten feet or so away, and when Peanut plastered herself to my leg he didn’t press the issue.  Maybe next year…

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She was, however, delighted to spend a good fifteen minutes standing in this shrub.  Hey, whatever gets ya in the holiday spirit, kid.

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After we communed with the shrub we wandered over to the town park, which has a cool playground.  Peanut enjoyed the swings just as much as she did back in 2013.  And then she did something she couldn’t have done in 2013 – went down the slide!  Such a big girl.

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After we got ourselves nice and chilled on the playground, we warmed up with one more walk through town, and a stop for wood-fired pizza on the way home.  (It was good, but still couldn’t compare to Pizzeria Paradiso in Old Town Alexandria… so far, nothing we’ve found here does.)  After seeing how seamless and easy it was to spend just a few hours in Niagara-on-the-Lake, especially without hitting traffic at the border either going or coming, I think we’re going to try to do this again very soon.

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The next day, on Sunday, we hosted Zan and Paul for an evening of Christmas treat baking (for the ladies) and football watching (for the men).  The guys had a good time watching the game and snacking on the delicious turkey pumpkin chili that Zan brought over in her CrockPot, and Zan and I had a fairly productive time in the kitchen:

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I made chocolate candy cane truffles and raspberry-almond thumbprint cookies, and Zan pitched in peanut butter balls and peppermint bark.  Both of Zan’s treats came out fabulously well, and the thumbprints were ahhhhhh-mazing, but I was disappointed in my truffles.  I used to make them so often that I had them down to a science, but I guess I’ve lost my touch because the texture of these seemed off.  People still ate them, though.

We had so much fun hanging with our friends and making messes in the kitchen and family room.  The highlight of the evening, though, was watching Peanut flirt with Paul.  I’ve never seen her take to a non-related male so well.  She is crazy for her daddy, of course, and she loves her grandpas and my brother, but she’s always been extremely wary of any other man.  Not so with Paul, though.  She spent most of the evening climbing on him, serenading him with the “Muffin Man” song, and exhorting him to “Look at the tree, Uncle!”  So funny.  Poor Paul just wanted to watch football… and I’m a wee bit ashamed to admit that Zan and I were too busy laughing at him to pull the little monkey off his back.

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After our fun evening with our Zan and Paul, we put in one more day at the office and then it was off to Albany to celebrate the holiday with my side of the family.  We spent Tuesday night observing our tradition of dinner and lights in Washington Park with our very dear old friend Seth.

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Seth was in the holiday spirit for sure!  Would you believe that we’ve kept this tradition going for thirteen years now?  Seth and I met as freshmen at Cornell and quickly became good friends.  We started our lights-and-dinner tradition back in 2001, when we were juniors in college.  Hubby joined us for the first time in 2005 (our first married Christmas), and the only year we’ve missed was 2012.  (The lights are up by Thanksgiving, so we’ve been able to carry on our tradition even in years that hubby and I spent Christmas in Buffalo and Thanksgiving in Albany, but in 2012 we stayed in D.C. for both holidays, since Peanut was so very tiny and still fragile at the time.)

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Even though we saw Seth last Christmas, he had never met Peanut – we left her home with Nana in 2013.  We had high hopes, after the way Peanut took to Paul, that Seth would be a similar hit.  She wasn’t quite as obsessed with him as she was with Paul (still laughing, over here) but she warmed up to him fast, especially after we clued him in on the secret to Peanut’s affections: pretend your hand is a bunny and hop it around the table.  I can’t resist that move, either.  (Just kidding.)

Anyway, we enjoyed an early dinner at The Merry Monk, the same Belgian restaurant our little group hit in 2013 – hubby was craving mussels and Belgian beer in a big way.  We enjoyed a Bavarian pretzel appetizer, and all three of us got mussels.  Seth and hubby got their beers; Peanut and I stuck to water.  The food was as delicious as I remembered it, and then it was time for…

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Lights!  The display in Washington Park is actually really good.  We saw all of our old favorites (I love the Victorian Village) and there were a few new installations this year.  (All photos courtesy of Seth, who was snapping away with my iPhone in the front seat while I pointed out the best displays to Peanut in the back.)

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All of the installations were good, but the highlight was…

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R2-D2!  He was new this year.  Hubby thought he looked more like Mr. Potato Head, but Seth and I thought he looked just like the original.  May the force be with you, Artoo!  (Nerd alert: that’s how his name is spelled in the books.)

The next day was Christmas Eve.  We visited my grandmama in the morning and spent the rest of the day quietly at my parents’ house – playing with Peanut, wrapping gifts, and attending the 6:00 p.m. church service.  (We’d hoped to go at 4:00, but when my parents arrived at the church at 3:30, intending to save us seats, it was already standing room only, so they turned around and drove right back home.)  After church we enjoyed a dinner of crab cakes prepared by my dad – yum – and then crept into our beds to wait for Santa…

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And Santa definitely didn’t forget us this year!

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Peanut was up early on Christmas morning, clamoring to go downstairs.  I don’t think she really understood that there were presents down there, so it was pure coincidence that she was tugging at us from 6:30 onward, shrieking, “Go downstairs!  WANT GO DOWNSTAIRS!”  We made her wait until Nana and Grandad woke up, and we were down opening presents by 7:30.

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Peanut did well, as usual.  She’s definitely on the nice list.  She got Tinker Bell, Periwinkle and Zarina dolls, stuffed Pooh and friends, and plenty of books, games, toys and clothes.  We had a nice Christmas too, but the best part was seeing Peanut experience the morning.  She was a little bit skeptical at first, and Nana ended up opening most of her presents for her, but Peanut was definitely interested in what was in those packages – especially when she saw a bit of pixie wing or Eeyore tail revealed.  Oh, and Nana got some cabin socks, which Peanut also attempted to claim for herself.

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You can laugh all you want, but I think the best part for me was seeing Peanut open up her Weebles treehouse.  Anyone else have Weebles as a kid?  I had the Weebles haunted house and it was one of my favorite toys.  (I don’t know what became of it, but it was a lot of fun there for a good long while.)  I don’t know if Weebles went away and were suddenly brought back, or if I’m just in tune with the hot toddler toys now where I wasn’t before, but I was irrationally excited when I saw the Weebles treehouse on a list of the top gifts for the preschool set.  I knew Peanut had to have it.

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Okay, I wanted to play with it too.

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Fortunately, Peanut seems to really like her Weebles treehouse… and her Pixie Hollow friends… and the Hundred Acre Wood crew… and her mouse slippers… and everything else that Santa left for her this year.  Like I said, she was definitely on the nice list.

And there you have it – our Christmas festivities in one big photo dump!  I have another big recap coming up later in the week – my baby shower, which we celebrated on the Saturday after Christmas!  Can’t wait to share all that cuteness with you…

Merry Christmas again, my friends!  I hope your holiday week was as full of laughter and joy as ours was.